The Absolute Premium Massage

£290

The ultimate ‘all about you’ 105-minute whole-of-body erotic massage

“The benefits of orgasms are so numerous that every woman should be able to access them regularly, whether or not they are in a relationship and whatever their age.   Quote by the international speaker on well-being for women Marisa Peer

Experience the profound benefits and pleasures of the Absolute Premium sensual massage designed exclusively for women.

At Intimacy Matters, Colin Richards, an expert sensual masseur, offers a deeply transformative experience that goes beyond the ordinary. The Absolute Premium Massage, one of Colin’s most sought-after treatments, invites you to explore and embrace the deepest aspects of your sexuality with confidence and freedom.

This massage is perfect for women who are self-assured in their sexuality and eager to explore their desires in a safe, non-judgmental environment. From the moment the session begins, your pleasure and well-being are the sole focus. There are no expectations or pressures—only the opportunity for you to fully indulge in your sensual journey.

The Absolute Premium Massage is a 105-minute full-body experience that starts with 30 minutes of traditional therapeutic massage, gradually building towards heightened arousal and clitoral stimulation. As the session progresses, the experience intensifies with personalized techniques that may include internal vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, A-spot techniques, and other methods designed to encourage multiple orgasms and even potential ejaculation. Each session is conducted with the utmost professionalism, privacy, and confidentiality, ensuring that your experience is as comfortable and empowering as it is pleasurable.

Read Colins Reviews

For more explicit details about the Absolute Premium Massage, Colin invites you to register in the password-protected area of his website on Intimacy X.

Discover a new dimension of self-care and sensuality with Colin Richards at Intimacy Matters. 

Consider this: the Absolute Premium Massage is your 4th Option for experiencing sensual pleasure.

Women typically experience sexual arousal and orgasm in three common ways:

  1. Option 1: With a Partner – This is intimate, trusting, and caring, but over time, it can become routine, less imaginative, and even infrequent.
  2. Option 2: With a Stranger (One-Night Stand) – This can be thrilling, spontaneous, and free of emotional ties, but it can also be impulsive, unplanned, and potentially disappointing.
  3. Option 3: Self-Masturbation – This is usually private, and you know exactly what you like. There’s no judgment, but it can also be familiar, routine, and satisfying without being truly mind-blowing.

The 4th Option: Sensual Massage – Choosing a sensual massage as your 4th option combines all the positive dynamics of the other three while removing the negatives. This creates a uniquely self-indulgent and deeply fulfilling erotic experience. Many women find this experience not only intensely pleasurable but also profoundly therapeutic, leaving them feeling deeply relaxed and fulfilled.

With Colin, the Absolute Sensual Massage is a personalized journey tailored specifically to your desires and boundaries. By submitting a Consent Authorisation & Request Form before your treatment, every aspect of the massage is designed to align perfectly with your comfort and pleasure.

Embrace this 4th option and discover a new level of self-care and sensual fulfilment with the Absolute Premium Massage.

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This massage is not suitable for

  • Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy
  • Who are sexually inexperienced
  • Are above size 26 dress size

Confidentiality & Proof of Identity

Your privacy and confidentiality are paramount. If you prefer to keep your identity undisclosed, you are welcome to use a false name. However, I do require a working email address and, ideally, a mobile number to ensure secure communication. Rest assured, I am the only person who will ever see your information. If you wish, I will not contact you in any way that you do not approve of.

In some cases, I may ask you to send a voicemail message to confirm your identity, as a precaution to ensure that all clients are genuine—this helps prevent any misunderstandings, particularly as I occasionally receive inquiries from men pretending to be female!

Your comfort, privacy, and trust are my top priorities.







Consider which massage is best for you.

When choosing a massage, you must consider your goals and objectives for the experience. If you’re starting on this journey of sexual discovery, it’s advisable to take things slow and explore different options. What you might imagine may not be the reality, so it’s essential to be mindful before booking your massage. Three versions of sensual massage are available, so please make sure you choose the one that’s right for you and your needs. This will help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience for you and your therapist. The choices are The Absolute Massage, The Exploration Massage or the lighter Intimacy Massage.

I am always available to discuss this in a FREE 15-minute phone call or text.

I see female clients of all ages, from 21 to 75/ but if under 21, I require age verification. I do not see any clients under 18 years of age.

I see clients of all ethnicities and body types, but be aware that some elements may have to be omitted for Xtra plus-size women.

I often hear from prospective female clients that they are unsure about booking an appointment and, although keen to go ahead, want to hear the opinions of other women who have taken a sensual massage with me before booking.

