The Exploration Massage
The massage you have always wanted but never imagined you would experience.
Consider which massage is best for you.
When choosing a massage, it’s important to consider your goals and objectives for the experience. If you’re starting on this journey of sexual discovery, it’s advisable to take things gently. What you might fantasise about and imagine may not be the reality, so it’s essential to be mindful before booking your massage. Different types of sensual massages are available, so make sure you choose the one that’s right for you and your needs. This will help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience for you and your therapist. The choices of sensual massage I offer women range from the most erotic and intense Absolute Massage, to the medium intensity Exploration Massage or the lightly erotic Intimacy Massage.
If you want more clarification or to discuss your needs, I can give you a FREE 15-minute phone call. I see female clients of all ages, from 21 to 75, but I require age verification if you are under 21. I do not see any clients under 18 years of age. I see clients of all ethnicities and body types, but be aware that some elements may have to be omitted for Xtra plus-size women.
Full Description of
The Exploration Massage
Cost – £250
The Exploration massage is 75 minutes in duration, with the whole appointment being about 90 minutes to two hours, as this allows time for a brief welcome chat and showering before and after
The massage is divided into five main phases:
- Preparation (10 min)
- The Therapeutic Massage Phase (20 min)
- The Sensual Foreplay Phase (20 min)
- The Erotic Stimulation Phase part 1 & 2 (15 min)
- Rest and Relax (5 min)
Preparation
Before giving the Exploration Massage, I will ask you to complete the Exploration Massage Authorization & Requests Form.
By completing this form, you help me to create the exact experience you would like to have. You can indicate the type of touch you want to enjoy and the level and intensity of erotic arousal you wish to explore and experience. It also enables you to set any limits and boundaries. Once I have received the completed form, I will design the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries.
Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form
If you are a new client, before taking any message from Colin, you will be asked to complete a Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form on arrival and departure.
You may want to chat again on arrival to reaffirm your expectations and limits. I will then show you to the treatment room unless you request otherwise. The treatment room is private and soundproof. It is always kept at a warm temperature or can be airconditioned in summer.
I will leave you to shower and prepare yourself. You can then lay face down naked on the massage bed covered with a towel that is provided. Only then do I re-enter the room. After a few more words of guidance and instruction on how the massage unfolds, I will begin the massage.
The therapeutic massage phase – face down.
The therapeutic massage phase follows a traditional massage style, but the whole body is massaged, including the buttocks and inner thighs. It is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles, heighten the senses and put your mind and body into a state of trust and safety. The massage starts with a light head and scale massage or foot massage, then light body stroking, followed by a few breathing and relaxation techniques. I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, buttocks, and back of legs; all are given a full 20-minute massage to the best pressure you would like to work out any knots or tension and encourage your body and mind to let go. This therapeutic massage is designed to tease your body into a high state of arousal but without making any direct genital contact.
The sensual foreplay phase – face down.
As you relax and your body responds, the massage becomes even more arousing, and as you react, I begin to explore more intimate areas of your body. I will work on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back. As your arousal increases, I explore with light touch the external vaginal area, stroking the inner and outer labia and vaginal lips and gently teasing the clitoris to stimulate your lubrication, but not yet to orgasm.
The erotic stimulation phase part 1 – face down.
Still face down on the massage bed, your legs will be extended outwards and direct external stimulation of the vagina will begin. Initially, this is gentle, but it can become firmer and more assertive, continuously checking with you and your comfort. Once you have become fully lubricated, fingers are inserted to massage the internal muscles of the vagina while still stimulating the clitoris. I give G spot massage, and for those that want to experience deeper sensations, the A-spot and S-spot are simulated deep inside the vagina. This often causes a deep vaginal release that can bring on vaginal orgasm and ejaculation. External anal touch can also be included in this section of massage. After this, I cover you with a towel and leave you to reset for a few minutes, when you can drink a glass of water or go to the bathroom.
The erotic stimulation phase part 1 – face-up
On returning to the treatment room, I ask you to turn over and, still covered with the towel, restart the massage gently, bringing you back into a relaxed and aroused state.
The massage continues with leg and thigh massage, abdomen massage, and with legs open more light stimulation of the vaginal and groin areas. This is followed with breast massage and nipple touch given to the intensity you like. Returning to the groin area, further clitoral and vaginal stimulation continues and, at this point, can be given strongly with anything from two to four fingers. On request, toys and other stimulators can also be brought into the massage. Orgasm is not an expectation but is often the outcome, sometimes resulting in multiple orgasms. If you desire other types of erotic stimulation, this can be requested on the Consent & Authorisation Form.
If desired, reciprocal arousing touch can be given to the masseur, but the focus always remains on you and what you want.
The rest & relax phase
As the massage ends, I cover you with the towel and finish with a short head or feet massage, or, for those who prefer not to have this, gentle stroking down the body. You can then shower, and once dressed, we will take a few minutes to answer any questions and check your experience and feelings. Payment is then taken.
If you want even more variety of erotic pleasure and a tailor-made experience, then I recommend you select the Absolute Premium Massage
Motivations
Often, the motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration can be multi-faceted. Here is a selection of motivations past female clients gave when booking the Exploration Sensual Massage.
- I enjoyed the Intimacy Massage and now feel confident to explore it further.
- I experience a clitoral orgasm but struggle or have never experienced a vaginal orgasm.
- I like to feel able to trust and let go of control with a professional who understands the complexities of female arousal.
- I need an internal sense of release.
- I want to explore multiple orgasms and external anal touch
- I am interested in exploring new ways of arousal
- There are certain aspects of erotic arousal I want to explore but feel I can not with my current partner or a new partner.
Payment
Deposits for first-time clients’ bookings
If you are a first-time client and decide to book directly on my booking calendar, you will be asked to leave a deposit or credit card number to secure the booking. No money is taken, and I do not see the card number. If you prefer not to do this, request a deposit link, and I will send one so you can pay a £50 advance deposit. This is deducted from your final payment after the appointment.
Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.
For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail
Pay by Barter
In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.
Students discount
I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time. Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.
Those with low income
I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.
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About Colin (your masseur)
I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives into what they want and deserve. Working full-time in this field since 2005, I have discovered and used various approaches not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur, I can work with both the emotional and sexual.
I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation. To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with, they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012, and since then, I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic. I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men, women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More
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It can be lonely and frustrating when you cannot share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship. For some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Female clients often tell me it took them months, even years, to finally decide to book a session and often afterwards say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are too nervous about booking an appointment and want to know more details before committing to anything. If this is the case, send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.
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Frequently asked questions
You will have many questions before deciding which massage you want to book. Please click this link to read the answers to most of my questions. If I do not cover your particular question, then please do not hesitate to email me.
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My Location
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Terms & Conditions
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosesnual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here