The Absolute Premium
Sensual Massage For Women
£290
The ultimate ‘all about you’ sensual massage for women
105-minute whole-of-body erotic massage
“The benefits of orgasms are so numerous that every woman should be able to access them regularly, whether or not they are in a relationship and whatever their age.
Quote by the international speaker on well-being for women Marisa Peer
The Absolute Sensual Massage for Women
A Fully Immersive Erotic & Emotional Journey — Designed Entirely Around You
The Absolute Sensual Massage for Women is the signature experience that has made Colin one of the most recognised sensual massage practitioners in the UK. This is a deeply personal, nurturing, and erotically sophisticated treatment, designed exclusively for women who are ready to explore desire, pleasure, self-connection, and feminine sensual power in a safe, respectful and confidential environment.
This massage is not just about erotic stimulation — though that is certainly part of its beauty. It is about reclaiming the parts of yourself that the world asks you to suppress: your softness, your hunger, your longing, your erotic imagination, your need to be adored, touched, seen and deeply received.
It is designed for women of all ages, body types, backgrounds and identities. Whether you are:
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In your 20s discovering your sexual identity
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In your 30s or 40s balancing career, motherhood, and emotional load
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In your 50s , 60s and 70s+ reconnecting with pleasure after changes in life, body or hormones
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Post-menopausal and ready to feel alive again
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Newly single, poly-curious, exploring bisexuality, or quietly reawakening desire
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Or simply longing to feel deeply feminine, sensual and connected again
You are welcome. Completely.
This is not about performance, pressure, or expectation.
You do not have to “do well”, react a certain way, or behave in any particular manner.
Your experience is guided by what your body naturally wants to feel — not what you think should happen.
Why Women Choose This Experience
Every woman carries her own history, her own experiences of intimacy, pleasure, touch, and emotional connection.
Some women come because they have not been touched with real presence for a very long time.
Others come because their minds are full, their bodies are tense, and they need a place to surrender.
Some come because their partners are loving but lack the erotic skill they crave.
Some are exploring new aspects of themselves: same-gender attraction, fantasy, kink, or feminine dominance/submission dynamics.
Others simply miss the feeling of being the one who is adored, worshipped, and prioritised.
The Absolute Sensual Massage responds to all of these needs — with softness, clarity, structure, and care.
Your session begins with slow grounding touch, helping your body relax and your mind quieten.
As the massage progresses, the focus shifts gradually, skilfully and respectfully into sensual and erotic massage, building erotic energy in delicate, natural waves.
Depending on your desires and boundaries, this may include:
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Full-body sensual massage with warm oils
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Clitoral, vulval, and labial stimulation
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G-spot and A-spot exploration
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Deep pelvic and vaginal massage
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Cervical relaxation and orgasmic release
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Edging, breathwork and full-body orgasm
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Guidance into multiple orgasm or feminine ejaculation (if desired)
But only if you want these experiences.
You guide the journey. Colin listens — to your words, your breathing, your emotional cues, and your body’s responses.
The Experience: Slow, Deep, Sensual, Intuitive
The Absolute Premium (105 minutes) is the most popular version of this massage because it provides the time your mind and body require to naturally transition from thinking to feeling, from holding to surrendering, from control to pleasure.
Women frequently describe the experience as:
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“The first time I have ever fully relaxed in a sexual context.”
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“I didn’t realise my body could feel this.”
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“I finally felt connected to myself again.”
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“It was healing. Not just erotic — healing.”
For many women, this treatment becomes an ongoing part of their emotional and sensual self-care, just like therapy, yoga, or meditation — but with far more pleasure and embodied release.
If Time, Intensity, or Budget Requires Variation
Womens Sensual Massages are available in different durations and styles:
| Treatment | Duration | Best For |
|---|---|---|
| Absolute Premium | 105 mins | Full emotional & erotic journey (most popular) |
| Absolute Superior | 75 mins | Deep sensuality with less intensity |
| Absolute Focus | 60 mins | Targeted, fast release, or post-Premium refinement |
| The Exploration | 90 mins | Sensual awakening without deep internal intensity |
| The Intimacy | 60 mins | Gentle arousal for cultural or emotional sensitivity |
If you are unsure, Colin offers a free 15-minute phone conversation to help you choose. Email colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk
Think of this as your 4th Option of Sexual Expression
Women often experience sexual pleasure:
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With a partner — loving but sometimes limited in variety
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With a new connection — exciting, but often emotionally unrooted
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Through self-pleasure — reliable but sometimes repetitive
The Absolute Massage offers a fourth option —
A deeply erotic experience without emotional risk, without expectation, and without the need to perform.
