massage My man 12 hour sensual massage class

The Foundation & Intermediate

12-hour Combined Course

By selecting the combined Foundation & Intermediate 12-hour Course, you benefit from a 15% discount


Elevate Your Confidence and Pleasure-Giving Skills

Are you ready to become one of the top 10% of women in the art of giving pleasure? Our comprehensive training program is designed to enhance your ability to arouse and create prolonged erotic pleasure, maximising fulfilment for both you and your partner.

Course Overview

Our twelve-hour training program combines the foundational techniques with intermediate skills, ensuring you receive a well-rounded education in pleasure-giving. This class is perfect for girlfriends, wives, and single women who want to learn how to give sensual massages for personal use.

Why Take This Course?

Boost Your Confidence:

  • Gain the skills and knowledge to become a confident, skilled lover.
  • Overcome anxiety in sexual situations by learning to take control and occasionally become dominant.

Enhance Your Relationship:

  • Strengthen the emotional and physical bond with your partner.
  • Learn techniques that bring prolonged pleasure and satisfaction to both you and your partner.

Personal Empowerment:

  • Empower yourself with the knowledge and skills to explore and enjoy your sexuality fully.
  • Transform your intimate moments into fulfilling experiences.

This class is ideal for any woman looking to enhance her sexual skills, boost her confidence, and bring more pleasure into her intimate relationships. Join us and become a more confident, knowledgeable, and skilled lover.

Hands-On Practice and Insightful Discussions

The training includes four massage practice sessions on male volunteers (or your partner) and an in-depth discussion on male arousal and desires.

What You’ll Learn

Foundation and Intermediate Techniques:

Sensual Massage in Different Contexts:

    • How to use sensual massage in dating and casual encounters
    • How to incorporate sensual massage into a long-term relationship
    • How to involve third parties or other couples in sensual massage

Male Arousal Insights:

    • More in-depth psychology of male arousal
    • How to gradually arouse a male body
    • Nipple stimulation techniques
    • Testicle techniques devised by Colin that will genuinely blow his mind

Full-Body Sensual Massage:

    • How to give a 90-minute full-body sensual massage
    • How to stimulate his body in ways he has never experienced before

Specialized Techniques:

    • How to give body-to-body massage
    • How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
    • How to give prostate massage
    • Various styles of penis massage
    • Assertive techniques to dominate him

Positional Mastery:

    • Multiple positions to allow or avoid mutual intimate touch
    • Various positions to give and receive oral during a massage (optional)
    • How to edge him to orgasm
    • Various positions to bring him to orgasm

Sensual Connect

An invitation to join Sensual Connect – the intimacy matters networking platform for lovers of sensual massage and erotic foreplay and free ongoing access to the sensual massage video tutorials and other video tutorials teaching erotic techniques.

There are five course options to select from

By selecting the combined Foundation & Intermediate 12-hour Course, you benefit from a 15% discount


Option one – £1550

Practising on four male volunteers in four practice modules.


Option two – £1450

Practising on a male friend or partner and three male volunteers in four practice modules.


Option three – mixed gender – £1650

Practising on two female and two male volunteer receivers in four practice modules.


Application Form

Click here to complete the Massage My Man application form

Q & A

When can I take a training?

The Experiential session is 2.5 hours, and the Foundation Intermediate and Professional classes are held in 3-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement

Monday to Friday, 3-hour sessions are usually either:-

  • 10 am to 1 pm
  • 1 pm to 4 pm
  • 5 pm to 8 pm
  • 6 pm to 9 pm

Saturday 3-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 1 pm
  • Noon to 3 pm

Over what period can I spread my training?

  • Combined Foundation & Intermediate 4 x 3-hour must be completed within six weeks

Splitting the training

Can I take the Foundation class and then return later and take the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations training?

Yes, the 6-hour Foundation can be followed by a further 6 hours of Intermediate training, 6 hours of Advanced training, or 8 hours of Professional Practice training; however, the cost is higher when split into courses.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one person taking a class.  If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.

Deposit & Cancellation Terms

To secure your place, a 50% deposit is required at the time of booking.
The remaining balance is due the day before your training begins.

Changing or Cancelling Your Training (More than 72 hours’ notice)

If you need to cancel at least 72 hours (3 days) before your first training session, you have two options:

• Receive 75% of your deposit refunded, or
• Transfer your booking to a new start date that begins within 12 weeks of the original booking

If the new training is not taken within this timeframe, the deposit is forfeited.

Postponements Within 2–3 Days of Start Date

If you postpone 2–3 days before your training:

Your deposit can be transferred only if:

a) You provide a new start date within 7 days of postponing
b) The new training begins within 12 weeks of the original date

If these conditions are not met, the deposit is forfeited and a new booking will be required.

24-Hour Cancellation or Non-Attendance

Cancellations made within 24 hours, or failure to attend on the day, will result in the loss of the full deposit.

Missing an Individual Training Module

If you do not attend a scheduled module and have not given at least 24 hours’ notice, that session cannot be repeated and no refund will be given.

Pausing Your Training

Once your deposit or full fee has been paid, your place on the course is secured.

If genuine health issues or significant personal circumstances arise (with supporting evidence), you may pause your training.
All remaining sessions must then be completed within 12 months of your original start date.

Withdrawing After Training Has Started

If you choose to withdraw from the course after it has begun, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions you have attended.

Exceptional Circumstances

In cases such as bereavement, serious injury, or significant illness, I will always do my best to be fair and supportive where appropriate evidence is provided.

This policy forms part of your training agreement and ensures clarity and fairness for both of us.

Payment Plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I do sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to make an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

Spread training and payment over two months.

To help, I can offer instalment plans that let you spread your payments. For more details, email Colin.

Male Volunteers


Volunteer Receiver Information for Sensual Massage Training

Our training program offers the opportunity to practice on one to six male volunteer receivers, depending on the class you choose. Here’s how the process works:

Volunteer Receivers

We maintain a list of approximately 300 male volunteers. These men have previously attended sessions as clients participated in classes, received demonstration massages, or chose to volunteer. They range in age from 21 to 55 and come from diverse ethnicities and physiques, including slim, toned, and masculine builds. All volunteers are comfortable with various sexualities and are eager to help women learn about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of men.

Selection Process

  1. Notification: A few days before the class, we send out a request to the volunteer list. This request includes basic details about the student who needs a receiver, such as an image, name (which may be a pseudonym), profession, age, sexuality, and motivation for taking the class.
  2. Matching: If you choose to have a volunteer from our list rather than bringing your own partner, we strive to match your desired type as indicated on your application form. However, we cannot guarantee specific age or body type, as availability depends on who is free on the day of the class.

Volunteer Participation

  • Comfort and Boundaries: The men on our volunteer list are comfortable with receiving genital arousal and body-to-body contact during the massage.
  • Reciprocal Touch: While the volunteers are happy to participate in these activities, the decision to provide any reciprocal touch back to the student is at their discretion on the day of the class.

This system ensures that you have a suitable practice partner, allowing you to enhance your skills in a supportive and educational environment.

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TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE 

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here