Steve & Karen, both mid-40s – December 2017
Testimonial for a private couples workshop
My wife & I have the most amazing relationship. We’ve been together for 12 years & married for over 7. We’ve always had a wonderful connection and great sex life but since discovering a mutual desire to expand our sexual experiences further and with other people, we’ve become so much closer. Some people don’t understand how this is possible but I’m sure there are other couples out there that have experienced the same strengthening of bonds with each other as a result of sharing our desires (and bodies) with other people. Thanks to KK, we’ve met some amazing people & can’t wait to attend our first party. One of our most interesting discoveries through KK has been the services of Intimacy Matters, a therapeutic massage service run by Colin Richards.
My wife first saw Colin several weeks ago as an opportunity to discover new ways to reach orgasm. As many of us Tom cats (& kittens) will have experienced, the female body is incredibly gorgeous but with that comes some complexity that sometimes baffles us all. Her initial sessions with Colin have been one on one and I know she has learned a lot about her own sensations, plus she’s learned a few new tricks in the bedroom which we both love. To further our desires of maximum pleasure, we recently decided to join Colin for a couples’ massage workshop. We hoped this would provide us with some new techniques we could use on each other and other people we may play with.
For me personally, it was also an opportunity to explore a mild bi-curiosity as I’d never been touched erotically by another man and honestly, I had no idea how my body and brain would react. Had I been more worried about being touched by another man, the option of a female masseuse or a more hands off approach was available, but I really wanted to fully explore my curiosity. Our session started with a nice chat, some questions about what we both wanted out of the session along with some extremely accurate perspectives on personality types and how they translate to sexual techniques.
Colin also shared some very interesting prehistoric sexual theories that really do make a lot of sense. So, on to our massage workshop which started with a discussion on consent, something I hadn’t really thought too much about but a very important topic as the massage would be taking us to new areas of exploration. It’s crucial to understand and agree on the signals, particularly if (or, hopefully, when) we involve another person, but also as a sign that things are heading in the right direction. Some consent signals we learned about are very subtle such as a slight shift in position, a gentle moan or a change in breathing, whilst others can be a little more obvious, like a squeeze of a hand or even a code/safe word.
The important things here are clarity & trust. Be clear on what’s planned upfront & agree on the boundaries. With my wife up first on the table, it was time to commence. Laying face down & very much like a normal massage, starting gently, Colin really reinforced the importance of a slow build up, particularly for a woman, lots of long strokes, in a non sexual way, looking for those signals that things were heading in the right direction and she was beginning to relax. It was a wonderfully enlightening experience to be part of a two man erotic massage on my wife and I really enjoyed watching her pleasure build towards orgasm. After about an hour of massage, it was time for a pleasant break for lunch and another enlightening chat with Colin before it was my turn on the table. Once again, the massage started normally enough but it wasn’t long before I was heading towards a state of bliss, thanks to a number of different techniques from gentle strokes to gentle nail scratching & full body to body massage. These techniques not only brought me to an increasingly aroused state, my body also relaxed massively. It was a wonderfully new experience delivering a plethora of new and interesting sensations, so much so that I came close to orgasm whilst my wife & Colin played with my cock & balls. What I didn’t know at this point was that it was only the beginning for me & it wasn’t time for me to cum, yet!
After a brief cool down, it was my wife’s turn again, this time for her main event, with Colin’s expert guidance, we played with her in an effort to give her an illusive g-spot orgasm, whilst it got close, it didn’t quite happen, but we’re increasingly confident it will.
Colin left us alone for a few minutes & as she was in such a state of arousal, I was only too happy to bring her to a massive clitoral orgasm with some practiced and ever-reliable oral action. After she had come back down to earth, it was my turn. Back on the table, this time face up, my wife used her newly learned massage skills to manipulate my cock & balls in ways I’d never experienced, making sure to bring me ever closer to climax, without taking me immediately there. Colin also (to my surprise) demonstrated the toughness of the cock by giving it a few forceful slaps, delivering new sensations, whilst holding back that climax a little longer. By this point, I felt a mixture of total relaxation, combined with the feeling of a horny 19 year old who hasn’t had a wank for 3 weeks.
It was time to cum! Colin continued to guide my wife, teaching the importance of stroke pressure & direction, “firm down, soft up”, “imagine your hands are like a vagina, getting tighter as it penetrates deeper”. I was in too much of a state of bliss to look but it certainly felt like I had 4 hands playing with my cock & balls as I was finally allowed the wonderful release of a great orgasm. After the session was over, we took some time out to take it all in. It was an amazing experience that has left us with a deeper understanding of each other and given us a number of new bedroom techniques that will continue to drive our sexual pleasures to new heights. I’m also pleased to say that being touched by another man and a woman at the same time was a rather nice sensation that I look forward to exploring more of in the future.
It was time to say goodbye for now & when leaving Colin gave us both a big hug, remarking that we couldn’t just shake hands, having just had my cock in his hand. This made us both laugh. Now we’re looking forward to an opportunity to practise by sharing our newfound skills with another person or couple, further expanding our sexual pleasures and desires to reach new heights of bliss.