It is pleasure as nourishment.
Eroticism as healing, not achievement.
Surrender as empowerment, not loss of control.
You Are Welcome Here
You are welcome if you are nervous.
You are welcome if you have never had an orgasm.
You are welcome if you are shy, bold, curious, uncertain, confident, private, expressive, spiritual, analytical, or somewhere in between.
You are welcome here if you are simply just sexually frustrated
This is your body.
Your pleasure.
Your time.
You deserve to feel this alive.
All Ages – All Physiques – All Women
Are you having difficulty achieving orgasm?
If you are having difficulty reaching orgasm either when you are with another person or have never reached orgasm, Read this
How to book your appointment
There are several ways to book your appointment.
Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.
1) select treatment
2) select women’s two hands
3) select the massage you want
4) press next and view calander
5) if you want to go ahead and book select your date and time
6)i if you have been to see me before log in or add your details
7) you will receive an email and or text confirmation that your booking is being held provisionally ( until I confirm this back to you )
Phone – For those wanting confidentiality, you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin, and he will book for you.
Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696
Enquire – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here
Live chat with Colin online or leave a message
Ways to pay
Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.
Pay by barter
In certain circumstances, I can offer an exchange ( barter ). Your skills in exchange for sensual massage see here.
Students discount
I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time. Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.
Those with low income
I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.
Terms of cancelation of your appointment
You can cancel your appointment at any time up to 24 hours before there is no cost and any payment made can be refunded or transferred to another booking.
If you cancel within 24 hours, you have the choice to rebook for another time and date and book a new appointment to be taken within 6 months or lose any deposit or advanced payment paid.
If you cancel on the day off your appointment or you are a NO SHOW, you are expected to pay 100% of the fee. Repeat cancellations will be required to pay the full fee in advance.
The above cancellation terms do not apply to any special offers which will have thier own specific cancelation terms.
Consent Authorisation & Request Forms
Absolute Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This form can be completed without booking an appointment, as it allows you to see what elements can be included in this most erotic massage. Once I have received the completed form, I will design the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries.
Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form
Upon arrival, you will be offered water, tea, coffee or a glass of wine. The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions you may have and confirmation that there are no changes to your Authorisation & Request Form. I will ask you to read and sign the Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form. After the treatment is completed and before you leave, provided you are satisfied with the treatment, I will ask you to re-sign this form confirming your satisfaction with the services given.
Women Only Telegram Chat Group
Ask past clients questions at the Intimacy Matters Review Chat Group
Many women express interest in exploring sensual massage but often hesitate due to concerns about safety, discretion, entitlement, and whether it’s the right choice for them. These concerns can lead to delays in taking the plunge—sometimes for weeks, months, or even years.
Understanding these apprehensions, I have created a dedicated Telegram chat group called IM Review Group For Women Only. This group is a safe space where past female clients who have experienced sensual massage are available to answer any questions you might have. These women have volunteered to share their thoughts, feelings, and personal experiences with sensual massage, offering you insights into how it has positively impacted their lives.
This community is here to provide support, reassurance, and honest feedback, helping you make an informed decision with confidence and peace of mind.
How to join
- If you don’t have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer – https://telegram.org
- Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women
- Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
- If you require a private chat, please request a DM conversation.
- You can use a false name, and you don’t need to give any personal details you don’t want to
- Please include a small profile image to verify your identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
- If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send a photo by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.
Motivation in depth – how many can you relate to?
Below are example reasons women have given for choosing to take The Absolute Premium Sensual Massage
The motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration is often multi-faceted. Here are some reasons past female clients have shared when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage:
- For women who regularly enjoy professional massages but also seek intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper, primal, and sensual aspects of themselves.
- For women who desire the firm yet tender touch of a man without the pressure to perform or reciprocate sexually.
- Curiosity about ejaculation: Some women have always wanted to explore whether they can experience ejaculation and see this massage as a safe way to do so.
- To explore specific aspects of erotic arousal that they feel unable to explore with their current or potential new partner.
- For women who know that arousal and orgasm can be achieved through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse and want to experience this fully.
- To compensate for a lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life, Some women seek an intimate experience that fulfils their needs outside of their usual sexual routine.
- For women facing issues such as loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity, or sexual inexperience, this massage provides a therapeutic and explorative space to address these concerns.
- Single women who are content without a relationship but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship typically offers.
- For women who believe in experiencing arousal and orgasm without the commitments and responsibilities that come with a relationship.
- For those in marriages or partnerships where intimacy has declined, The massage offers discreet, safe, and professional intimate attention without challenging their existing relationship. This is particularly relevant for women from cultural backgrounds where exploring sexuality is discouraged.
