The Absolute Premium Massage


The ultimate ‘all about you’ 105-minute whole-of-body erotic massage

Prices include 20% vat

“The benefits of orgasms are so numerous that every woman should be able to access them regularly, whether or not they are in a relationship and whatever their age.   Quote by the international speaker on well-being for women Marisa Peer

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The  Absolute Premium Massage is the most popular massage I give to women. To hear how others have experienced this massage treatment, read my reviews.

The Absolute massage is the perfect experience for women who are sexually confident and who want to explore the deeper, more primal aspects of their sexuality without feeling judged or having any expectation of giving anything in return. From the start to the finish, you are the focus of attention; everything is about you and your pleasure.

The Absolute Premium massage is the ultimate self-caring, all-about-you sensual massage.

When you take the Absolute Premium Massage, you will enjoy a complete 105-minute full-body massage experience that starts similarly to the  Intimacy and Exploration massages with 30 minutes of traditional therapeutic massage with gradual arousal and clitoral stimulation but then builds to include intense erotic stimulation tailored to your specific desires. The stimulation can consist of internal vaginal massage, G-spot massage, A-spot stimulation, and various techniques to encourage multiple orgasms and potential ejaculation. The experience is always professional, private, and, of course, totally confidential.

You can read further explicit details of the Absolute massage by registering with the password-protected area of this website on Intimacy X

Think of this massage as your 4th Option

Mostly, sexual arousal and orgasm are experienced by women in three ways:-

Option 1, with a partner – intimacy is intimate, trusting, and caring but also can become routine, unimaginative and, at worst, infrequent.
Option 2, with a stranger (one-night stand)—This can be exciting, spontaneous, non-emotional, and without commitment, but it can also be impulsive, unprepared, risky, and disappointing.
Option 3. Self-masturbation is usually private; you know what you like, and there is no judgment. It can be familiar, routine, and satisfying but not mind-blowing.

The 4th Option – sensual massage – taking a sensual massage as a 4th option combines all the positive dynamics of the three options above but removes the negative aspects to create a uniquely self-indulgent, fulfilling erotic experience that can and is often regarded by many women as a wonderfully pleasurable therapeutic experience that leaves her feeling intensely relaxed and fulfilled to the deepest level.

You give the guidelines.

By submitting a Consent Authorisation & Request Form before the treatment is taken, the massage can be tailored to your specific desires and boundaries.

The Absolute Sensual Massage is given only by Colin, an internationally renowned expert practitioner.

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To read a longer description of the Absolute Premium massage, scroll down the page

This massage is not suitable for

  • Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy
  • Who are sexually inexperienced
  • Are excessively overweight

Confidentiality & proof of identity 

You can use a false name for those whose identities mustn’t be revealed, but I need a working email address and, ideally, a mobile number. I am the only person who sees your information, and if requested, I will not contact you in any way you don’t want me to; however, I may ask you to send a voicemail message to confirm you are who you are. Sometimes, I am contacted by men who like to pretend they are female!

Consider which massage is best for you.

When choosing a massage, you must consider your goals and objectives for the experience. If you’re starting on this journey of sexual discovery, it’s advisable to take things slow and explore different options. What you might imagine may not be the reality, so it’s essential to be mindful before booking your massage. Three versions of sensual massage are available, so please make sure you choose the one that’s right for you and your needs. This will help ensure a positive and enjoyable experience for you and your therapist. The choices are The Absolute Massage, The Exploration Massage or the lighter Intimacy Massage.

I am always available to discuss this in a FREE 15-minute phone call or text.

I see female clients of all ages, from 21 to 75/ but if under 21, I require age verification. I do not see any clients under 18 years of age.

I see clients of all ethnicities and body types, but be aware that some elements may have to be omitted for Xtra plus-size women.

I often hear from prospective female clients that they are unsure about booking an appointment and, although keen to go ahead, want to hear the opinions of other women who have taken a sensual massage with me before booking.

Are you having difficulty achieving orgasm?

If you are having difficulty reaching orgasm either when you are with another person or have never reached orgasm, Read this

The Rise & Shine offer for new clients

If I am available, I can offer new female clients a special HALF-PRICE option of Absolute Premium Massage. This half-price massage is only available between 9 a.m. and 11.30 a.m. Monday through Friday.

To apply for this half-price massage, you must contact Colin directly, quoting Rise & Shine, and provide details of yourself and your motivation for taking it.

Payment – Credit or debit card, pay pal or bank transfer paid at the point of booking. No refund if cancelled

NOTE: A maximum of three half-price appointments a week, and it must be booked within seven days before. Click here to apply

To read a longer description of the Absolute Premium massage, scroll down the page

This massage is not suitable for

  • Women who experience anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy
  • Who are sexually inexperienced
  • Are excessively overweight

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How to book your appointment

There are several ways to book your appointment.

Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.

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Phone – For those wanting confidentiality, you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin, and he will book for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696

Enquire – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here

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Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.

For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail

Pay by Barter

In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.

Students discount

I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time.   Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.

Those with low income 

I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.

Consent Authorisation & Request Forms

Absolute Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This form can be completed without booking an appointment, as it allows you to see what elements can be included in this most erotic massage. Once I have received the completed form, I will design the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries.

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

Upon arrival, you will be offered water, tea, coffee or a glass of wine. The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions you may have and confirmation that there are no changes to your Authorisation & Request Form.  I will ask you to read and sign the Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form. After the treatment is completed and before you leave, provided you are satisfied with the treatment, I will ask you to re-sign this form confirming your satisfaction with the services given.

Women Only Telegram Chat Group

Ask past clients questions at the Intimacy Matters Review –

I often hear from women who are considering taking a sensual massage that, although they are very interested in exploring this, they are concerned about safety, discretion, entitlement, and appropriateness and often hold back from taking the massage for weeks, sometimes months, even years.  With this in mind, I have set up a chat group on Telegram called IM Review Group For Women Only.  In this chat group are past female clients who have volunteered to answer any questions and are happy to pass on their thoughts and feelings about sensual massage and what it has done for them.

How to join

  1. If you don’t have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer –
  2. Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women 
  3. Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
  4. If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
  5. You can use a false name, and you don’t need to give any personal details you don’t want to
  6. Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
  7. If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.

The Absolute Premium massage, as featured in the media

Colin and The Absolute Massage was featured in 2018 and 2019 in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business’ and has also been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmo’s All The Way Podcasts, The BBC, Metro, The Independent and several other national media outlets. Popular with women of all ages, it was also trialled by Rebecca Dakin, ‘The Great British Sexpert, ’  as seen in the video below. A client of Colin’s Cee Cee talked to Cosmopolitan’s Pasley Gilmore in her podcast about how the Absolute Massage changed her life. About Colin ( your masseur )

About Colin (your masseur)

I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives into what they want and deserve. Working full-time in this field since 2005, I have discovered and used various approaches not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their lives. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur, I can work with both the emotional and sexual.

I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with, they include relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012, and since then, I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic. I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men, women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More

Reasons women give for taking the Absolute Massage treatment

Often, the motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration can be multi-faceted. Below is a selection of motivations past female clients have given when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage.

  • For women who enjoy regular massage and have their muscles worked professionally but also want to experience intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper primal, sensual part of themselves.
  • For women who want to enjoy a man’s firm yet tender touch without the need to perform or give back sexually.
  • I have always wanted to see if I can ejaculate
  • There are certain aspects of erotic arousal I want to explore, but I feel I can’t with my current partner or a new partner.
  • For women who know that arousal and ultimate orgasm can also be enjoyed through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse.
  • For women who want an intimate experience to compensate for lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life.
  • For women with issues around loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity and sexual inexperience.
  • Single women who are happy not to be in a relationship and whose sex lives are good but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings.
  • For women who believe it is right to experience arousal and orgasm without the commitment and responsibilities of a relationship.
  • Women in a marriage/ partnership where most else is good but the sex and intimacy have declined need to receive intimate attention within a discreet, safe, professional environment that does not challenge their current situation. (This is particularly relevant to women from backgrounds where their culture dissuades them from exploring their sexuality and sensual needs for fear of being judged)
  • For the inexperienced woman who wants to learn to discover new sensations of arousal and to explore new erotic sensations.
  • For older women who have found their libido going “through the roof” but that their partner or current situation can not provide for it.
  • For mature women who are still very sexual but want to explore this discreetly in a safe, professional environment without wanting to have it intrude on their personal lives.

Click Here to Read The Feedback & Testimonials from previous female clients.

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The Absolute Premium Massage

A Description

The massage is given in five phases.

Nothing is fixed, and each phase is given according to the receiver’s desires, responses and boundaries.

Overture – Gentle introduction

Revelation – Traditional therapeutic massage working out tension and stress but with teasing touch near intimate areas to instigate arousal

Seduction – Therapeutic massage continues, but the teasing touch becomes more direct and is intended to stimulate you; this part can include clitoral stimulation.

Abandonment – The masseur is now more focused on giving direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G spot stimulation, and if wanted, assertive, bold, decisive techniques to help you experience your primal sexuality.

