The Women’s Intimacy Massage


For the women who wants to take a gentle step into their first sensual massage experience

Embarking on a journey of sexual self discovery should be taken with planned consideration and understanding of motivation. For those just starting on this adventure, for the benefit of both them and the therapist, a stage by stage journey of exploration is recommended.

What one might imagine may not be the reality so I ask all women embarking on this to consider carefully before booking which sensual massage they feel is right for them and their situation. I am always available to discuss this in a FREE 15 minute phone call or text.

If you are completely new to sensual massage then I recommend you start your sensual journey of discovery with either the Intimacy massage or the Exploration massage. The more intense Absolute massage is usually given after a new client has experienced either of these two treatments first.

However if you feel you are a sexually confident and experienced woman and happy to explore more intense arousal, then following a brief phone consultation to hear your motivation and for me to clarify content I may be happy to give the Absolute massage as your first experience at Intimacy Matters.

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All the 2 hands massages available

Light arousal – The Intimacy Massage

The Intimacy massage is 60 minute in duration and is primarily a therapeutic massage that covers the whole body but also encourages sensual arousal and can include clitoral stimulation which may result in orgasm. This is the lightest intimate massage that I offer. Click here to read more

Deeper arousal – The Exploration Massage

The Exploration Massage is a 90 minute sensual massage and is a combination of therapeutic massage, sensual and erotic arousal. Dependent on your desires it can include clitoral stimulation, external vaginal massage and optional internal vaginal massage, G spot stimulation, but excludes many of the more erotic elemis given within the Absolute massage.  Scroll down to read more.

Intense arousal – The Absolute Massage

For new clients who are less experienced in sensual massage,  I recommend that The Absolute Massage to be taken as stage two, after you have experienced either the Intimacy or Exploration massage. However for experienced sexually confident women, following a phone consultation to hear your motivation and for me to clarify the content of the massage, I am happy to give this as the first experience.

The Absolute massage be taken as either the premium 105 minute massage or the 75 minute superior. This massage is tailor made to your specific desires and can include many different and exciting types of erotic arousal. Click here to read more

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

As a new client before taking any massage from Colin you will be required on arrival to complete a Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form.

Authorisation & Request Form

This is a form that you are required to complete prior to arriving for your Exploration massage. It enable you to set limits and boundaries as well as request certain elements of erotic arousal

Exploration Authorisation & Request Form.

About Colin (your masseur)

I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives to become what they want and deserve. Working full time in this field since 2005 I have discovered and used various different approaches that are not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur I am able to work with both the emotional and sexual.

I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012 and since then I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic in that I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More

The Intimacy Massage Explained

Cost – £135

Duration of massage – 60 minutes 

Duration of appointment – 90 minutes

Pleasurable and healthy but remains lighter in erotic arousal. 

Embarking on a journey of sexual self discovery should be taken with planned consideration and understanding of motivation. If you are someone who is feels sexual inexperienced or has feelings of anxiety when in a sexual situation then I recommend you first take the Intimacy massage.

For your benefit

Coming for the Intimacy Massage enables you to meet me and discuss your motivation and take a graduated approach on your sensual journey.   The massage itself follows a traditional therapeutic massage style but covers the whole body and is intended to arouse you to possible orgasm. You can choose to be partially naked or fully naked but I remain dressed ( I am topless during the massage ) the focus is completely on you. The touch remains surface of body only and can include clitoral stimulation but does not include any type of penetration. Before taking this introduction massage you will be asked to complete the Intimacy Massage Authorisation & Request Form when you can itemise the style, dynamic and arousing elements you want included.

Description of the 60 minute Intimacy Massage

  • Massage duration 60 minutes
  • Actual appointment duration of 90 minutes

A full body sensual massage that incorporates hand stimulation of the breasts and clitoris but excludes internal vaginal or anal stimulation. This massage is ideal for women who want to explore intimate touch but prefer to keep the experience to surface arousal only. It usually includes nipple and clitoral stimulation but this can be omitted if preferred.

There are four phases

  • The Therapeutic Relaxing Phase (15 min)
  • The Sensual Touch Phase (15 min)
  • The Sensual Stimulation Phase (15 min)
  • Fulfilment & Completion (15 min)

Enquiry & Booking

You can email, text or call me to ask any questions about the massage before deciding to book your appointment. Once you have decided to make an appointment you can let me know your preferred dates and times for the massage. Ideally 24 hours notice is good but i can something make same day appointment. there is no limit as to how far in advance you book. I will then confirm back to you that i can take the booking and send you the respective Authorisation & Request Form for you to complete. Once I have received this I send you the full address. At this point you will be required to provide your debit or credit card details to secure the booking. Payment is only taken after your appointment is completed.

