The 26 Hour

Massage My Woman Combined & Professional Training

For men who want to give sensual massage to women as a part-time or full-time profession.

This professional training is designed for those men who want a career as professional sensual massage therapists given to female clients. Whether to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this course can launch you into a career that can potentially earn upwards of £4000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner. You will become skilled in giving a 90-minute full-body sensual massage to a variety of female types and understand the many and varied motivations of women who want to experience sensual massage. 

This 26 hour Combined Professional Training is split into five modules

  • Module 1 – The 3-hour Induction class (to be taken if you have not had any previous training with Colin)
  • Module 2 – The 6-hour Foundation class (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 3 – The 6-hour Intermediate class (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 4 – The 6-hour Professional Launch Pad class part 1 (taken as 1 x 6 or 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 5 – The 5-hour Professional Training Launch Pad class part 2 ( taken as 1 x 5 hours)

Splitting the modules

If you have already taken the Foundation or Intermediate classes or attended a group workshop then you do not need to take module 1 the  3 hour Induction class. If you have taken the Foundation class already you can skip to take module 3,4 and 5 If you have taken the Foundation and Intermediate class you can skip to take modules 4 and 5

The 3-hour Induction Class £300

To qualify for the 23-hour professional training, you must either

Attend a 3-hour induction class at a stand-alone price of £300

Or have taken the Experiential or Foundation class before.

The purpose of the Induction Class is for me to hear your motivation for wanting to embark on a career as a part or full-time sensual masseur for women and for me to explain the complexities and responsibilities of working in this capacity. It also inside you giving a sensual massage with me to a female volunteer receiver.  You must understand what is required to be a successful professional sensual for women and to learn about their motivations for taking this intimate treatment. We also discuss your budget and costs and the time scale of making your practice financially successful. After taking the Induction class, I will either invite you to continue to take the Professional Training or, on some occasions, I may feel you are better suited to begin by taking the 6-hour Foundation Class and build up to the Professional Training over a more extended time frame. In this Induction class, you will 

  • Explain your motivation & ambitions.
  • Discuss your marketing visibility and any concerns you have about confidentiality and showing your identity.
  • Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
  • Describe your current relationship situation and how you see this working alongside this intimate work.
  • Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage as a professional therapist.
  • Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and parental and family relationships when you are young. 
  • Discuss any concerns and ask questions about the training and ongoing business set-up.
  • Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a female volunteer receiver.


Taking this induction class does not guarantee that you will be accepted to the professional training. It may be that after the induction, I believe you need more time to consider the decision before committing to the time and cost. I may recommend you start by taking a stand 2 x 3-hour Foundation Class and maybe follow on with the 2 x 3-hour Intermediate Class and then return at a future date for a further ten hours of the 2 x 5-hour professional training classes.

Skipping the Induction Class

In certain situations, the Induction Class can be skipped. If the student has already taken training in giving massages or is already working professionally, seeing clients for sensual/intimate/somatic bodywork, it may be possible to move directly to the Foundation Class.

The 23-Hour Combined Professional Training

Module 2 – Foundation Class

(taken as 2 x 3 hours)

In the 6-hour Foundation class, you will learn:- 

  • Learn about the biology and anthropology of female and male sexuality and how it relates to sensual massage.
  • Receive an introduction to the psychology of female arousal and how it relates to physiological arousal.
  • Give a full-body sensual massage with therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
  • To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating her mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the female body.
  • To give breast and nipple massage
  • To give buttock and upper thigh massage
  • To master clitoral stimulation
  • To explore external vaginal stimulation
  • And observe via a demonstration of internal vaginal massage
  • And observe via a demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
  • To practice various positions to give clitoral stimulation
  • To edge her towards multiple clitoral orgasms
  • Bullet point guidance sheet provided

Module 3 – Intermediate Class

(taken as 2 x 3 hours)

