Female Volunteer Massage Receiver Registration Details
Information and registration form for women volunteering to be a volunteer for sensual massage, individual training sessions, and group workshops
Volunteering Opportunities
You have the option to volunteer for one or more of the following activities:
- Private Tuition Training: Volunteer to receive a massage from single men or women, or couples in a one-on-one setting.
- Group Workshops: Volunteer for group workshops designed for single men or women.
- Online Classes: Volunteer to participate in virtual classes.
- Sensual Massage Video Tutorials: Volunteer to help film sensual massage instructional videos.
CLICK HERE TO APPLY TO BE A VOLUNTEER RECEIVER
To see an example of the volunteer request email sent out to volunteers to request their help, Click here
Remuneration for Volunteering
As a thank you for volunteering, you will receive one of the following compensations:
- Private Training Volunteering:
- A voucher for a 50% discount on any one-on-one sensual massage that Colin offers women. This voucher is valid for three months after the date of the class you volunteer for.
- Or, a voucher worth £100, redeemable against any couples massage given by Colin, valid for three months after volunteering.
- Video Tutorial Filming:
- A fee of £100 for up to two hours of filming, plus a complimentary 90-minute Absolute Massage, valid for three months after the date of filming.
Please note that vouchers are not cumulative.
Transferring the voucher to a friend
If you would like to gift a friend (male or female), you can pass along the 50% discount voucher for them to use toward any sensual massage I offer. To redeem the discount, they must mention your name when booking their session.
Requirements to be included on the volunteer receiver list
To be eligible to volunteer, all female volunteers must have received an Absolute Massage, either as a previous client or by taking advantage of the volunteer’s discounted massage treatment, as described below.
About the demonstration Absolute massage
The demonstration massage offered to prospective volunteers is based on the Absolute Premium Massage—the most erotic and intense massage I provide to female clients. This massage is central to what I teach in all levels of my classes, whether Foundation, Intermediate, or Professional. Therefore, experiencing this massage before volunteering is essential.
Reasons for taking the demonstration: Absolute massage:
- Meeting and discussion: It provides us with an opportunity to discuss the details of volunteering and what will be required of you.
- Experience: You will experience firsthand what is taught to students, which will be the basis of the massage you would receive during a class.
- Understanding your arousal process: This helps me match volunteers to students’ learning needs, as it gives me insight into your personal arousal process, physical reactions, and preferred methods of reaching orgasm.
- Questions: You’ll have the chance to ask any questions you might have about the classes.
Discounted treatments for volunteers
As a prospective volunteer, you can enjoy significant discounts on the following massages:
- 75-minute Absolute Superior: Reduced from £250 to £125
- 105-minute Absolute Premium: Reduced from £290 to £150
CLICK HERE TO REGISTER TO BE A VOLUNTEER
Volunteer request emails
For example
Andrew
Taking the 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Class
Andrew is British and is 31 years old. He currently works as an AI Engineer. Andrew is taking the twelve-hour combined Foundation & Intermediate class with a view to possibly going on to take a further eleven hours of Professional Training.
Andrew says about himself and his motivation…
I am totally intrigued by the whole idea of sensual massage, and in particular Colin’s approach. So much of what he says makes good sense to me (how important it is to make the woman feel as comfortable as possible from the outset, how to build trust, the importance of reading the woman’s body language. I am considering a career change. I am exploring the idea of becoming a straight male escort. Knowing how to perform a killer sensual massage is a must.
Session A –Tuesday 22nd October
1.45 pm to 3.30 pm Foundation Training Module 1
Session C – Monday 4th November
1.30 pm to 3.30 pm Foundation Training Module 2
Q & A
About the role of a volunteer massage receiver or video model
Q. Is my gender, age or body type relevant?
Volunteers can be female or transgender; however, when students book a class, they are asked to specify their preferred gender, age, and body type for their volunteer receivers. This information is taken into account when selecting volunteer applicants.
Q. Can I register for just one option?
Yes, you can register to receive massage in a class or group workshop or register to take part in the making of a video tutorial or both.
Q. Do I need to be a certain age to be a volunteer receiver or video model
You should be over 21 to volunteer as a massage class receiver or video model.
Q. Is my sexuality relevant?
No, to be a volunteer, you can be straight, bisexual, bi-curious or lesbian. But remember to apply to the classes that best suit you.
Q. Do I have to have a particular body type?
Volunteer receivers should have a body type described as slim, toned, petite, average, curvy, or hourglass. The maximum dress size is 18
Q. What about health?
At the time of the class or session, you must be fully healthy and clear of any STIs or viruses.
You should not apply if you experience any of the following.
