Massage My Man
26 Hour Sensual Massage Professional Training
(29 hours if the induction session is required)
Training for women who want to become part-time or full-time professional sensual masseurs.
Combining the Induction, Foundation, Intermediate, Advanced & Business launch pad trainings all in one programme. This professional training program is designed for women looking to build a rewarding career as sensual massage therapists, serving both male and female clients.
Whether you choose to work part-time for extra income or commit to a full-time career, this professional training programme provides you with the essential skills and knowledge to succeed in this lucrative and deeply fulfilling profession. With the potential to earn upwards of £5,000 ($6,000) per month as a full-time practitioner, this training opens the door to financial independence and flexible working hours, allowing you to create a schedule that fits your lifestyle.
Beyond financial rewards, becoming a professional sensual massage therapist offers the unique opportunity to help others explore and deepen their intimate connections. Many clients seek sensual massage not only for relaxation but also as a way to reconnect with their bodies, increase their confidence, and enhance their overall intimate experiences.
Through this training, you will learn how to provide a deeply nurturing and transformative experience, mastering the art of a 90-minute full-body sensual massage tailored to different body types and individual needs. You will also gain valuable insight into the many motivations behind why men—and women—seek this form of touch therapy, enabling you to offer a service that is both healing and empowering. Whether you are looking for a fresh start in a new career or an additional source of income, this course equips you with the practical skills, knowledge, and confidence to thrive in the sensual massage industry.
Application Form
To apply for any training, click here. The application does not constitute a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once I receive your application form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the training you have chosen.
This 26-hour Combined Professional Training incorporates six modules
- Optional – 3-hour Induction class (can be taken if you are unsure about committing to the full professional package, or have not had any previous experience in sensual massage or taken any training with Colin)
- Module 1 – 6-hour Foundation training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 2 – 6-hour Intermediate training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 3 – 6-hour Advanced Professional Training Launch Pad part 1 (taken as 1 x 6 or 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 4 – 2-hour Launch Pad (1 x 2 hours)
- Module 5 – 6-hour Professional Practice ( 2 x 3-hour)
Splitting the modules
If you have already taken the Foundation or Intermediate classes or attended a group workshop, then you do not need to take module 1, the 3-hour Induction class. If you have taken the Foundation class already, you can skip modules 1 and 2 and go straight to modules 3, 4, 5 and 6. If you have taken the Foundation and Intermediate classes, you can skip modules 1, 2, and 3 to go straight to modules 4, 5 and 6.
The Optional 3-hour Induction Session £350
(Module 1 can be selected as a standalone session without progressing to other modules)
Take the next step toward a rewarding career in sensual massage
Taking the 26-hour professional training is a significant commitment in both time and money, and I believe it is essential that a student is fully aware of the many aspects required to become a successful professional sensual masseur. This is why I sometimes require that an inexperienced student take the 3-hour induction class first. Taking this class allows you to practice giving a sensual massage firsthand and determine whether it’s something you enjoy and whether you have the natural skills to become a professional.
It also gives me the opportunity to explain the complexities and responsibilities of working as a professional sensual masseur. It is important that you understand what is required, i.e., the venue requirements, how it may affect your personal life and relationships and the time scale of making your practice financially successful. It also gives me a chance to hear your motivation for pursuing a career as a sensual masseur for men, part-time or full-time. The cost of the induction class is £300 ( additional to the 26-hour professional training cost )
In this session, you will
- Explain motivation & ambitions
- Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
- Describe the current relationship situation and how you see working alongside this intimate work.
- Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage as a professional therapist.
- Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and your relationships with your parents and family when you were young.
- Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a male volunteer receiver.
After the Induction Session, I’ll either invite you to proceed directly into the Professional Training (parts 2 to 6) or, if necessary, recommend starting with the 6-hour Foundation Class to build your skills at a steady pace. This is your opportunity to embark on a fulfilling and financially rewarding career. Take the first step today!
Skipping the Induction Class
In certain circumstances, the Induction Session may be skipped. If you have prior experience in massage training or are already working professionally in sensual, intimate, or somatic bodywork, you may be able to proceed directly to the Foundation Training.
Module One – Foundation Training
Taken as 2 x 3-hour Foundation Training,
Introductions & Conversations
In every sensual massage training session I run — whether it’s a 2.5-hour experiential class or part of the full 26-hour professional programme — I place enormous importance on the opening conversation. This is not just a polite ice-breaker; it’s the foundation for the trust, respect, and safety that underpin all truly great sensual massage work.
We begin with a 30–45 minute group discussion in which I guide students through:
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Understanding male arousal — the physiological, emotional, and psychological components that make women’s sexual response unique.
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Differences between men’s and women’s approach to sexuality — how arousal patterns, emotional readiness, and context influence the experience.
