The Absolute Premium Massage – 105 minutes

Full Description

The massage is given in five phases. However, nothing is fixed, and each phase is given according to the female receiver’s responses, desires, and boundaries.

Overture – Gentle introduction

Revelation – Traditional therapeutic massage working out tension and stress but with teasing touch near intimate areas to instigate arousal

Seduction – Therapeutic massage continues, but the teasing touch becomes more direct and is intended to stimulate you; this part can include clitoral stimulation.

Abandonment – The masseur is now more focused on giving direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G spot stimulation, and if wanted, assertive, bold, decisive technique to help you experience your primal sexuality.

Reprise or Resolution – You get to decide when the massage finishes

Erotic elements that can be included in the Absolute Premium (all are optional)

• Gentle sensual touch of the whole body.
• Firm muscle work of the whole of the body.
• Assertive but caring control.
• Clitoral stimulation
• External and internal vaginal massage
• G Spot stimulation
• Body-to-body massage
• Oral stimulation of nipples
• Oral stimulation of the clitoris and vagina
• External anal stimulation
• Internal anal stimulation
• Rimming
• Frottage
• Female Ejaculation
• Spanking
• Optional reciprocal touch can be given to the masseur while he gives to you
• Special requests considered, i.e. fantasy, domination, toys,
• Full sexual penetration is not an option in your first Absolute Massage but can be discussed and possibly arranged for a future appointment.

Who is this massage good for?

Here are just a few examples.

• Women who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or expectation.
• Women who have challenges around letting go and achieving orgasm.
• Women who want to re-ignite their sexual libido.
• Women who are sexually frustrated need a safe and discreet outlet.
• Women who feel that their past sex lives have not achieved their expectations.
• Women who want to explore new sensations with a professional, experienced therapist
• Women who want to explore specific aspects of sexual arousal are unable because of their partner’s reluctance.
• Women who are single but sexually don’t want one-night stands or a relationship to satisfy their sexual appetite.
• Women who have experienced past sexual trauma and need support and guidance to regain sexual confidence.
• Women who come from cultures that inhibit sexual exploration but who need a discreet outlet.

Step-by-Step Description

Preparation

Before giving the ‘Absolute’ Massage, I ask you to complete the ‘Absolute’ Consent Authorisation & Request Form. By completing this form, you help me create the experience you want. You can indicate the type of touch you want to enjoy and the level and intensity of the erotic arousal you ideally seek to explore and experience. You can also inform me of any boundaries you do not want to be crossed. Reading this form will give you an idea of what elements you can request in the Absolute Massage. You can view or complete this form without having booked an appointment.

The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions. You may want a glass of wine, water, tea, or coffee. Then, once you are relaxed and ready, I will take you to the treatment room, and then, if you have not done so already (within an hour before the massage), I request you to take a shower, after which you get yourself ready by laying face down on the massage table. Unless requested otherwise, I leave the room at this time to let you prepare yourself privately. Once showered, I will return and cover you with a large towel. I then take a few more minutes to explain how the message will progress, how to communicate with me during the massage and how the massage will finish.

Products used

The massage is given with grapeseed massage oil and water-based lubricant for any genital stimulation. Please let me know if you do not want these used, and bring your alternatives along.

The overture – the therapeutic phase – face down.

The therapeutic massage phase follows a traditional massage style, but the whole body is massaged, including the buttocks and inner thighs. It is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles, heighten the senses and put your mind and body into a state of trust and safety. The massage starts with a light head and scale massage or foot massage, then light body stroking, followed by a few breathing and relaxation techniques. I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, buttocks, and back of legs; all are given a full 20-minute massage to the best pressure you would like to work out any knots or tension and encourage your body and mind to let go. This therapeutic massage is designed to tease your body into a high state of arousal but without making any direct genital contact.

Revelation – the sensual foreplay phase – face down.

As you relax and your body responds, the massage becomes even more arousing, and as you react, I begin to explore more intimate areas of your body. I will work on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back. As your arousal increases, I explore with light touch the external vaginal area, stroking the inner and outer labia and vaginal lips and gently teasing the clitoris to stimulate your lubrication, but not yet to orgasm.

Seduction – the erotic stimulation phase part 1 – face down.

Still face down on the massage bed, your legs will be extended outwards and direct external stimulation of the vagina will begin. Initially, this is gentle, but it can become firmer and more assertive, continuously checking with you and your comfort. Once you have become fully lubricated, fingers and thumbs are inserted to massage the internal muscles of the vagina while still stimulating the clitoris. I give G spot massage, and for those that want to experience deeper sensations, the A-spot and S-spot are simulated deep inside the vagina. This often causes a deep vaginal release that can bring on vaginal orgasm and ejaculation. External anal touch can also be included in this section of massage.