Are you having difficulty achieving orgasm?

If you are having difficulty reaching orgasm either when you are with another person or have never reached orgasm, Read this



The Rise & Shine offer for new clients

If I am available, I can offer new female clients a special 40% off  option of Absolute Superior 75-minute Massage. This discounted massage is only available between 9 a.m. and midday ( finish by )

To apply for this you must contact Colin directly, quoting Rise & Shine, and provide details of yourself and your motivation for taking it.

Payment – Credit or debit card, pay pal or bank transfer paid at the point of booking. No refund if cancelled

 Click here to apply


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How to book your appointment

There are several ways to book your appointment.

Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.

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Phone – For those wanting confidentiality, you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin, and he will book for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696

Enquire – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here

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Payment

Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.

For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail

Pay by Barter

In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.

Students discount

I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time.   Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.

Those with low income 

I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.

Consent Authorisation & Request Forms

Absolute Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This form can be completed without booking an appointment, as it allows you to see what elements can be included in this most erotic massage. Once I have received the completed form, I will design the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries.

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

Upon arrival, you will be offered water, tea, coffee or a glass of wine. The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions you may have and confirmation that there are no changes to your Authorisation & Request Form.  I will ask you to read and sign the Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form. After the treatment is completed and before you leave, provided you are satisfied with the treatment, I will ask you to re-sign this form confirming your satisfaction with the services given.

Women Only Telegram Chat Group

Ask past clients questions at the Intimacy Matters Review –

Many women express interest in exploring sensual massage but often hesitate due to concerns about safety, discretion, entitlement, and whether it’s the right choice for them. These concerns can lead to delays in taking the plunge—sometimes for weeks, months, or even years.

Understanding these apprehensions, I have created a dedicated Telegram chat group called IM Review Group For Women Only. This group is a safe space where past female clients who have experienced sensual massage are available to answer any questions you might have. These women have volunteered to share their thoughts, feelings, and personal experiences with sensual massage, offering you insights into how it has positively impacted their lives.

This community is here to provide support, reassurance, and honest feedback, helping you make an informed decision with confidence and peace of mind.

How to join

  1. If you don’t have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer – https://telegram.org
  2. Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women 
  3. Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
  4. If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
  5. You can use a false name, and you don’t need to give any personal details you don’t want to
  6. Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
  7. If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.

The Absolute Premium massage, as featured in the media

Colin and The Absolute Massage was featured in 2018 and 2019 in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business’ and has also been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmo’s All The Way Podcasts, The BBC, Metro, The Independent and several other national media outlets. Popular with women of all ages, it was also trialled by Rebecca Dakin, ‘The Great British Sexpert, ’  as seen in the video below. A client of Colin’s Cee Cee talked to Cosmopolitan’s Pasley Gilmore in her podcast about how the Absolute Massage changed her life. About Colin ( your masseur )

About Colin (your masseur)

As a Sex and Relationship Engineer and Master Sensual Masseur, my work is rooted in a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy. I see myself not just as a practitioner but as a sex educator and problem solver, dedicated to helping individuals and couples transform their relationships and sex lives into something truly fulfilling and deserving. Since 2005, I have been fully immersed in this field, developing and employing a range of unconventional methods that address the unique challenges people face in their intimate lives.

My work combines deep knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with hands-on experience as a sensual masseur, enabling me to address both the emotional and sexual aspects of my clients’ needs. I work with single women, men, and couples of all ages and orientations, tackling a variety of issues. Some of the more frequent challenges I help people with include:

  • Relationship conflict and finding the right partner
  • Reawakening one’s sex life and overcoming sexual frustration
  • Addressing lack of sexual experience and performance challenges, such as the inability to orgasm or erectile issues
  • Managing fear of sex and sexual complacency in long-term relationships
  • Addressing libido issues, particularly for women experiencing fluctuating or low libido

Since founding Intimacy Matters in 2012, I have helped over 6,000 people navigate various aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach is best described as humanistic, considering the biological, psychological, social, anthropological, and erotic influences that shape our sensual desires, curiosities, and fears. I work inclusively with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, always aiming to create a space where they can explore and resolve their deepest intimate challenges. Read More

Motivation

Some reasons women have given for choosing the Absolute Sensual Massage

The motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration is often multi-faceted. Here are some reasons past female clients have shared when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage:

