Register as a female volunteer receiver or webcam demonstrator

For private or group workshop for men women or couples, live in studio or on webcam

Once registered and accepted you will be kept notified of forthcoming private or group workshops when a female volunteer is required.


I regularly run sensual massage individual courses and group workshops teaching men, women and couples how to give a sensual massage to a female and to learn more about the psychological and physiological aspects of female arousal.

These workshops are run either as private 1-1 teaching or as a small group teaching ( max 12 men or women ) I also run web cam private and group workshops and sometimes require female demonstrators.

If you are a woman who enjoys massage who would like to offer your body as a sensual massage volunteer receiver please register below.

Some frequently asked questions about the role of a volunteer.

Q. Where do the workshops take place?

Usually, at my private 2000sq ft apartment treatment studio in London Bridge SE1 4QS – images below are of the venue.

Q. What do i need if I want to be a web cam demonstrator?

You need a private space, a high quality web cam, Zoom conferencing, and ideally either a massagebe, bed or futon on the floor or floor with cushions.

Q. What would a webcam demonstrator be demonstrating?

This could be body study identifying sexual anatomy, techniques in masturbation / ejaculation, breast massage or if you have another person present giving a demonstration sensual massage with guidance from Colin.

Q. If I want to be a model for video tutorials where do these get filmed and where is the material placed?

The video tutorials are usually filmed at the Intimacy Matters Treatment rooms (currently in London Bridge SE1 4QS) . They are placed on the Intimate Tutorails Web site. To get an idea of what can be involved you can view some excerpts demonstation videos by registering in the Adult content area

Q. Do I need to enjoy massage to be a volunteer?

Yes, and it helps if you have experienced sensual massage before but for those that are keen to take part who have not received a sensual massage before in certain situations, I am happy to offer substantially reduced fees for 60, 90 and 105 minute Absolute massage in advance. This enables you to meet me and to understand how the massage is given before the workshops take place. It also shows me how you respond and therefore match you with the right workshop.

Q. How many female volunteers do you have on your list?

A. Currently, 156 but to be invited to take part in a workshop much depends on the volunteer’s availability and since many work during the day and can only do evenings there is always a chance for everyone. The more available you are and if I have given you a treatment the more likely you will be invited to take part.

Q. Do you have a separate shower and changing facilities for the female volunteers?

Yes, I have a private room and shower for the female volunteers to get ready in. Bathrobes are also provided.

Q. Will I be naked during the practice

Yes, you will be naked to receive the massage but the practice session starts with you covered with a large towel and then as you become comfortable the towel is removed.

Q. How many students will be practising on me at any one time?

If a private 1-1 workshop then only myself and the student. If a group workshop then this depends on the number of men or women attending the workshop but usually male students attending are limited to 6. In an ideal situation, you will only have one student working on you at any time but sometimes if volunteers are limited then the students will work in pairs.

Q. Can you describe the room where the workshop takes place?

If a private workshop then this takes place in my treatment room which is cosy and warm with shower facilities ensuite. If you are volunteering for a small group workshop then the room is my main living space that can accommodate up to 7 massages beds. In both cases the lights are low, candles are lit and soft music is playing.

Q. What are the type of male or female students attend the workshops and what motivations do they usually give for wanting to take the workshop.

I take great care to vet all male, female and couples. Everyone is required to complete an application form giving details about themselves and their motivation. Usually, they are people between the age of 25 to 55 who often are quite shy and recognize that they are inexperienced when it comes to their lovemaking skills. If single they are often people who have recently separated or divorced or who are single but want to become more confident in giving erotic foreplay. Couples often take workshops to start to expand thier own relationship by explring touch with another person.

Q. Do I have to do anything more than receiving the sensual massage?

Yes, I encourage the female volunteers to give feedback on the abilities of the students and to also at some point during the workshop take part in an open chat about female sexuality and to enlighten the students about what women enjoy sensually and sexually.

Q. How intimate does the massage become?

The Foundation group workshop remains surface touch and arousal only. This will include a 60-minute therapeutic massage routine that will cover the whole body and include breast and buttocks. Arousal will be limited to breast, nipples and clitoral. In the Intermediate group workshop, the students will learn how to give vaginal and G spot stimulation. In the private workshop depending on which volunteer you are during the day the arousal may be just surface arousal or more erotic I always indicate this on the invitation but you can inform me of your personal boundaries beforehand.

