Female Volunteer Massage Receiver
Information and Registration Form
The details below cover the following aspects of volunteering.
You can select one or all the volunteering options.
- Volunteer for private tuition classes to receive massage from single men, women or couples
- Volunteer for group workshops for single men or women
- Volunteer for online classes
- Volunteer to take part in the making of sensual massage video tutorials
Remuneration for volunteering
- Volunteers for private classes receive 50% discount on all 1-1 sensual massages valid for three months after volunteering
- Or a voucher worth £100 to be redeemed against any couples massage valid up three months after volunteering
- Volunteers for filming any video tutorials receive a fee of £100 for upto two hours of filming plus a complimentary 90-minute Absolute Massage valid for three month after filming.
Vouchers are not accumulative; each voucher can be redeemed from one appointment, class or event.
Qualifications to be included on the Intimacy Matters volunteer receiver list
To take part in private classes as a volunteer receiver, you need to have experienced an Absolute Massage yourself as a past client, or if you have not seen Colin for this Absolute massage, then book to experience one at the volunteer’s special 50% discounted rate.
The reasons for this requirement are:-
a) it gives us a chance to meet and discuss the more detailed points about volunteering and what is required from the volunteer.
b) for you to experience and understand the massage and what it entails, and what to hear about therapeutic and erotic elements that would be given to you in a class.
c) for me to understand your arousal process and methods of reaching orgasm. This is very relevant when teaching since students need to learn that women respond differently and enjoy different aspects of arousal. I also try to match volunteers to the student’s learning requirements.
d) for you to ask any questions regarding the classes
Discounted Treatments for volunteers
If you have not been to see me for an Absolute Massage I offer prospective volunteers a 50% discount on both the 75-minute Absolute Superior (reduced from £250 to £125) or the 105-minute Absolute Premium, (reduced from £295 to £145)
If you want to accept this offer, mention it on your registration form via the link below.
Q & A
About the role of a volunteer massage receiver or video model
Q. Is my gender, age or body type relevant?
Volunteers can be female or transgender; however, when students book a class, they are asked to specify what preferred gender, age and body type they would like their volunteer receivers to be. This is taken into consideration when volunteer applicants are selected.
Q. Can I register for just one option?
Yes, you can register to receive massage in a class or group workshop or register to take part in the making of a video tutorial or both.
Q. Do I need to be a certain age to be a volunteer receiver or video model
You should be over 21 to be a volunteer receiver for a massage class or video model.
Q. Is my sexuality relevant?
No, to be a volunteer, you can be straight, bisexual, bi-curious or lesbian. But remember to apply to the classes that best suit you.
Q. Do I have to have a particular body type?
Volunteer receivers should have a body type described as slim, toned, petite, average, curvy, or hourglass. Max dress size 20.
Q. What about health?
At the time of the class or session, you must be fully healthy and clear of any STIs or viruses.
You should not apply if you experience any of the following.
- heart or blood pressure issues
- high anxiety around sex
- Any STI
- fear of intimacy or sex
- skin problems
- Covid symptoms
Q. How arousing will the session become?
You must be comfortable to receive sensual arousal and erotic stimulation to potential orgasm. On the registration form, you can specify what aspects of arousal you are comfortable receiving.
Q. Is it a problem that I find it challenging to orgasm
It is not essential to reach orgasm in a class; however, if you do experience either situational anorgasmia (can’t orgasm when others are in the room ) or total anorgasmia ( never been able to orgasm), then please let Colin know when completing the form.
Q. Can I use this to overcome a sexual problem I have
No, volunteering is not an opportunity to sort out any personal issues for the volunteer since the focus is on the student or student learning. You are required to give feedback, but this should be focused on the student’s situation rather than your own.
Q. How is feedback given to the client?
This is given briefly at the beginning of each massage practice to determine the student’s type of touch, pressure and confidence. Then after the massage, we have a debrief where you can expand on your feedback. You can also complete a review form for the student, which can be sent to the student after the training.
Q. Who selects the volunteers for the private classes and group workshops?
Volunteer requests are sent out by email to you and also placed in the Fem Vol (volunteers Telegram chat group). Specifications of what is required and details of the students Colin teaches will be given.