Paul & Fiona 35 & 42 yrs – December 2017
Thank you for making us feel so welcome today, we both had such an amazing time that exceeded our expectations. Fiona was made to feel very special and we both chatted about the experience on the way home. It was very special as we had only spoken about it before …..
Rachel and Pete – November 2016
My partner and I were looking for a sensual experience to share with each other in a safe and warm environment. Colin and Anastasia made us feel really welcome and at ease with conversation and wine before we made our way to the massage room. They were sensitive to our needs as a couple and as individuals – following our flow and astutely aware of when we wanted to come together. The whole experience was a pleasure and it genuinely felt as though Colin and Anastasia enjoyed it as much as we did. We’re already discussing when to return for more!
Mary & Steve – July 2016
Me and my partner came together but we had separate massages. I had Karma Sutra 90 minutes and my partner had sensual 60 minute massage, both my partner and I said it was very pleasurable, we both said how amazing sensation you get from pulling a towel off you, I also enjoyed the fork thing omg that just running over my body was amazing sensations for me. Colin was great make you feel relaxed and safe, we both said that we would go back for the Couples Watch and Touch next though.
Sandra & Richard – June 2016
I had been looking to treat my wife to a special massage for a long time, something with a little bit of spice. I began to ask her questions on her fantasies and role played a little as a masseur that goes beyond the usual boundaries, and it turned out her fantasy included erotic massage where she gets totally and utterly ravaged by the guy giving her the massage or sex with a couple of guys. So wanting to help my wife explore these feelings and fantasies I set about some research and managed to find Massage33 and Colin. We discussed the plan further and after reading his website, she became excited to explore the sensual massage Colin gives to female clients straight away but of course, she was a little nervous. Coming from the north of England we arranged to travel to London for a few days and booked a hotel just round the corner of Colin’s treatment rooms in Pimlico.
On arriving, we kissed one another goodbye at the gate, and I told her to enjoy herself and said I that will be waiting for her text to say she is finished and on your way out. The waiting made me feel both nervous but extremely excited to imagine what my wife experience and how she would feel. The minutes passed slowly, and my heart was racing, and I was very aroused thinking about the scenario that was unfolding. Thoughts entered my mind; pictures flashed in and out on my thoughts, 10 minutes late, 20 minutes late, half an hour over her time. I thought woohoo she must be enjoying it. Then my phone bleeped, and it was a text that just read “OMG In the shower.” 10 minutes later my wife appeared, smiling from ear to ear, very blushed and her hair all a mess and the buttons on her top not done up correctly. We walked slowed back to our hotel with my wife telling what a night she had. We entered our room, and she immediately demanded that I make love to her that very moment. We rested for a bit then decided to go out for a bite to eat, so we both got in the shower and she again she demanded sex. We visited a Thai restaurant just around the corner, we could not keep our hands off each other, we quickly paid and left, walking back to our hotel she noticed a short cut, we walked only a couple of yards, and again my wife demands we do it doggy style as she can’t wait for us to get back to the room. We eventually got back to the hotel and were like newly weds.
On the Monday after returning home, my wife had been texting me all day for more sex. The texts stopped at 2.30pm, so I thought she had gone out shopping but at 3.30pm, they started again. She told me that she had raced home almost coming in her knickers and that on the drive home her clitoris was throbbing that much that she raced upstairs and pulled her knickers off and after giving her clitoris just a few rubs, she orgasmed several times. Her libido has increased so much it’s brilliant. She now demands I give her oral until she orgasms which are very new and says that her orgasms are of a different types, and now the best ones are the ones where she squirts, which also had never happened before. Our sex life has gone through the roof since her massage with Colin – for a husband that’s brilliant and for a couple in their late 40s and early 50s it’s fantastic. All in all a very brilliant experience we have now booked to have another massage with Colin but this time I am going to be there to learn the techniques that Colin used that has transformed my wife’s once flagging libido into volcanic sexual energy.
Alison & Simon – September 2014
Alison & Simon took a voyeur massage with Colin and Alison taking the massage.
My sensual massage with Colin was everything I hoped it would be. I left feeling mentally, sexually and emotionally fulfilled. – Alison.
I watched Colin massage Alison – it was brilliant in every way, so much sexier than I imagined. – Simon.
Alessandro & Maria – September 2013
Thank you very much for your professionalism and experienced expertise. Your exquisite professional demeanour made it possible for my wife to allow herself to receive an incredible intimate sensual massage. Me being there standing by and later participating in the session made it even more enjoyable and exciting for both of us as a couple and individually. Thank you again and we look forward to repeating it when possible.
Keith & Mary – December 2013
Just a quick email to say thank you to you for yesterday. You are a great teacher and Keith and I thoroughly enjoyed our time with you. It was lovely to experience the day together and something we will always remember and we will endeavour to practise what we have learnt. Keith is definitely feeling more positive and it has certainly reinforced our intimacy. He has a spring back in his step!