Entries by Col De C Richards

Language around sexuality is evolving—not because people are becoming more confused, but because they are becoming more precise. Over the past decade, I’ve noticed a growing number of people searching for words that better reflect their lived experience rather than squeezing themselves into rigid, inherited categories. One such term now entering popular conversation is heteroflexible.

Exploring Together – Couples Lifestyle In Gran Canaria

How Lifestyle Resorts in Gran Canaria Can Deepen Intimacy and Emotional Connection for Couples

In every long-term relationship, there comes a time when couples begin to wonder how to keep the spark alive. Passion, after all, is not just about physical pleasure—it’s about emotional connection, curiosity, and the courage to explore.

Couples Lifestyle Naked Retreat

Indian Summer Couples Lifestyle Retreat 
The ultimate escape for adventurous couples who want to blend luxury with sensual discovery in an extraordinary setting. Held on the unspoilt Greek island of Karpathos, this 5-night, 6-day retreat offers you the perfect mix of freedom, intimacy, and indulgence.

The Art of Oral Stimulation

As a sexologist and intimacy coach at Intimacy Matters in London, I’m often asked about the secrets to truly satisfying oral stimulation—for both men and women. Too often, oral sex is treated as a quick prelude to penetration

What Women Don’t Know About Men’s Arousal

When people think about men’s sexuality, the assumption is often that it’s straightforward: quick to arouse, quick to finish. Yet in reality, men’s arousal is more complex. Many men secretly crave slow, sensual touch, emotional connection, and the reassurance that their partner is enjoying giving as much as they are receiving.

Talking Kinky Podcast

In this bold and revealing episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom sit down with the extraordinary Colin Richards – intimacy coach, somatic sex engineer, and the man behind some of London’s exclusive sex parties