The 6-Hour Massage My Man
Foundation Course
The course is taken in 2 x 3-hour modules on separate days within a month.
Explore & expand your foreplay skills.
The 6-hour Massage My Man Foundation course is a good starting point for women who want to build confidence and skills in providing sensual massage and enhanced foreplay techniques for men. The Foundation course is usually split into 2 x 3-hour modules; other times can be considered. The course can be taken independently or as a step toward the Intermediate or Professional Training courses. It can also be taken at a 10% reduced price if booked within the 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Course
The Foundation course begins with a 3-hour module 1.
Starting with a 30-minute discussion about female sexuality, you will meet the first female volunteer receiver and have further discussion on what she enjoys about sensual massage and what she feels men need to know about female sexual arousal.
Practice Massage 1 – To learn how to give a sensual massage, I believe it is essential to understand a complete sensual massage experience. To help you understand this, I first give a 45-minute demonstration of a sensual massage (back of the body only) to the male volunteer. During this time, the student observes and can make notes.
After this demonstration, the massage concludes, and there are fifteen minutes for the recipient to ask any questions about their experience. What he enjoyed and what specific techniques felt like.
Practice Massage 2 – This massage provides guided instruction, with the student following Colin’s example as a step-by-step method. The massage is 75 minutes and is given to the back of the body with ten minutes face up to include some genital stimulation to orgasm.
Feedback – After the second massage, the volunteer gives feedback on the student’s style and abilities.
The Foundation 3-hour Module 2 – Back & Front of Body
This module begins with a thirty-minute welcome catch-up conversation and further discussion on male sexuality. The second male receiver arrives and will also join in with this conversation. The second practice massage is given by Colin and the student together, with more guidance than speaking. The student mirrors Colin’s movements during the massage. This practice massage is administered to the front and back of the body in a more relaxed setting, with the lights dimmed and music playing, so that the male recipient can fully enjoy the massage without distraction and respond naturally. The male recipient will provide final feedback at the end of this session. In this massage, the student gives genital and external anal stimulation.
( Tuition with the student practising body-to-body massage, prostate massage happens in the Intermediate Course )

Advanced materials and information
The day before your Foundation class, you will receive:-
- The agenda for the Foundation training, with details of the respective volunteer receivers you will be practising on
- A PowerPoint presentation of the message that you will be learning
- Permanent Access to the Massage My Man training videos on Sensual Connect
- Membership to the IM Students & Volunteers Closed Networking Group on Sensual Connect
In the 2 x 3 hour Foundation training, you will learn:-
- Learn about the biology and anthropology of male and female sexuality and how it relates to sensual massage.
- Receive an introduction to the psychology of male arousal and how it relates to physiological arousal.
- Give a full-body sensual massage with therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
- To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating his mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the male body.
- To give a buttock and upper thigh massage
- How to provide testicle teasing
- How to use your body in the massage
- How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
- How to provide a prostate massage
- Various styles of genital massage
- How to edge him to orgasm.
Foundation Training Options & Costs
Option One – £900
Practising on two male volunteers is 2 x 3-hour modules, followed by your own 90-minute sensual massage given by Colin
Option Two – £750
Option Three – £800
Practising with one male and one female volunteer in 2 x 3-hour modules
Option to return for the Intermediate training
If you want to take only the Foundation class first, you can return later to complete the six-hour Intermediate training. The cost for the stand-alone Intermediate training is a further £800 or £850
Application Form
To apply to take the Foundation course – Click here
The application does not constitute a booking. It simply details who you are and your motivation for taking a particular class. Once your application form is received, I will contact you to discuss your reasons for taking the class and your expectations.
When can I take a course?
Unless otherwise arranged and mutually agreed, the Experiential session is 2.5 hours long. The Foundation course comprises 2 3-hour classes, and the Interdemate course shall consist of 4 x 3-hour classes. The Professional Training is held as 4 x 3-hour sessions
Monday to Friday, 3-hour modules are usually either:-
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 1 pm to 4 pm
- 6 pm to 9 pm
Saturday 5-hour modules
- 10 am to 1 pm
- 6 to 9 pm
Over what period can I spread my training?
- The Foundation 2 x 3-hour training must be completed within one month
- The Combined 4 x 3-hour Foundation & Intermediate training must be completed within two months
- 26 Professional Training must be completed within three months
Fees are not refunded if you do not complete the class within the above time frames
How soon do I need to book a training?
These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one three-hour class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.
Splitting the training
May I complete the Foundation training and then return later to complete the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations training?
Yes, the Foundation Training can be followed by an additional 6 hours of Intermediate training and then 11 hours of Professional training; however, the cost is higher when split into training sessions.
Sharing the training with others
All prices are quoted for a single participant in a class. If two people are taking the course together, a 50% discount applies.
Deposit & cancellation terms
Return of deposit or transfer of deposit
You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your training starts. You can cancel up to three days (72 hours) before the first training day and choose from two options.
- To receive back the full deposit.
- Transfer the training to another date that must start within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Loss of deposit
If you cancel or postpone your training 2–3 days before the scheduled date, you may transfer your deposit if:
a) You provide a new date within 7 days of postponement.
b) The new training date is within 8 weeks of the original booking.
Failure to meet these conditions will result in forfeiture of the deposit and the need for a new booking.
24-hour cancellations or no-show
If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.
Missing a training module
If you fail to attend any training module without providing advance notice, the module will not be repeated, and no refund will be issued.
Take out cancellation insurance.
To cover any cancellation costs, we recommend you purchase a cancellation insurance policy.
Application Form
Click here to complete the Massage My Man registration form

Payment Plans
I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I do sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to make an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.
Male Volunteers
When I have a class booked a couple of days in advance, I send a request to those on the list, providing basic details about the student for whom I need a receiver. I send them your image, your name (it can be a pseudonym), basic information about you (profession, age, sexuality), and your motivation for taking the class.
Example Certificate of Completion

TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage, or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involve nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here

