The Intimacy Massage
£180
10% off if you are a verified member of Sensual Connect
For the women who prefer to take a gentle step into their first sensual massage experience
Choosing the Right Massage for You
If you’re new to exploring your sensuality, it’s important to take your time and choose a massage that feels right for where you are in your journey. Many women have fantasies or expectations about what a sensual massage might be like—but reality can feel quite different, especially when you’re opening up in new and vulnerable ways. That’s why I encourage you to reflect on what you hope to experience—whether it’s gentle connection, erotic awakening, or deep release—and select a massage that suits those needs.
I offer three distinct experiences:
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The Intimacy Massage – a lighter, nurturing touch perfect for easing into the experience
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The Exploration Massage – ideal for those ready to awaken their sensual energy
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The Absolute Massage – the most intense and immersive option for those wanting a fully erotic experience
If you’re unsure which to choose, I invite you to book a free 15-minute phone consultation or send a message to talk it through. I’m happy to listen and guide you.
I welcome female clients of all ages—from 21 to 75—and of all body types and ethnicities. If you’re under 21, I will require age verification, and I do not see anyone under 18. Please note that, for women who are significantly plus-sized, certain elements of the massage may need to be adapted to ensure comfort and effectiveness.
This is your journey. I’m here to support it—at your pace, and always with respect.
Ask past clients questions at the Intimacy Matters Review – Women Only Telegram Chat Group.
Understandably, some women might have concerns when considering taking a sensual massage, especially regarding safety, discretion, and the overall appropriateness of the experience. These are very personal and sensitive issues, and it’s natural for potential clients to take time to reflect before making a decision. To address these concerns and provide a supportive environment, you’ve created a Telegram chat group called IM Review Group For Women Only.
This group is exclusively for women and is composed of past female clients who have experienced the Intimacy Massage or similar services. These women have volunteered to share their experiences, answer any questions, and offer insights into how sensual massage has impacted their lives. The group provides a safe, discreet space where women can openly discuss their thoughts and concerns without judgment. By connecting with others who have already taken this step, potential clients can gain a better understanding of what to expect, helping them feel more comfortable and confident in their decision to explore this type of massage.
How to join
- If you don’t have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer – https://telegram.org
- Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women
- Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
- If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
- You can use a false name, and you don’t need to give any personal details you don’t want to
- Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
- If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.
The Intimacy Massage in Detail
Cost – £175
Duration of massage – 60 minutes
Duration of appointment – 90 minutes
Massage Overview: The Intimacy Massage is tailored to your comfort level, allowing you to be either partially or fully nude, while I remain clothed (topless during the massage). The session focuses entirely on your experience, offering surface-level touch that includes the option for clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage. Importantly, there is no internal penetration involved. Before your session, you’ll complete an Intimacy Massage Consent Authorization & Request Form, where you can specify your preferences regarding the style, dynamic, and sensual elements you wish to include.
On Arrival: We’ll start with a brief chat to address any final questions. You’ll then be shown to the treatment room, where you can shower and prepare in privacy. Once you’re ready and on the massage table, I’ll return to explain how the session will progress and how we can maintain communication during the massage to enhance your comfort and experience.
This massage is about creating a safe, respectful, and deeply enjoyable experience, allowing you to explore your sensuality at your own pace. Your comfort and satisfaction are my top priorities, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
The Four Phases of the Massage:
- The Therapeutic Relaxing Phase (15 minutes):
This phase begins with gentle breathing and relaxation techniques, followed by a soothing massage of your back, shoulders, and buttocks. Warm oil is applied to help ease tension and prepare your body for deeper relaxation. - The Sensual Touch Phase (15 minutes):
As you become more relaxed, the massage will subtly transition into a more sensual experience, exploring areas like the inner thighs and groin to gently encourage arousal. This phase is balanced with continued attention to your thighs, buttocks, and lower back to maintain a firm yet sensual touch. - The Sensual Stimulation Phase (15 minutes):
In this phase, I focus on clitoral stimulation using either a light or firmer touch, depending on your preference. External vaginal massage may also be included, all guided by your comfort and feedback. - Fulfilment & Completion (15 minutes):
After turning you onto your back, the massage continues with attention to your legs, neck, and breasts. If desired, further clitoral and external vaginal massage can be offered, with the option of using vibrators or toys. The aim is to create a fulfilling experience that could lead to orgasm, but this is entirely up to you. The session concludes with a calming head or foot massage.
