Psychosensual Treatments For Men
This is a three hour three stage treatment for men who want help and support in areas of sexual performance, sexual fulfilment and relationships.
Do you need help with any of the following?
- Erectile issues
- Premature ejaculation
- Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm)
- Sexual performance enhancement
- Sexual orientation exploration
- Fear of intimacy
- Sexual performance education
- Becoming a more confident and assertive lover
- A better understanding of sexual arousal in others
Your enquiry can be made via email, phone call, text, Whatsapp. Please give me some details about what it is that you want to bring to me that is either troubling you or you want further help with. If at this stage I feel I can help I will email you the Psychosensual Pre Consultation Form. This will ask you a series of questions that will help me to understand you, your current situation and your background.
All appointments start with a 90-minute consultation then if both the client and I feel that a 90-minute sensual bodywork appointment would benefit this can happen within this appointment or arrange at another date (usually within a fortnight). Most sexual performance issues or dissatisfaction with sexual fulfilment is often partially or wholly rooted in the psychology of the person. These emotional drivers then affect the physical responses required to bring on arousal and sexual satisfaction, the most common being the inability to orgasm in women and loss of erection in men. This 90-minute consultation session allows me to hear your story, understand your situation and explain more fully how I feel I may be able to help you. It also gives you the chance to meet me and ask any questions that you need answering before deciding to go ahead with any sensual bodywork. If you feel comfortable with what I propose then we discuss the best way forward in regard to any sensual bodywork.
Session 1: The Initial Consultation – 90 minutes
Both session 1 & 2 can be taken on the same day one after the other or split within the day but there is always a minimum 15-minute break between session 1 and 2 to allow you time to consider if you want to take the bodywork.
Most sexual performance or sexual dissatisfaction issues are often partially or wholly rooted in the psychology of the person. These emotional drivers then affect the physical responses required to bring on arousal and sexual fulfilment – the most common being the inability to orgasm in women and loss of erection in men. This 60-minute session allows me to hear your story, understand your situation and explain more fully how I feel I may be able to help you. It also gives you the chance to meet me and ask any questions that you may have before deciding to go ahead with any sensual bodywork. If you feel comfortable with what I propose then we discuss the best way forward and then set a date (I recommend within a fortnight) for the sensual bodywork.
Session 2: The Sensual Bodywork – 90 minutes
This is a 90 minutes appointment that includes a 60-minute mens Enhance or Explore. massage depending on what aspect is being worked on earned about your situation in the initial consultation I will put together a sensual treatment that I feel will help you explore your sexuality safely and professionally. Knowing that I am fully aware of your challenge will, in itself, help you relax. The Standard massage gently introduces you to the sensual bodywork. The massage is based on a traditional therapeutic technique but the intention is to promote slow gentle arousal, I take a step-by-step approach that allows you to feel in control and at the same time free to explore intimacy and become aware of any emotional restrictions you may be feeling. By being in this non-judgemental, caring and supportive environment it means that any reactions – whether negative or pleasurable – can be expressed and thus better understood. The massage remain as surface of body arousal only and may include penis stimulation to bring on erection to optional orgasm but does not include any anal penetration or oral. Following the treatment, there is a brief discussion to check in and see how you are feeling and what you may have discovered during the treatment.
On going treatment for men
You can reign for further three-hour Psychosensual treatments and if you are comfortable and we have discussed the relevance, you can move on to receive either the Enhance or Explore Massage. Or some clients find that the conversation in the first appointment has given them a complete understanding and now prefer to return for just another treatment.
The Psychosensual Treatment can help with:
- erectile dysfunction
- premature ejaculation
- inability to orgasm
- understanding and embracing same-sex attraction
- fear of intimacy
- lack of sexual confidence
- poor sexual expertise
- improving sexual performance
Private Location & Treatment Room
The treatment room is in Chelsea SW3 London click here
The room has stunning views covering 40 miles over central London. The shower facilities are smart and clean with a walk-in rain shower and handheld shower, robes, shampoo, conditioner and shower soap provided. A hairdryer is also available. According to your preference during the treatment, the room can remain with daylight (daytime) or be darkened with blackout blinds and low lighting.
How to make an enquiry or book your appointment
There are several ways to book your appointment.
Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.
Phone – For those wanting confidentiality you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin and he will make the booking for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696
Make an enquiry – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here
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Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.
For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail
Pay by Barter
In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.
I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time. Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.
Those with low income
I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.
The Theory of Five Influences – Why Do Some Men Like Men
By Colin Richards
For the last two centuries, if a man experienced any form of male-to-male erotic intimacy, society traditionally labelled him no longer heterosexual; he became a homosexual and, in the UK until 1967, was a criminal. In the last 60 years, attitudes to sexuality have become more enlightened. Still, even in 2023, in many social circles, if a man announces himself as bisexual, bicurious, or even heteroflexible, many people still see this as just a subtle camouflage that he is gay.
Over the past two decades, the polarised view of sexuality has been challenged. Now, many experts recognize that defining a person’s sexuality in such a binary manner is wrong. Still, the often mooted explanation of why a man may be sexually attracted to another man is that it is either a personal choice or is genetically pre-determined or a combination of both.
In a recent study taken in 2019 by it was concluded that sexuality cannot be pinned down by biology, psychology or life experiences, this study and others show, because all these factors decide human sexual attraction. The study shows that genes play a small and limited role in determining sexuality. Genetic heritability — all of the information stored in our genes and passed between generations — can only explain 8 to 25 per cent of why people have same-sex relations, based on the study’s results.
However, as comprehensive as the study was, it had flaws in that it did not consider the impact of historical and social context on the data sets and parameters.
Informed by his 18 years of experience working with thousands of men who have expressed broader sexuality, Colin Richards, Sex Engineer and Relationship Therapist, has concluded that same-gender attraction has as much to do with the emotional, psychological and anthropological as it does genetic and sexual. To read on click here
TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here