As your arousal heightens, I include more erotic exploration. The essence of this phase is to make you feel utterly open to manual stimulation. For some, this may bring on a sense of abandonment. This period allows you to connect to your most profound primal female energies. There is no judgment or expectation on you to behave in any particular way; you can act however your body and mind want to. I follow the guidelines you gave me in the Authorisation & Request form, but I am comfortable with you altering these as you feel at ease. During this massage phase, I am undressed unless requested to remain dressed.

As the massage continues, I bring in more assertive stimulation, trying different positions, speeds and pressures until I discover the one that works best for you. As your arousal builds, you become more receptive. I can also bring body-to-body, skin-on-skin and more assertive control to take you to even higher erotic levels. Speed and pressure will vary, but I will always be aware of your comfort.

 Light external anal stimulation is often a pleasant surprise, and if you have not done so on the form, you can move your buttocks to indicate if you want to explore anal finger penetration. After this, I cover you with a towel and leave you to reset for a few minutes, when you can drink a glass of water or go to the bathroom.

Abandonment – The erotic stimulation phase part 2 – face-up

On returning to the treatment room, I ask you to turn over and, still covered with the towel, you can wear a blindfold. I restart the massage gently, bringing you back into a relaxed and aroused state.

The massage continues with leg and thigh massage, abdomen massage, and with legs open more light stimulation of the vaginal and groin areas.  This is followed with breast massage and nipple touch given to the intensity you like. Returning to the groin area, further clitoral and vaginal stimulation continues and, at this point, can be given strongly with anything from two to four fingers.  On request, toys and other stimulators can also be brought into the massage.  Orgasm is not an expectation but is often the outcome, sometimes resulting in multiple orgasms. If you desire other types of erotic stimulation, this can be requested on the Consent & Authorisation Form. The Absolute Premium massage can include any type of stimulation or fantasy you want to explore.

 If you have indicated it, I can also include vibrators and sex toys.  If you respond to this, I will continue to penetrate with my finger and massage your G spot, the deeper A spot, and optional oral stimulation and any other erotic elements you have indicated you want to explore. This can include techniques to encourage ejaculation. During this phase, I am undressed unless requested to remain dressed. For some, the massage is entirely about themselves, and they like focusing solely on their pleasure. Others enjoy giving and receiving, so I am comfortable being touched and aroused should you want to include this. This can be indicated on the CAR form you complete before the massage is taken.

Resolution or Reprise – Your choice

The last 5 minutes of the massage winds down with a gentle head and foot massage. I will leave the room for you to rest for a few minutes, and you may choose to end the massage and go to the shower. However, if after a few minutes, I return to the room and you are still lying on the massage bed, then I will take this as a request for me to continue the massage and erotic stimulation for a further period until you are completely fulfilled.

Frequently Asked Questions 

General Questions

Who is Colin Richards, and are you reputable and qualified

See my profile page Click Here

How confidential is this?
Totally and completely. I see women who are in very public, sensitive positions, who are married, well known or come from cultures that have strict rules around female sexuality. So you do not have to give me your real name and only your mobile and email contact details and information about the massage. I will never disclose any personal details, and all that takes place in the treatment room remains in the treatment room.

What is your story & philosophy about giving sensual massage to women?

See the podcasts and interviews with Colin Click here

What is it you enjoy about giving sensual massage.

This is a question I am often asked. Of course, I get tremendous fulfilment from giving pleasure, and the naked human body is fantastic. However, the times that I enjoy most when giving a treatment is when I see that I am getting a very positive response, making a difference and enabling someone to explore and enjoy their sexuality without conditions or judgement.

I see you give massage to women, men and couples, so how do you describe your sexuality?

Until age 40, my only intimate experiences had been with women. I was married for 17 years and have five grown-up children. After my divorce and setting up my practice, I initially gave sensual massage to men only, but as women became more interested in exploring sensual massage, my client base changed. I now see more women and couples than men. I regard my sexuality as heteroflexible because I am sexually attracted to women, but I am also comfortable experiencing sensual touch and arousal with men.

Can I talk to you before booking the massage?

Yes, I offer a 15-minute complimentary phone call, so text me to request I call you back at a convenient time for us both.

Is there any age or weight restriction to taking this Absolute Massage?

I see women of all ages from 21 upward. The only occasion I see anyone younger than 18-20 would be within a couple’s situation and with proof of age. The most frequent age group I give sensual massage to is 30 to 55. I see women of all body types, from petite, slim, toned, and curvy to voluptuous. My only restriction is for larger-bodied women who are Xtra plus size; there may be erotic elements in the massage that I cannot include.

