Discover a Career of Intimate Connection, Confidence & Freedom
If you’ve ever imagined turning your passion for intimacy, connection and touch into a fulfilling and ethical profession, welcome — you’ve found the perfect place to begin.
At Intimacy Matters, I offer a comprehensive 26-hour Professional Sensual Massage Training, designed to empower individuals of all genders to become confident, ethical, and skilled sensual massage practitioners. Whether you’re seeking to establish a part-time income stream, build a full-time independent business, or simply explore the art of conscious erotic touch, this training gives you all the tools you need — and more.
A Flexible and Inclusive Training Pathway
My professional training is open to people of all backgrounds and orientations. It is delivered through a structured yet adaptable format that includes:
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Foundation Training (6 hours) – Essential principles of sensual massage, boundaries, breath and arousal.
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Intermediate Training (6 hours) – Deeper techniques and working with erotic energy.
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Advanced Training (6 hours) – Full erotic bodywork with confidence and emotional awareness.
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Launch Pad Business Training (8 hours) – Everything you need to turn your new skill into a thriving, ethical practice.
Training takes place one-on-one with me and includes practical experience on volunteer male and female receivers. You’ll receive direct feedback and live practice, ensuring you’re confident and ready to work professionally.
Choose the Specialised Path That Fits Your Passion
This professional training programme can be taken as a general course, or you may choose a specialist module that reflects your desired client base:
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Massage My Woman – For men who wish to give sensual massage to women.
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Massage My Man – For women who want to give sensual massage to men.
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Sensual Sisters – For women wishing to work with other women.
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Touch & Turn On – For men who wish to give sensual massage to men.
Each module is individually tailored but follows the same professional framework. Mixed-gender or non-binary pathways can also be designed upon request.
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Everything You Need to Launch Your Practice
This isn’t just a massage class — it’s a launchpad for your future career. Alongside hands-on training, you’ll receive guidance and resources designed to support every aspect of your development as a confident and ethical sensual practitioner.
Here’s what’s included:
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Printed Worksheets that support and reinforce the hands-on training, covering key techniques, safety, consent, and client communication.
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Access to 6 Months of Tutorial Videos, allowing you to revisit the practical methods, theory, and sensual techniques at your own pace.
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A Certificate of Completion, recognising your training and readiness to work in a professional capacity.
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Filming of Your Final Practice Massage (optional), creating a professional-quality video you can use to promote your work online or in private client communications.
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Business Set-Up and Marketing Advice, including help defining your niche, understanding legal considerations, creating a brand, building a website, and reaching your ideal clients.
Additionally, you’ll receive support with the more nuanced aspects of becoming a sensual massage practitioner:
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Treatment Types and Pricing – Together, we’ll craft a clear treatment menu tailored to your strengths and preferences. You’ll learn how to set appropriate pricing based on your experience level, market demand, and client value perception, including how to structure single sessions, packages, or bespoke offerings.
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Defining Your Own Boundaries – You’ll be supported to explore and establish your own intimate and sexual boundaries. This is essential not only for ethical practice, but for ensuring long-term job satisfaction and emotional wellbeing. You’ll learn how to stay true to your personal comfort zone while still offering deeply fulfilling experiences for your clients.
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Managing Client Desires and Expectations – Working intimately with others can bring up a wide range of expectations. You’ll be coached in how to communicate clearly, navigate emotional dynamics, and maintain control of the session in a way that is kind, respectful, and firm. You’ll learn how to say no without losing rapport, and how to guide clients toward mutual satisfaction without compromising your principles.
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Membership to Sensual Connect, giving you access to a growing network of like-minded practitioners, volunteer receivers, and potential clients. This private platform offers a safe space for connection, collaboration and visibility.
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Six Months of Post-Training Support, where you can contact me by phone or text with real-life questions, business decisions, or emotional support as you build your confidence and client base.
Whether you’re just starting out or adding a new dimension to your therapeutic or sensual skillset, this course provides everything you need to start — and sustain — a rewarding, independent practice doing work that brings pleasure, connection, and transformation to others.
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Hear from Those Who’ve Trained Before You
“This training has completely changed my life. I now work part-time as a sensual masseur and love every moment of it. Colin’s approach is personal, intuitive and professional.”
— James, Massage My Woman Graduate
“As a woman learning to work with men, I appreciated the clear boundaries, emotional support, and real-world business advice. I launched my own website within two months of completing the course!”
— Ella, Massage My Man Graduate
Ready to Start?
This is a bold and exciting journey — one that allows you to work on your own terms, bring joy and healing to others, and be part of a growing global community of conscious sensualists.
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Book Your Discovery Call
For those who are curious but not ready to commit, I’m happy to offer a no-obligation discovery call to discuss whether professional sensual massage training is right for you.
Colin Richards
Founder of Intimacy Matters, Sex & Relationship Therapist, Sensual Training Educator