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A Safe & Inviting Space for Erotic Exploration

If you’ve ever wanted to explore your sexuality in a respectful, open-minded community, this event is the perfect introduction.

• No pressure, no expectations – Chat, observe, or participate at your own comfort level.
• Learn sensual massage techniques that heighten pleasure and deepen connection.
• Surround yourself with like-minded couples in an elegant, discreet setting.
• Enhance intimacy through guided sensual exploration in a safe, respectful environment.

No prior experience in sensual massage is required—just an open mind and a willingness to embrace pleasure, connection, and erotic discovery. Whether you enjoy giving, receiving, or both, this sensual experience invites you to relax, explore, and awaken your deepest desires.

This is not a sex party but rather an occasion of sensual exploration where couples can immerse themselves in the power of touch in a safe, supportive environment. For those couples who want to explore deeper sexual interaction, we have two semi-private rooms with double beds.

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Spaces are limited—reserve your spot today!

Maximum attendance is 12 couples plus two guest masseurs and your hosts, Colin & Clare

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We recently attended a Sensual Massage Social and had a fantastic time. We met some lovely people and greatly enjoyed talking with like-minded couples and singles. We also learnt and experienced some very pleasurable new massage techniques, thoroughly recommend this event and look forward to attending another one ourselves in the future

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A Unique, Sensory Experience for Couples

Held on select Saturday afternoons
Limited to 12 couples (24 participants max) for an intimate, relaxed atmosphere. Dedicated massage spaces for both shared and private exploration

Hosted at Colin’s stunning split-level private apartment in Sloane Square, Chelsea, this event takes place in a luxurious, open-plan space that blends sophistication, comfort, and intimacy.

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Who Is This For?

This exclusive sensual massage play party is designed for couples who:

• Couples of any age or sexual orientation
• Male/female close friends who play together
• Couples who enjoy giving and receiving intimate, creative touch to others
• Those who want to explore sensuality in a safe, pressure-free space
• Those couples who seek to deepen their connection through erotic massage
• Those who want to explore same gender intimate touch
• People who appreciate a refined, elegant setting for sensual discovery

Whether you’re new to sensual massage or already have experience, this gathering provides a supportive, pleasurable environment to enhance your intimate skills and connect with other couples who share your curiosity.

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The Layout

The main room features up to four massage beds, providing ample space for participants to explore sensual massage techniques.  A cosy chill-out area with a sofa, perfect for a breakout chat or playful, erotic, intimate exploration. A separate bedroom with a luxurious king-size bed provides an ideal setting for more private experiences, and showers and bathrooms are available for refreshing breaks throughout the event.

Galleried balconies overlook the main room, giving a bird’s-eye view of the activities below. Participants are encouraged to experiment with both two-hand and four-hand massages, with options for mixed or same-gender pairings. To ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience, we encourage open communication regarding your gender preferences and personal boundaries.

Your hosts, Colin and Clare, will be present throughout the evening to guide you and offer expert advice and assistance with massage techniques. Just ask! This event perfectly blends social interaction with intimate exploration, creating an inviting space to enhance your sensual massage skills.

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Example programme for an event

4 pm to 4.45 pm welcome drink, light bites and meet the other guests

4.45 pm—7.45 pm Massage beds became available.

To ensure everyone who wants to give or receive a massage has an opportunity, please check 30 minutes after use to see if anyone else is waiting to use a massage bed. If not, you can continue using it for another 30 minutes.

8 pm – finish and farewells

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The sensual social was a lovely evening with lots to experience. We had time to chat on arrival and meet other guests. Drinks were flowing and food was provided. Wasn’t long before massage tables were assembled and the sensual part was underway. There was a no pressure environment but never a shortage of guests to exchange massages with. Support and guidance from Colin and Clare  was provided throughout the evening. A truly nurturing, enjoyable and sensual experience with a lovely group of open minded people. Would recommend

Ticket Price

• £195 – a couple / paired intimate friends
• The ticket price includes unlimited Prosecco and white wine, beer throughout, soft and hot beverages for those who prefer a clear head, light bites and nibbles, massage oil, shower towels, and gowns. You are welcome to bring your own spirits and fizz; please, no red wine.

How to book your place

1. Complete the application form.
2. Once your application form is received, you will receive a link to purchase your ticket on the Design My Night ticketing website.
3. Your place is not booked until the ticket has been purchased.
4. Design My Night charges a small admin fee that will be added to your ticket.
5. Once purchased, you will receive a receipt  from Design My Night
6. You will be sent the programme and etiquette for the occasion a few days before your event.
7. You will also receive a link to join the pre-social chat group to get to know other attendees beforehand.