  • For women who regularly enjoy professional massages but also seek intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper, primal, and sensual aspects of themselves.
  • For women who desire the firm yet tender touch of a man without the pressure to perform or reciprocate sexually.
  • Curiosity about ejaculation: Some women have always wanted to explore whether they can experience ejaculation and see this massage as a safe way to do so.
  • To explore specific aspects of erotic arousal that they feel unable to explore with their current or potential new partner.
  • For women who know that arousal and orgasm can be achieved through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse and want to experience this fully.
  • To compensate for a lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life: Some women seek an intimate experience that fulfills their needs outside of their usual sexual routine.
  • For women facing issues such as loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity, or sexual inexperience, this massage provides a therapeutic and explorative space to address these concerns.
  • Single women who are content without a relationship but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship typically offers.
  • For women who believe in experiencing arousal and orgasm without the commitments and responsibilities that come with a relationship.
  • For those in marriages or partnerships where intimacy has declined: The massage offers discreet, safe, and professional intimate attention without challenging their existing relationship. This is particularly relevant for women from cultural backgrounds where exploring sexuality is discouraged.
  • For inexperienced women who want to discover new sensations and explore new dimensions of erotic arousal.
  • For older women experience a surge in libido that their partner or current situation cannot satisfy.
  • For mature women who remain very sexual but prefer to explore their desires discreetly in a safe, professional environment without impacting their personal lives.

These motivations highlight the diverse and personal reasons women choose the Absolute Sensual Massage, each seeking to fulfil a unique aspect of their sensual and sexual journey.

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The Absolute Premium Massage

A Description

The Absolute Sensual Massage: A Journey in Five Phases

The Absolute Sensual Massage is a deeply personalized experience, designed to cater to your desires, responses, and boundaries. The massage unfolds in five phases, each tailored to your unique journey of sensual exploration:

  1. Overture – Gentle Introduction
    • A soft and calming beginning, setting the stage for deeper relaxation and connection.
  2. Revelation – Therapeutic Release with Teasing Touch
    • A traditional therapeutic massage focusing on relieving tension and stress while introducing teasing touches near intimate areas to gently instigate arousal.
  3. Seduction – Intensified Stimulation
    • The massage continues with a more direct, stimulating touch, including the option for clitoral stimulation, deepening your arousal and connection to your sensuality.
  4. Abandonment – Focused Erotic Stimulation
    • At this stage, the focus shifts to providing direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, and more assertive techniques aimed at awakening your primal sexuality.
  5. Reprise or Resolution – Your Choice
    • You decide when and how the massage concludes, ensuring that your experience ends on your terms.

The Massage May Include:

  • Gentle, sensual touch across the whole body.
  • Firm muscle work for deep relaxation.
  • Assertive but caring control, tailored to your comfort.
  • Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris.
  • Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-spot.
  • Optional oral stimulation, whether receiving or giving.
  • Optional external and internal anal stimulation.
  • Probable multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.
  • Spanking and light impact play.
  • Optional reciprocal touch, allowing you to arouse the masseur while receiving.
  • Special requests are considered, including fantasies, domination, and toys.

Who is This Massage Good For?

This massage is ideal for:

  • Women who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or expectations.
  • Women who face challenges in letting go and achieving orgasm.
  • Women looking to reignite their sexual libido.
  • Women who are sexually frustrated and need a safe, discreet outlet.
  • Women who feel their past sexual experiences have fallen short of their desires.
  • Women seeking to explore new sensations with a professional, experienced therapist.
  • Women wanting to explore specific aspects of arousal that their partner may be reluctant to engage in.
  • Single women who do not want one-night stands or relationships but still wish to satisfy their sexual appetites.
  • Women who have experienced past sexual trauma and need support and guidance to regain their sexual confidence.
  • Women from cultures that inhibit sexual exploration but who seek a discreet outlet.

This Massage May Not Be Suitable For:

  • Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy.
  • Those who are sexually inexperienced and may not be ready for this level of exploration.
  • Women who are excessively overweight, as the physical demands of the massage may be challenging.

The Absolute Sensual Massage is a unique experience designed to meet your specific needs, helping you explore your sexuality in a safe, professional, and empowering environment.

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Description of the five phases

Preparation for the Absolute Sensual Massage

Before experiencing the Absolute Massage, it’s essential to complete the ‘Absolute’ Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This step is crucial to ensure that your massage is tailored precisely to your desires and comfort levels.

The Massage Process

The Absolute Massage is a 105-minute experience designed to meet your unique needs and preferences. By completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, you have the opportunity to design the content of the massage and set clear boundaries. This form allows you to:

  • Specify the Type of Touch: Indicate the kind of touch you wish to enjoy, whether it’s gentle, firm, or a combination of both.
  • Define the Level of Erotic Arousal: You can express the intensity and type of erotic stimulation you are interested in exploring, from subtle arousal to more direct and bold techniques.
  • Set Boundaries: Clearly outline any boundaries you do not want to be crossed during the massage. This ensures that the experience remains fully within your comfort zone.

