A four hour evening workshop for women who like men

Workshop Date – Tuesday 24th May 

Workshop  Date – Tuesday 21st June

The boutique workshop is for a maximum 4 persons practicing on 4 male volunteers in 2 sensual massage practice sessions

This 4 hour practical hands on sensual massage workshop is perfect for the woman who wants to enhance her confidence in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men.

Working in pairs and rotating between each male volunteer receiver  you are taught a step by step sensual massage routine. The Massage My Man group boutique workshop teaches both therapeutic and sensual strokes to create gradual arousal, building to a crescendo of erotic touch. This teaching will also include specific techniques such as:-

  • body to body massage
  • prostate massage
  • edging to orgasm
  • various holds and pressures of hand arousal
  • assertive techniques
  • Body to body massage
  • Managing reciprocal arousal
  • Erotic slip and slide pelvic back massage
  • Bringing in oral positioning (him to her & optional)
  • Simulated oral
  • Prostate massage (optional)
  • Cock & ball play
  • Assertive techniques and dominant positioning
  • Optional spanking

Next Dates

May 24th 

June 21st  

Participants – Maximum four practicing on two female volunteers in two practice sessions

Cost – £175 per person including Prosecco & nibbles

Times – 7pm to 11pm

Location – Chelsea SW3 3LH

By receiving this massage it also helps men to understand better the benefits of slow arousal and the pleasure of receiving and giving extended foreplay often leading them to take their own class to give back to their female partners.

Price includes

  • Prosecco, and refreshments on the night.
  • One weeks free access to Colin’s tutorial web site
  • Invitation to join the IM Workshops Telegram Chat Group, to maintain friendships meet likeminded people and arrange sensual massage practice swaps
  • Worksheets giving written guidance of the massage
  • 25% discount on one of any sensual massage treatments for women given by Colin.


To take part in this workshop you must complete an application form

  • Complete the application form HERE
  • Or call Colin 0n 07966 522 696 to discus other types of payment.

To purchase your ticket for this workshop

Either go to this page or use ticket links below


This workshop is divided into five parts and is 4 hours in duration.

Part 115 minutes


Starting with a 15-minute get to know one another welcome drink

Part 2 – 30 minutes

Introduction and discussion

Hearing from the male volunteers a guided conversation discussing what men look for in a sensual massage and discussion about importance of intimacy approval and connection with the female giver.

Part 3 – 90 minutes

Learning a full body sensual massage routine

Working in pairs and rotating from receiver to receiver you are taught a step by step sensual massage routine. This practice massage focuses on a mans back of body. By having him lay face down he is able to receive a proper back of body massage but also to experience the teasing of arousal and anticipation of stimulation. This practice session teaches you both therapeutic and sensual strokes on which to build erotic sensual touch. This will include:-

  • Relaxing him with gentle stroking and touch to his naked body
  • Methods to help him hold back from become too aroused too soon.
  • How to stimulate the non erogenous to introduce him to areas of his body in ways he has never experienced before
  • How to give testicle teasing touch
  • How to subtly use your body to create intense intimacy within the massage
  • How to maintain your boundaries while giving him an amazing experience
  • How to give external anal massage
  • Demonstration of various male masturbation and erotic arousal techniques
  • Methods to edge him to near orgasm

Part 4 – 20 Minutes

Break with feedback

 Guided discussion on masturbation techniques and cock and oral stimulation.

Part 5 – 75 minutes

Incorporating erotic arousal techniques

In this second part, the routine is repeated but include the fadditional erotic methods.

  • Front of body massage and stimulation
  • Chest and nipple stimulation
  • Genital massage techniques
  • Prostate massage
  • Positioning and edging him to orgasm

Bringing it all together

This final practice massage session is given in an authentic way as possible. Students continue to work in pairs giving their ‘male receiver a full body sensual massage combining all the techniques learned. Lights dimmed, soft music playing, warm oil and the task in hand is to work together to take your man on a journey of sensual intimacy and erotic pleasure.

Part 6 – 10 minutes

The workshop finishes with 15 minutes of feedback from the male volunteer on your style and technique.

Make an Enquiry

To make an enquiry or to just ask questions 

either call Colin on 07966 522 696

email giving your name state which workshop you want and your motivation for wanting to take part in this workshop

Apply to book your place

Before booking your place on this workshop you must first complete the registration form.

