In this webcam talk, Colin presents the biological, anthropological and sociological reasons why sensual foreplay is essential to both women and men. Why, with the enormous changes in the past 20 years, we now relate to sex in a very different manner than past generations. Colin will give his opinion as to what this has resulted in and why a shift in perspective is urgently needed in society to accommodate this new and fast-changing world of high tech sex. Read More
From Chlororoform to Climax
how I became sex engineer
Colin gives an entertaining, insightful and hilarious account of his life journey so far that brought him from the wild and windy South Devon coast to skyscraper living in central London. From being sent to boarding school at 8 years old and cooking egg and bacon for a hundred hotel guests to becoming the person women go to with orgasm issues and who couples seek out to help reignite their lives and who men learn from to become more confident lovers. Read more
Psychology of Attraction
With 15 years of experience listening and working with clients relationship and sexual frustrations then combining this with his training in Imago relationship psychology, coaching, NLP and his work as a hands-on sex practitioner Colin presents this casual, fun talk on his observations and theories. He will explain how our early life influences can affect both our attractions to others and our subsequent sexual preferences, behaviours, desires, and fears. Join in on your own or if you are isolating together with a partner and listen or take part in some of the exercises.
Do you ask yourself…..
Why do I always meet the same type of guy /girl; end relationships the same way; feel afraid of commitment; feel in need of security; get great sex but lousy life partners; meet nice guys/girls but lousy lovers; fall for abusive partners; attract attention seekers; always go for older guys/girls; want a younger partner; feel anxious when having sex; feel guilty when being sexual; find it difficult to express myself sexually; can’t achieve sexual fulfilment; experience anxiety when having sex. Read More
Psychology of Kink & Fetish
Does leather do it for you or maybe you are into latex? Are you considering a group encounter? Or maybe you like to dress up? Join intimacy expert Colin Richards for an evening, exploring the world of fetishes and fantasies.
I have a book that contains over one thousand different sexual fantasies and fetishes. Some are quite simple, some are more complex and adventurous, some are just downright bizarre but all will have a motivation at their core. If you have come across this in a relationship then unless you are both on board with the particular fantasy or fetish it can become an area of conflict and misunderstanding.
In this talk, Colin presents his theories on what he believes influences us to have a sexual fantasy, fetish or kink. This refreshing entertaining talk is mostly taken from his unique field of work as sex engineer, rather than academic research.