Completing this form allows me to create an experience that aligns with your expectations, helping you feel secure, respected, and fully in control. Whether you’re curious about what the Absolute Massage can offer or are ready to book an appointment, reviewing and completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form is a valuable first step in your journey.

This preparation process not only informs you about the possible elements and phases of the Absolute Massage but also ensures that your desires and limits are fully understood and respected, making your experience as personalized and fulfilling as possible.

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re write this to encourage women to enjoy the benefits and pleasure of sensual massage from an expert sensual masseur Colin Richards – intimacy matters provides sensual massage for women with Yoni and G Spot stimulation The Absolute Premium Massage is the most popular massage I give to women. To hear how others have experienced this massage treatment, read my reviews. The Absolute massage is the perfect experience for women who are sexually confident and who want to explore the deeper, more primal aspects of their sexuality without feeling judged or having any expectation of giving anything in return. From the start to the finish, you are the focus of attention; everything is about you and your pleasure. The Absolute Premium massage is the ultimate self-caring, all-about-you sensual massage. When you take the Absolute Premium Massage, you will enjoy a complete 105-minute full-body massage experience that starts similarly to the Intimacy and Exploration massages with 30 minutes of traditional therapeutic massage with gradual arousal and clitoral stimulation but then builds to include intense erotic stimulation tailored to your specific desires. The stimulation can consist of internal vaginal massage, G-spot massage, A-spot stimulation, and various techniques to encourage multiple orgasms and potential ejaculation. The experience is always professional, private, and, of course, totally confidential. You can read further explicit details of the Absolute massage by registering with the password-protected area of this website on Intimacy X
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Experience the profound benefits and pleasures of sensual massage designed exclusively for women. At Intimacy Matters, Colin Richards, an expert sensual masseur, offers a deeply transformative experience that goes beyond the ordinary. The Absolute Premium Massage, one of our most sought-after treatments, invites you to explore and embrace the deepest aspects of your sexuality with confidence and freedom.

This massage is perfect for women who are self-assured in their sexuality and eager to explore their desires in a safe, non-judgmental environment. From the moment the session begins, your pleasure and well-being are the sole focus. There are no expectations or pressures—only the opportunity for you to fully indulge in your own sensual journey.

The Absolute Premium Massage is a 105-minute full-body experience that starts with 30 minutes of traditional therapeutic massage, gradually building towards heightened arousal and clitoral stimulation. As the session progresses, the experience intensifies with personalized techniques that may include internal vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, A-spot techniques, and other methods designed to encourage multiple orgasms and even potential ejaculation. Each session is conducted with the utmost professionalism, privacy, and confidentiality, ensuring that your experience is as comfortable and empowering as it is pleasurable.

For more explicit details about the Absolute Premium Massage, we invite you to register in the password-protected area of our website on Intimacy X. Discover a new dimension of self-care and sensuality with Colin Richards at Intimacy Matters.

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continue with the same instructions for this section also – Think of this massage as your 4th Option Mostly, sexual arousal and orgasm are experienced by women in three ways:- Option 1, with a partner – intimacy is intimate, trusting, and caring but also can become routine, unimaginative and, at worst, infrequent. Option 2, with a stranger (one-night stand)—This can be exciting, spontaneous, non-emotional, and without commitment, but it can also be impulsive, unprepared, risky, and disappointing. Option 3. Self-masturbation is usually private; you know what you like, and there is no judgment. It can be familiar, routine, and satisfying but not mind-blowing. The 4th Option – sensual massage – taking a sensual massage as a 4th option combines all the positive dynamics of the three options above but removes the negative aspects to create a uniquely self-indulgent, fulfilling erotic experience that can and is often regarded by many women as a wonderfully pleasurable therapeutic experience that leaves her feeling intensely relaxed and fulfilled to the deepest level. You give the guidelines. By submitting a Consent Authorisation & Request Form before the treatment is taken, the massage can be tailored to your specific desires and boundaries. The Absolute Sensual Massage is given only by Colin, an internationally renowned expert practitioner.
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Consider this: the Absolute Premium Massage as your 4th Option for experiencing sensual pleasure.