Usually, the request for a volunteer is sent out a couple of days before the class or group workshop, and time is allowed for applications to be sent in. You can apply immediately; Colin then passes on to the student those applicants that Colin feels are most suitable for their tuition. (i.e. older students often prefer older volunteers etc.) The student makes the final selection for private sessions, and you will be notified if you are selected. Colin makes the selection for group workshops. If you do not hear back, then this time, you are unlucky.
Q. Where do the workshops take place?
Usually, at my private house with a treatment studio in Chelsea SW3 – the images below are of the venue.
Q. Do I need to enjoy a massage to be a volunteer?
Yes, and it helps if you have experienced sensual massage before. Still, for those keen to participate but have not received a sensual massage back in certain situations, I am happy to offer substantially reduced fees for the 75 and 105-minute Absolute massage in advance ( 50% discount). This enables you to meet me and understand how the massage is given before the workshops. It also shows me how you respond and matches you with the right workshop.
Q. How many female volunteers do you have on your list?
A. Currently, about 200 but to be invited to participate in a workshop depending on the volunteer’s availability and suitability for the student’s learning needs. Since many volunteers work during the day and can only do evenings, there is always a chance for everyone. The more available you are and if I have given you treatment before or you have volunteered before, the more likely you will be invited to take part.
Q. Do you have separate shower and changing facilities for the female volunteers?
Yes, I have a private room and shower for the female volunteers to get ready. Bathrobes are also provided.
Q. Will I be naked during the practice
Yes, you will be naked to receive the massage, but the practice session starts with you covered with a large towel, and then as you become comfortable, the towel is removed.
Q. How many students will be practising on me at any one time?
If a private 1-1 class, it is only me and the student or the couple. If a group workshop, this depends on the number of men or women attending the workshop but usually, male students attending are limited to 6. In an ideal situation, you will only have one student working on you at any time, but sometimes, if volunteers are limited, then the students will work in pairs.
Q. Can you describe the room where the class takes place?
If a private class, this takes place in my treatment room, which is cosy and warm with shower facilities ensuite. Group workshops take place in hired venues.
Q. What are the male or female students attending the class or group workshops, and what motivations do they usually give for wanting to take the workshop?
I vet all students, whether male, female or couples. Everyone must complete an application form giving details about themselves and their motivation. Usually, they are people between the age of 25 to 55 who often are quite shy and recognize that they are inexperienced in their lovemaking skills. If single, they are often people who have recently separated or divorced or who are single but want to become more confident in giving erotic foreplay. Couples usually take classes to start to expand their relationship by exploring touch with another person or exploring same-gender touch in a safe environment; for women, there is also the Sensual Sisters class option, which women give to women.
Q. Do I have to do anything more than receive a sensual massage?
Yes, I encourage the female volunteers to give feedback on the abilities of the students and to also, at some point during the workshop, take part in an open chat about female sexuality and to enlighten the students about what women enjoy sensually and sexually.
Q. How intimate does the massage become?
In private classes, the massage usually includes clitoral and vaginal stimulation. If the student is taking the Intermediate or Professional training, then also body-to-body and ejaculation techniques but consistently either initially demonstrated by Colin or supervised by Colin. Each class is identified as to what the volunteer will be required to receive.
The Foundation 4-hour group workshop remains as surface touch and arousal only. This will include a 60-minute therapeutic massage routine covering the whole body, breasts, and buttocks. Arousal will be limited to the breast, nipples, and clitoral. The students will learn to give vaginal and G-spot stimulation in the Intermediate group workshop. In the private workshop, depending on which volunteer you are during the day, the arousal may be just surface arousal or more erotic I always indicate this on the invitation, but you can inform me of your personal boundaries beforehand.
Q. For how long will I be needed?
If a private class, each session is usually 2.5 hours, but you can volunteer for more than one session on the day. If a group workshop, then 4 hours.
Q. What happens if I become very aroused?
This is quite usual and is intended, so don’t worry about misbehaving. It is not essential to achieve orgasm, but it is often the case, particularly if I have taught them well that you will experience orgasm.