- For inexperienced women who want to discover new sensations and explore new dimensions of erotic arousal.
- Older women experience a surge in libido that their partner or current situation cannot satisfy.
- For mature women who remain very sexual but prefer to explore their desires discreetly in a safe, professional environment without impacting their personal lives.
These motivations highlight the diverse and personal reasons women choose the Absolute Sensual Massage, each seeking to fulfil a unique aspect of their sensual and sexual journey.
This Massage may not be suitable for:
- Women who experience high anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy.
- Those who are sexually inexperienced may not be ready for this level of exploration.
- Women who are excessively overweight may find the physical demands of the massage challenging.
Products Used During the Massage
The massage is performed using grapeseed massage oil, known for its light, non-greasy texture that nourishes the skin. For any genital stimulation, I use a water-based lubricant to ensure comfort and ease. If you prefer not to use these products, please inform me in advance, and you are welcome to bring along any alternatives you choose.
Confidentiality
The Absolute Premium Sensual Massage For Women
A description
Preparation
The Absolute Massage is a 105-minute experience designed to meet your unique needs and preferences. By completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, you can create the massage content and set clear boundaries. This form allows you to:
- Specify the type of touch: Indicate the kind of touch you wish to enjoy, whether it’s gentle, firm, or a combination of both.
- Define the level of erotic arousal: You can express the intensity and type of erotic stimulation you are interested in exploring, from subtle arousal to more direct and bold techniques.
- Set boundaries: Clearly outline any limits you do not want crossed during the massage. This ensures that the experience remains entirely within your comfort zone.
Completing this form allows me to create an experience that aligns with your expectations, helping you feel secure, respected, and entirely in control. Whether you’re curious about what the Absolute Massage can offer or are ready to book an appointment, reviewing and completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form is a valuable first step in your journey.
This preparation process not only outlines the possible elements and phases of the Absolute Massage but also ensures your desires and limits are fully understood and respected, making your experience as personalised and fulfilling as possible.
A Journey in Five Phases
The Absolute Sensual Massage is a deeply personalised experience designed to meet your desires, responses, and boundaries. The massage unfolds in five phases, each tailored to your unique journey of sensual exploration:
- Overture – Gentle Introduction
- A soft and calming beginning, setting the stage for more profound relaxation and connection.
- Revelation – Therapeutic Release with Teasing Touch
- A traditional therapeutic massage focusing on relieving tension and stress while introducing teasing touches near intimate areas to instigate arousal gently.
- Seduction – Intensified Stimulation
- The massage continues with a more direct, stimulating touch, including the option for clitoral stimulation, deepening your arousal and connection to your sensuality.
- Abandonment – Focused Erotic Stimulation
- At this stage, the focus shifts to providing direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, and more assertive techniques aimed at awakening your primal sexuality.
- Reprise or Resolution – Your Choice
- You decide when and how the massage concludes, ensuring that your experience ends on your terms.
At the beginning
Your appointment begins with a brief, friendly chat to address any final questions or concerns you might have. To help you relax, you can choose to enjoy a glass of wine, water, tea, or coffee. Once you feel comfortable and ready, I will guide you to the treatment room.
If you haven’t already done so within an hour before the massage, I will kindly ask you to take a shower. This is a vital step to ensure you feel fresh and relaxed before the session begins. After your shower, you’ll prepare by lying face down on the massage table. Typically, I will leave the room at this time to give you privacy as you get ready. Once you’re settled, I will return and cover you with a large towel for comfort.
Before the massage begins, I’ll take a few moments to explain how the session will unfold, how you can communicate with me during the massage, and what to expect as the massage concludes. This ensures you feel fully informed and comfortable as we proceed.
Phase 1 – The Overture
The therapeutic relaxing phase
The Overture is the beginning of your Absolute Sensual Massage experience, designed to ease you into relaxation and comfort gently. This phase follows the principles of a traditional therapeutic massage, focusing on relaxing your body, relieving any tension or muscle strain, and preparing your mind and body to feel safe, secure, and open to the experience.
The Overture begins with a soothing head or foot massage to awaken your senses and bring your attention to the present moment. Following this, I use light, gentle touches across your whole body to further enliven your senses and help you begin to unwind.
Next, I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, and buttocks, and then spend a full 25 minutes giving you a gentle yet confident massage. The focus here is on working out any knots or tension, encouraging your body to release stress and fully relax. You are welcome to guide me on the pressure you prefer, whether firmer or lighter, to ensure your comfort and satisfaction.
