Sensual Massage Courses
& Professional Training
For Singles & Couples
Tuition is given by Colin Richards, assisted by volunteer receivers
Courses for Personal Development
Colin’s personal development courses teach sensual massage with enhanced foreplay techniques and advanced arousal skills that extend lovemaking and ensure orgasmic fulfilment.
Ranging from a 3-hour Experiential Session to the 6-hour Foundation Course, 6-hour Intermediate Course and the 6-hour Advanced Course, students can build a course experience that suits their time frame, budget and desired outcome.
Personal Development Course Types
- Massage My Woman – Go to Men giving to Women Courses
- Massage My Man – Go to Women’s giving to Men Courses
- Touch & Turn On – Go to Men’s giving to Men Courses
- Sensual Sisters – Go to Women giving to Women Courses
- Couples Enhanced Foreplay – Go to Couples Courses

Courses for Professional Training
For those seeking to offer professional sensual massage as a part-time or full-time career, Colin offers an intensive 26-hour training program comprising eight 3-hour practical sessions and one 2-hour business setup session.
Professional Trianing Course Types
- Massage My Woman ( male to female ) – click here
- Massage My Man ( female to male ) – click here
- Sensual Sisters ( female to female ) – click here
- Touch & Turn On (male to male ) – click here
For more detailed information on the Professional Training Course Structure – Click here
Why choose Colin as your teacher?

Twenty Years of Professional Experience as a sensual massage therapist and extensive training and experience in the psychology of sexual arousal, giving a truly holistic approach to his courses.
A Humanistic Philosophy on sexual arousal that combines anthropology, biology, psychology, theapeutic with the erotic in both practical and emotional aspects of giving sensual massage.
Personalised Training – Tailored programs for women, men, and couples to meet your unique needs.
Enhanced Skills – Master techniques that heighten sensitivity, prolong intimacy and deliver deeper orgasms.
Versatile Benefits: Improve intimate experiences with any partner, boosting your confidence and satisfaction.
The Numbers Prove It: Since 2022, Colin has trained 250 men and women and couples in 579 three-hour individual classes to enhance their skills in giving enhanced sexual pleasure both personally and professionally.
Do you have questions?
Chat live with Colin to discuss your unique requirements.- Click the chat image below
Or
- Call or Text / WhatsApp Colin on 07966 522 696
- Email Colin: colin@intimacymatters.co.uk
- Send a request form: Click here

