About Colin
Colin is a full-time practitioner offering sex positive support, advice and experiences that can include sex therapy and sensual massage treatments and classes. Since July 2005 Colin has helped over 10,000 clients achieve better sex, improve sexual confidence, and understand their partner’s and others’ sexuality. Colin offers sensual massage treatments, psychosensual treatments, counselling, general sensual massage courses and professional sensual massage training and events & parties
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Sensual Massage & Classes For Singles & Couples London
Email Colin – colin@intimacymatters.co.uk
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To achieve better sex in relationships, it’s crucial to understand what we enjoy. A sensual massage is both pleasurable and informative. A treatment combines traditional therapeutic techniques with intimate, sensual strokes for the ultimate experience. Often described as a seduction of body and mind. With 20 years of experience, Colin draws on his unique knowledge of sexual psychology, physiology, and primal sexual processes to give, reputedly, one of the best sensual massages in the UK.
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Couples Treatments & Exploration
Revitalise your intimate connection with a couple’s sensual massage experience
Couples Watch & Tandem Massages
Many couples are exploring new sensual and sexual experiences. Some long-term couples seek to revitalise their sex life, while newer couples aim to build an intimate connection with an open sexual agenda. Whatever their motivation, I tailor each treatment for a couple to their specific desires. Watch your partner receive a sensual massage, or maybe join in, or both enjoy a sensual massage together at the same time. For more details of the massages available to couples. Click here
Sensual Massage Courses
Courses for Personal Development
Unlock the full potential of your intimate connections with these exclusive live training sessions with real volunteer receivers to practice on. Whether you’re a single man, woman, or a couple, the Foundation, Intermediate and Advanced Courses are designed to bring new excitement and confidence into your sex life. Learn how to give a sensual massage that transforms ordinary moments into extraordinary experiences and enhances your partner’s pleasure as well as your own.
Courses for Professional Practice
If you’ve ever imagined turning your passion for intimacy, connection and touch into a fulfilling and ethical profession, welcome — you’ve found the perfect place to begin.
At Intimacy Matters, I offer a comprehensive 26-hour Professional Sensual Massage Training, designed to empower individuals of all genders to become confident, ethical, and skilled sensual massage practitioners.
What is Intimacy X?
Intimacy X is a password-protected area within the Intimacy Matters web site. Access is only for those over 18 years of age. Access is FREE
What you get to see when you register to get access to Intimacy X
- Full descriptions of all the massages available at Intimacy Matters
- Explanation of the intimacy levels for 4 hands massage and couples tandem massage
- Profiles of associate masseurs who give 4 hands with Colin
- 22 Pay per view movies showing sensual massage therapeutic and erotic techniques on women and men
Vacancies For Female Volunteers
Due to increased demand for Sensual Massage Courses, I am seeking female volunteer receivers to assist with training sessions.
- Would you enjoy a FREE sensual massage?
- Are you an open minded sensuak massage lover interested in helping men and women to learn to give sensual massage?
- Are you open to the opportunity of helping others learn to improve their knowledge and skills in foreplay?
Join Sensual Connect
Join This Community Of Sensualists
440 members and growing fast
Your gateway to sensual & erotic exploration with like-minded women, men and couples
If you believe that sensuality is more than just a prelude—if you see foreplay as an art that deepens intimacy, enhances pleasure, and creates lasting connections—then Sensual Connect is the space for you.
This exclusive networking platform is an online community for those who are sexual empaths who appreciate the beauty of sensual massage, giving and receiving erotic touch and meaningful intimacy with a relationship or with intimate friends. A community of people who understand that foreplay isn’t just about initiating sex; it’s about exploration, anticipation, and shared pleasure—a journey that heightens emotional and physical connection, making every encounter more fulfilling. Read more
Psychosensual Treatments
Practical and psychological help with sexual performance challenges
A unique combination of counselling and sex therapy massage to help overcome intimacy issues. The psychosensual treatment is available for women, men and couples and is a unique process created by Colin to help people with challenging sexual relationships and sexual performance issues. For example:-
- Struggle to orgasm
- Struggle to hold erections
- Struggle not to ejaculate before you want to
- Struggle with sex in general (guilt, shame, fear)
Chloroform To Climax
When are you going to write your book?
and how did you become a Sex Engineer?
These are the questions Colin has been asked again and again. After twenty years, he has finally decided to answer it—properly—in a book.
Chloroform to Climax is part autobiography, part professional reflection. It traces the unusual path that led me into the work I now do as a Sex Engineer & Sensual Masseur.
Serialised on the writers platform Substack, Colins story unfolds each week. Starting with his unusual start in life the chapters alternate between story and case study.
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Sensual Massage Play Parties
An Afternoon of Sensual Connection & Erotic Exploration
Join us for an intimate and indulgent afternoon designed for like-minded couples who revel in the art of sensual massage and erotic foreplay. This is a unique opportunity to mingle, connect, and explore your desires in an atmosphere of sophistication and seduction.
Relax and unwind in the company of other passionate couples and a select few skilled masseurs, all brought together to celebrate touch, intimacy, and shared pleasure. Whether you wish to refine your sensual skills with your partner or, with mutual consent, explore new sensations with other guests, this gathering offers a safe and discreet space to surrender to erotic pleasure.
Hosted in Colin’s elegant private apartment in Sloane Square, Chelsea, this exclusive event promises a fabulous setting where chemistry, curiosity, and connection can flourish. Let your senses guide you as you embrace an afternoon of decadent exploration.
Event dates for 2026 – Tickets on sale now
8 March, 9 May, 4 July.
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Courses For Men – Massage My Woman
Sensual Massage Training For Men Who Like Women
Select your own date to take the class
- Experiential 2.5 hours
- Foundation 6-hours
- Intermediate 6-hours
- Advanced 6-hours
- Professional Training 26 hours
Courses teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to enhance foreplay and incorporating innovative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience extended sexual pleasure. To read more and apply for Intimacy Matters Sensual Massage Courses London Click here
Courses For Women – Massage My Man
Sensual Massage Training For Women Who Like Men
Select your own date to take the class
- Experiential 2.5 hours
- Foundation 6 hours
- Intermediate 6 hours
- Advanced 6 hour
- Professional Training 26 hours
Practising on specially selected and vetted male volunteer receivers or a friend of your choice these are courses teaching women the art of giving sensual massage to men to enhance and extend foreplay time and thus slow things down and bring in more intimacy and passion to lovemaking. To read more and apply for Intimacy Matters Sensual Massage Courses London Read More
Problems with Orgasm for Women
If you are a woman who finds it difficult to reach orgasm, you are far from alone—and you do not have to navigate this quietly or without support. At Intimacy Matters, I offer professional psychosensual massage treatments, combining therapeutic touch with gentle, informed sex therapy guidance. With over fifteen years’ experience, I have helped many women experiencing situational or lifelong anorgasmia rediscover sensation, confidence and pleasure in a safe, respectful setting. While results cannot be guaranteed, many clients go on to experience a deeper, more satisfying relationship with their own sexuality. Your body is capable of pleasure—sometimes it simply needs the right environment, knowledge and nurturing touch.
What kind of people come to see you Colin ?
A variety of people come to see Colin.
Single individuals, couples, and those seeking to improve their intimate lives, explore sexual adventure, or gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, desires, and fantasies—all are welcome. No matter your physique, age, orientation, or experience level, Colin has helped people from all walks of life over his 18-year career as a Somatic Sex Engineer & Sensual Masseur. As he says, “Everyone deserves to have the best and most fulfilling sex life possible.” Watch this video to hear Colin’s insights and explore 15 more fascinating clips where he answers various questions about his work- Click here.