In the 6-hour Intermediate class, you will learn

  • Additional therapeutic strokes
  • External anal stimulation
  • Internal anal stimulation ( optional)
  • Therapeutic internal vaginal massage
  • G Spot stimulation
  • Body-on-body massage ( given naked )
  • Assertive vaginal stimulation top & side positions
  • Techniques to encourage female ejaculation
  • Incorporating sex toys
  • Positions for oral stimulation ( demonstrated, not given )
  • Bondasage techniques ( dominant, i.e. spanking, restrictive holds)
  • D Spot stimulation ( rear of the vagina )

Module 4  – Professional Launch Pad Training Part 1

(taken as 1 x 6 hours or 2 x 3 hours)

In this 6-hour class we cover:-

  • You will give two more practice massages on two female receivers, repeating all you have learned (or male receivers if required).  The student gives most of the practice sessions, with Colin guiding and stepping in only when needed or reminding you of the techniques learned and further methods to stimulate that can include:-
  • Managing the appointment: introductions, how to conduct an appointment as a professional masseur, and tailoring to your client’s needs.
  • Developing the techniques learned in the Foundation and Intermediate classes to apply them to a professional situation
  • Understanding the motivations and situations that female clients may bring to the treatment
  • Managing reciprocal touch and arousal
  • Being able to provide a bespoke massage based on a completed Consent Authorisation & Request Form, and this the client needs
  • Personal boundaries in a professional setting

Module 5  – Professional Launch Pad Training Part 2

(taken as 1 x 5 hours or 1 x 2 hours 7 1 x 3 hours)

2 hours of business training and final practice massage

  • Setting up your treatment space
  • Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
  • Creating your brand and image
  • Booking procedures and security
  • Insurance
  • Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive cost-effective marketing.
  • Six months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance
  • Certificate of completion

Final practice massage – 3 hours

You give this to the female receiver on your own, with Colin observing, or if you have selected it, Colin gives you your massage.

Application Form

To apply for professional training, click here.

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once I receive your registration form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training.

Dates of class and time limits for taking the classes.

Classes for Professional training can be spread over a period but must be completed within twelve weeks of the first class date. If the training is not completed within this period, the remaining time is forfeited, and there is no refund. 

When can I take a class?

The Induction session is three hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional classes are held in 4 x 3 -hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement.

Monday to Friday 3-hour sessions can be taken between times of

  • 10 am to 9 pm

Saturday 3-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 6 pm

Sunday classes can be arranged by special request but are subject to a 10% additional cost for that particular module.

Over what period can I spread my classes?

  • Combined Foundation & Intermediate 4 x 3 hours must be completed within six weeks.
  • Professional Training must be completed within twelve weeks.

Frequency of sessions

The sessions involve intensive learning and massage practice.  Therefore, it is recommended that students leave at least three days between each session to allow for rest and independent practice.

How soon do I need to book a class?

These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Immediate bookings supplement cost

If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, I will charge an extra 10% if I can accommodate you.

Splitting the classes

Can I take the Foundation class and then return later and take the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations class? Yes, the Foundation Class can be followed by a further six hours of Intermediate training or 11 hours of Professional launch pad training; however, the cost is higher for split classes.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one person taking a class.  If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.

23-Hour Professional Training Costs & Options 

Prices are all-inclusive of the Foundation class, Intermediate class & Professional training.

Option 1 – Six different female volunteers + your massage – £2000

Practising on four different female volunteers in six practice sessions with your massage to follow after given by Colin 

  • Session 1 = two female volunteers in two practice massages
  • Session 2 = two female volunteers in two practice massage
  • Session 3 = one female volunteer in one practice massage + massage for yourself
  • Session 4 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage

Option 2 – Seven different female volunteers (no massage for you) – £2300

Practising on seven different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

  • Session 1 = two female volunteer in two practice massages
  • Session 2 = two female volunteer in two practice massages
  • Session 3 = two female volunteers in two separate practice massages
  • Session 4 = business, set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage

Option 3 – Seven different female volunteers plus refresher session & video filming – £2600

Practising on seven different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

  • Session 1 = two female volunteer in two practice massages
  • Session 2 = two female volunteer in two practice massages
  • Session 3 = two female volunteers in two separate practice massages
  • Session 4 = business, set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage


  • An addition 2.5 hour refresher session giving a 90 minute massage to be taken within six weeks of the completion of the last class
  • Have you massage filmed and edited for use on your web site to promote to prospective clients

Add On Your own Massage

If you decide to take option 2 or 3 and still want to receive a massage for yourself this can be added as an extra taken as an arranged time for 50% discount off quoited prices. This massage can be given as a two hands ( male only )  or four hands massage ( male / female masseur)

Buy Now Pay Later

Take six weeks to pay for the class of your choice.

Spread training and payment over six months.

To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit. 24-hour cancellations or no-show If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit. Take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.

The Female Volunteer Receivers

Who will be my volunteer receiver ?

You may practice on one to seven female volunteer receivers, depending on your chosen class. I currently have about 240 women on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all are professional women who have been to see me as a client or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to become a volunteer receiver. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim to curvy. All are very comfortable with their own sexuality and volunteer become they want to help men learn more about sensual foreplay and making the erotic experience better for female partners.

A few days before a class is planned, I send out a volunteer request to the female volunteer list. When requesting a volunteer i need to give basic information on the male student taking the class. or group workshop. This will include a photo of the student and a bit of background information ( name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality)  on the student and his motivation for taking the class.

I try to match the student’s desired type of volunteer receiver as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed, as much depends on who is available on the day.  Generally, the women on this volunteer list are happy to receive clitoral and vaginal arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, receiving oral stimulation or giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.

What if you can not find a volunteer receiver for my class?

Sometimes, particularly if I have short notice to arrange a volunteer, I may not be able to find a volunteer receiver for a class. In this case the class will be postponed and moved to another date. A decision is made up to twelve hours before the class start time and we discus a new date and time. I can run your class in the on weekdays in the morning, afternoons or evenings, however to have a better chance of getting a volunteer receiver of your choice I recommend you take an evening class starting at 5pm or 6pm to finish at 8pm or 9pm finish as more female volunteers are likely to be free at that time. Saturday classes between 10am and 6pm also offer a wider selection of female volunteers

Professional Receivers 

If a student wants to guarantee the age or body type of the receiver, I provide below contact details of some private individuals and some recommended agencies that can offer professional female volunteers for you to select from. Arraghments are made by you with them and payment is made between yourself and the professional female.
Suggested agencies are
Private individuals 

Testimonials from past students taking a Massage My Woman Class

From Luis October 2023

Did the massage My Woman Foundation and Intermediate course with Colin over two separate weekends. I was a little nervous at before I went to first lesson but was immediately put at ease by Colin once I arrived at his place. The training itself was great. Colin passes on his knowledge and you get “hands on” practice on some lovely volunteers. I would advise any man who loves his woman to do this course. It is amazing.

From Ash July 2023

Colin is a master of the field. He has a keen sense of psychology around sexuality, and is also incredibly well-versed in the anthropology and evolutionary biology of sex. Combine this with decades of experience and satisfied clients means Colin’s workshops are a one of a kind wealth of knowledge in the art of sensual touch. Above all, Colin is very respectful, professional, and working with the volunteers alongside Colin has been a very enriching experience! (I took the MMW Foundation Class)

From Simon April 2023

Truly an amazing and enlightening experience, Colin’s wealth of knowledge and experience provided me with an in-depth insight into giving female pleasure. Was a very eye-opening experience and I learnt techniques that can extend beyond massage. Would highly recommend! Colin

From Jools March 2019

Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates relaxedly, putting everyone at ease, making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone considering offering sensual massage to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”

From Daniel June 2017

I attended a half-day course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session.  I particularly liked how he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine.  I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.

TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here

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