Sex & Relationship Engineer
Hi, my name is Colin Richards, and I have been working in the field of psychosexual health and well-being since 2005. In this time I have helped over 6000 people and discovered and used many different approaches to helping men women and couples explore their sexuality as well as dealing with sexual challenges that are not generally covered by conventional methods. Throughout my career, I have encountered a wide range of issues from a general lack of sexual fulfilment to more specific challenges such as anorgasmia and erectile dysfunction, relationship breakdown and fear of intimacy. Read more about Colin and his services. – Read More
The Psychosensual Treatment for women, men and couples
Help with sexual performance, inability to orgasm and overcoming fears around physical intimacy and sex.
I trained in therapeutic and Swedish massage in 1995. In 2010 I completed a two-year training in Psychosexual and Relationship Counselling and in 2011 I studied the Imago Relationship Process. Since then I have given over 10,000 hours or treatments. Rather than offer my bodywork and my counselling experience separately, I saw a benefit to combining these to create an integrative treatment that could both emotionally and practically support men, women, and couples who were experiencing sexual performance problems. I called this treatment Psychosensual Therapy. [Read more]
What is a Sensual Massage?
A sensual massage is given with a genuine sense of care and intimacy – incorporating relaxation, pleasure and arousal of the body. It combines traditional therapeutic massage with intended sensual arousal and erotic stimulation. Receiving a sensual massage produces immediate physical and emotional benefits. When we are touched and particularly when receiving sensual, arousing touch, remarkable things happen to our bodies. Doctors and scientific researchers are increasingly discovering the fantastic benefits to health and well-being that regular sexual arousal produces. Here are some facts. Read More
Make your summer hotter with one of these unique sensual massage workshops
This August come to learn and have fun at Colin’s sensual massage & erotic foreplay summer workshops
These exclusive workshops are perfect the woman, man or couple who want to enliven and expand their sexual relationship by enhancing their confidence and abilities in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to another.
Foundation & Intermediate levels dependent on your past experience for more details Read More
Colins work with women featured in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business 2018/19
On December 12th 2018 and again on April 1st 2019, Colin and his work as a Sex & Relationship Engineer were featured on Channel 5 TV, in episode 3 of series 2 of The Sex Business, a groundbreaking series of documentaries by award-winning director Paul Blake. The particular episode was titled, ‘Orgasms on Sale’ and focused on women and why they might seek out help or experiences from people in the sex business. Click Here to view the documentary
In this short video clip, Colin explains how he defines a Sex Engineer.
To watch a further fifteen fascinating video clips when Colin is asked various questions about his work such as:-
This video is an example of the treatments that Colin gives. To gain access to more detailed descriptions and videos of the treatments register with Intimacy X and you will be sent a password to access the private area.
I run various types of private workshops teaching men, women and couples how to improve their knowledge and skills in psychological foreplay, practical sex play and fulfilling lovemaking. These workshops can be tailored to your specific needs and can be arranged at a time to suit your schedule – day, evening or weekends. Based on teaching sensual massage techniques, these workshops give you the chance to practise on selected volunteers (male or female) or your partner. Workshops range from the 2 hour experiential, 5 or 10 hour personal training, to the 20-hour professional training. [Read More]
A two part sensual massage workshop run in association with Killing Kittens for women who want to increase their confidence and abilities in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men. This unique training will:
Extend the duration your lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage. Give you an alternative to the fully committed sexual encounter Help you understand and enjoy how your pleasure in giving gives him pleasure also. Enable you to become skilled in fabulous foreplay and arousal techniques that put you in charge. Tease the secret places within his mind and on his body that will send him wild.
Couples Sensual Massage – with enhanced sexplay skills, 8th & 15th October
Sensual Sisters – for women who like women. 15th & 17th October
For more information and future dates of these workshops – Read More
This unique training will:
Teach a man to become an excellent lover. Increase male confidence. Tap into and release masculine primal energy Empower him with specialist knowledge and skills to stimulate a woman. With practice on personally vetted female volunteers, working in pairs to one female volunteer.
Other workshops coming soon
Couples Sensual Massage – with enhanced sexplay skills, 8th & 15th October
Sensual Sisters – for women who like women. 15th & 17th October
For more information and future dates of these workshops – Read More
A unique sensual massage workshop for couples who want to enliven and expand their sexual relationship, and to enhance their confidence and abilities in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to one another. The Foundation & Intermediate group workshops can be followed by a Private Advanced Workshop.
This unique training will:
• Extend the duration of your lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage to one another
• Give you an understanding and enjoyment in how your pleasure in giving gives them pleasure also
• Teach you to become skilled in fabulous foreplay and arousal techniques that can transform your sexual relationship
• Explore how sensual massage can be used to bring others into your sex play without challenging your own relationship.
How I Became a Sex Engineer
A talk by Colin Richards as featured in Channel 5’s The Sex Business
Date – August 20th 2019
Doors open – 7 pm welcome drink to 10 pm
Price – To be confirmed
Venue – To be confirmed
Colin gives an entertaining, insightful and hilarious account of his life journey so far that brought him from the wild and windy South Devon coast to skyscraper living in central London, from being sent to boarding school at 8 years old and cooking egg and bacon for a hundred hotel guests to becoming the person women go to with orgasm issues and who couples seek out to help reignite their lives and who men learn from to become more confident lovers. Colin questions – are we led by fate or do we subconsciously steer ourselves into the lives we eventually find ourselves living? What drives us to do what we do? How do the actions of others affect our life path and how can we ensure we live the life that we want, rather than the one that others expect us to live.
To book your place email Colin colin@intimacymatters.co.uk
Sometimes sexual performance challenges and lack of sexual self-confidence can be helped with a combination of treatments that can include both the psychological, the physiological and the surgical. At Dr SW Clinics, Dr Wakil provides a soft surgery approach to helping women and men in reigniting their sex lives. Their mission is to deliver safe and effective minimally-invasive treatments with natural-looking results. They want their patients to walk out of the door looking younger and fresher and feeling as good as they look.
Dr Sherif el Wakil (also known as Dr Sherif Wakil) is the founder and medical director of Dr SW Clinics and Royale Skin Clinics. He has more than two decades of experience and has worked in a number of leading hospitals in the UK and Middle East, including The Royal London Hospital NHS Trust, and is now based on London’s Harley Street. Dr. Wakil has lectured at conferences and meetings around the world and is a fellow of the International College of Surgeons Read More
A new adults-only tour operator has launched in the UK, offering holidays and cruises for the more adventurous traveller.
Temptation Holidays offers trips to boutique resorts in Cancun, Mexico, as well as European and Caribbean cruises for over-21s. Some resorts come equipped with playrooms for “sexual adventurists”.
The tour operator follows another adults-only tour operator, Uniquely Adult, which launched in January with holidays to the Caribbean.
Each Temptation Holidays tour is graded depending on how “adult” it is, under one of the categories “party”, “nude” and “play”.
According to the tour operator, “party” resorts have a lively atmosphere, with “topless optional” areas, that are suitable for groups of friends. “Nude” resorts are the next level up, with designated “clothing optional” areas. Read More
Intimate Tutorials offers on line massage training videos created by Colin
