The surveys below are created to help understand better the real dynamics of our sexuality. Covering varied topics the answers help give clearer insight into the real opinions and feelings or ordinary people

All the surveys are still running so please take a moment and select any one or more to take.

Your answers are valued.

Survey 1

Intimacy Matters Men’s Sexuality Survey

Exploring the influences behind the desire of male sensual intimacy and same gender attraction

Men of all orientations can complete this survey

Supporting Colin’s Theory of Five Influences

Taking this short survey you will be helping in my research to understand better the broader dynamics of male sexuality.

This is designed to be completed by people defining as male he/his or cis of all ages, all cultures and any sexual orientation. Please answer the questions as honestly as you can. Individual information will never be disclosed as data will only be shown in collated results. Emails are requested so I can keep you up to date with results. Aliases can be used to preserve identity. I am particularly keen to have the survey completed by those living in countries or cultures where any divergence from being a heterosexual male is either illegal or socially rejected.

Click here to read more about Colin’s Theory of Five Influences Why Men Like Men

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Survey 2

Women’s Sexuality, Orgasm & Masturbation Survey

The survey asks pertinent questions about aspects of women’s sex lives. The questions cover situational, relationship and sexual topics. The questions are generated from my observations and subsequent theories I have developed after giving sensual massage to over 600 female clients in the past 5 years. I am particularly interested to explore the undelaying reasons why some women struggle to reach orgasm with others and also sometimes on their own. Your answers will help me develop these theories and to expand my practice to promote sensual touch and the necessity of teaching how to give enhanced crate foreplay skills to partners, not to be just a pleasurable a treat for women but to be viewed as an important way to maintain a healthy sexual, psychological and mental lifestyle.

I would be most grateful if you could take 10 minutes to complete the survey. Please use a verifiable email address.

All your personal details will be kept confidential. When completing the survey you may use a pseudonym if you prefer not to use your real name. Results will only be used to produce collated data unless personal permission is sought to refer to an individual.

Survey 3

The Intimacy Centre Survey

I have been working in the world of sexuality, sensual massage and intimacy for 15 years. In that time I have seen many changes in the way my work and work by other practitioners in the field of enhancing sexuality has been regarded. In the UK there has there been a growth of interest from couples and singles who realise that having a fulfilling sex life is not only important for a relationship but also for a healthy body and mind. Increasingly the media are writing about sexuality, and topics such as giving great oral sex, prostate massage, multiple orgasms, female ejaculation, anorgasmia, better erections, kink & fetish, are often seen in the mainstream media and on TV.

So now is the time to establish the Intimacy Centre, an idea I have long held but not been sure when the time was right to take it forward. But with the past six months of COVID lockdowns and social distancing highlighting the necessity of intimate touch I feel now is the time to reach out and see who else feels the same way as I do.

To create an Intimacy Centre it will need considerable investment to establish an online presence but more importantly a physical presence. A place where people can go to be educated, informed, supported and encouraged to explore their intimate lives. It will act as a hub for independent practitioners who specialise in the enhancement of the intimate self. These will include: Sex & Relationship Therapists, Sensual Masseurs & Tantra Experts, Personal Trainers, Image consultants, Dating experts, Psychotherapists, Gender and Sexual diversity therapists.

This survey is to help establish the interest and needs of people and will be used in support of applications for investment. Please give your answers candidly and honestly