My next Funzing LDN talks are:-
The Psychology of Attraction
(Who we want and why we want them)
Why do I always meet the same type of guy /girl; end relationships the same way; feel afraid of commitment; feel in need of security; get great sex but lousy life partners; meet nice guys/girls but lousy lovers; fall for abusive partners; attract victims or needy people; always go for older guys/girls; want a younger partner; feel anxious when having sex; feel guilty when being sexual; find it difficult to express myself sexually; can’t achieve sexual fulfillment; experience anxiety when having sex.
These are just some of the relationship and sexual performance challenges that acclaimed Sex & Relationship Mentor Colin Richards will be talking about.
Colin will explain how our early life influences effect our attractions to others and our subsequent sexual behaviours. Colin will also then show you how by adopting a new way of listening and communicating, you can go a long way to overcoming repeated behaviour patterns to achieve the relationship and sexual connection you really want.
Come along on your own, with a friend or partner and listen or take part in some of the exercises.
Remember to be ready with your own questions.
17th January 2018 – London Fields
14th February 2018 – Camden Lock
14th March 2018 – Yet to be confirmed
Psychology of Fetish & Fantasy
(Who we want and what we want to do with them)
Does leather do it for you or maybe you are into latex? Are you considering a group encounter or maybe you like to dress up? Some like rope, some like silk, others may prefer vanilla but then some like it spicy. The type and variety of erotic fetishes and fantasies imagined by men and women are plenty. Some are quite simple, some are more complex and adventurous, some are just downright bizarre, but all will have a motivation at their core. On our own, we are free to explore, but if you have come across this in a relationship then unless you are both on board with the particular fantasy or fetish it can become an area of conflict and misunderstanding. In this talk, Colin will explain his theories on the origins of having a sexual fantasy or fetish. We are not born with them so something must influence us to develop them and there must be a reason why we believe we want to experience them. Whether you are single or in a relationship, have a fantasy or fetish yourself or not this fascinating talk will briefly explore the possible biological, psychological and anthropological motivations that could be at the root of our sexual and emotional imaginations and behaviours.
28th February –
Colin is currently researching for his book ‘The Psychology of Attraction and welcomes anyone willing to tell their story (privately to him) about a particular encounter, fantasy or fetish.
Good talk, engaging speaker with understandably a good amount of knowledge. I found it to be an insightful evening with useful information to take away that I could start thinking about and apply to my life. Nice bit of science balanced with relatable humour and anecdotes which I thought was delivered very well.
Great and very interesting talk. Interactive presentation and I have learnt a lot of behaviours I was not aware of. It’s definitely worth coming as its an eye opener how our past experiences influence our decision making now. Highly recommend!
‘Great speaker, opened my eyes and gave me methods and tools I can use straight away to improve my confidence and relationships, will be using Colin’s services at some point !!! Well done Colin’
‘Loved it, Colin was very direct and funny. Really made everyone feel comfortable especially on the sexual front, it was great. I definitely want to come again. As I know sex can be sensitive, I’m very open-minded and open about sex and I gladly speak about it, it should never go unnoticed but I do understand that some people are quite private about the topic, but I think you portrayed it in a very tranquil and humorous way which I loved and it made everyone comfortable. COLIN YOU WERE AMAZING! Thanks so much for sending the recommendation of books!’
‘Fantastic talk. Colin was knowledgeable, entertaining and engaging. Had a few revelations over the evening that have helped me understand myself better and will stick with me for life. Thanks!’
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