- heart or blood pressure issues
- high anxiety around sex
- Any STI
- fear of intimacy or sex
- skin problems
- vaginismus
- Covid symptoms
Q. How arousing will the session become?
You must be comfortable receiving sensual arousal and erotic stimulation to potential orgasm. On the registration form, you can specify what aspects of arousal you are comfortable receiving.
Q. Is it a problem that I find it challenging to orgasm
It is not essential to reach orgasm in a class; however, if you do experience either situational anorgasmia (can’t orgasm when others are in the room ) or total anorgasmia ( never been able to orgasm), then please let Colin know when completing the form.
Q. Can I use this to overcome a sexual problem I have
No, volunteering is not an opportunity to sort out any personal issues for the volunteer, since the focus is on the student or student learning. You are required to provide feedback, but it should focus on the student’s situation rather than your own.
Q. How is feedback given to the client?
This is briefly given at the beginning of each massage practice to determine the student’s touch type, pressure, and confidence. Then, after the massage, we will have a debrief where you can expand on your feedback. You can also complete a review form for the student, which you can send after the training.
Q. Who selects the volunteers for the private classes and group workshops?
Volunteer requests are sent to you by email and also posted in the Fem Vol (volunteers Telegram chat group). Specifications of what is required and details of the students Colin teaches will be given.
Usually, the request for volunteers is sent out a couple of days before the class or group workshop, and time is allowed for applications to be submitted. You can apply immediately; Colin then passes on to the students those applicants that Colin feels are most suitable for their tuition. (i.e., older students often prefer older volunteers) The student makes the final selection for private sessions, and you will be notified if you are selected. Colin selects the group workshops. If you do not hear back, you are unlucky this time.
Q. Where do the training sessions take place?
Usually, at my private house with a treatment studio in Sloane Square, Chelsea, SW1X 9DE – the images below are of the venue.
Q. Do I need to enjoy a massage to be a volunteer?
Yes, and it helps if you have had a sensual massage before. Still, for those keen to participate but have not received a sensual massage in certain situations, I am happy to offer a substantially reduced fee for the 75- and 105-minute Absolute massage in advance (50% discount). This enables you to meet me and understand how the massage is given before the workshops. It also showed me how you respond and matched me with the right workshop.
Q. How many female volunteers do you have on your list?
A. Currently, about 200.
Q. How do you match students to volunteers?
To be invited to participate in a workshop, depending on the volunteer’s availability and suitability for the student’s learning needs. Since many volunteers work during the day and can only do evenings, there is always a chance for everyone. The more available you are, and the more often you have received treatment or volunteered, the more likely you are to be invited to take part.
Q. Do you have separate shower and changing facilities for the female volunteers?
Yes, I have a private room and shower for the female volunteers to get ready. Bathrobes are also provided.
Q. Will I be naked during the practice
Yes, you will be naked to receive the massage, but the practice session starts with you covered with a large towel, and then, as you become comfortable, the towel is removed.
Q. Will the student be naked when giving the massage practice?
Yes, this is the student’s choice, and if so, will become naked from halfway through the massage, but there is no expectation for any reciprocal touch from the volunteer to the student. Nudity is needed when practising the body-to-body massage, as any clothing worn will restrict movement.
Q. How many students will be practising with me at any one time?
If it is a private one-on-one class, it is only me and the student or the couple. If it is a group workshop, this depends on the number of men or women attending, but usually, male students are limited to 6. In an ideal situation, you will only have one student working with you at any time, but sometimes, if volunteers are limited, the students will work in pairs.
Q. Can you describe the room where the class takes place?
If it’s a private class, it takes place in my treatment room, which is cosy and warm and has an ensuite shower. Group workshops take place in hired venues.
Q. What are the male or female students attending the class or group workshops, and what motivations do they usually give for wanting to take the workshop?
I vet all students, whether male or female, or couples. Everyone must complete an application form giving details about themselves and their motivation. Usually, they are people between the ages of 25 and 55 who are often pretty shy and recognise that they are inexperienced in lovemaking. If single, they are often people who have recently separated or divorced or who are single but want to become more confident in giving erotic foreplay. Couples usually take classes to expand their relationship by exploring touch with another person or exploring same-gender touch in a safe environment; for women, there is also the Sensual Sisters class option, which women give to women.
Q. Do I have to do anything more than receive a sensual massage?
Yes, I encourage the female volunteers to give feedback on the students’ abilities and, at some point during the workshop, to take part in an open chat about female sexuality to enlighten the students about what women enjoy sensually and sexually.
Q. How intimate does the massage become?
Private classes
In private classes, the massage usually includes clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Suppose the student is taking the Intermediate or Professional training. In that case, they will also learn body-to-body and ejaculation techniques, but these will be consistently demonstrated either initially by Colin or supervised by Colin. Each class is identified as to what the volunteer will be required to receive.