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Why men seek sensual massage — including:
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Overcoming erectile challenges
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Addressing premature ejaculation
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Filling gaps in sexual knowledge or confidence
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Exploring sexual intimacy and taking the emphasis off penetration
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Exploring sexuality in a safe, non-judgmental setting
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Simply enjoying pleasure for its own sake
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This discussion helps students appreciate that their role is not just to perform techniques, but to meet each receiver where she is emotionally, physically, and psychologically.
When the Volunteer Arrives
Once our male volunteer receiver joins us, we allow 20–30 minutes for an intentional, two-way conversation.
The student is encouraged to:
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Introduce themselves and their training journey — explain why they are here, what stage of the course they are on, and what they hope to develop in today’s session.
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Listen to the volunteer’s motivations — understanding why he enjoys assisting in training, and what he personally values in a sensual massage.
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Explore his preferences and boundaries — discussing what he finds most pleasurable, what makes him feel safe and relaxed, and any areas he would like the student to focus on or avoid.
This exchange is not a formal interview — it’s a warm, respectful, and genuinely curious conversation that establishes mutual understanding.
Practical teaching includes:
- Learn about the biology and anthropology of male and female sexuality and how it relates to sensual massage.
- Receive an introduction to the psychology of male arousal and how it relates to physiological arousal.
- Give a full-body sensual massage with therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
- To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating his mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the male body.
- To give a buttock and upper thigh massage
- How to give testicle teasing
- How to use your body in the massage
- How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
- How to give prostate massage
- Various styles of genital massage
- How to edge him to orgasm
Advanced materials and information
The day before your Foundation class, you will receive:-
- The Agenda for the Foundation class, with details of the respective volunteer receivers you will be practising on
- A PowerPoint presentation of the massage that you will be learning
- Invited to become a member of Sensual Connect . Sensual Connect is the Intimacy Matters networking platform for lovers of sensual massage and erotic foreplay, where you can watch for free many sensual massage training videos in the Sensual Massage Training Videos Group and The Intimacy Matters Graduates Group.
Once you have completed the 26 hour professional training you also receive an invitation to join Sensual Connect –as a professional member and to promote your new sensual massage practice to the membership.
Module Two – Intermediate Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hours) In the 6-hour Intermediate Training, you will learn
- Additional therapeutic strokes
- External anal stimulation
- Slip slide body massage
- Body-on-body massage ( given naked )
- Incorporating sex toys
- Managing loss of erection
- Managing premature ejaculation
- Positions for receiving oral stimulation while giving the massage (demonstrated, not given)
- Additional positions for edging to orgasm
- Bondasage techniques (dominant, i.e. spanking, restrictive holds)
Module Three – Advanced Training
(taken as 1 x 6 hours or 2 x 3 hours) In this 6-hour class, we cover:- You will give two more practice massages on two further male receivers, repeating all you have learned plus additional techniques that can be required by some male clients. These being:-
- Making allowances for age and body type
- Understanding various male performance issues and causes ie PE and Loss of Erection
- Incorporating oral giving practice
- Incorporating vaginal receiving practice
- Managing client to masseur erotic interactions, i.e., oral and masturbation
- Managing reciprocal arousal without losing the integrity of the massage
- Managing the appointment: introductions, conducting an appointment as a professional masseur, and tailoring it to your client’s needs.
- Developing the techniques learned in the Foundation and Intermediate classes to apply them to a professional situation
- Understanding the motivations and situations that male clients may bring to the treatment
- Managing reciprocal touch and arousal
- Being able to provide a bespoke massage based on a completed Consent Authorisation & Request Form, and this the client needs
- Personal boundaries in a professional setting
Module Four – Launch Pad
Part 1 – 2 hours of business training and final practice massage
- Setting up your treatment space
- Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
- Creating your brand and image
- Booking procedures and security
- Insurance
- Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive, cost-effective marketing.
- Six months of telephone support, providing further ongoing advice and guidance
- Certificate of completion
Module Five – Professional Practice
The final practice massage – 6 hours ( taken as 2 x 3 hours )
You give the male receiver 2 x 75-minute full-body massages on your own.
The first massage is given by yourself as if you were giving a massage to a client. Colin is in the room, overseeing the massage as you give, and will be assessing it for style and content.
The second and final massage is given by the student on their own, and Colin is not present. The receiver will assess after the massage is completed. This will also include a feedback form completed by the receiver, which will be sent to the student within a couple of days of completion.
Certificate of Completion
At this point, a certificate of completion of the Professional Training is sent to the student. Please inform Colin which name you want on this certificate: your real name, a pseudonym, or your business name.
Application Form
To apply for professional training, click here.
The application does not constitute a booking. It provides details about you and your motivation for taking this session. Once I receive your registration form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training.
Questions & Answers
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Course Fees
Option 1 Combined – £3000
Practising on eight different male volunteers in eight practice sessions.
- Module 2 = two male volunteers in two practice sessions
- Module 3 = two male volunteers in two practice sessions
- Module 4 = two male volunteers in one practice session
- Module 5 = business set-up session, followed by one male volunteer in one practice session
- Module 6 = You giving a practice massage to a male volunteer on your own.
