The Massage My Man Experiential Sessions

The Experiential Session is for women who want to experience giving a sensual massage to a man but to give it with the guidance of an expert as a four-hand massage.


 Give a 90-minute four-hand massage with Colin to your partner or a male volunteer receiver.

  • Option 1 – £300 – Female giving to a male partner
  • Option 2 – £350 – Female giving to a male volunteer

Reasons often given for taking the Experiential Session are:

  • Curiosity & Exploration
  • Introduction to sensual massage to maybe go on to take a Foundation, Intermediate Class or Professional Training
  • Thinking of giving sensual massage professionally
  • I want to surprise my partner with new skills
  • Just for fun!

After your initial enquiry or completion of the application form, I will contact you to determine what you want to explore in giving the massage practice. Once you have explained your motivation and expectations for this experience, we will set a date and time (allow 2.5 hours), and then either I will arrange a male volunteer receiver to suit you, or you can bring your own receiver who maybe a partner or a friend you are intimate with.

On the day of the session, we briefly chat to understand how the volunteer ‘receiver’ likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders.  Once you feel confident and at ease and the volunteer relaxes, we start the four-hands massage. We work together with you following my lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for the receiver and yourself rather than learn specific massage techniques.

Simply by giving a sensual massage this way, you will enjoy the pleasure of giving and observing some essential aspects of a sensual massage first-hand. The massage will include full body arousal, genital massage, edging to orgasm, bringing to ejaculation and prostate massage ( optional). You can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects you want to include in the massage, then let me know, and we can incorporate this into the session – for example, light spanking or domination.

The massage session will include:-

  • Traditional therapeutic massage techniques
  • Teasing intimate touch
  • Body-to-body caring touch
  • Testicle touch
  • Using nails and fingertip teasing
  • Body-to-body slide
  • Genital massage
  • Masturbation tecniques
  • Edging to orgasm

Application Form

Click here to complete the Massage My Man Application Form

Deposit & Cancellation Terms

To secure your place, a 50% deposit is required at the time of booking. The remaining balance is due the day before your training begins.

Changing or Cancelling Your Training (More than 72 hours’ notice)

If you need to cancel at least 72 hours (3 days) before your first training session, you have two options:

• Receive 75% of your deposit refunded, or
• Transfer your booking to a new start date that begins within 12 weeks of the original booking

If the new training is not taken within this timeframe, the deposit is forfeited.

Postponements Within 2–3 Days of Start Date

If you postpone 2–3 days before your training:

Your deposit can be transferred only if:

a) You provide a new start date within 7 days of postponing
b) The new training begins within 12 weeks of the original date

If these conditions are not met, the deposit is forfeited and a new booking will be required.

24-Hour Cancellation or Non-Attendance

Cancellations made within 24 hours, or failure to attend on the day, will result in the loss of the full deposit.

Missing an Individual Training Module

If you do not attend a scheduled module and have not given at least 24 hours’ notice, that session cannot be repeated and no refund will be given.

Pausing Your Training

Once your deposit or full fee has been paid, your place on the course is secured.

If genuine health issues or significant personal circumstances arise (with supporting evidence), you may pause your training.
All remaining sessions must then be completed within 12 months of your original start date.

Withdrawing After Training Has Started

If you choose to withdraw from the course after it has begun, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions you have attended.

Exceptional Circumstances

In cases such as bereavement, serious injury, or significant illness, I will always do my best to be fair and supportive where appropriate evidence is provided.

This policy forms part of your training agreement and ensures clarity and fairness for both of us.