IMG_1206Mentoring: a more collaborative kind of therapy

As well as having 12 years’ experience as a professional sensual masseur, I am also a diploma-trained psychosexual and relationship therapist, and an Imago Relationships Educator. I also have experience in NLP, Hypnotherapy and attained Level 2 in Co-Active Life Coaching. These qualifications, combined with my natural skills as a non-judgemental communicator and listener, means I can offer clients a safe place and a professional and down-to-earth approach to any sex or relationship issue. I see men and women, individually and as couples, including those in the midst of a life transition.

I prefer to identify the support I give clients as a form of mentoring rather than therapy or counselling since the latter two words can imply something has to be wrong to seek help and advice. Often I see clients who just want to get better at sex and at relationships. Often they are quite happy with where they are but feel that things could be better. Of course, I do also see people who have a situation or challenge they want to overcome or feelings they want to change, but in all cases my style is a more collaborative approach than traditional psychosexual therapy. After hearing you explain the need or problem, I first help explain to you why you feel the way you do, and to understand more clearly what is influencing your behaviour or fear. I then offer advice and strategies that can help you overcome these issues. Sometimes this is just with mentoring but often it can incorporate various forms of sensual bodywork – an intimate consultation that I call the psychosensual treatment.

Mentoring sessions can be taken on an hourly or two-hourly basis, as a single one-off appointment or as a series of six. I’m happy to meet clients face to face or, if this isn’t possible, via telephone or Skype.

If you are going through a particularly stressful time or have a particular situation for which you want some “on the spot” support I also offer a telephone mentoring option.

Situations and issues where mentoring can help

  • Sexual performance: erection issues, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, fear of intimacy, sexual timidity.
  • What I have always wanted to ask but haven’t … better sexual knowledge.
  • Understanding my sexuality better – for example, married or straight but bi-curious.
  • Sexual and emotional exploration for couples: we want to have better a sex life.
  • Relationship breakdown: life after separation, divorce or affairs.
  • New relationships – getting it right this time: why do I always seem to go for the same type?
  • Old relationship, new spark: relighting the fire with a new perspective on your sensual and sexual relationship.
  • Three in a bed: can sexual adventures help our relationship?
  • Open relationships: don’t ask, don’t tell or open disclosure?
  • Relationship communication: how to say what I want sexually and emotionally.
  • Cross-nationality and cross-cultural relationships: better awareness of language and attitudes.
  • Sexuality and same-sex attraction: who am I sexually and how can I be the real me without destroying what I have already?

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Sex Mentoring for Men

Sex Mentoring for Women

Sex Mentoring for Couples

Mentoring appointment options and fees for singles.

Introductory 15 minute FREE Call

If you are not sure how or if I can help you or maybe you are just too nervous to book a full appointment, then just send me a text and ask if you can have a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. In that time you can ask the question or explain the issue and I can let you know if I think I can help. It can be lonely being unable to share your thoughts so whether you are a man, a woman or a couple, and you are either straight, gay, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, just send me a text to arrange a short FREE chat. 07966 522 696.

Introductory Fact-Finding Face to Face Session £95

(60 min)

This is a 60-minute preliminary session. It enables me to get a deeper understanding of your particular situation and needs as well as your desire for how you want your life to change or improve. This session allows you time to check me out and see if we “fit”. At the end of this fact-finding session, you can choose to continue mentoring on one of the options below.

Ongoing face-to-face mentoring on a pay-as-you-go basis

  • 60-minute session: £115
  • 120-minute session: £175

Series of six face-to-face appointments

There is a 15% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments are completed within six months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the six months.

  • Six 60-minute sessions: £600
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £900

 Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring on a pay-as-you-go basis

(ideal for international clients)

  • 60-minute session: £85
  • 120-minute session: £145

Series of six Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring

There is a 15% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments are completed within six months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the six months.

  • Six 60-minute sessions: £500
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £750

Ongoing on the spot telephone support

Available on a daily, weekly or monthly pre-booked basis

  • A 15-minute chat: £25
  • A 30 minute chat: £50

Booking an appointment

To make an enquiry or to book [click here]

Or call Colin on 07966 522 696.


For couples attending or taking a Skype session together, please add 33% to fees above.