On arrival
We begin by giving having a brief chat to answer any final questions you may have. I then take you to the treatment room and offer you the option to take a shower and get ready on the massage table. I leave the room at this point to let you prepare yourself privately. Once showered you will lay on the massage table face down, You can keep under wear on or be naked and pull a large towel over your self and then I will return to the room. I then take a few more minutes to explain how the message will progress and how you can communicate with me during the massage without interrupting the experience.

The therapeutic relaxing phase
The therapeutic relaxing phase follows the line of a traditional massage and is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles heighten the senses to ultimately put your mind and body into a state of trust and safety.  The massage starts with a few breathing and relaxation techniques. Warm oil is then applied to your back, shoulders, and buttocks and all are given a full 15-minute gentle but firm massage, working out any knots or tension and encouraging your body to let go.

The sensual touch phase
As you relax and your body responds the massage will subtly become more arousing and my hands will begin to explore the inner thighs, groin and outer areas of the vagina with the intention to promote arousal. To keep the balance of firm but sensual touch I will at the same time be working on your thighs, buttocks, calves and lower back . As your arousal increases and with indications of your enjoyment (movement and sound) I will explore and stimulate more. At this 30 minute point I will check that you are comfortable and want me to continue to the Stimulation phase

The stimulation phase

Still facing down on the massage couch I will begin to give clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage that may bring on orgasm. This will be given in various ways, from underneath, from the side and from behind. Each angle promoting a different sensation.

Fulfilment & completion phase

I will ask you to turn over. I will cover you with a towel again and the massage continues with the gentle massage of the feet and ankles, front of legs and upper thighs and intimate areas around the groin maintaining intermittent clitoral stimulation. The massage then oscillates between massage of the hands, arms, neck, shoulders and stimulation of the breasts and nipples preparing you for the final climactic phase of the massage. The goal of this final part of the massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the clitoral and external vaginal area.  Lying comfortably on your back with your legs gently apart I begin with the gentle stroking of the outer lips of the vagina around the inner thighs. As arousal becomes more intense the clitoris is carefully stimulated circling clockwise and anticlockwise whilst attention is still given to the peripheral areas around the vagina. There is no internal stimulation but at your request, I can use vibrators or other stimulators.

The last few minutes of the massage includes a gentle head and foot massage. I will then leave the room for you to rest for a few minutes and then take a shower before getting dressed.

Make a Booking or Enquiry

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Motivation & benefits of taking a sensual massage

You are not alone. Here are just some of the reasons women give for taking an Intimacy massage?

Often the motivation to embarking on a journey of sensual and sexual self exploration can be multi faceted. Below is a selection of motivations that past female clients have given me when booking a Sensual Massage for the first time.

  • For women who enjoy regular massage and to have their muscles worked professionally but who also want to experience intimate arousing touch in order to connect with the deeper primal sensual part of themselves.
  • For women who want to enjoy the firm yet tender touch of a man without the need to perform or give back sexually.
  • For women who know that arousal and ultimate orgasm can also be enjoyed through gentle prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse.
  • For women who want an intimate experience to compensate for a lack of satisfaction in their day to day sex life.
  • For women who have issues around loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity and sexual inexperience.
  • Single women, who are happy to not be in a relationship and whose sex lives are good but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings.
  • For women who believe that it is right to be able to experience arousal and orgasm without commitment and responsibilities of a relationship.
  • Women in a marriage/ partnership where most else is good but the sex and intimacy has declined, but they need to receive intimate attention within a discreet, safe professional environment that does not challenge their current situation. (This is particularly relevant to women from backgrounds where their culture dissuades them from exploring their sexuality and sensual needs for fear of being judged)
  • For the inexperienced woman who wants to learn from an experienced older man to discover new sensations of arousal and to explore new erotic sensations..
  • For older women who have found their libido going “through the roof” but that their partner or current situation can not provide for it.
  • For mature women who are still very sexual but want to explore this discreetly in a safe, professional environment without wanting to have it intrude on their personal lives.

Click Here to Read The Feedback & Testimonials from previous female clients

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Request 15-minute FREE Call

It can be lonely and frustrating when you feel unable to share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship and for some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Quite often female clients tell me it took them months even years to finally decide to book a session and often afterwards say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are just too nervous to book a full appointment and want to know more details before you commit to anything. If this is the case just send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.

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Questions & Answers

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Frequently asked questions

I am sure before you decide on which massage you want to book you will have many questions. Please click this link to read the answers to most of the questions I get asked. If I do not cover your particular question then please do not hesitate to email me.

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Terms & Conditions 

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here