Intimacy Matters

Colin J de C Richards

Sex Engineer & Relationship Therapist

For Men, Women & Couples

London & International

Private & Group Workshops for Men, Women and Couples

Discuss, understand and improve your
sexual and relationship dynamics

Experience the health and well-being benefits of foreplay and intimate touch

Meet like-minded people at group events

Treatment Rooms in London & Brighton

International Clients by Skype or Special Appointment

Colin Richards has been featured in the following publications:

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Colin Richards – Sex & Intimacy Engineer & Relationship Therapist

Colin has been helping women, men and couples in areas of sexual fulfilment, performance and relationships since 2008. Located in Battersea, Central London, Colin works with people of all ages, nationalities, ethnicities and body types. Some are single by choice, some are reluctantly single, and some are partnered in loving yet sexually unfulfilling relationships. Some are in relationships where the sex has become routine and predictable, others are in good relationships but want to expand their sexual relationship. Colin is regularly featured in the national media. Read more about Colin and his services. – click HERE.

What is Sensual Massage?

A sensual massage is given with a genuine sense of care and intimacy – incorporating relaxation, pleasure and arousal of the body. It combines traditional therapeutic massage with intended sensual arousal and erotic stimulation. Receiving a sensual massage produces immediate physical and emotional benefits. When we are touched and particularly when receiving sensual, arousing touch, remarkable things happen to our bodies. Doctors and scientific researchers are increasingly discovering the fantastic effectiveness to health and well-being that regular sexual arousal produces. Here are some facts.  Read more – click HERE.

Intimacy Matters Introduction Video

This video is an example of the treatments that Colin gives. To gain access to more detailed descriptions and videos of the treatments register with Intimacy X and you will be sent a password to access the private area.

Psychosensual Treatment for help with sexual insecurities

Fulfilling sensual and sexual intimacy is an entitlement of every human being. Colin’s unique Psychosensual Treatment combines counselling with intimate bodywork. This dual strategy explores the psychological origins of the issue then with a better understanding of the past hindering dynamics new psychological and physiological behaviours are practised within the bodywork that follows. The Psychosensual treatment helps alleviate sexual fears, past traumas, and insecurities to improve confidence, intimate connection and satisfaction. . Read MORE

Sensual Massage Boutique Workshops

The Boutique Workshop is a smaller intimate workshop for 2 to 6 persons. Hosted personally by Colin in his private penthouse apartment in Battersea. These workshops are designed to be informative, experiential and fun with the fewer numbers allowing for more in-depth teaching and practice. Boutique workshops are; Massage My Man for women, Licensed to Thrill for men and, Touch & Turn On for Bi & Gay men

More information about the Boutique Workshops – Click HERE

Request 15 minute FREE call

It can be lonely and frustrating when you feel unable to share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship and for some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me to explore these feelings and needs.  Quite often female clients tell me that they have taken months even years to finally decide to book a session and often after say they wished they had not waited so long.  But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple. Read More

40% Discount & 12 month Payment Plan for Regular Treatments

To help clients enjoy regular ‘me time’ I offer a yearly payment plan that offers either 12, 15 or 20 hours of massage or workshops at a discount rate paid over 12 months. Limited places. For more details click HERE

Talks & Events

Forthcoming Funzing Talks hosted by Colin 

Click on the links below for more details

The Importance of  Intimacy & Foreplay 

Monday 15th October, venue – Beach Blanket Babylon Shoreditch London E1 6LA

Psychology of Attraction

Thursday 1st November – venue, The Chris Bryant Centre – YMCA Birmingham

Psychology of Fetish & Kink

Tuesday 13th November – venue Loco Club – Bristol BS1 6QH

Colin’s 3 Sex Tips

Intimacy X is the private area of Intimacy Matters.

Join Intimacy X to:

  • View a video of Colin’s 3 instant Sex Tips
  • Read the full descriptions of the various treatments
  • Watch video demonstrations of some of the treatments

Click HERE to join Intimacy X

Tania - Psychosensual, July 2018

I went to see Colin for a 3-hour psychosensual treatment, with a pretty clear idea of what I wanted to work on. What drew me to his particular approach was the quite unique combination of psychological mentoring and physical/sensual touch. I wanted to spend some time exploring my difficulty and vulnerability around receiving pleasure from a man. I had an idea of where it came from but had never really had an opportunity to look at it with a qualified experienced professional.

I appreciated Colin’s warmth, kindness, care, openness and genuine curiosity – all of which helped me to relax and feel safe. The pre-session authorisation form also felt to me like an indispensable part of the process; it felt both reassuring and liberating to be able to communicate my boundaries and preferences in this way. Last but not least – I thoroughly enjoyed the sensual massage. Colin is very skilled in what he does and I felt I was being introduced to an expanded repertoire of types of touch, stimulation and pleasure! I will definitely be going back for another session.