Booking and Enquiry: If you’re interested or have any questions, you can easily reach out via email, text, or phone. Once you’re ready to book, you can share your preferred dates and times, and I will confirm availability. I recommend giving at least 24 hours notice, but same-day appointments may also be possible. Payment is only made after your session is completed, ensuring you feel fully satisfied with your experience.
Client Agreement & Satisfaction: As a new client, you’ll be asked to complete a Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form both before and after your session. This ensures that all your needs are met and that you feel comfortable throughout the entire process.
Make an enquiry – Click here
Book your appointment
Online – Click on the button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.
Phone – For those wanting confidentiality, you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin, and he will book for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696
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Payment
Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.
For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail
Pay by Barter
In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.
Students discount
I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time. Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.
Those with low income
I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.
Terms of cancelation of your appointment
You can cancel your appointment at any time up to 24 hours before there is no cost and any payment made can be refunded or transferred to another booking.
If you cancel within 24 hours, you have the choice to rebook for another time and date and book a new appointment to be taken within 6 months or lose any deposit or advanced payment paid.
If you cancel on the day off your appointment or you are a NO SHOW, you are expected to pay 100% of the fee. Repeat cancellations will be required to pay the full fee in advance.
The above cancellation terms do not apply to any special offers which will have thier own specific cancelation terms.
About Colin
I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives into what they want and deserve. Working full-time in this field since 2005, I have discovered and used various approaches not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their lives. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur, I can work with both the emotional and sexual.
I work with women, of any physique and body size, age and orientation. To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with, they include relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012, and since then, I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic. I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men, women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More
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Motivation & benefits of taking a sensual massage
You are not alone. Here are some reasons women give for taking an Intimacy massage.
Often, the motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration can be multi-faceted. Below is a selection of motivations past female clients gave me when booking a Sensual Massage for the first time.
- For women who enjoy regular massage and have their muscles worked professionally but also want to experience intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper primal, sensual part of themselves.
- For women who want to enjoy a man’s firm yet tender touch without the need to perform or give back sexually.
- For women who know that arousal and ultimate orgasm can also be enjoyed through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse.
- For women who want an intimate experience to compensate for lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life.
- For women with issues around loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity and sexual inexperience.
- Single women who are happy not to be in a relationship and whose sex lives are good but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings.
- For women who believe it is right to experience arousal and orgasm without commitment and responsibilities of a relationship.
- Women in a marriage/ partnership where most else is good but the sex and intimacy have declined need to receive intimate personal attention within a discreet, safe, professional environment that does not challenge their current situation. (This is particularly relevant to women from backgrounds where their culture dissuades them from exploring their sexuality and sensual needs for fear of being judged.)
- For the inexperienced woman who wants to learn from an experienced older man to discover new sensations of arousal and explore new erotic sensations..
- For older women who have found their libido going “through the roof” but that their partner or current situation can not provide for it.
- For mature women who are still very sexual but want to explore this discreetly in a safe, professional environment without wanting to have it intrude on their personal lives.
Click Here to Read The Feedback & Testimonials from previous female clients.
Request a 15-minute FREE Call.
It can be lonely and frustrating when you cannot share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship. For some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Female clients often tell me it took them months, even years, to finally decide to book a session and often afterwards say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are too nervous about booking an entire appointment and want to know more details before committing to anything. If this is the case, send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.
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Questions & Answers
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Frequently asked questions
You will have many questions before deciding which massage you want to book. Please click this link to read the answers to most of my questions. If I do not cover your particular question, then please do not hesitate to email me.
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Terms & Conditions
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or massage classes involving nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here
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