Do you see women from ethnic minorities or cultures that have strict rules around sexuality? I frequently see women who come from cultures that are sexually restricted and fully appreciate the sensitivity of the situation but also the need for this sensual outlet and total discretion and confidentiality.

I have problems reaching orgasm. Can this massage help men?
I have earned a reputation within the British media as the man who helps women orgasm. I can never make guaranteed promises, but often, women find that the safe, caring, supportive, non-judgement environment coupled with my skills as a councillor and sensual masseur often brings on sensations never experienced before. For those women who have continual difficulty reaching orgasm, I recommend the Psychosensual Treatment.

I have time and budget restrictions. Do you offer shorter treatments that are still very erotic?
I offer the 60-minute Absolute Focus massage – for £200

How can I be sure you won’t do something I don’t want or like?
I always ask clients to complete the Absolute Authorisation & Requests Form before I give the first appointment. This enables you to create the desired experience, including what type and intensity of erotic arousal you like to experience. It also allows you to identify any cautious area of exploration or complete “no-go areas”.

Can I read what previous female clients have said about this massage?
Yes, I am constantly receiving feedback and testimonials from female clients Click here to read testimonials

How do I complete the Consent Authorisation & Requests Form?

Click on this link – Authorisation & Request Form

Where are you located?
My regular treatment studio is located in Sloane Square Chelsea, London SW1X 9DE UK See Location

The full address of both will be given after confirmation of your appointment. By arrangement, I am happy to consider visiting a  hotel or home visit, but this may mean I will not be able to massage you on a massage table but will require the use of a bed or futon/cushions on the floor.

I have had or heard of a Tantric massage; is this the same?
It is similar in allowing you to explore your sexual and sensual energies safely and discreetly. However, I prefer to describe my approach as humanistic since this experience focuses on us as sensual and sexual beings rather than spiritual. The massage takes us back to our deepest feelings of intimacy and sensual and sexual arousal and does not include any spiritual ceremony, breathing exercises or chanting.

Questions about the sensual and erotic content of the Absolute Premium Massage

If I wanted, would you undress me before the massage?
You must request this as I am happy to undress you if this is wanted, but usually, I leave you to undress privately.

If I wanted, would you shower me before the massage?
No, I leave you to shower privately before and after the massage.

Do you give body-to-body contact?
Yes, unless requested not to. The Absolute massage involves some body-to-body contact since, as well as using my hands, I also use my arms, elbows, and, if appropriate, my body weight, but this can be adjusted to suit your comfort.

Are you naked for the massage?
This is your choice. I can remain with shorts on or naked, and your choice can be indicated on the CAR form.

Can I touch you during the massage?
I am comfortable with intimate touch on all areas of my body, but again, this is always your choice, and how erotic the touch becomes is again up to you and can be indicated on the CAR form.

Can I arouse you?
How arousing and erotic the message becomes is entirely up to you. You can either discuss this with me via email or text before the appointment or leave it to the time. Ultimately, the level of eroticism is dependent on your comfort and mood on the day, and should you cross any of my boundaries, I will quietly and respectfully tell you.

How is the vaginal stimulation given?
The type and intensity of both the clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be indicated when you complete the Authorization & Requests Form. Clitoral stimulation is given in phases 2 & 3 of the massage, with vaginal stimulation ( both external and internal) in phases 3 & 4. You guide the depth and intensity of the vaginal stimulation, but I aim to follow your responses as the massage progresses.

What if I wanted you to include oral stimulation?
Yes, this can be included and can be indicated in the CAR form

What if I wanted to give oral stimulation?
Yes, this can be given, but you must instigate this.

Will you kiss during the massage?
I am happy to, but you must initially instigate this.

I make noise when I am turned on; is that a problem?
Not at all. Women are naturally designed to make noise when aroused; it is the female mating call. I encourage you to be as verbal as you want and to express your pleasure in any way you want. As a man and your masseur, I respond to making it as good for you as possible. The more you respond, the more I can confidently give and enjoy giving.

I am concerned that when turned on, I might cross your boundaries.
Pleasurable erotic stimulation between two people in whatever circumstances hinges on good communication. If there is something you FEE you want to do or say, then go ahead I won’t be offended. If it falls beyond my boundaries, I will gently say so, but my limits are pretty broad.

Is anal stimulation optional?
Again, this can be indicated on the A & R Form if it is wanted, external or internal. I often find that once the arousal has heightened, some exploration in this area is desired, but your responses always guide me.

Will you use any toys or vibrators on me?
This is your choice. I have several vibrators, but I only bring them into the massage if the client has requested their use. You can bring your own.

If I wanted, could I experience full penetrative sex?

The first Absolute massage given never includes any penetrative sex other than with fingers or sex toys. If this is important for you to experience, then this is discussed after your first appointment. To facilitate this, I need to understand your motivation and relevance for penetrative sex. I will then discuss the options of including an assistant in your next appointment who would act as a sex surrogate under my instruction.