The 2.5-hour Experiential Session
This 2.5-hour introductory session offers a hands-on experience of sensual massage, perfect for beginners who wish to explore and enhance their foreplay skills.
The 6-hour Foundation Course
This comprehensive six-hour training program delves into the art of sensual massage, providing an ideal opportunity to elevate participants' intimate skills. The training consists of two intensive modules, each lasting three hours, ensuring thorough practice and mastery of techniques.
1. Enhanced Relationship Intimacy
Deeper Connection
Learning and practising sensual massage can create a profound emotional and physical connection with your partner, enhancing intimacy and trust and enhancing sexual pleasure.
Improved Communication
The techniques taught encourage open communication about sexual preferences and boundaries, fostering a more honest and fulfilling relationship.
2. Skill Development
Advanced Techniques
The foundation training focused on sensual massage techniques, enabling givers to become more proficient and confident in their abilities to give enhanced sexual pleasure to partners and intimate friends.
Attention to Detail
By focusing on subtle and intricate massage methods, students can learn to be more aware, attentive, and responsive to their partner's needs.
3. Personal Growth
Increased Self-Awareness
Practising these techniques can lead to greater self-awareness and understanding of one's own body and sensations.
Stress Reduction
Sensual massage can be a powerful tool for reducing stress and promoting relaxation, benefiting overall well-being.
4. Flexibility in Learning
Tailored Pace
Whether you are experienced or a beginner, the structured modules allow you to progress comfortably, ensuring a solid foundation before moving to more advanced techniques.
Enhance Current Relationships
For those in a relationship, this training can reignite passion and introduce new dimensions of pleasure and connection.
Preparation for Future Relationships
If you are currently single or have limited experience, this training provides a valuable skill set that can enhance future intimate relationships.
The 6-hour Intermediate Course
Elevate Your Skills to the Next Level
This advanced six-hour training program, divided into two 3-hour intensive massage practice modules, is designed to build upon the foundational techniques learned in the initial course. Whether you choose to take this course immediately after completing the Foundation or at a later stage when you're ready to advance to level two, this training introduces additional techniques and methods to ensure sexual fulfilment. It is perfect for the experienced lover who wants to elevate their intimate skills and become a formidable presence in the bedroom.
Course Structure
1. Two Intensive Modules
Module 1 - Focuses on advanced techniques that enhance and deepen the sensual massage experience.
Module 2 - Introduces new methods and practices designed to maximise pleasure and intimacy.
2. Flexible Timing
Immediate Progression
For those eager to continue their learning journey without pause
At Your Pace
Take the intermediate training when you feel ready to further enhance your skills.
Benefits for the Experienced Lover
1. Advanced Techniques & Expanded Skill Set
Learn and master additional techniques beyond the basics to create a more varied and fulfilling intimate experience. This is particularly beneficial for people who are single, who may be meeting a variety of individuals with a variety of desires and sexual requirements.
2. Precision and Expertise
Gain a deeper understanding of the psychology of sensual massage and erotic arousal, improving your ability to read and respond to your partner's cues.
3. Increased Sexual Fulfilment
Enhanced Pleasure
The new methods and practices taught are designed to maximise pleasure for both partners.
Greater Satisfaction
Elevating your skills leads to a more satisfying sexual relationship, with a focus on mutual fulfilment.
4. Boosted Confidence
Command of Techniques
Becoming proficient in advanced sensual massage techniques boosts your confidence in your intimate abilities.
Self-Assured Lover
Confidence translates into becoming a more self-assured and attentive lover, enhancing your overall presence and performance.
5. Deepened Intimacy and Connection
Stronger Emotional Bond
Advanced techniques encourage a deeper emotional connection, fostering greater intimacy and trust.
Improved Communication
Learn to communicate more effectively about desires and boundaries, creating a more harmonious and enjoyable intimate relationship.
6. Personal Growth
Self-Discovery
Further exploration of sensual massage can lead to greater self-awareness and understanding of your own and your partner's preferences.
Stress Reduction
Continued practice of sensual massage techniques promotes relaxation and stress relief, contributing to overall well-being.
Ideal Candidate
Experienced Lovers -Those with a good grasp of basic techniques and looking to take their skills to the next level.
Ambitious Learners - Individuals eager to explore more sophisticated and fulfilling aspects of sensual massage.
Committed Partners - Couples wanting to deepen their connection and enhance their sexual relationship through advanced intimate practices.
Combined Foundation & Intermediate Course
This 12-hour class, which, when booked as a whole, consists of all the above Foundation & Intermediate training, but is offered at a reduced price

The 6-hour Advanced Course
This course can only be taken after students have completed the Foundation & Intermediate Courses.
Taking the 6-hour Advanced Sensual Massage Course after completing the Foundation and Intermediate levels allows everything you have already learned to truly come together. By this stage, the basic techniques feel familiar, and your confidence with touch, anatomy, and arousal has grown. The Advanced course builds on this solid base and gives you a broader repertoire of tecniques to arouse and sexually satisfy your receiver, this may include more dominant ways and the use of toys and pleasure-enhancing accessories. helping you refine your skills, deepen your presence, and work with greater intuition and assurance. Rather than learning from scratch, you focus on flow, timing, responsiveness, and emotional connection—transforming good technique into confident, embodied sensual mastery.
Practical Benefits
-
Refine and elevate your sensual massage techniques beyond the foundation & intermediate level
-
Learn advanced touch, pacing, pressure, and flow for deeper arousal and relaxation
-
Develop confidence working with a wider range of bodies, desires, and responses
-
Receive hands-on guidance, real-time feedback, and professional insight from Colin
-
Improve your ability to read non-verbal cues and respond intuitively in the moment
Sexual Benefits
-
Deepen your understanding of arousal, pleasure, and erotic energy
-
Learn how to sustain, build, and vary sexual tension without rushing to climax
-
Explore more creative, confident, and embodied erotic touch
-
Enhance your ability to give pleasure with intention, presence, and sensitivity
-
Experience how advanced techniques create richer, more satisfying erotic encounters
Emotional & Psychological Benefits
-
Build confidence as a skilled, attentive, and generous giver
-
Reduce performance anxiety by learning structure, rhythm, and purpose
-
Develop greater emotional attunement and connection through touch
-
Strengthen trust, communication, and consent awareness
-
Gain insight into intimacy dynamics that benefit both personal and professional relationships
The Combined 26-hour Professional Training
This 26- or 29-hour intensive training program combines the Foundation, Intermediate, and Advanced courses with 11 additional hours of professional training and business setup, covering business structure, marketing strategy, equipment purchasing, brand creation, insurance, and a professional training certificate.
Safe & Discreet
Our trainings are designed to help you explore these dynamics in a safe and supportive environment. Whether you are motivated by sexual frustration, curiosity, a need for intimacy, muscle relief, or simply the desire to recharge, our massage classes promise to be among the best life experiences you will ever have.
Chat with Colin to discuss your unique requirements.- click the chat image below
Location
All classes are held at the well-equipped Intimacy Matters Treatment Venue in Sloane Square, Chelsea, SW1X 9DE. However, I can sometimes offer in-home or hotel sessions upon request for those who prefer the comfort of their own space.

