Massage My Man

Induction Class & 20-hour Professional Training

Training for women who want to become part-time or full-time professional sensual masseurs.

The Induction & Assessment Class

To qualify for the 20-hour professional training, you must attend a 3-hour induction and assessment class. The purpose is to ensure you fully know the complexities and responsibilities of working as a professional sensual masseur. It is important that you also understand what is required, the time scale of making your practice financially successful, and you explain your motivation to embark on a career as a part or full-time sensual masseur for men.

The cost of the induction class is £300 ( additional to the 20-hour professional training cost )

In this class, you will 

  • Explain motivation & ambitions
  • Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
  • Describe the current relationship situation and how you see working alongside this intimate work.
  • Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage to professional
  • Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and parental and family relationships when you are young.
  • Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a male volunteer receiver.


Taking this induction & assessment class does not guarantee that you will be accepted to the professional training. It may be that after the induction, it is felt that you need more time to consider the decision before committing to the time and cost, or maybe take the Foundation and Intermediate class and then return at a future date for a further ten hours of the two professional training classes.

The 20-hour Professional Training

Combines the Foundation, Intermediate and Advanced training and business set-up all in one package

This professional training is specifically designed for those women who want a career as a professional sensual therapist giving to male clients. Whether to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this course can immediately launch you into a career that can earn you upwards of £4000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner. You will become skilled in giving a 90-minute full-body sensual massage – with 10-12 hours of guided massage sessions, practising on various (fit, healthy-bodied) male volunteer receivers.


This training includes the following teaching:

  • Understanding male arousal and what men enjoy sensually and sexually
  • On how to welcome and have a pre-treatment conversation
  • Client care to encourage confidence and calm in the client
  • Learn about male arousal challenges, i.e. erectile problems, coming too soon, inability to orgasm etc.
  • Learning standard therapeutic massage techniques
  • How to gradually incorporate entire body sensual arousal into a massage
  • Learn to encourage slow arousal by stimulating his mind by touching the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the male body.
  • Use your body contact to stimulate him
  • Techniques for chest massage and nipple stimulation
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage within the massage
  • Using toys within the massage
  • External anal stimulation
  • Prostate massage
  • Testicle massage
  • Perineum touch
  • Frenum stimulation
  • Oral techniques
  • Various masturbation techniques
  • Introducing light domination into the massage
  • Edging him to orgasm
  • Nipple stimulation techniques
  • To learn the unique testicle technique that Colin has devised that will genuinely blow his mind
  • How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
  • Various positions to allow or avoid mutual intimate touch
  • Learn multiple positions to give and receive oral during a massage (this is optional)
  • How to edge him to orgasm
  • Multiple positions to bring him to orgasm
  • How to make the massage fully sexual but maintain the integrity of the sensual massage.

Other training

  • 3 hours of theory on the psychological and emotional aspects of giving a sensual massage
  • Your own 90-minute massage that Colin gives at the end of the first 8 hours of training (this is optional and can be swapped for another practice session with a volunteer)

Business Training

  • Setting up your treatment space
  • Creating your brand and image
  • Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive cost-effective marketing.
  • Six months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance
  • Six months of free access to all the video tutorials on  
  • Six months of free promotion on the Intimate Tutorials website ( upon your request )
  • having your massage filmed and promoted via Intimate Tutorials


There are three training options to select from

Option 1

Four male volunteers + your massage – £1900

Practising on four different female volunteers in six practice sessions with your own massage to follow after given by Colin 

  • Session 1 = one male volunteer x two practice massages
  • Session 2 = one male volunteer x two practice massages
  • Session 3 = one male volunteer x one practice massage + massage for yourself
  • Session 4 = business set up session followed by one male volunteer x one practice massage

Option 2

Five different male volunteers – £1900

Practising on five different male volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

  • Session 1 = one male volunteer x two practice massages
  • Session 2 = one male volunteer x two practice massages
  • Session, 3 = two male volunteers, x two practice massages
  • Session 4 = business set up session followed by one male volunteer x one practice massage

Option 3

Six different male volunteers – £2000

Practising on six different male volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

  • Session 1 = one male volunteer x two practice massages
  • Session 2 = two male volunteers x two practice massages
  • Session 3 = two male volunteers x two practice massages
  • Session 4 = business set up session followed by one male volunteer x one practice massage

Mixed Gender Classes

20-hour Professional  – Five practice sessions – Practicing on two males and three females or visa versa (no massage for the student) – £2125

Add On your own massage

Receive a 90-minute massage for yourself

This can be added to option two or three at £100

When can I take a class?