Women typically experience sexual arousal and orgasm in three common ways:

  1. Option 1: With a Partner – This is intimate, trusting, and caring, but over time, it can become routine, less imaginative, and even infrequent.
  2. Option 2: With a Stranger (One-Night Stand) – This can be thrilling, spontaneous, and free of emotional ties, but it can also be impulsive, unplanned, and potentially disappointing.
  3. Option 3: Self-Masturbation – This is usually private, and you know exactly what you like. There’s no judgment, but it can also be familiar, routine, and satisfying without being truly mind-blowing.

The 4th Option: Sensual Massage – Choosing a sensual massage as your 4th option combines all the positive dynamics of the other three while removing the negatives. This creates a uniquely self-indulgent and deeply fulfilling erotic experience. Many women find this experience not only intensely pleasurable but also profoundly therapeutic, leaving them feeling deeply relaxed and fulfilled.

With Colin Richards, an internationally renowned expert practitioner, the Absolute Sensual Massage is a personalized journey tailored specifically to your desires and boundaries. By submitting a Consent Authorisation & Request Form before your treatment, every aspect of the massage is designed to align perfectly with your comfort and pleasure.

Embrace this 4th option and discover a new level of self-care and sensual fulfillment with the Absolute Premium Massage.

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Confidentiality & proof of identity  You can use a false name for those whose identities mustn’t be revealed, but I need a working email address and, ideally, a mobile number. I am the only person who sees your information, and if requested, I will not contact you in any way you don’t want me to; however, I may ask you to send a voicemail message to confirm you are who you are. Sometimes, I am contacted by men who like to pretend they are female!
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Confidentiality & Proof of Identity

Your privacy and confidentiality are paramount. If you prefer to keep your identity undisclosed, you are welcome to use a false name. However, I do require a working email address and, ideally, a mobile number to ensure secure communication. Rest assured, I am the only person who will ever see your information. If you wish, I will not contact you in any way that you do not approve of.

In some cases, I may ask you to send a voicemail message to confirm your identity, as a precaution to ensure that all clients are genuine—this helps prevent any misunderstandings, particularly as I occasionally receive inquiries from men pretending to be female.

Your comfort, privacy, and trust are my top priorities.

4o

You said:
I often hear from women who are considering taking a sensual massage that, although they are very interested in exploring this, they are concerned about safety, discretion, entitlement, and appropriateness and often hold back from taking the massage for weeks, sometimes months, even years.  With this in mind, I have set up a chat group on Telegram called IM Review Group For Women Only.  In this chat group are past female clients who have volunteered to answer any questions and are happy to pass on their thoughts and feelings about sensual massage and what it has done for them.
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Many women express interest in exploring sensual massage but often hesitate due to concerns about safety, discretion, entitlement, and whether it’s the right choice for them. These concerns can lead to delays in taking the plunge—sometimes for weeks, months, or even years.

Understanding these apprehensions, I have created a dedicated Telegram chat group called IM Review Group For Women Only. This group is a safe space where past female clients who have experienced sensual massage are available to answer any questions you might have. These women have volunteered to share their thoughts, feelings, and personal experiences with sensual massage, offering you insights into how it has positively impacted their lives.

This community is here to provide support, reassurance, and honest feedback, helping you make an informed decision with confidence and peace of mind.

4o

You said:
I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives into what they want and deserve. Working full-time in this field since 2005, I have discovered and used various approaches not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their lives. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur, I can work with both the emotional and sexual. I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with, they include relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012, and since then, I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic. I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men, women and couples of all sexual orientations
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As a Sex and Relationship Engineer and Master Sensual Masseur, my work is rooted in a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy. I see myself not just as a practitioner but as a sex educator and problem solver, dedicated to helping individuals and couples transform their relationships and sex lives into something truly fulfilling and deserving. Since 2005, I have been fully immersed in this field, developing and employing a range of unconventional methods that address the unique challenges people face in their intimate lives.

My work combines deep knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with hands-on experience as a sensual masseur, enabling me to address both the emotional and sexual aspects of my clients’ needs. I work with single women, men, and couples of all ages and orientations, tackling a variety of issues. Some of the more frequent challenges I help people with include:

  • Relationship conflict and finding the right partner
  • Reawakening one’s sex life and overcoming sexual frustration
  • Addressing lack of sexual experience and performance challenges, such as the inability to orgasm or erectile issues
  • Managing fear of sex and sexual complacency in long-term relationships
  • Addressing libido issues, particularly for women experiencing fluctuating or low libido

Since founding Intimacy Matters in 2012, I have helped over 6,000 people navigate various aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach is best described as humanistic, considering the biological, psychological, social, anthropological, and erotic influences that shape our sensual desires, curiosities, and fears. I work inclusively with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, always aiming to create a space where they can explore and resolve their deepest intimate challenges.