Q. How long a period will I be needed?

If a private workshop then usually each session is 2 hours but you can volunteer for more than one session on the day. If a group workshop then either 3 hours or you can elect to stay for 6 hours to take part in the Foundation & Intermediate workshop if being run on the same day.  The first session is given under verbal instruction by myself with the students following my example, the second session the students put into practice what I have taught and I supervise silently going from massage table to massage table.

Q. What happens if I become very aroused?

This is quite usual and is intended so don’t worry about misbehaving. It is not essential to achieve orgasm but it is often the case, particularly if I have taught them well that you will experience orgasm.

Q. When aroused I can be quite vocal, is this a problem?

Be as vocal as you want.  Part of the teaching is to get the men to be more confident and assertive so the reaction is good as men respond to approval from women.

Q. I want my identity to be kept confidential. Can I withhold my name and personal details?

Yes. you can give any name and reveal as little as you wish about your personal life. nothing is filmed and all mobile phones are put away.

Q. Can I get paid for volunteering as a receiver? 

Sometimes the private workshops the student may want to learn more about various sexual intercourse techniques and so this requires a volunteer happy to take this role so in this situation a fee can be requested. Also, I periodically make sensual massage training videos which if you are happy to have your face shown on film then a sensible fee is agreed before. Please indicate on your application if you want to be considered to take part in a training video or are happy to consider full sexual intercouse within a workshop scenario.

Q. What other benefits do I get by being a volunteer. 

As a volunteer for every workshop you take part in you qualify to receives substantial discounts on the treatments I give and events I hold. You may also be invited to join for free at events and parties.

Join Colins TOMH (Time On My Hands) Chat Group

and get instant notification on volunteering opportunities and offers

To ensure you receive the volunteer request notification I have a Telegram group that I use to notify volunteers about workshops and sensual massage opportunities in general. Once you have been accepted in the group you will receive by text notification of any imminent workshops where volunteer receivers are needed and also periodical offers of substantially reduced rates for taking a massage (up to 75%). I offer this because I sometimes have quiet days and time on my hands and like to offer this free time to volunteers or those who are a reduced budget or students. You can select to join the TOMH group when you complete the registration form and then i will send you the link.

Apply to be a volunteer receiver

Complete the REGISTRATION FORM and I will get back in touch.

Testimonials from past female volunteers

Below are testimonials from women who took part in the men’s group workshop License to Thrill. 

It was my first time as a volunteer. 

The prospect of being able to help others to connect (emotionally and sexually) for the outcome of having a healthy relationship was my main reason.

“Enough talking, we need to touch”

I knew that if my ex and I went to a course/event similar to Colin’s we could have saved our16 years marriage. On the practical side, it was important for me to feel safe and understood. Colin was clear and explained the process:

– clear intentions for both the receiver and the giver

– clear communication about boundaries

It felt liberating. I felt reassured. I felt like I understood my body. The whole experience seemed quite unbelievable and surreal and I already signed to help again, and also encouraged my partner to become a male volunteer. Lucy – May 2018

“I volunteered for the group workshop as a receiver after receiving an email from Colin. I first heard about him on Killing Kittens and had a massage which was an eye-opening experience on sensual massages. I was quite nervous before getting to the workshop, mainly because I wondered what “type” of men would attend. However, as soon as the participants arrived and introduced themselves I felt much more relaxed: they were all well-mannered and respectful. Some of them were singles and eager to learn more about the feminine body and arousal and others were married or in a relationship and wanted to learn some skills to spice up their sexual life and provide more satisfaction to their partners. The whole workshop was well explained and managed by Colin and I felt very safe as I know he would intervene if there were any offensive behaviours. When the first part ended everyone was feeling much more relaxed and confident which led to a very satisfying second part! I’m glad I was able to overcome my nervousness as I had an amazing time and I will definitely volunteer again to a group workshop with Colin.” Marta – March 2017

“So I chose to volunteer for a group workshop firstly because I love massage and I am a sensual person. Secondly, I find that most men do not have a clue about a woman’s sexuality and they need to be educated. My only two concerns beforehand were confidentiality and hygiene. Both were respected very well. I did not feel nervous or tense before or during the workshop. The whole atmosphere in the group was nice and relaxing. I found that most men came to this workshop aiming to learn and take some knowledge away with them. There was a nice variety of them as far as age and personal experience was concerned. They were very polite and respectful. I enjoyed being a volunteer and I would certainly do it again. AS – March 2017