Massage My Woman
26-Hour Combined
Professional Practitioner Training
(combining the Foundation, Intermediate, Advanced & Professional Launch Pad training)
(29 hours if the Induction session is required)
Are you passionate about helping women feel confident and relaxed? This professional training is designed for men who want to pursue a career in sensual massage therapy, specifically for female clients. Whether you’re seeking part-time flexibility or a full-time profession, this course will equip you with the skills to provide 90-minute full-body sensual massages tailored to a diverse range of women.
With the potential to earn upwards of £5,000 ($6,000) per month as a full-time practitioner, this career offers both financial reward and personal fulfilment. You’ll gain in-depth knowledge of the diverse motivations and desires of women seeking sensual massage, enabling you to create meaningful, impactful experiences for your clients.
Take the next step in your career journey and become a professional sensual massage therapist—start your training today!
The 26-hour Combined Professional Practitioner Training incorporates six modules
- Optional – 3-hour Induction Session (to be taken if you have not had any previous training with Colin or any other sensual massage training). This can be discussed on the application.
- Module 1 – 6-hour Foundation (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 2 – 6-hour Intermediate (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 3 – 6-hour Advanced Training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 4 – 5-hour Launch Pad part 1 (taken as 1 x 5 hours or 1 x 2 & 1 x 3 hours)
- Module 5 – 3-hour Launch Pad part 2 – A final practice massage and an optional photo session for your marketing.
Application Form
Click here to apply to take this training
The Optional 3-hour Induction Session – £350
Take the next step toward a rewarding career in sensual massage
Embarking on the journey to become a professional sensual masseur for women is both rewarding and transformative. This career requires dedication, skill, and an understanding of the unique responsibilities involved. To ensure you are fully prepared for this commitment, I have made the 3-hour Induction Training optional as a first step.
The Induction Session offers a safe and supportive environment for you to explore whether this path aligns with your passions and abilities. It allows you to experience giving a sensual massage, helping you assess if you enjoy the practice and possess the natural aptitude to excel in this field. Moreover, this training introduces the complexities of working as a professional masseur, including venue requirements, potential impacts on your personal relationships, and the steps needed to achieve financial success in your practice.
Choosing to take this initial training demonstrates your seriousness and helps you make an informed decision before committing to the 26-hour professional training—a significant but worthwhile investment of time and resources. This step also gives me the opportunity to understand your motivations and guide you accordingly. By starting with the Induction Training, you set a strong foundation for a fulfilling and professional career in sensual massage.
The cost of the induction class is £350 ( additional to the 26-hour professional training cost )
In this class, you will
- Explain your motivation & ambition for embarking on this training and profession
- Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
- Describe your current relationship situation and how you see this working alongside this intimate work.
- Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage as a professional therapist.
- Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and your relationships with your parents and family when you were young.
- Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a female volunteer receiver.
Assessment
Completing the Induction session does not guarantee automatic acceptance into the Professional Training. After the induction, I may recommend taking additional time to reflect on your decision before committing to the full training and its associated costs. In some cases, I might advise you to begin with 2 x 3-hour Foundation Classes, followed by 2 x 3-hour Intermediate Classes. After building your skills, you can then return for the full 15 hours of Professional Training.
Skipping the Experiential Session
In certain circumstances, the Induction Class may be skipped. If you have prior experience in massage training or are already working professionally in sensual, intimate, or somatic bodywork, you may be able to proceed directly to the Foundation Training.
Module One
The 6-hour Foundation Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour sessions)
Advanced materials and information
The day before your Foundation class, you will receive:-
- The Agenda for the Foundation class, with details of the respective volunteer receivers you will be practising on
- A PowerPoint presentation of the massage that you will be learning
- Invited to become a member of Sensual Connect . Sensual Connect is the Intimacy Matters networking platform for lovers of sensual massage and erotic foreplay, where you can watch for free many sensual massage training videos in the Sensual Massage Training Videos Group and The Intimacy Matters Graduates Group.
Once you have completed the 26 hour professional training you also receive an invitation to join Sensual Connect –as a professional member and to promote your new sensual massage practice to the membership.
In the 6-hour Foundation Training, you will learn:-
Introductions & Conversations
In every sensual massage training session I run — whether it’s a 2.5-hour experiential class or part of the full 26-hour professional programme — I place enormous importance on the opening conversation. This is not just a polite ice-breaker; it’s the foundation for the trust, respect, and safety that underpin all truly great sensual massage work.
We begin with a 30–45 minute group discussion in which I guide students through:
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Understanding female arousal — the physiological, emotional, and psychological components that make women’s sexual response unique.
