The Libertine Sunday Lunch
& Sensual Massage Party
A sophisticated daytime experience for sexually adventurous couples
Sunday 29 November 2026
12.30 pm–8.00 pm
Chelsea, London
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Cost per couple: £350
The Libertine Sunday Lunch is an intimate, carefully hosted event for couples who would like to explore sensuality, erotic massage and their sexuality in a welcoming, congenial and pressure-free environment.
The experience begins with Champagne and a leisurely three-course lunch, with specially selected wines, at a stylish the most Frenchiest, Brasserie Olivia on Sloane Square. Afterwards, guests move to Studio Two, The Intimacy Matters Venue very nearby for an afternoon and early evening of sensual exploration, sensual massage and optional erotic interaction.
Studio Two is a fascinating place, built in 1969; it clearly feels of its era: a split-level modern apartment one can imagine the young Michael Cain living in, starring in The Italian Job! As you arrive, you will enter the ground floor, where three massage beds will be set and ready. Two breakout playrooms with double beds, two bathrooms, and a stylish glass-balustraded gallery overlooking the massage area to give a bird’s-eye view of the sexy activity unfolding below.
Some couples come simply to enjoy an unusual and exciting day together. Others may want to watch, learn, give each other a sensual massage or—if mutual chemistry develops—explore with other guests. Nothing is expected, and every couple decides what feels right for them.
This is not intended to be a conventional swingers’ party. The emphasis is on sensuality, connection and creating an atmosphere in which couples can explore gradually, at their own pace.
Intimate, exclusive and personally hosted
The event is personally hosted by Colin and his partner Clare, assisted by a naked butler and two guest masseurs.
Numbers are limited to approximately 22 guests, of no more than eleven couples or pairs of intimate friends. Keeping the gathering small allows Colin and Clare to welcome everyone personally, make introductions and create a relaxed atmosphere in which newcomers and experienced guests can feel equally at ease.
You do not need any previous experience of sensual massage or adult parties. All that is required is an open mind, respect for other people’s boundaries and an enjoyment of giving or receiving intimate pleasure.
Lunch and introductions
Guests arrive between 12.30 pm and 12.45 pm for a Champagne reception, where Colin and Clare will introduce you to the other guests.
A light-hearted conversation game helps everyone relax and become acquainted without awkwardness. At approximately 1.00 pm, guests sit down for a sumptuous three-course lunch, with wine served alongside each course.
Couples remain together throughout lunch, but change seats between courses so everyone has the chance to meet a variety of interesting, like-minded people.
Even if you choose not to take part in anything intimate afterwards, the lunch, conversation and company are intended to make the event a memorable experience in their own right.
The sensual afterparty
At approximately 3.30 pm, guests make a very short walk to Studio Two, located directly behind Brasserie Olivia.
You can change into one of the robes provided, wear your own chosen party attire or be nude if that feels comfortable. There is no prescribed way to participate.
The residence includes:
- A comfortable social area for relaxing, flirting and continuing conversations
- A sensual massage demonstration for those who would like to watch and learn
- A group massage room with several massage beds, subdued lighting, music and warm massage oil
- Two more play spaces for couples who seek more erotic interaction
- A viewing gallery for guests who enjoy observing
- Bathrooms, showers and all necessary accessories
You may spend the afternoon talking and watching, give your partner a sensual massage, receive a massage yourself or explore with other guests where there is clear mutual interest. How much—or how little—you do is entirely your choice.
A safe, respectful and inclusive environment
The Libertine Lunch welcomes mixed-gender and same-gender couples and intimate friends of all sexual orientations.
For this event, a “couple” may mean life partners, lovers, friends with benefits or two people who feel comfortable attending and exploring together.
Etiquette & Consent
Consent is fundamental. Guests must always ask before touching, joining or approaching anyone for intimate play. Every person’s boundaries must be heard and respected, and consent can be changed or withdrawn at any time.
A “no” must be accepted immediately and graciously. Anyone who ignores another guest’s boundaries will be asked to leave.
We encourage couples to talk beforehand about what they may be open to, and to communicate clearly with other guests about sexual orientation, interests and boundaries. Being curious does not create an obligation to participate.
Watching is participating. Talking is participating. Enjoying intimacy solely with your partner is participating. There is no pressure to undress, give a massage or become involved with anyone else.
Who attends?
We welcome couples across a broad range of adult ages, appearances, body types and levels of experience.
We believe attraction is about far more than age or physique. Warmth, confidence, humour, conversation, experience and chemistry can be every bit as attractive as conventional ideas of physical perfection.
We allocate places to create a balanced and varied guest list. Newcomers are particularly welcome.
£350 – 2 person ticket includes
- Champagne on arrival
- A three-course lunch
- Wine selected to accompany each course
- Coffee
- Entry to the private sensual afterparty
- A sensual massage demonstration
- Use of massage beds, robes, warm oils and party accessories
- Prosecco and soft drinks during the afterparty
Lunch dress: Smart casual, sexy and stylish
Afterparty dress: As much or as little as you wish; robes are provided
Nearest Underground station: 1 min walk from Sloane Square, District or Circle
Arrival: 12.30 pm
Move to the private residence: From approximately 3.30 pm
Event finishes: 7.00 pm
Please advise us in advance of any allergies or dietary requirements so we can make suitable arrangements with the restaurant.
Applying to attend
All guests must complete an application before purchasing tickets. This applies whether or not you have attended one of our previous events.
Complete the Libertine Lunch application form
Once your application has been reviewed and provided suitable places remain available, you will receive a link to purchase your tickets. Places are not confirmed until payment has been received.
A few days before the event, confirmed guests will receive the full programme and an introductory guest list. You will also be invited to join an optional pre-party Telegram chat, allowing you to introduce yourselves and become acquainted with other attendees before the lunch.
Applications may occasionally be declined, and the organisers reserve the right to do so without giving a reason. This enables us to protect the atmosphere, balance and safety of the event.
What previous guests say
“A great afternoon and evening. Fantastic food and great company, followed by a wonderful welcome at the house. Everyone was very sociable and the evening passed incredibly quickly. A must for open-minded people who enjoy quality food, good wine and massage.”
Read more reviews from guests at previous Intimacy Matters events
Cancellation terms
More than 48 hours before the event: Written cancellations may receive a full refund or transfer to a future event.
Within 48 hours of the event: No refund or transfer is available because the restaurant and other event costs will already have been paid.
Non-attendance: No refund or transfer is available for guests who do not attend without giving the required notice.
If you require a discreet payment method or have any questions about the event, please contact Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk.
If you are not ready to attend this event but would like to hear about future dates, you can register for event updates.