Throughout the Overture, I remain dressed, allowing you to gradually ease into the experience while maintaining a sense of safety and trust. This phase focuses on establishing a foundation of relaxation and peace, setting the stage for the more sensual elements of the massage that follow.
Phase 2 Revelation
Awakening your body and sensuality
As you begin to relax deeply and your body responds to the therapeutic touch, the massage gradually transitions into a more subtly arousing experience. In this phase, my hands will start to explore more intimate areas of your body, teasing and caressing with intention. I focus on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back, all areas that hold tension and respond well to gentle, stimulating touch.
As your arousal begins to build—indicated by your movements, sounds, or natural lubrication—I will introduce light clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage. This touch is designed to encourage deeper exploration, creating a sense of anticipation gently. During this phase, I can remain dressed or undressed, depending on your preference and comfort level.
Phase 3 – The Seduction
Deepening the connection and teasing arousal
As your arousal heightens, the massage progresses into the Seduction phase, where erotic exploration takes centre stage. The essence of this phase is to help you feel entirely open to manual stimulation, allowing you to connect with your deepest, primal female energies. This is a time for you to fully immerse yourself in the experience, free from judgment or expectation.
You are invited to express yourself in whatever way feels natural—whether through movement, sound, or simply by surrendering to the sensations. My touch follows the guidelines you provided in the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, but I am also attuned to any changes you wish to make during the session as you become more at ease.
Phases 4 & 5 four may include the following erotic elements
This can be tailored to your specific preferences by completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form before the massage.
- Gentle, sensual touch across the whole body.
- Firm muscle work for deep relaxation.
- Assertive but caring control, tailored to your comfort.
- Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris.
- Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-spot.
- Optional oral stimulation, whether receiving or giving.
- Optional external and internal anal stimulation.
- Probable multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.
- Spanking and light impact play.
- Optional reciprocal touch allows you to arouse the massage therapist while receiving.
- Special requests are considered, including fantasies, domination, and toys.
Learn more about the phases 4 & 5
To discover more about phases 4 & 5 of the Absolute Premium Massage, please register for access to the private age-restricted area of the website at Intimacy X.
Once registered, you’ll gain access to the full, uncensored descriptions and videos of this and other sensual massages available.
Alternatively, you can contact me directly via email at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk or text or WhatsApp me at 07966 522 696 to request a link to a page where you can view further details.
- Phase 4 – Abandonment
- Phase 5 – Reprise or Resolution
For FAQs [Click here]
My location
My Treatment Room is located in Sloane Square Chelsea, Central London SW1X – Click here
My private treatment venue is in a small gated courtyard moments from Sloane Square and the King’s Road. It has a stylish open-plan design created for the trendy Kings Road artists and musicians of the late 1960s. The treatment room is very private and quiet, with a modern walk-in shower. Towels, robes and a hairdryer are provided.
The Absolute Premium massage, as featured in the media
Colin and The Absolute Massage were featured in 2018 and 2019 in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business’ and have also been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmo’s All The Way Podcasts, The BBC, Metro, The Independent and several other national media outlets. Popular with women of all ages, it was also trialled by Rebecca Dakin, ‘The Great British Sexpert, ’ as seen in the video below. A client of Colin’s, Cee Cee, talked to Cosmopolitan’s Pasley Gilmore in her podcast about how the Absolute Massage changed her life. About Colin ( your masseur )
About Colin (your masseur)
As a Sex and Relationship Engineer and Master Sensual Masseur, my work is rooted in a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy. I see myself not just as a practitioner but as a sex educator and problem solver, dedicated to helping individuals and couples transform their relationships and sex lives into something truly fulfilling and deserving. Since 2005, I have been fully immersed in this field, developing and employing a range of unconventional methods that address the unique challenges people face in their intimate lives.
My work combines deep knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with hands-on experience as a sensual masseur, enabling me to address both the emotional and sexual aspects of my clients’ needs. I work with single women, men, and couples of all ages and orientations, tackling a variety of issues. Some of the more frequent challenges I help people with include:
- Relationship conflict and finding the right partner
- Reawakening one’s sex life and overcoming sexual frustration
- Addressing lack of sexual experience and performance challenges, such as the inability to orgasm or erectile issues
- Managing fear of sex and sexual complacency in long-term relationships
- Addressing libido issues, particularly for women experiencing fluctuating or low libido
Since founding Intimacy Matters in 2012, I have helped over 6,000 people navigate various aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach is best described as humanistic, considering the biological, psychological, social, anthropological, and erotic influences that shape our sensual desires, curiosities, and fears. I work inclusively with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, always aiming to create a space where they can explore and resolve their deepest intimate challenges. Read More