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Differences between men’s and women’s approaches to sexuality — how arousal patterns, emotional readiness, and context influence the experience.
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Why women seek sensual massage — including:
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Overcoming anorgasmia
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Addressing vaginismus
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Filling gaps in sexual knowledge or confidence
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Releasing guilt or shame surrounding sex
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Exploring sexuality in a safe, non-judgmental setting
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Simply enjoying pleasure for its own sake
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This discussion helps students appreciate that their role is not just to perform techniques, but to meet each receiver where she is emotionally, physically, and psychologically.
When the Volunteer Arrives
Once our female volunteer receiver joins us, we allow 20–30 minutes for an intentional, two-way conversation.
The student is encouraged to:
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Introduce themselves and their training journey — explain why they are here, what stage of the course they are on, and what they hope to develop in today’s session.
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Listen to the volunteer’s motivations — understanding why she enjoys assisting in training, and what she personally values in a sensual massage.
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Explore her preferences and boundaries — discussing what she finds most pleasurable, what makes her feel safe and relaxed, and any areas she would like the student to focus on or avoid.
This exchange is not a formal interview — it’s a warm, respectful, and genuinely curious conversation that establishes mutual understanding.
The Practical Teaching includes
- Learning a full-body sensual massage routine to include therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
- To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating her mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the female body.
- To give breast and nipple massage
- To give a buttock and upper thigh massage
- To master clitoral stimulation
- To explore external vaginal stimulation
- And observe via a demonstration of internal vaginal massage
- And observe via a demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
- To practice various positions to give clitoral stimulation
- To edge her towards multiple clitoral orgasms
Module Two
The 6-hour Intermediate Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour sessions)
In the 6-hour Intermediate Training, you will learn
- Additional therapeutic strokes
- External anal stimulation
- Internal anal stimulation ( optional)
- Therapeutic internal vaginal massage
- G Spot stimulation
- Body-on-body massage ( given naked )
- Assertive vaginal stimulation top & side positions
- Techniques to encourage female ejaculation
- Incorporating sex toys
- Positions for oral stimulation ( demonstrated, not given )
- Bondasage techniques ( dominant, i.e. spanking, restrictive holds)
- D Spot stimulation ( rear of the vagina )
Module Three
The 6-hour Advanced Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour sessions)
In this 6-hour class, you will cover two more practice massages on two female receivers, repeating all you have learned, plus additional techniques that may be required by some female clients. These are:-
- Assertive & dominant techniques
- Anal finger stimulation
- Assertive vaginal and G-spot stimulation
- Enabling female ejaculation
- Incorporating oral clitoral practice
- Incorporating vaginal oral stimulation (optional)
- Incorporating anal oral stimulation (optional)
- Simulating sexual intercourse
- Managing reciprocal arousal without losing the integrity of the massage
- Managing receiver-to-giver erotic interactions ie oral and masturbation
- Managing mutual arousal and positions for the masseur to be taken to ejaculation
Module 4: Advanced Training as an Add-On
Part 4 of the Advanced Training can be booked as an independent add-on to the Foundation & Intermediate Training, without the need to take Parts 5 or 6. This option provides flexibility for participants who have completed the Foundation & Intermediate Training but do not wish to continue with the entire Professional Advanced Series.
Eligibility: Only individuals who have completed the Foundation & Intermediate Training are eligible to book Part 4 as a standalone add-on. Read more here
Module Four
2 Hour Launch Pad – Professional Training
(taken 1 x 2-hour sessions)
2 hours of business training and a final practice massage
- Setting up your treatment space
- Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
- Creating your brand and image
- Booking procedures and security
- Insurance
- Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive, cost-effective marketing.
- Six months of telephone suppor,t providing further ongoing advice and guidance
- Managing the appointment: introductions, conducting an appointment as a professional masseur, and tailoring it to your client’s needs.
- Understanding the motivations and situations that female clients may bring to the treatment
- Being able to provide a bespoke massage based on a completed Consent Authorisation & Request Form, and this the client needs
- Personal boundaries in a professional setting
Module Five
6-hour Professional Training
(Taken as 2 x 3 hour sessions)
You give the female receiver 2 x 75-minute full-body massages on your own.
The first massage is given by yourself as if you were giving to a client. Colin is in the room, overseeing the massage as you give, and will be assessing it for style and content.
The second and final massage is given by the student on their own, and Colin is not present. The receiver will give the assessment after the massage is completed. This will also include a feedback form completed by the receiver and sent to the student within a couple of days of completion.
Certificate of Completion
At this point, a certificate of completion of the Professional Training is sent to the student. Inform Colin what names you want on this certificate. Your real name, pseudonym or business name.