4o

You said:
Reasons women give for taking the Absolute Massage treatment Often, the motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration can be multi-faceted. Below is a selection of motivations past female clients have given when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage. For women who enjoy regular massage and have their muscles worked professionally but also want to experience intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper primal, sensual part of themselves. For women who want to enjoy a man’s firm yet tender touch without the need to perform or give back sexually. I have always wanted to see if I can ejaculate There are certain aspects of erotic arousal I want to explore, but I feel I can’t with my current partner or a new partner. For women who know that arousal and ultimate orgasm can also be enjoyed through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse. For women who want an intimate experience to compensate for lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life. For women with issues around loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity and sexual inexperience. Single women who are happy not to be in a relationship and whose sex lives are good but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings. For women who believe it is right to experience arousal and orgasm without the commitment and responsibilities of a relationship. Women in a marriage/ partnership where most else is good but the sex and intimacy have declined need to receive intimate attention within a discreet, safe, professional environment that does not challenge their current situation. (This is particularly relevant to women from backgrounds where their culture dissuades them from exploring their sexuality and sensual needs for fear of being judged) For the inexperienced woman who wants to learn to discover new sensations of arousal and to explore new erotic sensations. For older women who have found their libido going “through the roof” but that their partner or current situation can not provide for it. For mature women who are still very sexual but want to explore this discreetly in a safe, professional environment without wanting to have it intrude on their personal lives.
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Reasons Women Give for Choosing the Absolute Sensual Massage

The motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration is often multi-faceted. Here are some reasons past female clients have shared when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage:

  • For women who regularly enjoy professional massages but also seek intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper, primal, and sensual aspects of themselves.
  • For women who desire the firm yet tender touch of a man without the pressure to perform or reciprocate sexually.
  • Curiosity about ejaculation: Some women have always wanted to explore whether they can experience ejaculation and see this massage as a safe way to do so.
  • To explore specific aspects of erotic arousal that they feel unable to explore with their current or potential new partner.
  • For women who know that arousal and orgasm can be achieved through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse and want to experience this fully.
  • To compensate for a lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life: Some women seek an intimate experience that fulfills their needs outside of their usual sexual routine.
  • For women facing issues such as loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity, or sexual inexperience, this massage provides a therapeutic and explorative space to address these concerns.
  • Single women who are content without a relationship but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship typically offers.
  • For women who believe in experiencing arousal and orgasm without the commitments and responsibilities that come with a relationship.
  • For those in marriages or partnerships where intimacy has declined: The massage offers discreet, safe, and professional intimate attention without challenging their existing relationship. This is particularly relevant for women from cultural backgrounds where exploring sexuality is discouraged.
  • For inexperienced women who want to discover new sensations and explore new dimensions of erotic arousal.
  • For older women experiencing a surge in libido that their partner or current situation cannot satisfy.
  • For mature women who remain very sexual but prefer to explore their desires discreetly in a safe, professional environment without impacting their personal lives.

These motivations highlight the diverse and personal reasons women choose the Absolute Sensual Massage, each seeking to fulfill a unique aspect of their sensual and sexual journey.

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The massage is given in five phases. Nothing is fixed, and each phase is given according to the receiver’s desires, responses and boundaries. Overture – Gentle introduction Revelation – Traditional therapeutic massage working out tension and stress but with teasing touch near intimate areas to instigate arousal Seduction – Therapeutic massage continues, but the teasing touch becomes more direct and is intended to stimulate you; this part can include clitoral stimulation. Abandonment – The masseur is now more focused on giving direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G spot stimulation, and if wanted, assertive, bold, decisive techniques to help you experience your primal sexuality. Reprise or Resolution – You get to decide when the massage finishes This massage can include:- The gentle sensual touch of the whole body. Firm muscle work of the whole of the body. Assertive but caring control. Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris. Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-Spot. Optional oral stimulation receiving Optional oral stimulation, giving Optional external and internal anal stimulation. Probable multiple orgasms. Probable female ejaculation. Spanking & light impact play Optional reciprocal arousing touch is given to the masseur while he gives to you Special requests considered, ask, i.e. fantasy, domination, toys, Who is this massage good for? Here are just a few examples. Women who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or expectation. Women who have challenges around letting go and achieving orgasm. Women who want to re-ignite their sexual libido. Women who are sexually frustrated need a safe and discreet outlet. Women who feel that their past sex lives have not achieved their expectations. Women who want to explore new sensations with a professional, experienced therapist Women who want to explore specific aspects of sexual arousal are unable because of their partner’s reluctance. Women who are single but sexually don’t want one-night stands or a relationship to satisfy their sexual appetite. Women who have experienced past sexual trauma need support and guidance to regain sexual confidence. Women who come from cultures that inhibit sexual exploration but who need a discreet outlet. This massage is not suitable for Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy Who are sexually inexperienced Are excessively overweight
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The Absolute Sensual Massage: A Journey in Five Phases

