I had the pleasure of joining Suzanne Noble from Sex Advice for Seniors on a live podcast to discuss my work as a Sex & Intimacy Engineer and how I have helped thousands of women, men, and couples over the past 20 years.
During our conversation, we explored the many different reasons clients come to see me. Some are looking for help with a particular sexual
Cunnilingus can be one of the most intimate and pleasurable experiences a woman receives. When it is included as part of a full-body sensual massage, it can become far more than simply a way of bringing her to orgasm. It can help her relax, reconnect with her body, let go of self-consciousness and experience pleasure without being expected to give anything in return.
For the last two centuries, if a man experienced any form of male-to-male erotic intimacy, society traditionally labelled him no longer heterosexual; he became a homosexual
Understanding Male Anatomy, Sensitivity and the Value of Learning. For many years, male sexuality has been treated as though every man responds in exactly the same way. Popular culture often portrays men as simple creatures who are always ready for sex and who all enjoy the same type of stimulation. Nothing could be further from the truth.
There are some things that simply don’t belong together.
* Chilli pepper & massage oil
* A grumpy invant and a crowded Ryanair flight:
* An orgasm and a sneeze attack
* The London Underground and 35-degree temperatures.
* And, dare I say it, energetic sex and a heatwave.
Reconnect With Your Body, Your Sensuality & Your Desire. Why More Women Are Turning to Sensual Massage for Wellbeing, Confidence and Sexual Fulfilment. Women seek sensual massage for many different reasons. Some come because they feel disconnected from their bodies after years of prioritising careers, family responsibilities, relationships or caring for others.
Over the past decade, I have noticed a significant increase in the number of men and couples enquiring about what is broadly known as partner-sharing dynamics. What was once considered a niche interest has become an increasingly visible part of mainstream relationship discussion.
People often use the terms tantric massage and sensual massage interchangeably, assuming they describe the same experience. While there can be some overlap in practice, the philosophy, objectives, and underlying frameworks are often very different.
For many men over 40—or those in long-term relationships where intimacy has gradually diminished—the challenge is not simply a lack of sex, but a loss of ease within their own body. Desire may still be present, but it is often accompanied by pressure, expectation, or anxiety.