Reprise or Resolution – You get to decide when the massage finishes

This massage can include:-

  • The gentle sensual touch of the whole body.
  • Firm muscle work of the whole of the body.
  • Assertive but caring control.
  • Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris.
  • Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-Spot.
  • Optional oral stimulation receiving
  • Optional oral stimulation, giving
  • Optional external and internal anal stimulation.
  • Probable multiple orgasms.
  • Probable female ejaculation.
  • Spanking & light impact play
  • Optional reciprocal arousing touch is given to the masseur while he gives to you
  • Special requests considered, ask, i.e. fantasy, domination, toys,

Who is this massage good for?

Here are just a few examples.

  • Women who want to explore their sexuality without judgment or expectation.
  • Women who have challenges around letting go and achieving orgasm.
  • Women who want to re-ignite their sexual libido.
  • Women who are sexually frustrated need a safe and discreet outlet.
  • Women who feel that their past sex lives have not achieved their expectations.
  • Women who want to explore new sensations with a professional, experienced therapist
  • Women who want to explore specific aspects of sexual arousal are unable because of their partner’s reluctance.
  • Women who are single but sexually don’t want one-night stands or a relationship to satisfy their sexual appetite.
  • Women who have experienced past sexual trauma need support and guidance to regain sexual confidence.
  • Women who come from cultures that inhibit sexual exploration but who need a discreet outlet.

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Description of the five phases


Before I give the ‘Absolute’ Massage, please complete the ‘Absolute’ Consent Authorisation & Request Form.

The massage is 105 minutes. You can design the content and set any boundaries by completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form. By completing this form, you help me create the experience you want. You can indicate the type of touch you want to enjoy and the level and intensity of the erotic arousal you ideally seek to explore and experience. You can also inform me of any boundaries you do not want to be crossed. Reading this form will give you an idea of what elements you can request in the Absolute Massage. You can view or complete this form without having booked an appointment.

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The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions. You may want a glass of wine, water, tea, or coffee. Then, once you are relaxed and ready, I will take you to the treatment room, and then, if you have not done so already (within an hour before the massage), I request you to take a shower, after which you get yourself ready by laying face down on the massage table. Unless requested otherwise, I leave the room at this time to let you prepare yourself privately. Once showered, I will return and cover you with a large towel. I then take a few more minutes to explain how the message will progress, how to communicate with me during the massage and how the massage will finish.

Products used

The massage is given with grapeseed massage oil and water-based lubricant for any genital stimulation. Please let me know if you do not want these used, and bring your alternatives along.

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The Overture

The Therapeutic Relaxing Phase follows the line of a traditional massage. It is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles, and heighten the senses to put your mind and body into a state of trust and safety. The massage starts with what I call the overture. This is a gentle head or foot massage; to enliven the senses, some light touches your whole body. I then apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, and buttocks, and all are given a full 25-minute gentle but confident massage, working out any knots or tension and encouraging your body to let go. You can ask me to be firmer or lighter. During this phase, I remain dressed.


As you relax and your body responds, the massage becomes subtly arousing, and my hands will tease and explore more intimate areas of your body. I will work on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back. As your arousal increases (movement, sound, and lubrication), I will explore and stimulate to include light clitoral touch and the external vaginal massage intended to have you want me to go further. I can remain dressed or undressed at your request during this massage phase.


As your arousal heightens, I include more erotic exploration. The essence of this phase is to make you feel utterly open to manual stimulation. For some, this may bring on a sense of abandonment. This period allows you to connect to your most profound primal female energies. There is no judgment or expectation on you to behave in any particular way; you can act however your body and mind want to. I follow the guidelines you gave me in the Authorisation & Request form, but I am comfortable with you altering these as you feel at ease.

To learn more about the following three phases of the ‘Absolute Premium massage, you can either register for access to the private area of this website at Intimacy X. Once registered, you will get access to the full uncensored description of this and the other sensual massages available. You can also email or text Colin directly (Mob 07966522696) to request a link to a page you can view.  

  • Seduction continued
  • Abandonment
  • Reprise or Resolution

Request a 15-minute FREE Call

It can be lonely and frustrating when you cannot share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship. For some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Often, female clients tell me it took them months, even years, to decide to book a session finally, and often afterwards, they say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are too nervous about booking a full appointment and want to know more details before committing to anything. If this is the case, send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.

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Frequently Asked Questions

You may have many questions before deciding which massage to book. Please click this link to read the answers to most of my questions. If I do not cover your particular question, please do not hesitate to email me.

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My Location

My Treatment Room is located in Sloane Square Chelsea Central London SW1X – Click here

My private treatment venue is in a small gated courtyard moments from Sloane Square and the King’s Road. It has a stylish open-plan design created for the trendy Kings Road artists and musicians of the late 1960s. The treatment room is very private and quiet and has a modern walk-in shower. Towels, robes and a hairdryer are provided.

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