Che - Absolute Massage, April 2018

I told Colin it has been over two years since I have been sexually charged and active. He was beyond professional and extremely caring and built trust and rapport very quickly. He understood my experiences and took a moment to look and speak with me. I never imagined having such an experience, as a Nigerian woman in my early twenties I needed to learn a lot about my body and my carnal instincts and Colin helped me accomplish that. He was extremely thorough and focused on my body and my pleasure. He spent some time educating me on the various historical contexts that shape how women behave sexually and most importantly how women respond to sexual exploration and enjoyment. He delved further into my career and social circles and helped me notice patterns and trends that have an impact on my sexual health. He not only made this a very pleasurable experience but also focused on the therapeutic aspect of our session. Words cannot describe how satisfied I was with this appointment, I strongly encourage any woman that is embarking on a path of self-discovery or simply in need of pleasure with an educational foundation to support the experience. I am travelling back but will come and visit Colin again as soon as I am in London.

Emma - Absolute Massage, August 2017

I fully appreciated the time you took to find out the history and reasons why l might have had problems achieving orgasms. It was an eye-opener and I was impressed with your subject knowledge. Although l was nervous to begin with the glass of wine helped! I knew l could totally trust you and knew that l was in your expert hands. I was blown away by the whole experience and for me the icing on the cake was achieving that elusive orgasm! It has changed my perception and l am very happy about the experience. I can absolutely recommend you to others and once again a big thank you!

Gemma - Tension Release, February 2018

I felt really relaxed and tried to disconnect from the day to day activities while you were doing an amazing job! I must say you are very experienced, not that I had lots of guys in my life and would be able to compare but the fact is you made me feel relaxed, you showed care and tenderness.  Every little thing you have done was in its place and I actually enjoyed it! It’s been a pleasure meeting you and I want to see you again very soon!

Sharon - Female Psychosensual, August 2017

Sharon has taken 4 appointments over 2-3 months. One Absolute then a series of three Psychosensual

I spent so many years feeling that I would always remain a caterpillar, never progressing to the next stage. Then I made it to becoming a chrysalis, sadly for many years, this is where I thought I would remain. Encased, frozen in a cocoon for eternity, never knowing what else was out there. Then out of nowhere, I have turned into the most amazing bright, colourful big butterfly. I can now choose where I fly off too, where I land and how long for. I now decide, no longer feeling/allowing myself to be controlled. Pure magic that’s what it is. With your help and guidance, I am now in a place that I thought I would never get too. I am so glad that you do the service that you do.

Clive - Male Psychosensual, February 2018

I just wanted to say a late but very big THANK YOU for our meeting last Tuesday.  It was all quite overwhelming but all good.  I didn’t know what to expect but you made me feel welcome and safe.  I enjoyed talking with you so much, especially about anxiety.  My apologies for being anxious and maybe not giving you the fullest answers or even remembering all I meant to tell you.  It was a big relief to tell you the many things I was able to.  The massage was incredible and I feel as if it was helpful in so many ways.  It really seems to have brought me to life.  It made me realise the importance of touch – giving and receiving – and just how much this has been lacking with my sexual partners.  Likewise, your suggestions on things that might help were very helpful and I am currently following up all of them.  What I plan to do is to see how your recommendations work out in practice.  If there are still difficulties (or even if not) I would very much like to see you again, say, within the next couple of months.  It would be fantastic to talk to you again about anxiety and combine this with massage.

Couples’ Treatments & Workshops

Alex & Sanja – January 2018

Thank you very much for your professionalism and experienced expertise. Your exquisite professional demeanour made it possible for my wife to allow herself to receive an incredible intimate sensual massage. Me being there standing by and later participating in the session made it even more enjoyable and exciting for both of us as a couple and individually. Thank you again and look forward to repeating it when possible.

Karen & Mike – December 2017

Just a quick email to say Thank you to you for yesterday.  You are a great teacher and Keith & I thoroughly enjoyed our time with you. It was lovely to experience the day together and something we will always remember and will endeavour to practice what we have learnt.  Keith is definitely feeling more positive and it has certainly reinforced our intimacy.  He has a spring back in his step!

Brigitte & Partner August 2018

My husband and I had been wanting to do this for years so finally after 26 years of marriage, advancing age and years of talk we began searching online. We were looking for another man to join us, but it seemed too risky, too public. We were drawn to Colin because his services were discrete and he was a qualified professional. It helped that I found him incredibly sexy and appealing. I also liked the fact that he was a little closer to my age. There were photos of him at work, his classy, spotless rooms as well as a detailed description of services and prices. Before our first meeting, there was a fairly comprehensive form which was to establish my likes, dislikes and boundaries. I mention all these things as they really took out the ‘angst’ factor which had prevented us from doing this years ago.
The nerves were high but they were immediately calmed by Colin’s warm welcome. It all felt so natural and relaxed as my less than perfect naked body lay on the table and became aware of every move. The massage and everything that went with it was beyond expectation. My husband found the whole experience just as exhilarating.’Wow’ was all I could say afterwards just WOW!

Intimate Tutorials

Intimate Tutorials offers on line massage training videos created by Colin