Practical massage sessions
In private training, individual male or female students practice providing real responses to real volunteer models. Couples can practice on each other or learn to give to male or female volunteer recipients.
All classes include instruction in giving a full-body sensual massage. Depending on which class you select, it will consist of learning techniques for giving extended foreplay and specific sex play skills.
Dates & Times
When can I take a class?
The Experiential session is 2.5 hours, and the Foundation, Intermediate, Advanced and Professional Practice Classes are held in 2 x 3-hour sessions unless arranged differently and with mutual agreement
All classes are ideally taken weekdays, Monday to Friday, or on a Saturday
Weekday times
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 1 pm to 5 pm
- 5 pm to 8 pm
- 6 pm to 9 pm
Saturday times
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 11 am to 2 pm
- noon to 3 pm
Sundays Classes
These can be arranged by special request but will incur a £100 additional charge per session.
Over what period can I spread my training?
- The Foundation course must be completed within one month
- The Combined Foundation & Intermediate course must be completed within two months
- The Advanced course must be completed within one month
- The Combined Foundation, Intermediate, Advanced and Professional Training must be completed within three months
Fees are not refunded if you do not complete the training within the above time frames
How soon should I schedule a training session?
These training sessions are popular, and I am occupied with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one three-hour module per day. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.
sensual massage classes for better sex
How learning to give a sensual massage has changed three people's lives.
Since learning to give my partner a sensual massage my confidence as a lover has soared. I can now keep him on edge for hours and he says its the best he has ever had. - Layla
My wife says that she is now experiencing the best sex we have ever had in the 10-year marriage. I no longer am concerned about doing the wrong things and I just love watching her body respond to my confident touch. - Max
Its like magic! Now when I date, even when online when I mention that I have taken a training sensual massage the reaction is remarkable. Eight out of ten times things go in the right direction and if they say they don't like sensual massage or I get no reaction then they are not the lover for me anyway. - Stellios
Buy Now Pay Later
Take six weeks to pay for the treatment of your choice.
Meet your tribe
When you take a training with Colin at Intimacy Matters, you are invited to join his personal community of like-minded lovers of sensual massage and creative foreplay.
Sensual Connect is now a community of over 430 members (Jan 2025). Joining is free and gives students the opportunity to meet and explore sensual massage with others who enjoy giving and receiving sensual massage.
Volunteers you practice on
If you are a single person, the massage practice sessions are offered to specially selected volunteer recipients of your gender. Couples can practice on one another or a volunteer receiver. The number of massage practice sessions and volunteer receivers you practice on depends on which length of the workshop is booked.
Deposit & cancellation terms
Return of deposit or transfer of deposit
You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your training starts. You can cancel up to three days (72 hours) before the first training day and choose from two options.
- To receive back the full deposit.
- Transfer the training to another date that must start within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Loss of deposit
If you cancel or postpone your training 2–3 days before the scheduled date, you may transfer your deposit if:
a) You provide a new date within 7 days of postponement.
b) The new training date is within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Failure to meet these conditions will result in forfeiture of the deposit and the need to rebook.
24-hour cancellations or no-show
If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.
Missing a training module
If you fail to attend any training module without providing at least 12 hours’ advance notice, the module will not be repeated, and no refund will be issued.
Take out cancellation insurance.
To cover any cancellation costs, we recommend you purchase a cancellation insurance policy.
Withdrawal or Pausing of Professional Training
Once a deposit or the full course fee has been paid, your place on the Professional Training Programme is secured.
If, due to health or significant personal circumstances, you need to pause or delay your training, this may be accommodated. In such cases, all remaining sessions must be completed within 12 months of your original start date.
However, if you choose to withdraw from the course at any point after training has commenced, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions have been attended.
This policy is final and forms part of your training agreement.

Insurance
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services, and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involve nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign an acknowledgement and agreement form before receiving treatment or attending a class. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here






