Colin J de C Richards
Sex & Relationship Engineer
For Men, Women & Couples
London & International
Colette, April 2019 – Psychosensual Appointment
I was very, very nervous before my first appointment with Colin but he really did put me at my ease. He is knowledgeable, reassuring and completely non-judgemental. He clearly values and enjoys what he does and he made me feel very valued also. I am always worried about men judging me negatively and I never for one second felt that thought even entered Colin’s head. He is professional, considerate and skilled at what he does and I really cannot recommend him highly enough. I have a very negative view of my body and my potential desirability (which I have to say is improving after seeing Colin) and if I can feel reassured and confident with Colin then, honestly, anyone can.
Mary, March 2019 – Psychosensual
I read about Colin’s 3 hour psychosensual message but it took a few months before I found the courage to contact Colin. I opted to meet Colin for a two hour consultation first – I felt that I needed more time to talk through the issues that are holding me back. Colin put me at ease straight away. I felt very comfortable and able to be honest and open up about my past. 20 years ago, I was sexually assaulted by a stranger who was caught and went to prison. My life completely derailed and I didn’t trust men. I have never dated or been intimate with a guy. It took a long time to work through all the emotional issues but I was still stuck. At 41 years old. I didn’t know how to move forward with any romantic relationship. A total lack of experience, not feeling sexy, desirable, wanted and also not knowing how I could possibly change anything.
That 2 hour conversation has been a real turning point for me. Colin asked me lots of questions and I was surprised by the links he made not only with the assault but also other aspects of my life. He gave me some useful suggestions, practical ways forward and lots of encouragement. I realised that I was as ready as I will ever be to move forward.
I saw Colin two weeks later and had the sensual massage as I was wanted to stay in my comfort zone. It was such a positive experience. I am planning to book further treatments and work with Colin to keep moving forward. I now believe my life can change and I can meet someone and be happy in a relationship and sexually fulfilled. The treatment has made a massive impact already – I am on a dating app and have my first date planned! I can’t thank Colin enough for his help and understanding and most of all, his professional manner.
Gemma, March 2018 The Absolute Massage
I felt really relaxed and tried to disconnect from the day to day activities while you were doing an amazing job! I must say you are very experienced, not that I had lots of guys in my life and would be able to compare but the fact is you made me feel relaxed, you showed care and tenderness. Every little thing you have done was in its place and I actually enjoyed it! It’s been a pleasure meeting you and I want to see you again very soon!
Rachel & Pete March 2018 – Couples Tandem Massage
My partner and I were looking for a sensual experience to share with each other in a safe and warm environment. Colin and Anastasia made us feel really welcome and at ease with conversation and wine before we made our way to the massage room. They were sensitive to our needs as a couple and as individuals – following our flow and astutely aware of when we wanted to come together. The whole experience was a pleasure and it genuinely felt as though Colin and Anastasia enjoyed it as much as we did. We’re already discussing when to return for more!
Clive, February 2019 – Mens Premium Massage
I just wanted to say a late but very big THANK YOU for our meeting last Tuesday. It was all quite overwhelming (!) but all good. I didn’t know what to expect but you made me feel welcome and safe. I enjoyed talking with you so much, especially about anxiety. My apologies for being anxious and maybe not giving you the fullest answers or even remembering all I meant to tell you. It was a big relief to tell you the many things I was able to. The massage was incredible and I feel as if it was helpful in so many ways. It really seems to have brought me to life. It made me realise the importance of touch – giving and receiving – and just how much this has been lacking with my sexual partners. Likewise, your suggestions on things that might help were very helpful and I am currently following up all of them. What I plan to do is to see how your recommendations work out in practice. If there are still difficulties (or even if not) I would very much like to see you again, say, within the next couple of months. It would be fantastic to talk to you again about anxiety and combine this with massage.
Leo, March 2018 Psychosensual Treatment
Just wanted to thank you again for your time earlier. I was slightly nervous just before going in so probably appeared slightly standoffish – apologies for that. The massage was incredible but what I found really surprising was your ability to understand and decipher my slightly malformed sexuality – something which no psychologist has managed to do back home. Those final 20 minutes chatting to you were quite eye-opening after 40 odd years of feeling that no one understands. I can’t find any service to match this back home, unfortunately, so I might avail of your Skype sessions sometime in the future.