Questions & Answers
for Personal Learning & Practitioner Training
How do I book a practitioner training?
Select the application form below that is relevant to your requirements. Complete the form, and Colin will then reply to arrange a phone call to discuss your plans and ambitions. Please make sure you leave a correct mobile number and email address.
Application form for men giving to women
Application form for women giving to men
Application form for women giving to women
Application form for men giving to men
Who do I massage in the practice massages?
All professional practitioner training and personal learning modules run on a private-tuition basis, with specially selected and vetted volunteers for you to practise on. Volunteers are all past clients of Intimacy Matters who volunteer for free to help students learn how to give sensual massage and become more knowledgeable in sexuality in general. Volunteers required to be fit, healthy and give full consent to receive the practice massages given by a student under Colin’s teaching guidance. Volunteers are happy to provide feedback on your technique and style.
When can I book a class?
Classes can be taken weekdays, Monday to Friday, or on a Saturday
Usual Weekday times are:-
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 1 pm to 4 pm
- 5 pm to 7 pm
- 6 pm to 9 pm
Saturday times are
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 1 pm to 4 pm
These times can be altered, and if neccesary 2 x 3-hour classes can be combined into 1 x 5 hours
Sundays Classes
These can be arranged by special request, but will add a £100 extra charge each session
Where do the classes take place?
All modules, unless arranged otherwise, take place at the Intimacy Matters treatment rooms in Chelsea, SW1X 9DE
Do I pay a deposit?
Yes, 50% on booking, balance on the day. Ideally paid by bank transfer, but can also be paid via credit card or cash.
What if I cancel?
Return of deposit or transfer of deposit
You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your course starts. You may cancel up to three days (72 hours) before the first training day and choose either option.
- To receive back the full deposit.
- Transfer the training to another date that must start within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Loss of deposit
If you cancel or postpone your training 2–3 days before the scheduled date, you may transfer your deposit if:
a) You provide a new date within 7 days of postponement.
b) The new training date is within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Failure to meet these conditions will result in forfeiture of the deposit and the requirement of a new booking.
24-hour cancellations or no-show
If you cancel within 24 hours of the scheduled start time or do not attend on the day, you will forfeit your deposit.
Missing a training module
If you fail to attend any training module without providing advance notice, the module will not be repeated, and no refund will be issued.
Take out cancellation insurance.
To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.
I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to take an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.
When do I pay the 50% balance?
This must be paid on or before the first day of the course you are taking. Payment ideally by bank transfer, but can also be paid on request by credit card or cash.
Can I spread my payments?
For the Combined Foundation & Intermediate Courses. The Advance Course and Professional Practitioner Training payment can be spread over the period of your training. Upon request, a payment schedule can be worked out.
Do I need to have any massage experience to book a course?
For personal learning courses, anyone can book a course without prior experience
For the professional practitioner training, if you have no experience of any massage or intimate body work, you may be required to attend the Induction Session before being accepted onto a full 26-hour training.
What do I need to bring?
Just yourself, some light clothing for the early stages of the class, and a light lunch if you are here for the lunchtime period. There are many cafes and restaurants nearby
Can I take the class with a friend?
You can take the class with a friend by paying a 50% supplement on the prices published.
Can a friend or partner be my volunteer receiver?
Yes, at no charge, with relevant deductions from the price if your friend replaces a volunteer.
Am I going to be naked?
This is optional, depending on your motivation for the class and your own comfort.
Do I receive a certificate upon completing the class?
Yes, upon request, I can give you a certificate of completion.
Can I get ready and shower at the premises?
Yes, shower and towels are provided. Hairdryer and brushes are also available.
Confidentiality?
It is imperative that both you and your volunteer maintain confidentiality and that the content of the sessions is kept private and not shared with anyone outside the training sessions.
Photography & videos & recording equipment?
Under no circumstances can any training be videotaped or recorded.
Does sexual intercourse occur in a class?
At no time in any training is this permitted.
Can I maintain contact with the volunteer receivers after the training?
If both of you give consent, you can exchange contact details after the training module. You are also invited to join the Students & Volunteers Group on the Sensual Connect platform.
How can I find people to practice on in between training sessions?
You can join Sensual Connect and get access to a growing community of sensualists, many of whom know Intimacy Matters and have either been a client, taken a course, or been a volunteer. Additionally, I recommend you join a dating app and add to your profile that you are taking a course with Intimacy Matters and that you need practice between sessions.
If you have any further questions, please email Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk Or add your questions to the application form.