Discover a Career of Intimate Connection, Confidence & Freedom

If you’ve ever imagined turning your passion for intimacy, connection and touch into a fulfilling and ethical profession, welcome — you’ve found the perfect place to begin.

At Intimacy Matters, I offer a comprehensive 26-hour Professional Sensual Massage Training, designed to empower individuals of all genders to become confident, ethical, and skilled sensual massage practitioners. Whether you’re seeking to establish a part-time income stream, build a full-time independent business, or simply explore the art of conscious erotic touch, this training gives you all the tools you need — and more.

A Flexible and Inclusive Training Pathway

My professional training is open to people of all backgrounds and orientations. It is delivered through a structured yet adaptable format that includes:

  • Foundation Training (6 hours) – Essential principles of sensual massage, boundaries, breath and arousal.

  • Intermediate Training (6 hours) – Deeper techniques and working with erotic energy.

  • Advanced Training (6 hours) – Full erotic bodywork with confidence and emotional awareness.

  • Launch Pad Business Training (8 hours) – Everything you need to turn your new skill into a thriving, ethical practice.

Training takes place one-on-one with me and includes practical experience on volunteer male and female receivers. You’ll receive direct feedback and live practice, ensuring you’re confident and ready to work professionally.

Choose the Specialised Path That Fits Your Passion

This professional training programme can be taken as a general course, or you may choose a specialist module that reflects your desired client base:

If you want to provide treatments for all genders, this can be arranged within any of the above trainings. Just mention this in your application.

Each module is tailored to the individual but follows the same professional framework.

  • Everything You Need to Launch Your Practice

    This isn’t just a massage class — it’s a launchpad for your future career. Alongside hands-on training, you’ll receive guidance and resources designed to support every aspect of your development as a confident and ethical sensual practitioner.

    Here’s what’s included:

    • Printed Worksheets that support and reinforce the hands-on training, covering key techniques, safety, consent, and client communication.

    • Access to 6 Months of Tutorial Videos, allowing you to revisit the practical methods, theory, and sensual techniques at your own pace.

    • A Certificate of Completion, recognising your training and readiness to work in a professional capacity.

    • Invitation to promote yourself on Sensual Connect, our fast-growing community of sensual massage lovers

    • Business Set-Up and Marketing Advice, including help defining your niche, understanding legal considerations, creating a brand, building a website, and reaching your ideal clients.

    Additionally, you’ll receive support with the more nuanced aspects of becoming a sensual massage practitioner:

    • Treatment Types and Pricing – Together, we’ll craft a clear treatment menu tailored to your strengths and preferences. You’ll learn how to set appropriate pricing based on your experience level, market demand, and client value perception, including how to structure single sessions, packages, or bespoke offerings.

    • Defining Your Own Boundaries – You’ll be supported to explore and establish your own intimate and sexual boundaries. This is essential not only for ethical practice but for ensuring long-term job satisfaction and emotional well-being. You’ll learn how to stay true to your personal comfort zone while still offering deeply fulfilling experiences for your clients.

    • Managing Client Desires and Expectations – Working closely with others can raise a wide range of expectations. You’ll be coached in how to communicate clearly, navigate emotional dynamics, and maintain control of the session in a kind, respectful, and firm way. You’ll learn how to say no without losing rapport, and how to guide clients toward mutual satisfaction without compromising your principles.

    • Membership in Sensual Connect gives you access to a growing network of like-minded practitioners, volunteer receivers, and potential clients. This private platform offers a safe space for connection, collaboration and visibility.

    • Six Months of Post-Training Support, where you can contact me by phone or text with real-life questions, business decisions, or emotional support as you build your confidence and client base.

    Whether you’re just starting out or adding a new dimension to your therapeutic or sensual skillset, this course provides everything you need to start — and sustain — a rewarding, independent practice doing work that brings pleasure, connection, and transformation to others.

Hear from Those Who’ve Trained Before You

“This training has completely changed my life. I now work part-time as a sensual masseur and love every moment of it. Colin’s approach is personal, intuitive and professional.”
— James, Massage My Woman Graduate

“As a woman learning to work with men, I appreciated the clear boundaries, emotional support, and real-world business advice. I launched my own website within two months of completing the course!”
— Ella, Massage My Man Graduate

Ready to Start?

This is a bold and exciting journey — one that allows you to work on your own terms, bring joy and healing to others, and be part of a growing global community of conscious sensualists.

How to apply

  1. Click the images below to explore the training module that’s right for you
  2. Read through the details
  3. Complete the respective application form

Or book a discovery call

For those who are curious but not ready to commit, I’m happy to offer a no-obligation discovery call to discuss whether professional sensual massage training is right for you. Call Text or WhatsApp Colin on 07966 522 696 

Colin Richards
Founder of Intimacy Matters, Sex & Relationship Therapist, Sensual Training Educator

Professional Practitioner Training Courses

Male to Female Professional Practitioner Training

Massage My Woman

Female to Male Professional Practitioner Training

Massage My Man

Female-to-Female Professional Practitioner Training

Sensual Sisters

Female-to-Female Professional Practitioner Training

Touch & Turn On 

Deposit & cancellation terms

Return of deposit or transfer of deposit

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your training starts. You can cancel up to 3 days (72 hours) before the first training day and choose one of these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the training to another date that must start within 8 weeks of the original booking.

Loss of deposit If you cancel or postpone your training 2–3 days before the scheduled date, you may transfer your deposit if: a) You provide a new date within 7 days of postponement. b) The new training date is within 8 weeks of the original booking. Failure to meet these conditions will result in forfeiture of the deposit and the need for a new booking. 24-hour cancellations or no-show If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Missing a training module. If you fail to turn up for any training module without giving advance notice, the module will not be repeated, and you will not receive a refund.

Withdrawal or Pausing of Professional Training

Once a deposit or the full course fee has been paid, your place on the Professional Training Programme is secured.

If, due to health or significant personal circumstances, you need to pause or delay your training, this may be accommodated. In such cases, all remaining sessions must be completed within 12 months of your original start date.

However, if you choose to withdraw from the course at any point after training has commenced, no refunds will be issued, regardless of how many sessions have been attended.

This policy is final and forms part of your training agreement.

I recomend Take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.