Q. When aroused, I can be pretty vocal; is this a problem?
Be as vocal as you want. Part of the teaching is to get the students to be more confident and assertive, so the reaction is good as men respond to approval from women.
Q. Can I touch the student and arouse them while I receive them?
This will depend on the student. Some are happy for reciprocal touch others prefer to keep the session more teaching focussed. I will inform you before the massage starts as to what the criteria are.
Q. Do you ever require volunteers to be very sexual ie to receive oral, give oral and full penetrative sex?
Whilst most classes are focussed on teaching erotic arousal, in some cases, when a student has had minimal experience sexually. It can be relevant that a session is arranged for them to learn specific sexual techniques i.e. how to give oral, sexual positions, and even having full sex for the first time. But in a safe, managed environment. These situations will be identified when the request for volunteers goes out.
Q. I want my identity to be kept confidential. Can I withhold my name and personal details?
Yes. You can give any name and reveal as little as you wish about your personal life. Nothing is filmed, and all mobile phones are put away.
Q. Do I get paid to be a volunteer?
Volunteers for private classes are given either:–
A) a voucher worth £100 to be redeemed against their sensual massage ( any type offered by Colin)
Vouchers are not accumulative; each voucher can be redeemed from one appointment, class or event.
Q. What do I need if I want to be an online demonstrator?
It would help if you had a private space, a high-quality webcam, Zoom conferencing, and ideally, a massage, bed, or futon on the floor or floor with cushions.
Q. What would an online demonstrator be demonstrating?
This could be a body study identifying sexual anatomy, techniques in masturbation/ejaculation, breast massage or if you have another person present giving a demonstration sensual massage with guidance from Colin.
Q. If I want to be a model for video tutorials, where do these get filmed, and where is the material placed?
The video tutorials are usually filmed in the Intimacy Matters Treatment rooms. They are placed on the Intimate Tutorials Web site. To get an idea of what can be involved, you can view some excerpts demonstration videos by registering in the Adult content area
Join Colins FEMVOL TELEGRAM Chat Group
and get instant notification on volunteering opportunities and offers
To ensure you receive the volunteer request notification, I use a Telegram group to notify volunteers about workshops and sensual massage opportunities. Once you have been accepted in the group, you will receive by text notification of any imminent workshops where volunteer receivers are needed and also periodical offers of substantially reduced rates for taking a massage (up to 75%). I offer this because I sometimes have quiet days and time on my hands and like to provide this free time to volunteers, those on a reduced budget, or students.
Apply to be a volunteer receiver.
Complete the APPLICATION FORM, and I will get back in touch.
Testimonials from past female volunteers
Below are testimonials from women who participated in the men’s group workshop License to Thrill.
It was my first time as a volunteer.
The prospect of being able to help others to connect (emotionally and sexually) for the outcome of having a healthy relationship was my main reason.
“Enough talking, we need to touch”
I knew that if my ex and I went to a course/event similar to Colin’s we could have saved our16 years marriage. On the practical side, I needed to feel safe and understood. Colin was clear and explained the process:
– clear intentions for both the receiver and the giver
– clear communication about boundaries
It felt liberating. I felt reassured. I felt like I understood my body. The whole experience seemed quite unbelievable and surreal and I already signed to help again and encouraged my partner to become a male volunteer. Lucy – May 2018
“I volunteered for the group workshop as a receiver after receiving an email from Colin. I first heard about him on Killing Kittens and had a massage which was an eye-opening experience on sensual massages. I was quite nervous before getting to the workshop, mainly because I wondered what “type” of men would attend. However, as soon as the participants arrived and introduced themselves I felt much more relaxed: they were all well-mannered and respectful. Some of them were singles and eager to learn more about the feminine body and arousal; others were married or in a relationship and wanted to learn some skills to spice up their sexual life and provide more satisfaction to their partners. The whole workshop was well explained and managed by Colin and I felt very safe as I know he would intervene if there were any offensive behaviors. When the first part ended everyone was feeling much more relaxed and confident which led to a very satisfying second part! I’m glad I was able to overcome my nervousness as I had an amazing time and I will definitely volunteer again to a group workshop with Colin.” Marta – March 2017