The Experiential session is 2.5 hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional classes are held in 5-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement

Monday to Friday 5-hour sessions are usually either:-

  • 10 am to 3 pm
  • 1 pm to 6 pm
  • 5 pm to 10 pm

Saturday 5-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 3 pm
  • Noon to 5 pm

Over what period can I spread my classes?

  • Combined Foundation & Intermediate 2 x 5 hours must be completed within six weeks
  • Professional Training 4 x 5 hours must be completed within twelve weeks.

Frequency of classes

The ten and twenty-hour classes involve intensive learning and massage practice.  Therefore it is important to leave at least three days in between each five-hour class to allow for rest and independent practice sessions.

How soon do I need to book a class?

These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one five-hour class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Immediate bookings supplement cost

If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, an extra 10% charge will be made if I can accommodate you.

Splitting the classes

Can I take the Foundation class and then return later and take the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations class?

Yes, The Foundation Class can be followed by a further 5 hours of Intermediate training or 15 hours of Professional training; however, the cost is more being split classes.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one person taking a class.  If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.

Deposit & terms

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts  You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.

24-hour cancellations or no show

If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.

Take out cancellation insurance.

We recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy, For example, to cover any cancellation.

Payment Plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I do sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to make an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

Buy Now Pay Later

Take six weeks to pay for the treatment of your choice.

Spread training and payment over six months.

To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]

Example Agenda for Option Three Professional Training

20 hours combined Foundation, Intermediate & Professional Training

4 x 5-hour workshop sessions 

This agenda is given as guidance and can change according to availability and suitability.

Day 1 

1-hour introduction to sensual massage and the psychology of male arousal
2 hour step-by-step massage practical on the male volunteer
30 minutes Feedback & break
75 minutes 4 hands practice massage on same male volunteer

Day 2

30-minute catch-up
2-hour refresher four-hands massage practice on second male volunteer
30 minutes feedback and break
90-minute solo guided massage given to third male volunteer with Colin supporting when needed

Day 3

30-minute catch-up
2-hour refresher four hands massage given to fourth male volunteer
30 minutes feedback and break
90-minute solo two hands massage given to with male volunteer, with Colin observing only

Day 4

2.5 hours – Business guidance mentoring
Either a 90-minute massage for a student given by Colin or
90-minute solo two hands massage given to 6th male volunteer with Colin observing only

Additional provisions

  • Bullet point guidance sheet provided
  • Six month’s free access to the Intimate Tutorials website

  • Three months of telephone support.
  • Option 3 only – Optional refresher session was given to a male volunteer at a discounted price of £100
  • Option to have your massage filmed for free and promoted to the Intimacy Matters & Intimate Tutorials website
  • Certificate of completion

Male Volunteers

You may practice on one to six male volunteer receivers depending on your chosen class.
I currently have about 300 men on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all these men have been to see me as a client or taken a class, or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to volunteer. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim, toned, and masculine. All are very comfortable with other sexuality and are eager to help women learn more about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of men.

When I have a class booked a couple of days before the class, I send out a request to those on the list giving basic details of the student whom I require a receiver for. I send them your image, your name ( it can be a pseudonym) and basic information about you ( profession, age, sexuality) and your motivation for taking the class.

If a student selects to have a volunteer from this list as their receiver rather than bring their own, I try to match the student’s desired type as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed, as much depends on who is available on the day.  The men on this volunteer list are happy to receive genital arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.


  • Given by Naomi – Massage My Man 20-hour Professional Training February / March 2023

I have just completed the 20-hour Professional massage course with Colin and learned so much about making psychology and arousal. I am an escort and have found a difference in the type of clients I have had come for the massage. They are more chilled out Type B, whereas the escort clients are often Type A personality fast lane drivers. It’s been exciting to meet different types of clients and experience more relaxing interactions where everything flows much slower. It’s been great to learn all the massage techniques to give guys the ultimate pampering experience and fully let go without having to perform or feel under pressure. Colin picked some amazing volunteers; we trained in his premises in Sloane Square, which is very easy to get to, a lovely venue. Colin has so much knowledge and techniques you couldn’t learn anywhere else. For any person wanting to learn new skills and connect better with their partner, this is the best place to learn or train as a massage therapist.

  • Given by Sarah – Massage My Man workshop learning to give erotic massage to men – October 2020

A great experience. Colin makes you feel at ease and takes you on a journey to discover exciting aspects of sexuality in a friendly, engaging environment. I highly recommend this to singles or couples who want to learn about themselves and spend a relaxing evening with like-minded people.

  • Given by Faith – Level 2 Workshop learning how to provide a sensual massage to both males and females – January 2019

I had a fantastic experience and learned a lot of techniques required to perform an erotic massage that will hopefully enable me to enhance my sexuality with my partner. Aside from the method, Colin also was very comprehensive in consulting the psychological side of it. Thx

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Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here