Questions & Answers
To learn more about the training details, go to this page
Application Form
To apply for professional training, click here. The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once I receive your registration form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training.
Course Fees
Combined Option – £3000
Teaching sessions are given in 8 x 3-hour modules on eight different recipients
- Module 2 = Foundation – two female volunteers in two practice sessions
- Module 3 = Intermediate – two female volunteers in two practice sessions
- Module 4 =Advanced – two female volunteers in two separate practice sessions
- Module 5 = Launch Pad business set-up session
- Module 6 = Professional Training – You will give two 75-minute practice massages to two different female volunteers.
Non Combined Option – £4000
Taking each training session independently, rather than as a combined package, totals £4000, as shown below. This non-combined option is not time restricted, and the training can be spread over as long a period as suits you.
However, committing to the combined professional training package saves you £1000, a 25% reduction.
- 6 hour Foundation = £850
- 6 hour Intermediate = £950
- 6 hour Advanced = £1000
- 8 hour Launchpad & Professional Training = £1200
Total = £4000
Experience your own massage
This is recommended since experiencing your own sensual massage gives you a much better understanding of the techniques you are learning. As a student taking a massage my man course, you qualify for a 50% discount voucher for a 90-minute massage given by Colin or Carla. This can be booked during the course or after the course is completed
Deposit & Cancellation Terms
To secure your place, a 50% deposit is required at the time of booking. The remaining balance is due the day before your training begins.
Changing or Cancelling Your Training (More than 72 hours’ notice)
If you need to cancel at least 72 hours (3 days) before your first training session, you have two options:
Receive 75% of your deposit refunded, or transfer your booking to a new start date that begins within 12 weeks of the original booking
If the new training is not taken within this timeframe, the deposit is forfeited.
Postponements Within 2–3 Days of Start Date
If you postpone 2–3 days before your training:
Your deposit can be transferred only if:
a) You provide a new start date within 7 days of postponing
b) The new training begins within 12 weeks of the original date
If these conditions are not met, the deposit is forfeited and a new booking will be required.
24-Hour Cancellation or Non-Attendance
Cancellations made within 24 hours, or failure to attend on the day, will result in the loss of the full deposit.
Missing an Individual Training Module
If you do not attend a scheduled module and have not given at least 24 hours’ notice, that session cannot be repeated and no refund will be given.
Period of Training
The 26-hour Professional Practitioner Training should be completed within four months of the start date.
If, after 4 months, there are modules outstanding, these are not refunded, and you will need to pay pro rata for additional modules to receive the certificate of completion
Exceptional Circumstances – Pausing Your Training
If genuine health issues or significant personal circumstances arise (with supporting evidence), you may pause your training. All remaining sessions must then be completed within 12 months of your original start date.
This can be requested in cases such as bereavement, serious injury, or significant illness,
I will always do my best to be fair and supportive where appropriate evidence is provided.
This policy forms part of your training agreement and ensures clarity and fairness for both of us.
Withdrawing After Training Has Started
If you choose to withdraw from the course after it has begun, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions you have attended.
I recommend you take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.
Pay by instalments for the Professional training
I offer instalment plans that let you spread your payments over 3 months in 4 instalments. However, this incurs a 5% interest charge. For more details, contact Colin to explain your situation and request a payment plan. [Click here]
Testimonials from past students taking the Massage My Woman Class
From Luis October 2025
Did the massage My Woman Foundation and Intermediate course with Colin over two separate weekends. I was a little nervous at before I went to first lesson but was immediately put at ease by Colin once I arrived at his place. The training itself was great. Colin passes on his knowledge and you get “hands on” practice on some lovely volunteers. I would advise any man who loves his woman to do this course. It is amazing.
From Ash July 2025
Colin is a master of the field. He has a keen sense of psychology around sexuality, and is also incredibly well-versed in the anthropology and evolutionary biology of sex. Combine this with decades of experience and satisfied clients means Colin’s workshops are a one-of-a-kind wealth of knowledge in the art of sensual touch. Above all, Colin is very respectful, professional, and working with the volunteers alongside Colin has been a very enriching experience! (I took the MMW Foundation Class)
From Simon April 2025
Truly an amazing and enlightening experience, Colin’s wealth of knowledge and experience provided me with an in-depth insight into giving female pleasure. Was a very eye-opening experience and I learnt techniques that can extend beyond massage. Would highly recommend! Colin
From Jools March 2019
Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates relaxedly, putting everyone at ease, making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone considering offering sensual massage to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”
From Daniel June 2017
I attended a half-day course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session. I particularly liked how he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine. I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.
TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involve nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here