Click here to complete the workshop registration form

Once received I will send you the details how  to make payment to book your place on this Intermediate  group workshop. If you book the Foundation & Intermediate workshop together at the same time the cost is  £325 reduced from £375.

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Interested in taking your training further then take look at Colins private classes – Click here

Questions & Answers

If I want further training or experience what is available

Yes, Further training can be taken with Colin’s advanced private classes  (5 or 10 hour) or for those wanting to become a professional sensual masseur and run a part time or full-time practice Colin offers the 20-hour professional workshop.  For those wanting to just practice Colin can arrange 2-hour Experiential massage sessions at which  you  give a 4 hands massage with Colin to a male volunteer.

What is the address of the workshop?

The full address is given once you have booked. Chelsea Sw3 3LH

Where do I get change?

There are changing areas and shower facilities

Who can attend this workshop?

This is a woman only event and can be attended by anyone over the age of 18

Is my body type relevant?

No, the point of this workshop is to give confidence to everyone no matter what age, culture or body type.

Who are the male volunteers?

These are personally vetted men of slim or toned physique who are comfortable to discuss sex and receive sensual massage. They are respectful and will only make any intimate contact with you if you indicate you want this. If at any time you feel a volunteer is getting carried away at the moment and is stepping over a line you must indicate this to me immediately.

What do I wear?

Wear whatever you feel comfortable, but you need to be able to move freely and using your upper body to massage. Also, bear in mind that you will be using oils. A changing room and shower facilities are available.

Will I be naked at any time?

During the workshop, you can remain dressed or topless or become naked.

Do I need to be “hands-on” during this workshop?

Yes, for the comfort of the whole group it is important that you take part in giving the massage and not remain just as an observer. However, you can take everything at your own pace.

If I feel uncomfortable can I leave the workshop?

Yes if at any time you feel this workshop is not for you then let Colins assistant or myself know and leave quietly. You cannot stay and be an observer.

Do people have sex at this event?

No. While being open to erotic sexual exploration this event is designed to be both informative and fun and is not meant to be a sex party. The male volunteers are there to be “receivers” and will not instigate anything that you have not encouraged. This is your chance to be in control and decide what happens and to whom.

I may become aroused my self, is that OK?

Yes, it is only natural to become aroused yourself while giving the massage. In fact, this is encouraged as all men became more relaxed and turned on if they know that the ‘giver’ is enjoying the experience as well.

If I am attracted to other women in the workshop can I touch them when in the sessions?

The workshop is designed to be informative and enjoyable, and clearly, those coming along as givers or receivers are doing so because they enjoy human sexuality and intimacy. If this includes same-sex attraction and both parties are in agreement then female to female touch is fine.

Can I regard myself as a sensual masseur after this event?

Certainly, you are on the way and will leave with a greater knowledge and confidence in giving a sensual massage to your partner but to get to a commercial standard I recommend you attend you take a private 1-1 workshop with Colin at which you have greater opportunity to practice on more volunteers and have individual tuition from myself.

Colin is always keen to hear from women who enjoy giving sensual massage and would like to give the occasional 4 hands with him to clients.

Is this workshop confidential?

Everyone participating in this workshop must agree to keep total confidentiality. You are not expected to reveal your full name or personal details unless you want to. Everything that takes place in the workshop must remain private and confidential and not repeated to other parties in a way that reveals any identities. Phones must be switched off and put away in the changing room no recording equipment of any type.

Is there any supporting material provided?

Yes, if on the day you provide me with your email address I will send to you the written massage routine with bullet point guidance and further information on other training you will also get a period of free access to my sensual massage training web site

What do I need to bring with me?

Please bring:-

A shower towel

Something light and suitable to wear in the sessions, ie negligee, bra, and knickers, T-shirts

Cancellation by Intimacy Matters

  • Minimum attendance is two persons. In the event that only one ticket is purchased then the event will be postponed to another date and the purchased ticket can be refunded or transferred or put against another Intimacy Matters treatment or class.
  • If the event has to canceled or postponed for any other reason tickets can be fully refunded or transferred to another event, treatment or class.

Cancellation by ticket holder

  • If notice is given up to seven days before the workshop – you will get a full refund or your place can be transferred to another workshop date or towards a treatment of your choice.
  • If given within seven days – it payment will be held on account for a future date or towards a treatment of your choice.
  • If cancelled within 24 hours then there is no refund given
  • If you don’t show up – no refund given