Massage My Man

Foundation & Intermediate KK Group Workshops

For women who like men

 Run by Sex & Relationship Engineer Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters in association with Killing Kittens 

Small group workshops for a maximum of 12 female participants and up to 6 vetted male volunteer receivers.


Autumn Dates

Foundation – 3rd Sept 7 pm -10 pm

Intermediate 10th Sept 7 pm – 10 pm

If you have any questions prior to booking please do not hesitate to email colin@intimacymatters.co.uk

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A series of unique sensual massage workshops run in association with Killing Kittens for women who want to increase their confidence and abilities in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men. The Foundation & Intermediate group workshops can be followed by a Private Advanced Workshop

This unique training will:

•    Extend the duration your lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage.

•    Give you an alternative to the fully committed sexual encounter

•    Understand and enjoy how your pleasure in giving gives him pleasure also.

•    Become skilled in fabulous foreplay and arousal techniques that put you in charge.

•    Tease the secret places within his mind and on his body that will send him wild.

Location – Intimacy Matters Treatment Rooms – Bermondsey SE1 4QS

You practice on KK approved male volunteers, working in pairs to one male volunteer per couple. Past massage experience is not necessary, but you do need to have a desire to give sensual touch. The maximum number of students is 12 with 6 male volunteers.

Please note, you will be emailed 2-3 days before the workshop with the agenda and all other necessary information.

Example of volunteer receivers participants practice on.


Foundation Workshop – 3 hours – £120

This 3-hour group workshop is the starting point and can be taken on its own or as step one to move on to the 3-hour Intermediate group workshop and followed by the 5-hour Private Advanced Workshop.

Starting with a 30-minute discussion on male sexuality students then work in pairs as Colin teaches you how to give a professional sensual massage to a man.

The workshop is divided into two parts:

Part 1 – 60 minutes

Learning a full body sensual massage routine

Working in pairs and rotating from receiver to receiver you are taught, step by step, a sensual massage routine. From head to toe covering both sides of the naked body, this practice session teaches you both therapeutic and sensual strokes on which to build erotic sensual touch and erotic stimulation.

Part 2 – 75 minutes

Incorporating erotic arousal techniques

In this second part, the routine is repeated but include the following erotic methods.

•    Subtle arousing touch with your body to bring on his arousal

•    Managing keeping him on the edge

•    Chest and nipple stimulation

•    Genital massage

•    Positioning and edging him to near orgasm

The workshop finishes with 15 minutes of feedback from the male volunteer on your style and technique.

To select your date and book your place for Foundation

Tickets can be purchased via Design My Night Shortly


Intermediate Workshop – 3 hours – £120

To take part in this workshop, you MUST have completed the Massage My Man Foundation Workshop

The  Intermediate Massage My Man Workshop takes your practical skills, in giving erotic arousal, to another level and provides a deeper insight into the male sexual process.

With further practice of giving the sensual massage that you learned in the Foundation workshop, in the Intermediate workshop you will be taught additional erotic techniques to include in your lovemaking repertoire. These techniques will give your man sensations he has probably not experienced before.

Starting with a 30-minute discussion on how men like to be brought to orgasm and what dynamic they want to feel when receiving an erotic massage.

Part 1, 60 minutes

Mastering Erotic Stimulation

Colin gives detailed instruction on the following techniques. Students follow with Colin’s guidance on their volunteer receivers.

•    Body to body massage

•    Managing reciprocal arousal

•    External anal stimulation

•    Oral techniques (optional)

•    Prostate massage (optional)

•    Penis and scrotum massage

•    Assorted positioning to take him to orgasm

Part 2 – 90 minutes – with a 5-minute break

Bringing it All Together

This final practice massage session is given in an authentic way as possible. Students continue to work in pairs giving their ‘male receiver a full body sensual massage combining all the techniques learned. Lights dimmed, soft music playing, warm oil and the task in hand is to work together to take your man on a journey of sensual intimacy and erotic pleasure.

We finish with feedback from the male receivers on their experience.

To select your date and book your place for Intermediate

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Questions? Email Colin at Colin@intimacymatters.co.uk or call him on 07966 522 696

Testimonial from Sarah who attended the Massage My Man Boutique Workshop on October 4th.

Sarah’s motivation for attending this workshop was to enhance her sexual confidence and skills in foreplay in order to improve her sexual relationship with her partner.

Sarah says “A great experience. The host makes you feel at ease and takes you on a journey to discover exciting aspects of sexuality in a friendly engaging environment. I would highly recommend this to singles or couples who want to learn about themselves and spend a relaxing evening with likeminded others.

The location

These workshops takes place in Colin’s private penthouse apartment in Bermondsey SE1 4QS

Images are from the Battersea location

The practical details

  • Female participants can be aged from 18 to 65 and of any body type.
  • Male volunteers are all personally vetted by Colin and are aged between 21 and 45 years old with either toned, slim or good to average bodies; all are respectful and comfortable to be present for your learning time.

Code of conduct

This workshop involves arousal for the volunteers and it may be that the female participants also become aroused, particularly so in the Intermediate session. It is important to understand that any erotic activity between participants and volunteers is at the invitation of the female participants but also both parties’ personal boundaries must be respected.

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