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What is a Sex Engineer?
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My name is Colin Richards, and I have been working as a practitioner & teacher of sexual performance wellness and fulfilment since 2005. In that time, I have helped over 8000 men, women, and couples improve their sexual confidence and personal and intimate lifestyles. My inspiration and approach stem from my belief that a person’s sexuality is a foundation stone of what makes us who we are. If this foundation stone is not secure, the sense of self may never feel complete. I take a humanistic approach to my work by incorporating the emotional, biological, anthropological, and sexual aspects of arousal. With a straightforward, honest, practical approach to sex, I see myself as a practitioner, sex educator and general problem solver in all things sex and relationship-related. To read more, Click here
Currently, I have over 261 5 Star reviews from satisfied clients – Read them here
Sensual Treatments
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Sensual Treatments For Women, Men & Couples
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When you take a sensual massage with Colin, you will experience it as a combination of traditional therapeutic massage techniques blended with sensual, intimate strokes to create the ultimate massage experience. Think of it as a seduction of both the body and mind. Light touch merges into firm muscle work that subtly transcends into intimate arousal. Based on a humanistic approach, Colin draws on his 20 years as a professional masseur and his knowledge of sexual psychology, physiology, and the natural primal sexual processes to create a tailored experience for each person. Read More
Quick view price list of all sensual treatments – Click here
Special prices for students, low income & emergency services. Click here
Couples Exploration
Sensual Massage For Couples – Pleasure in Exploration
Cuckold & Tandem Massages
Increasingly many couples are discussing expanding their sensual and sexual experiences. Sometimes I see couples who have been together for some time and want to extend their sex life. Often I see couples who are newly together and want to create an intimate life based on an open sexual agenda. Whatever the couple’s motivation, I take great care to tailor the treatment to their specific ideas. For more details –
List of Couples Massages & Experiences – Click here
Psychosensual Treatments
Practical and psychological help with sexual performance challenges
A unique combination of talk & touch to help overcome intimacy issues. The psychosensual treatment is available for women, men and couples and is a unique process created by Colin to help people with challenging sexual relationships and sexual performance issues. For example:-
- Struggle to orgasm
- Struggle to hold erections
- Struggle not to ejaculate before you want to
- Struggle with sex in general (guilt, shame, fear)
Sensual Massage Classes
Sensual Massage Classes for Individuals or Couples teaching enhanced foreplay techniques for heightened pleasure
I run live and online private classes teaching single men, women and couples sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques. Whether it is to bring more variety into your sexual repertoire or to build confidence, by learning to give a sensual massage that includes innovative foreplay techniques, men, women, and couples can transform their sex lives. Practice can be given on selected volunteer models or partners, and there is a class to suit all sexualities. Styles range from 2.5 hour Introduction, 5 hour Foundation , 10-hour Intermediate or the 20-hour Professional Training.
Individual live classes with models are held in London Click here
Online classes (worldwide) Click here
Group workshops for better sex
5-hour Sensual Massage Group Workshops for men and couples, teaching extended lovemaking and foreplay techniques for heightened pleasure.
For couples – Saturday 13th January 2024, 3 pm – 8 pm – more details
For men who like women – Saturday 25th November, 11 am – 4 pm & Thursday 4th January 2024, 5 pm to 10 pm (max six male students and six female volunteer receivers) – more details
Venue – Intimacy Matters Treatment rooms in Chelsea SW3
Both group workshops include workshop materials, three months’ membership to the Intimate Tutorials website, and light bites with prosecco and other refreshments.
Adult Events
The Dinner & Decadence Dinner & After Party / The Libertine Sunday Lunch & After Party
These adult events are designed for the discerning couple and a few single male and female guests to enjoy a lunch or evening of good food and specialist wine in the like-minded company, followed by an afterparty where intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration are encouraged but not expected. Now in our second year and with nine parties behind us. Maximum attendance is 30 persons. These popular parties are almost always fully booked, so be quick if you want to attend. Click here for more details.
Next Couples & Singles party dates
Sunday, December 3rd Libertine Lunch Party – 90% booked just one couples ticket available or two singe female tickets
Massage My Woman Private Classes
For men who like to give pleasure to women
Select your own date to take the class
From 2 – 5, 5, 10 or 20 hours of private classes teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to enhance foreplay and incorporating innovative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience extended sexual pleasure. These classes include practical sessions giving sensual massages to specially selected female volunteer receivers. To read more and apply, Click here
Massage My Man Private Classes
For women who like to give pleasure to men
These 2.5, 5, 10 & 20-hour private sensual massage classes are perfect for a woman who wants to enhance her confidence in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men. Practising on specially selected and vetted male volunteer receivers or a friend of your choice, you are taught a step-by-step sensual massage routine. The Massage My Man classes teach therapeutic and sensual strokes to create gradual arousal, building a crescendo of erotic touch. Read More
Subscribe to Video Tutorials
Learn to give a sensual massage online
If you can not see Colin for a sensual massage class in person, then look at his online teaching platform. Intimate Tutorials is a library of authentic, explicitly detailed video tutorials and demonstration movies. It features over 20 hours of explicit material that covers sensual massage techniques, specific sexual arousal methods, interviews with experts and equipment demonstrations.
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FREE Massage?
Become a volunteer receiver for students to practice on
I run regular sensual massage classes for single women, men, trans and couples, and I require volunteer receivers to be practice bodies. If you are over 21 with a healthy, reasonably fit physique and can make it to the Intimacy Matters venue in London, then apply via the links below
What kind of people come and see you
All types of people come to see Colin.
Single people, couples, those seeking help with their intimate lives, those seeking sexual adventure and those seeking a better understanding of their sexuality, desires and fantasies. Tall people, short people, slim people, large people, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bi-curious, those just exploring. In the 18 years Colin has been helping people in their intimate lives, he has helped many types of people. The one thing they all have in common, he says, ” is that they are all entitled to have the best and most fulfilling sex lives they deserve. Watch this movie to hear his words. Watch a further fifteen fascinating video clips when Colin is asked various questions about his work, such as:- Click here.
Intimacy X – Restricted Area
Age-restricted area giving explicit details and videos
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Xtra Movies
A selection of twelve short and feature-length movies displays various sensual massage forms.
- Male giving to female
- Female giving to male
- Four hands female giving to male
- Four hands male male giving to male
These movies are age-restricted and purchased via Pay per view – Click here