Group workshops
The Foundation 4-hour group workshop remains a surface touch and arousal only. This will include a 60-minute therapeutic massage routine covering the whole body, breasts, and buttocks. Arousal will be limited to the breast, nipples, and clitoris. The students will learn to give vaginal and G-spot stimulation in the Intermediate group workshop. In the private workshop, depending on which volunteer you are during the day, the arousal may be just surface arousal or more erotic. I always include this on the invitation, but you can let me know your boundaries beforehand.
Q. For how long will I be needed?
If a private class, each session is usually 2.5 hours, but you can volunteer for more than one session on the day. If a group workshop, then 4 hours.
Q. What happens if I become very aroused?
This is quite usual and is intended, so don’t worry about misbehaving. It is not essential to achieve orgasm, but it is often the case, particularly if I have taught them well, that they will experience orgasm.
Q. When aroused, I can be pretty vocal; is this a problem?
Be as vocal as you want. Part of the teaching is to help students become more confident and assertive, so the reaction is good, as men respond to approval from women.
Q. Can I touch the students and arouse them while I receive them?
This will depend on the student. Some are happy with reciprocal touch, while others prefer a more teaching-focused session. I will inform you of the criteria before the massage starts.
Q. Do you ever require volunteers to be very sexual, i.e. to receive oral, give oral and full penetrative sex?
Whilst most classes are focused on teaching erotic arousal, in some cases, when a student has had minimal experience sexually. It can be relevant that a session is arranged for them to learn specific sexual techniques, i.e. how to give oral, sexual positions, and even have full sex for the first time. But in a safe, managed environment. These situations will be identified when the request for volunteers goes out.
Q. I want my identity to be kept confidential. Can I withhold my name and personal details?
Yes. You can give any name and reveal as much or as little as you wish about your personal life. Nothing is filmed, and all mobile phones are put away.
Q. What do I need if I want to be an online demonstrator?
It would help to have a private space, a high-quality webcam, Zoom conferencing, and, ideally, a massage table, bed, or futon on the floor or with cushions.
Q. What would an online demonstrator be demonstrating?
This could be a body study identifying sexual anatomy, techniques in masturbation/ejaculation, breast massage or if you have another person present, giving a demonstration of sensual massage with guidance from Colin.
Q. If I want to be a model for video tutorials, where do these get filmed, and where is the material placed?
The video tutorials are usually filmed in the Intimacy Matters Treatment rooms. They are placed on the Intimate Tutorials website. To get an idea of what can be involved, you can view some excerpts of demonstration videos by registering in the Adult content area
Join Colins FEMVOL TELEGRAM Chat Group
and get instant notification on volunteering opportunities and offers
To ensure you receive the volunteer request notification, I use a Telegram group to notify volunteers about workshops and sensual massage opportunities. Once you have been accepted into the group, you will receive a text notification of any imminent workshops where volunteer receivers are needed and also periodic offers of substantially reduced rates for taking a massage (up to 75%). I offer this because I sometimes have quiet days and time on my hands, and I like to share that free time with volunteers, those on a reduced budget, or students.
Apply to be a volunteer receiver.
Complete the APPLICATION FORM, and I will get back in touch.
Testimonials from past female volunteers
Below are testimonials from women who participated in the men’s group workshop License to Thrill.
It was my first time as a volunteer.
The prospect of being able to help others to connect (emotionally and sexually) for the outcome of having a healthy relationship was my main reason.
“Enough talking, we need to touch”
I knew that if my ex and I went to a course/event similar to Colin’s we could have saved our16 years marriage. On the practical side, I needed to feel safe and understood. Colin was clear and explained the process:
– clear intentions for both the receiver and the giver
– clear communication about boundaries
It felt liberating. I felt reassured. I felt like I understood my body. The whole experience seemed quite unbelievable and surreal and I already signed to help again and encouraged my partner to become a male volunteer. Lucy – May 2018
“I volunteered for the group workshop as a receiver after receiving an email from Colin. I first heard about him on Killing Kittens and had a massage which was an eye-opening experience on sensual massages. I was quite nervous before getting to the workshop, mainly because I wondered what “type” of men would attend. However, as soon as the participants arrived and introduced themselves I felt much more relaxed: they were all well-mannered and respectful. Some of them were singles and eager to learn more about the feminine body and arousal; others were married or in a relationship and wanted to learn some skills to spice up their sexual life and provide more satisfaction to their partners. The whole workshop was well explained and managed by Colin and I felt very safe as I know he would intervene if there were any offensive behaviors. When the first part ended everyone was feeling much more relaxed and confident which led to a very satisfying second part! I’m glad I was able to overcome my nervousness as I had an amazing time and I will definitely volunteer again to a group workshop with Colin.” Marta – March 2017