Giving sensual massage (with integrated erotic foreplay techniques) to one another or giving as a couple to another female or male or another couple

The practice massages in these classes can be given between the couple or on a male or female volunteer receiver.

Couples Three or Six Hour Sensual Massage & Enhanced Foreplay Classes

Unleash the Power of Touch: Sensual Massage and Enhanced Foreplay Skills!

For Both of You

Embark on a journey of intimacy and discovery with our Six-Hour Foundation Class, designed specifically for couples eager to explore and enhance their sensual massage and foreplay techniques. Split into two dynamic three-hour sessions, this course is perfect for partners who want to deepen their connection and expand their erotic repertoire.

  • First Session: Dive into a 90-minute instructional massage, where you’ll be guided through a sensual massage routine that includes elements of erotic arousal. This hands-on learning experience ensures you grasp each step with precision.
  • Second Session: After a refreshing break, put your newfound skills to the test in another 90-minute session. You can choose to give a four-handed massage with Colin or have Colin visually guide you as you practice on your partner.

For Just One of You

Our Three-Hour Foundation Class is ideal for couples where only one partner wishes to learn the art of sensual massage. This focused session allows one partner to master the techniques of giving a deeply erotic and sensual massage to the other.

  • Single Session: Begin with a 90-minute teaching massage, following the same comprehensive and arousing routine. After a short intermission, apply your skills in a practical session, either with Colin’s hands-on assistance or his visual guidance.

Both of You Giving to Another Person

For couples eager to explore the thrill of giving sensual massages to others, this unique training offers a rare opportunity. In a collaborative and open environment, you’ll learn to give an erotic and arousing massage to a third person of your choice (male or female).

Why Choose Colin’s Classes?

  • Expert Guidance: Learn from Colin, a seasoned professional in sensual massage and erotic techniques.
  • Tailored Experience: Whether both of you or just one wants to learn, we offer flexible training options.
  • Hands-On Learning: Engage in practical, step-by-step instruction that ensures you master the art of sensual touch.
  • Enhanced Intimacy: Strengthen your bond and discover new dimensions of pleasure and connection.

Join us for an unforgettable experience that will transform your intimate moments and bring you closer than ever. Rediscover the art of touch and let the journey of sensuality begin!

Techniques taught

For her receiving

  • An overview of the primal female sexual dynamic and why erotic massage is both pleasurable and healthy
  • Relaxing her mind and body to bring on arousal
  • Therapeutic massage routine
  • Teasing touch to stimulate
  • Various styles of clitoral stimulation and positions
  • G spot and external and internal  vaginal massage
  • Body-to-body techniques
  • Encouraging multiple orgasms

For him receiving

  • Stimulating his mind and playing with his arousal
  • Understanding that males need to be approved of
  • Massaging with upper body
  • Full Body-to-body techniques
  • Edging techniques to keep him waiting
  • Masturbation styles
  • External anal touch
  • Bringing him to an explosive orgasm

Options & Prices

  1. Option 1 – Couple giving to the other 1 x 3 hour class – £400
  2. Option 2 – Couple giving to each other  2 x 3 hour classes – £700
  3. Option 3 – Couple giving to a female or male volunteer 1 x 3 hour – £450
  4. Option 4 – Couple giving to a male and female volunteers 2 x 3 hours – £800

Book your couple’s training

Click here to apply for a couple’s training

Buy Now Pay Later  Take six weeks to pay for the treatment of your choice.

When can I take a class?

Classes can be run on weekdays from 9 a.m. to 10 p.m. or on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required on booking, with the balance paid on the first day of the class. Payment can be made by cash, visa, debit, Paypal or bank transfer.

Cancellation of class 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking any of the above sensual massage classes. The balance of payment is due on the first day of the class. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the class and have these options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

If cancelled within three days, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit. No show-up, you will lose your deposit and be expected to pay the total class cost.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy For example.


Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here

Long-term relationships can be incredibly rewarding. Many of us choose to settle down, cohabit, or get married, committing to monogamy with someone we love. However, maintaining the spark in a long-term sexual relationship can be complex and challenging. Both straight and gay couples, as well as individuals, often seek advice on rekindling their passion.

