The Women’s Exploration Massage


Discovering the pleasure potential of your body

A 75 minute sensual massage for deeper experiences

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New clients

Embarking on a journey of sexual self discovery should be taken with planned consideration and understanding of motivation. For those just starting on this adventure, for the benefit of both them and the therapist, a stage by stage journey of exploration is recommended.

What one might imagine may not be the reality so I ask all women embarking on this to consider carefully before booking which sensual massage they feel is right for them and their situation. I am always available to discuss this in a FREE 15 minute phone call or text.

If you are completely new to sensual massage then I recommend you start your sensual journey of discovery with either the Intimacy massage or the Exploration massage. The more intense Absolute massage is usually given after a new client has experienced either of these two treatments first.

Experienced clients

However if you feel you are a sexually confident and sexually experienced woman and happy to explore more intense arousal, then following a brief phone or email consultation to hear your motivation and for me to clarify content I am happy to give the Absolute massage as your first experience at Intimacy Matters.

The Intimacy Massage – 60 minutes

A sensual massage with light arousal that is a good starter sensual massage for the sexually inexperienced or women who have anxiety around sexual interaction. 

Cost £ 150

The Intimacy massage is 60 minute in duration and is primarily a therapeutic massage that covers the whole body but also encourages sensual arousal and can include clitoral stimulation which may result in orgasm. This is the lightest intimate massage that I offer. Click here to read more

The Exploration Massage – 75 minutes

A sensual massage with deeper arousal and is ideal for women who have sexual experience but want to explore in stages.

Cost £175

The Exploration Massage is a 75 minute sensual massage and is a combination of therapeutic massage, sensual and erotic arousal. Dependent on your desires it can include clitoral stimulation, external vaginal massage and optional internal vaginal massage, G spot stimulation, but excludes many of the more erotic elements given within the Absolute massage.  Scroll down to read more.

The Absolute Massage –  75 or 105 minutes

A sensual massage with intense erotic arousal. The ultimate erotic massage that combines therapeutic massage with gentle arousal building to intense erotic stimulation. Recommended for the sexually confidents women or this who have taken the Exploration or Intimacy massage before.

75 minutes – £195

105 minutes – £250

The Absolute Massage is a design yourself erotic massage and is suitable for those women who are sexually experienced. For women who less experienced sexually or want to take things more gently then it is best to take the Absolute after taking either the Intimacy Massage or Exploration massage first.  If in doubt please email colin or call him to discuss.

The Absolute massage be taken as either the premium 105 minute massage or the shorter 75 minute superior level. This massage is tailor made to your specific desires and can include many different and exciting types of erotic arousal. Click here to read more

Full Description of

The Exploration Massage

Cost – £175

The Exploration massage is 75 minutes in duration with the whole appointment being about 90 minutes to two hours as this allows for showering before and after and a brief welcome chat. This treatment that is ideal for the women who has a reasonable level of  past sexual experience and feels confident and relaxed about exploring her intimate sexuality by taking a sensual massage of this nature. The massage begins with traditional therapeutic massage but from the outset is intended to stimulate and arouse you. I encourage you to let go and indulge in the expert touch that my 15 years of giving sensual massage enables me to give to you.  This is an experience that is completely about you. No judgment or expectation simply lay back and enjoy the sensations your body can provide.  Usually this massage is taken naked. This massage includes both clitoral and internal vaginal stimulation but does not include some of the more intense techniques given in the Absolute massage.

Authorisation & Request Form

This is a form that you are required to complete prior to arriving for your Exploration massage. It enable you to set limits and boundaries as well as request certain elements of erotic arousal

Exploration Authorisation & Request Form.

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

As a new client before taking any massage from Colin you will be required on arrival to complete a Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form.

The massage divides into five main phases:

  1. Preparation (10 min)
  2. The Therapeutic Massage Phase (20 min)
  3. The Sensual Foreplay Phase (20 min)
  4. The Erotic Stimulation Phase (15 min)
  5. The Rest and Relax (5 min)

Before giving the Exploration Massage, I will have asked you to complete the Exploration Massage Authorization & Requests Form. By completing this form, you help me to create the exact experience you would like to have. You can indicate the type of touch you want to enjoy and the level and intensity of erotic arousal you ideally wish to explore and experience. It also enables you to set any limits and boundaries. Once Colin has received the completed form he designs the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries. On arrival, you may chat again to re affirm your expectations and limits. Colin will then show you to the treatment room and unless you request otherwise he will leave you to shower then lay face down naked on the massage bed covered with a towel.  Colin then re-enters the room and after a few more words of guidance and some instruction on how the massage will progress, he begins the massage.


On arrival you will be offered water, tea, coffee or a glass of wine then once you are relaxed and ready, I will take you to the treatment room and then if you have not done so already (within an hour before the massage) I ask you to take a shower after which you get yourself ready by laying face down on the massage table. Unless requested otherwise I leave the room at this time to let you prepare yourself privately. Once showered I will return and cover you with a large towel. I then take a few more minutes to explain how the massage will progress, how to communicate with me during the massage and how the massage will finish.

The therapeutic massage phase

The Therapeutic Relaxing Phase follows the line of a traditional massage and is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles, heighten the senses and put your mind and body into a state of trust and safety. The massage starts with a few breathing and relaxation techniques. I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, and buttocks and all are given a full 25-minute gentle but firm massage, working out any knots or tension and encouraging your body to let go.

The sensual foreplay phase

As you relax and your body responds, the massage will subtly become arousing and my hands will begin to explore more intimate areas of your body. I will be working on your thighs, buttocks, calves, lower back. As your arousal increases (through movement, sound and lubrication) I will explore and stimulate more to include clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage that may bring on the first orgasm.

To read the the erotic stimulation phase you must register to get access to the Intimacy Matters private area  Intimacy X


Often the motivation to embarking on a journey of sensual and sexual self exploration can be multi faceted. Here is a selection of motivations that past female clients have given when booking the Exploration Sensual Massage.

  • I enjoyed the Intimacy Massage and now feel confident to explore further
  • I experience clitoral orgasm but I struggle or have never experienced vaginal orgasm
  • I like to feel able to trust and let go of control to a professional who understands the complexities of female arousal.
  • I need an internal sense of release
  • I want to explore multiple orgasm and external anal touch
  • I am interested to explore new ways of arousal
  • There are certain aspects of erotic arousal I want to explore but feel I can not with my current partner or a new partner

Click Here to Read The Feedback & Testimonials from previous female clients

Make a Booking or Enquiry

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It can be lonely and frustrating when you feel unable to share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship and for some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Quite often female clients tell me it took them months even years to finally decide to book a session and often afterwards say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are just too nervous to book a full appointment and want to know more details before you commit to anything. If this is the case just send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.

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Frequently asked questions

I am sure before you decide on which massage you want to book you will have many questions. Please click this link to read the answers to most of the questions I get asked. If I do not cover your particular question then please do not hesitate to email me.

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My location

The treatment room is located in Chelsea SW3 Central London click here.

Terms & Conditions

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here