Option 2 Combined – £3200
Mixed gender, mix of male and female volunteers
- Module 2 = two male volunteers in two practice massages
- Module 3 = two female volunteers in two practice massages
- Module 4 = one male and one female volunteer in two separate practice massages
- Module 5 = business, set up session followed by one female or male volunteer in one practice massage
- Module 6 = you giving a practice massage on either a male or female, given by you on your own.
Option 3 Non Combined – £4000
Taking each training session independently, rather than as a combined package, totals £3800, as shown below. This non-combined option is not time restricted, and the training can be spread over as long a period as suits you. However, committing to the combined professional training package saves you £1000, a 25% reduction.
This option 4 training set can be completed at any time, but I recommend completing it within 12 months.
- 6 hour Foundation = £850
- 6 hour Intermediate = £850
- 6 hour Advanced = £1050
- 8 hour Launch pad = £1250
This option does not include your own massage
Add On Your Own Massage
For Options 2 & 3, if you still want to receive a massage for yourself, this can be added as an extra at an arranged time at 50% off the quoted price. This massage can be given with two hands ( male only ) or, for 25% discount, take a four-hand massage (male/female masseur)
Deposit & Cancellation Terms
To secure your place, a 50% deposit is required at the time of booking. The remaining balance is due the day before your training begins.
Changing or Cancelling Your Training (More than 72 hours’ notice)
If you need to cancel at least 72 hours (3 days) before your first training session, you have two options:
Receive 75% of your deposit refunded, or transfer your booking to a new start date that begins within 12 weeks of the original booking
If the new training is not taken within this timeframe, the deposit is forfeited.
Postponements Within 2–3 Days of Start Date
If you postpone 2–3 days before your training:
Your deposit can be transferred only if:
a) You provide a new start date within 7 days of postponing
b) The new training begins within 12 weeks of the original date
If these conditions are not met, the deposit is forfeited, and a new booking will be required.
24-Hour Cancellation or Non-Attendance
Cancellations made within 24 hours or failure to attend on the day will result in the loss of the full deposit.
Missing an Individual Training Module
If you do not attend a scheduled module and have not given at least 24 hours’ notice, that session cannot be repeated, and no refund will be given.
Period of Training
The 26-hour Professional Practitioner Training should be completed within four months of the start date.
If, after 4 months, there are modules outstanding, these are not refunded, and you will need to pay pro rata for additional modules to receive the certificate of completion
Exceptional Circumstances – Pausing Your Training
If genuine health issues or significant personal circumstances arise (with supporting evidence), you may pause your training. All remaining sessions must then be completed within 12 months of your original start date.
This can be requested in cases such as bereavement, serious injury, or significant illness,
I will always do my best to be fair and supportive where appropriate evidence is provided.
This policy forms part of your training agreement and ensures clarity and fairness for both of us.
Withdrawing After Training Has Started
If you choose to withdraw from the course after it has begun, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions you have attended.
I recommend you take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.
Pay by instalments for the Professional training
I offer instalment plans that let you spread your payments over 3 months in 4 instalments. However, this incurs a 5% interest charge. For more details, contact Colin to explain your situation and request a payment plan. [Click here]
T & C’s & Insurance Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involve nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here
Male Volunteers
When I have a class booked a couple of days in advance, I send a request to those on the list, providing basic details about the student for whom I need a receiver. I send them your image, your name (it can be a pseudonym), basic information about you (profession, age, sexuality), and your motivation for taking the class.
Testimonials
- Given by Naomi – Massage My Man 20-hour Professional Training February / March 2024
I have just completed the 20-hour Professional Massage course with Colin and learned a great deal about applying psychology and arousal. I am an escort and have noticed a difference in the types of clients who come for massages. They are more chilled out Type B, whereas the escort clients are often Type A personality fast lane drivers. It’s been exciting to meet different types of clients and experience more relaxing interactions where everything flows much slower. It’s been great to learn all the massage techniques to give guys the ultimate pampering experience and fully let go without having to perform or feel under pressure. Colin picked some amazing volunteers; we trained in his premises in Sloane Square, which is very easy to get to, a lovely venue. Colin has so much knowledge and techniques you couldn’t learn anywhere else. For any person wanting to learn new skills and connect better with their partner, this is the best place to learn or train as a massage therapist.
- Given by Sarah – Massage My Man workshop learning to give erotic massage to men – October 2023
A great experience. Colin makes you feel at ease and takes you on a journey to discover exciting aspects of sexuality in a friendly, engaging environment. I highly recommend this to singles or couples who want to learn about themselves and spend a relaxing evening with like-minded people.
- Given by Faith – Level 2 Workshop learning how to provide a sensual massage to both males and females – January 2019
I had a fantastic experience and learned a lot of techniques required to perform an erotic massage that will hopefully enable me to enhance my sexuality with my partner. Aside from the method, Colin also was very comprehensive in consulting the psychological side of it. Thx
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TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involve nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here