The Absolute Sensual Massage is a deeply personalized experience, designed to cater to your desires, responses, and boundaries. The massage unfolds in five phases, each tailored to your unique journey of sensual exploration:

  1. Overture – Gentle Introduction
    • A soft and calming beginning, setting the stage for deeper relaxation and connection.
  2. Revelation – Therapeutic Release with Teasing Touch
    • A traditional therapeutic massage focusing on relieving tension and stress while introducing teasing touches near intimate areas to gently instigate arousal.
  3. Seduction – Intensified Stimulation
    • The massage continues with a more direct, stimulating touch, including the option for clitoral stimulation, deepening your arousal and connection to your sensuality.
  4. Abandonment – Focused Erotic Stimulation
    • At this stage, the focus shifts to providing direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, and more assertive techniques aimed at awakening your primal sexuality.
  5. Reprise or Resolution – Your Choice
    • You decide when and how the massage concludes, ensuring that your experience ends on your terms.

The Massage May Include:

  • Gentle, sensual touch across the whole body.
  • Firm muscle work for deep relaxation.
  • Assertive but caring control, tailored to your comfort.
  • Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris.
  • Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-spot.
  • Optional oral stimulation, whether receiving or giving.
  • Optional external and internal anal stimulation.
  • Probable multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.
  • Spanking and light impact play.
  • Optional reciprocal touch, allowing you to arouse the masseur while receiving.
  • Special requests are considered, including fantasies, domination, and toys.

Who is This Massage Good For?

This massage is ideal for:

  • Women who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or expectations.
  • Women who face challenges in letting go and achieving orgasm.
  • Women looking to reignite their sexual libido.
  • Women who are sexually frustrated and need a safe, discreet outlet.
  • Women who feel their past sexual experiences have fallen short of their desires.
  • Women seeking to explore new sensations with a professional, experienced therapist.
  • Women wanting to explore specific aspects of arousal that their partner may be reluctant to engage in.
  • Single women who do not want one-night stands or relationships but still wish to satisfy their sexual appetites.
  • Women who have experienced past sexual trauma and need support and guidance to regain their sexual confidence.
  • Women from cultures that inhibit sexual exploration but who seek a discreet outlet.

This Massage May Not Be Suitable For:

  • Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy.
  • Those who are sexually inexperienced and may not be ready for this level of exploration.
  • Women who are excessively overweight, as the physical demands of the massage may be challenging.

The Absolute Sensual Massage is a unique experience designed to meet your specific needs, helping you explore your sexuality in a safe, professional, and empowering environment.

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Description of the five phases Preparation Before I give the ‘Absolute’ Massage, please complete the ‘Absolute’ Consent Authorisation & Request Form. The massage is 105 minutes. You can design the content and set any boundaries by completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form. By completing this form, you help me create the experience you want. You can indicate the type of touch you want to enjoy and the level and intensity of the erotic arousal you ideally seek to explore and experience. You can also inform me of any boundaries you do not want to be crossed. Reading this form will give you an idea of what elements you can request in the Absolute Massage. You can view or complete this form without having booked an appointment.
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Preparation for the Absolute Sensual Massage

Before experiencing the Absolute Massage, it’s essential to complete the ‘Absolute’ Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This step is crucial to ensure that your massage is tailored precisely to your desires and comfort levels.

The Massage Process

The Absolute Massage is a 105-minute experience designed to meet your unique needs and preferences. By completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, you have the opportunity to design the content of the massage and set clear boundaries. This form allows you to:

  • Specify the Type of Touch: Indicate the kind of touch you wish to enjoy, whether it’s gentle, firm, or a combination of both.
  • Define the Level of Erotic Arousal: You can express the intensity and type of erotic stimulation you are interested in exploring, from subtle arousal to more direct and bold techniques.
  • Set Boundaries: Clearly outline any boundaries you do not want to be crossed during the massage. This ensures that the experience remains fully within your comfort zone.

Completing this form allows me to create an experience that aligns with your expectations, helping you feel secure, respected, and fully in control. Whether you’re curious about what the Absolute Massage can offer or are ready to book an appointment, reviewing and completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form is a valuable first step in your journey.

