Intimacy Matters

Colin Richards

Sex & Relationship Engineer

For Women, Men & Couples

London & International

Private & Group Workshops for Women, Men and Couples

Explore, discuss, understand and enhance your
sexual and relationship dynamics

Experience the health and well-being benefits of sensual massage as a healing treatment

Meet like-minded people at group events

Private Consulting & Training​ Rooms in London Bridge SE1 4QS

International Clients by Skype or Special Appointment

Update – 17 Oct 2020 

Intimacy Matters is open for appointments & private training

Taking Steps to protect you – Covid 19 precautions in place

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Introducing Colin Richards

Sex & Relationship Engineer & Sensual Masseur

Fundamentally I am an educator and problem solver in the world of sexuality and relationships. By combining my knowledge of sexual psychology with my skill as a sensual masseur people come to see me to transform their sex lives and relationships. Sexual frustrations, lack of experience, lack of intimacy, sexual performance challenges, fear of sex or even boredom and low libido are all aspects I work with replacing them with new experiences, insights and techniques in lovemaking and sexual fulfilment. Working full time in this field since 2005 I have discovered and use various different approaches that are not generally covered by conventional methods, to help people in this intimate part of their life  Read More

Sensual Massage

The ultimate therapeutic experince

What is a Sensual Massage Therapy Treatment?

Sensual massage treatment is given with a genuine sense of care and intimacy – incorporating relaxation, pleasure and arousal of the body. It combines traditional therapeutic massage with intended sensual arousal and erotic stimulation. Receiving a sensual massage produces immediate physical and emotional benefits. When we are touched and particularly when receiving sensual, arousing touch, remarkable things happen to our bodies. Doctors and scientific researchers are increasingly discovering the fantastic benefits to health and well-being that regular sexual arousal produces. Here are some facts.  Read More

Colin talks with Cosmopolitan Magazine about his sensual massage for women

To listen to the podcast – Click here

Psychosensual Therapy

A unique combination of talk & touch therapy

A three-hour treatment combining sex coaching, psychosexual counselling and sensual massage. The psychosensual treatment is ideal for men, women or couples facing challenges with sexual fulfilment.

Just some of the situations I can help you with:-

  • Anorgasmia
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Erectile over function
  • Low libido
  • Lack of sexual experience
  • Delayed orgasm
  • Fear of sex
  • Fear of letting go
  • Understanding sexual fantasies and kinks

Read more

Sensual Massage Training

Teaching men, women and couples sensual massage

Become the magnificent lover you know you can be.

I run a variety of individual sensual massage training sessions for women, men and couples. Training sessions range from the 2.5 hours Experiential to the 20-hour Professional training. I teach techniques to extend knowledge of sexual biology and our primal sexual processes as well as techniques in giving sensual touch extended foreplay and specific sex play skills that will always ensure fulfilling lovemaking.  The training is tailored to your specific needs and can be arranged at a time to suit your schedule – day, evening, or weekends. Training can take place at the Intimacy Matters treatment rooms in London Bridge or at your location. Read More

Training by Webcam

Can’t make it to London then learn on line

Where ever you are in the world!

If you are a single man or woman or a couple and you have a desire to develop your lovemaking skills to increase you and your partner’s pleasure and you have a webcam, then wherever you are in the world, you can take your own personal sensual massage webcam course.

Webcam training available are:-

Massage My Man – Female giving to male

Massage My Woman – Male giving to female

Couples Combined – Both giving to one another

Erotic Exploration Course – for her or him

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Webcam & Live Talks

Next Dates
21st October
4th November

Come listen, watch and learn

Enjoy and learn with these live and webcam talks given by Colin. Informative, entertaining and enlightening are just some of the words used to describe Colin’s very relaxed easy-going manner. Tickets bought via the respective web site, click the link below. The talks are presented either in designated location or on Zoom. Follow up materials supplied.

Click here to learn more and buy your ticket

21st Oct – Psychology of Kink & Fetish

4th Nov – Psychology of Attraction

Bermondsey Street The Morocco Bound Club

SDC Club

Renown global couples & singles adult lifestyle club

I recommend SDC to be one of your top sources to meet likeminded adults for encounters and for expert information about sexuality, relationships, and health. What started as a swingers dating site nearly 20 years ago, has since grown into so much more. Now a 3 million global community of individuals and couples driven by a desire to discover, connect, and create.  To register for free and find out more click on the image below.

What is a Sex Engineer?

Colin explains why he gives himself this title

In this short video clip, Colin explains how he defines a Sex Engineer.

To watch a further fifteen fascinating video clips when Colin is asked various questions about his work such as:-

  • Do you think regular sexual arousal is good for people?
  • What unusual situations have you experienced?
  • What has led to your success?

Go to Colin’s YouTube channel 

Intimacy X

Age-restricted area giving explicit details and videos

Register for FREE to immediately get access to:

  • Demonstration video of the Absolute Massage for women.
  • Demonstration video of Premium Massage for men.
  • Description of the Male to Female Absolute’ Massage.
  • Description of the Male to Female Sensual Massage.
  • Description of the Male to Male 90 Minute Sensual Massage.
  • Question and answer section for those things you want to know but are not sure how to ask.
  • Profiles of the Assistant Masseurs I work with.

Click Here to Register

The Great British Sexpert

Interviews Colin and takes an Absolute massage

Rebecca Dakin, also known as The Great British Sexpert, meets and interviews Colin, then tries her first sensual massage. After, Rebecca gives her reactions to the experience. Watch more videos by  registering with Intimacy X

Colin Recommends

Adult Accessories

The Pleasure Collective

Discover and explore a world where every adult has space, freedom, knowledge, and power to elevate their pleasure, sexual health, and wellbeing. At MysteryVibe, we invent pleasure products that combine the best of humanity and technology to elevate your sexual health and wellbeing. To learn more Click here

Group Workshops

Group workshops will resume later in the year

Explore, enhance and expand your sex life with these unique occasions. Expertly hosted, professionally run, informative, explicit and a perfect opportunity to meet likened people. To see workshop types Click here