Intimate Treatments for Men


Whatever sexuality you define yourself as: whether straight, bisexual, gay, heteroflexible or polysexual, there is so much more to enjoy – when receiving a sensual massage from another man – than just arousal and erotic exploration. Male clients often tell me that a sensual massage given by a male masseur is firmer and more assertive than when given by a female masseuse. They also say that they feel more relaxed and less anxious about becoming aroused or having to ‘behave’ and ‘withhold’ their desire. Many say that being able to let go and be the receiver, to be passive rather than active and to feel aroused and then taken to orgasm by another man is an amazing pleasure.

Men understand men both physically and emotionally; we know what we like ourselves so can empathise with others to give the same. Naturally, a male masseur will understand another man’s body better than any female masseuse, but what surprises most newcomers to male to male sensual massage is the pleasure of being nurtured and cared for by another man. Men are programmed to give and receive intimate touch. For a man to give another man intimate touch and for it be accepted is a sign of approval and acceptance. Younger men seek approval from older men. Older men seek companionship and trust with one another. The more intimate the touch is the more trusting the connection becomes. With connection comes relaxation, with relaxation comes arousal, with arousal comes pleasure, and with pleasure comes contentment.

So whatever motivation you have for wanting to experience a sensual massage from another man – be it sexual exploration, intimacy, muscle work or simply pure escapism to recharge your batteries – I promise you that the massage you get from me will be one of the best you ever have.

After 12 years as a professional sensual masseur I feel I know as much as there is to know about male arousal and relaxation. Or maybe you want to ask me for help with a sexual performance issue; whatever your motivation, I will tailor-make the perfect sensual massage for you, giving you the best experience possible.

A question I often get asked is…

‘I regard myself as straight, so is it ok for me have a sensual massage from another man?’

I see men of all ages, all nationalities and all sexualities. Many are single, some are married, some partnered, and many of these men regard themselves as traditionally heterosexual in that they live a predominantly heterosexual life. But in the past ten years of giving the sensual massage to men, I have come to learn that male sexuality is more complex than just being defined as straight, bisexual or gay and that it is quite possible to identify oneself as heterosexual but also enjoy sensual touch from another man. To prove this, since 2012 I have been running a survey to explore the real state of male sexuality. Of 4000 male clients or potential clients, who have shown interest in taking a sensual massage from a male masseur, 52% DO NOT identify themselves as being gay. The survey shows that 19% identify themselves as bi-curious, 20% bisexual, and 13% as straight, with only 48% identifying as gay.

Read Colin’s article ‘Why some men like men’ and learn about his ‘Theory of 5 Influences’ a fascinating insight into male sexuality and the various factors that appear to go to make up an individual mans sexual and emotional attraction to other men. [Click Here]


Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage. Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters DOES NOT have this insurance to cover any sensual or arousing bodywork since to date this is not available.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment.

2 Hands Sensual Massage for men given by Colin

When booking an appointment to ensure you book the correct treatment use the number codes provided.

12 – The Premium Sensual Massage: 90 minutes – £195

The Premium massage is probably the most popular. It is a 2-hour appointment that includes a 90-minute full body combined therapeutic and muscle work massage with sensual intimate arousing touch. The additional 30 minutes gives time for you to ask any questions and take a pre-massage shower and then again after. Being longer, the Premium massage also allows the masseur to be more creative and, dependent on the client’s comfort, will often work with the instinct to give the client an extraordinary massage experience. This 90-minute full body massage covers the whole of the back, neck and head, buttocks, backs of thighs, calves and front of the body to include arms, legs, hands, feet, toes, chest, stomach, inner thighs, fingers, neck, head and ears.

Explicit Description

To read the full description of the ‘Premium’ massage you must register to get access to the private area of this website – Intimacy X

13 – The Superior Sensual Massage: 75 minutes – £165

The Superior massage is a 90-minute appointment that includes a 75-minute massage. This massage is also full body and still allows time for therapeutic muscle work and sensual arousal but being slightly shorter is less intense.

14 -The Standard Massage: 60 minutes – £135

The Standard massage is ideal for those who have only a short time for the appointment – possibly before work, on a lunch break, on the way home or maybe between flights. This 60-minute treatment includes a 40-minute massage of the shoulders, back, buttocks, thighs and calves, with some exciting elements of arousal. Due to time restraints, clients are requested to shower before arriving for the massage, otherwise the actual massage time may be less. Please confirm your preferences with the masseur before the treatment begins but generally included is a 3/4 body massage with coverage of mostly the back of the body, buttocks, thighs, legs, arms, chest and stomach.

15 – The Stress Buster Massage: 45 minutes – £105

The Stress Buster massage is designed for those who are either short of time or on a tight budget.  The appointment duration is only 60 minutes with a 45-minute massage that mostly focuses on the back of the body and includes some muscle work and sensual arousal, building to a final genital massage.

Mens 4 Hands Massage

The 4 hands massage is given by Colin who depending on your choice can partner with either another male or female masseur.

Here are some of the reasons given by past clients for booking the 4 hands massage

  • I am a straight man but have often fantasized about exploring a male/female/male combination and enjoying this experience within the context of a sensual massage sounds like an ideal way for me to explore this fantasy in reality.
  • I am curious to explore my sexuality with other men but in a safe controlled professional environment.
  • I am bisexual and enjoy the combination of both male and female (Yin & Yang) energy together.
  • I am a gay man who wants to experience the touch of a woman but want to have the comfort of a man present.
  • I want to explore passivity and to lose myself in the 4 hands experience.
  • I am in a relationship and although everything else is good the erotic spontaneity has declined and I want to bring some more excitement into my life without judgment or fear of upsetting my current situation.
  • I am a hedonist and love to try new sexual adventures.

Mens 4 hands with 2 male masseurs

16 – 90 minutes  £395

17 – 60 minutes £295

Mens 4 hands with male and female masseur

18 – 90 minutes £425

19 – 60 minutes £325

20 – 3 hour £575

21 – The 3-hour Platinum £700 

Please email for descriptions and differences in the above treatments

The Female Masseurs

This massage is given by Colin with either Kristina (left ) and Anastasia (right) – both  are experienced masseurs in giving both sports, therapeutic and sensual massage.

Psychosensual Treatments for Men

A psychosensual treatment can help men with the following issues:

This is a 3 stage treatment for men who want help and support in areas of sexual performance, sexual fulfilment and relationship.

  • Erectile issues
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm)
  • Sexual performance enhancement
  • Sexual orientation exploration
  • Fear of intimacy
  • Sexual performance education
  • Becoming a more confident and assertive lover
  • A better understanding of sexual arousal in others

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Book an appointment

To read the uncensored description and view the video of the various massages available please register in Intimacy X

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To book a treatment [click here]

To talk/text/WhatsApp Colin direct – 07966 522 696.

Weekly or monthly payment plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone but I do realise sometimes that even though the desire is strong the cash flow situation may not allow you to take an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

To help I offer various instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over 5 weeks or by special arrangement 3 – 6 months (for fees over £500) for more details [Click here]