Possible motivations to include full penetrative sex

• Overcome fear of penetration
• Lack of experience
• Overcome vaginismus
• Overcome a past bad sexual experience
• High anxiety during sex
• Exploring more comfortable sexual positions
  

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Can you include any fetish or role-play?
I am happy to include some light domination, but anything more specific should be discussed when booking the appointment.

Are you healthy?
Yes, I take regular sexual health checks, and since this is my main work, I always maintain a high level of personal health and cleanliness. I expect this from my clients, also. My last all-clear STI check was on January 20, 2024. I am triple Covid vaccinated.  I also maintain a high standard of health and hygiene and wish all my clients to do the same.

Do I need to be healthy?

Absolutely. You should not attend any appointment, training or workshops if you are showing any symptoms of fever or any other conditions that may be contagious.

Do not attend if you suffer from:-

• Have any symptoms of Covid 19
• Have excessively high blood pressure
• Are you experiencing any sexually transmitted disease
• Have a heart condition
• Have a serious skin condition
• Have any open cuts
• Have any broken bones

If I wanted anything, would you give special requests?
Possibly, but only from the list below; you must indicate this when booking.

• Spanking/Paddling – Light spanking/paddling only
• Constraint – Light constraint only
• Giving Light Pain to “Receiver” – Only nipple or light spanking
• Blindfolds – Yes, if you wanted

Do you allow Poppers?
No, I do not see clients who are using poppers or who are under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

Do you give four four-hand massage?
Yes, I can arrange a four hand massage with either another male or a female masseur Click here

Other Questions

I want to book a sensual massage, but I can’t afford the price. Can you offer reduced rates?

I offer various options to help with payment; please go to Alternative Ways to Pay

Do I need to pay a deposit?

If you have booked via the booking system, you maybe asked to leave your card number as security for the booking. No money was taken, nor was the card number seen by me. Payment is taken at the end of the treatments and can be made by card, cash, or bank transfer.

Do I get a refund of my deposit if I cancel?

If you cancel up to 24 hours before, there is no charge made if given within 24 hours of the appointment or if you are a no-show, then you will be charged the full amount to be held against a future booking or 50% levied for cancelling altogether.

What happens if I don’t turn up for my appointment?
You will be charged the full price for the missed appointment. But please don’t do this. Apart from being bad manners, it causes me the loss of income and time. If you change your mind, even at the last minute, please text me why you will not attend the appointment. I can then either take another booking or get on with my day.

Can I arrive early?
Unless otherwise arranged, please do not arrive any earlier than your booked time, as I may be finishing a previous appointment or workshop.

What if I am running late?
Just send me a text or email to keep me informed, as I may have to make adjustments to later appointments.

Can I take a shower?
If you have not showered within one hour before arriving for the appointment, then I ask you to take a full body shower before receiving the massage. You are also welcome to take another shower following the massage.

Can I have a glass of wine when I arrive?
Sometimes, this helps the nerves, and yes, I am happy to give you a glass of wine or water on arrival. Red or White?

Can I have someone with me at the appointment?
Yes, sometimes partners or friends sit in a nearby room or the treatment room and watch. The latter is what I call the Watch & Enjoy Couples Massage.

Would you come to my home or hotel?
If you live in central London or are staying in a hotel in central London, then sometimes i can arrange to come to you. Please email me with your request.

Do you need anything from me?
I want you to be yourself. Feel free to express your emotions, desires, and fantasies without restriction. To be who you want to be and do what you want.

If I enjoy the experience, can I return for regular appointments at a discount?
Yes, I can offer up to 30% discount on regular bookings. Please ask.

Do you offer special rates for students or fellow therapists
Depending on my availability, I can sometimes offer reduced rates to students or those on a reduced budget. Appointments must be taken as either last minute or, if booked in advance, taken as morning appointments between 8 am and 1 pm. Just ask!

Do you offer an exchange of services?
If you are a therapist with a service that can be swapped or someone with a limited budget, I am happy to consider a pay-payment part barter arrangement. It’s best to email with the details of your proposal, and we can take it from there. Go to Exchange of Skills & Services

View the Absolute Massage Demonstration Videos

Below is a 10-minute video of excerpts of the 105-minute Premium Absolute Massage given by Colin to a female receiver. The female receiver enjoying the massage gave her permission to be filmed. She requested the massage to build slowly but to bring in intense assertive clitoral and vaginal stimulation, which she particularly enjoys. Suppose a client prefers less or more intense stimulation or erotic content (not shown in the video). This can be indicated on the Authorisation & Request form, which all clients should complete before taking the massage.

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