This preparation process not only informs you about the possible elements and phases of the Absolute Massage but also ensures that your desires and limits are fully understood and respected, making your experience as personalized and fulfilling as possible.

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The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions. You may want a glass of wine, water, tea, or coffee. Then, once you are relaxed and ready, I will take you to the treatment room, and then, if you have not done so already (within an hour before the massage), I request you to take a shower, after which you get yourself ready by laying face down on the massage table. Unless requested otherwise, I leave the room at this time to let you prepare yourself privately. Once showered, I will return and cover you with a large towel. I then take a few more minutes to explain how the message will progress, how to communicate with me during the massage and how the massage will finish. Products used The massage is given with grapeseed massage oil and water-based lubricant for any genital stimulation. Please let me know if you do not want these used, and bring your alternatives along.
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The Appointment Process

Your appointment begins with a brief, friendly chat to address any final questions or concerns you might have. To help you relax, you can choose to enjoy a glass of wine, water, tea, or coffee. Once you feel comfortable and ready, I will guide you to the treatment room.

If you haven’t already done so within an hour before the massage, I will kindly ask you to take a shower. This is a vital step to ensure you feel fresh and relaxed before the session begins. After your shower, you’ll prepare by lying face down on the massage table. Typically, I will leave the room at this time to give you privacy as you get ready. Once you’re settled, I will return and cover you with a large towel for comfort.

Before the massage begins, I’ll take a few moments to explain how the session will unfold, how you can communicate with me during the massage, and what to expect as the massage concludes. This ensures you feel fully informed and comfortable as we proceed.

Products Used During the Massage

The massage is performed using grapeseed massage oil, known for its light, non-greasy texture that nourishes the skin. For any genital stimulation, I use a water-based lubricant to ensure comfort and ease. If you prefer not to use these products, please inform me in advance, and you are welcome to bring along any alternatives you prefer.

This careful preparation helps to create a relaxing, respectful, and enjoyable experience, tailored entirely to your preferences and needs.

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The Overture: The Therapeutic Relaxing Phase

The Overture is the beginning of your Absolute Sensual Massage experience, designed to gently ease you into a state of relaxation and comfort. This phase follows the principles of a traditional therapeutic massage, focusing on relaxing your body, relieving any tension or muscle strain, and preparing your mind and body to feel safe, secure, and open to the experience.

The Overture starts with a soothing head or foot massage, which serves to awaken your senses and bring your attention into the present moment. Following this, I use light, gentle touches across your whole body to further enliven your senses and help you begin to unwind.

Next, I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, and buttocks, and then spend a full 25 minutes giving you a gentle yet confident massage. The focus here is on working out any knots or tension, encouraging your body to release stress and fully relax. You are welcome to guide me on the pressure you prefer, whether firmer or lighter, to ensure your comfort and satisfaction.

Throughout the Overture, I remain dressed, allowing you to gradually ease into the experience while maintaining a sense of safety and trust. This phase is all about creating a foundation of relaxation and peace, setting the stage for the more sensual elements of the massage that will follow.

Revelation: Awakening Sensuality

As you begin to relax deeply and your body responds to the therapeutic touch, the massage gradually transitions into a more subtly arousing experience. In this phase, my hands will start to explore more intimate areas of your body, teasing and caressing with intention. I focus on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back, all areas that hold tension and respond well to gentle, stimulating touch.

As your arousal begins to build—indicated by your movements, sounds, or natural lubrication—I will introduce light clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage. This touch is designed to gently encourage your desire for deeper exploration, creating a sense of anticipation. During this phase, I can remain dressed or undressed, depending on your preference and comfort level.

Seduction: Deepening the Connection

As your arousal heightens, the massage progresses into the Seduction phase, where erotic exploration takes center stage. The essence of this phase is to help you feel completely open to manual stimulation, allowing you to connect with your deepest primal female energies. This is a time for you to fully immerse yourself in the experience, free from judgment or expectation.

You are invited to express yourself in whatever way feels natural—whether through movement, sound, or simply by surrendering to the sensations. My touch follows the guidelines you provided in the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, but I am also attuned to any changes you wish to make during the session as you become more at ease.

Learn More About the Following Phases

To discover more about the next three phases of the Absolute Premium Massage, you can register for access to the private area of the website at Intimacy X. Once registered, you’ll gain access to the full, uncensored descriptions of this and other sensual massages available. Alternatively, you can contact me directly via email at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk  or text at 07966 522 696 to request a link to a page where you can view further details.

  • Seduction continued
  • Abandonment
  • Reprise or Resolution

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