If you have any problems, email Clare at ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk or call Colin or WhatsApp him on 07966 522 696.

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All welcome

This is a male/female-gender event and is open to all sexualities ( straight, bisexual, heteroflexible, curious) and is a safe space for you to explore your sexuality safely and discreetly whilst having a fabulous, fun, flirtatious, frisky, sexually fulfilling evening. It is an event with no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity you are not comfortable with.

Consent

You can take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded people. You might also choose to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner. If you feel a wider connection, you may want to explore erotic touch with others. As long as it’s fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope everyone has a great time, but please remember that people have different preferences and boundaries. Before approaching anyone, ensure they are open to playing and clarify how they prefer it. Please clearly communicate your sexual orientation—whether straight, bisexual, heteroflexible, or open to exploring same-gender touch; there are purple wristbands you can wear to indicate you are comfortable with same-gender intimacy—and indicate if you are comfortable being touched intimately. No means no. Anyone who does not respect this will be asked to leave.

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Age & body demographic

At the Couples Sensual Massage Social, we believe attraction goes beyond looks and body type. We start with a relaxing social time and encourage stimulating conversation to foster genuine connections. This allows participants of all ages to mingle and feel the potential chemistry before any intimate activity begins. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts, and a tight bum. We aim to create an event that attracts a diverse cross-section of ages and body types. To achieve this, we will allocate spaces by approximate age bracket, ensuring a well-rounded and inclusive experience for everyone.

Do not leave without your partner.

You must arrive and leave together, unless otherwise arranged with the hosts.

Experience not necessary 

Complete novices to sensual massage and adult play parties welcome

Massage experience is not required, but you do need a love of giving and receiving erotic intimacy. 

No pressure or expectation

You are not expected to take part in any sensual massage, and you can remain a voyeur, but be discreet and do not hover

We aim to create an event that attracts a diverse cross-section of ages and body types. 

The usual age range is as follows

21 to 30 – 15%

31 to 40 – 25%

41 to 50 – 30%

50 to 60 – 30%

60 to 65 – 15%

Be kept informed

Or if you want to be kept informed about future events, you can Register Here

There is no vetting on looks or age

There is no vetting of attendees, but we always balance male-to-female ratios and, where appropriate, ensure a good spread of ages.

Regular attendees may be limited.

However, since this social event is proving very popular, we may limit the number of places given to regulars so that newcomers can also enjoy the event, and we reserve the right to refuse applications without providing a reason.

What to wear

Some guests may be coming from work, so you are welcome to shower upon arrival and change into something more comfortable. Otherwise, come in smart casual attire, but make sure what you have isn’t too precious, as massage oil can get on clothes. A suggestion for those who prefer not to get naked immediately is for women to bring underwear or something light and easily removable, and guys’ shorts and a t-shirt (a regular shirt and naked below is not a good look!). We also provide robes.

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Cancellation Terms

Cancellation up to 4 weeks: After purchasing your ticket, you can cancel or transfer it to another party date up to 4 weeks before the event at no charge.

Cancellation within 3 to 1 weeks: If you want to cancel or transfer your ticket to another date within 3 to 1 weeks of the event, you will be charged a £25 administration fee.

Serial transfers or cancellations—We will refund or transfer your ticket only once in line with the above terms. If you make a second booking, transfer your original ticket to another date, and cancel again, there is NO TRANSFER OR REFUND.

Cancellation within one week: If you cancel your ticket within one week of the event, there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS. No show at the event – If you are a no-show, then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS To ask a question, email  ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk

Cancellation or Postponement by Organisers

We set a minimum attendance of 5 couples; if we do not reach that number, we may cancel the event. In this case, couples who have purchased tickets can either have a full refund or transfer to an alternative date of a future event, or put the fee towards a different service given by Intimacy Matters, ie a couples’ sensual massage treatment or a couples’ sensual massage class

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Sloane Place Sloane Square Hotel 11 Cadogan Gardens Premier Inn Battersea Mark and I had a fabulous time last night and I particularly enjoyed my attention towards the end of the evening!

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It was a great evening!! Really enjoyed it.  We are keen to make the next one!  It was also a great forum to meet like minded people. We hope that you may do again. Amazing venue and it was great to see everyone so relaxed and at ease with their sensuality. We decided to remain as voyeurs as it was our first event like this as couple, but we have not stopped talking about it since. Also seeing some of the techniques and pleasure being given was enlightening and great to practice later on one another at home. We will defiantly come to your next social.

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