The Evolutionary Context

Understanding the evolutionary basis of human sexual behavior can provide valuable insights. For millions of years, ancient humans’ approach to coupling was predominantly about reproduction, similar to animal species. Males aimed to impregnate as many females as possible to continue their genetic line. Females, on the other hand, attracted multiple males, ensuring the best genetic match with one while tricking others into providing protection and resources. This strategy maximized reproductive potential and ensured the survival of offspring.

Modern humans inherit these evolutionary behaviors, making monogamy sometimes feel contrary to our instincts. This historical context explains why long-term sexual relationships require effort and communication to maintain.

Communication is Key

If you’re unhappy with the intimate aspect of your relationship, open communication with your partner is crucial. Discussing your desires and frustrations can help identify where the boundaries are and how you both want to move forward. Misunderstandings about each other’s libido and desires are common, and a candid conversation can clear up misconceptions.

Rekindling the Spark

There are various ways to spice up your relationship and bring back the focus on intimacy. Consider experimenting with sex toys, light bondage, enjoying erotic material together, and engaging in sensual massage. These activities can help you reconnect, rediscover each other’s bodies, and reignite the spark.

Exploring Together

A more immersive approach is to take my Couples Private Sensual Massage Class. This class is perfect for monogamous couples looking to rekindle their passion while maintaining their connection. With the guidance of a seasoned sensual massage expert, you’ll learn how to pleasure each other more effectively. The class employs a ‘Watch and Give’ approach, ensuring a professional and respectful environment with clear boundaries.

For those uncomfortable with a massage teacher’s physical involvement, an instructive approach is available, or you can watch a live demonstration on a volunteer. This workshop allows you to expand your comfort zone at your own pace. Additionally, a private online workshop option is available for couples who prefer to learn from the comfort of their own home or cannot attend live training in London.

Why Choose Our Sensual Massage Class?

  • Professional Guidance: Learn from an experienced sensual massage expert in a professional setting.
  • Personalized Experience: Tailored to your comfort level, with options for direct instruction or observational learning.
  • Convenient Options: Available both in-person and online to suit your preferences and schedule.
  • Enhanced Intimacy: Strengthen your connection and rediscover pleasure in a safe, supportive environment.

Investing in this class is an excellent step towards enhancing your health, happiness, and intimate connection. Rediscover the joy of touch and take your relationship to new heights of passion and intimacy.

When can we take a class?

Monday to Friday, 3-hour sessions are usually either:-

  • 10 am to 1 pm
  • 1 pm to 4 pm
  • 5 pm to 8 pm

Saturday 5-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 1 pm
  • Noon to 3 pm

Over what period can we spread the classes?

  • Ideally, within 2 – 3 weeks

How soon do we need to book a class?

These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only two three-hour classes daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Immediate bookings supplement cost

If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, I will charge an extra 10% if I can accommodate you.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one couple taking a class.  If two couples are taking the course together, 50% is added.

Review by A & I, who took a 5-hour class in December 2022

My wife and I were searching the web to find a course that would open our minds and enhance our sex life further. Then we found Colin’s website and read what he has to offer. We signed up for the 5-hour couples intimacy massage course. Naturally, we were a little apprehensive and not sure what to expect. Wow – so glad we did it. The entire experience, from start to finish, was amazing. Colin made us both feel very much at ease. It was a very educational experience on the physiology of sex and the human body. But then we moved on to the massage experience/training. Colin is a pure professional and knows his way around the body. Our nervousness soon disappeared, and we just went with the flow. My wife was unsure how open she would be to having another man touch her this way, but that certainly was not an issue. I also have significant reservations about how comfortable I would be with another man getting too close to me. However, he left most of those parts to my wife and in the end – it just didn’t matter who did what, as it was all about learning and exploring. We both loved the experience and got a lot out of it. We both left very happy and big smiles on our faces. I can’t recommend it highly enough. If you have any fears or doubts – park them and go for it. You only live once, and you should enjoy every part of it.

If you can not attend London to take a class,

visit Colin’s online tutorials website Intimate Tutorials.

To view all the students who completed classes in 2022CLICK HERE

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