The 5-Hour Massage My Man Foundation Class

Mastering foreplay with sensual massage

This 5-hour class is ideal for women wanting to learn the basics of giving a man a full-body sensual massage with erotic arousal. It can be taken independently or as step one to move on to the Intermediate or Advanced courses below.

Starting with a 45-minute discussion about male sexuality, you will join Colin to give a 90-minute sensual massage to a male receiver. During the first practice massage session, Colin teaches you a full-body sensual massage routine with erotic arousal, including various movements and techniques to stimulate and arouse the male body. You will follow each step repeating the method on the volunteer receiver.  This is followed by a short interval when you will receive feedback from the male receiver on your style and technique.

Application Form

Click here to complete the Massage My Man registration form

The second practice massage session is given to the same male volunteer ( unless you have requested to practice on two separate male volunteers)—this time, the massage is given with Colin only guiding/leading rather than speaking. You will mirror Colin’s moves as the massage is given. This second practice massage is given in a more relaxed manner; lights dimmed and music on so that the male receiver can enjoy the massage to the full without distraction and respond naturally. The male receiver gives final feedback at the end of this session.

The Foundation is a 5-hour class, which is best taken in one session, but if necessary and by arrangement, it can be split into separate days as 1 x 3-hour and 1 x 2-hour sessions.

In this 5-hour Foundation class, you will learn:-

  • The introductory psychology of male arousal
  • How to give a 90-minute full-body sensual massage
  • How to gradually arouse a male body
  • How to stimulate his body in ways he has never experienced before
  • How to give testicle teasing
  • How to use your body in the massage
  • How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
  • How to give prostate massage
  • Various styles of genital massage
  • How to edge him to orgasm
  • Invitation to join the IMWORKSHOPS Telegram chat group to meet and share ideas and massage with like-minded others.
  • Be given one month’s complimentary membership to 


Male receivers only

There are three class options

Option one

Practising on one male volunteer in two massage sessions (does not include your own massage) –  £525

Option two

Practising on one male volunteer followed by your own 90-minute sensual massage – £625

Option three

Practising on two different male volunteers in two massages sessions  – £650

Mixed Gender Classes

Practice is given to the combination of male & female volunteers.

Option 4

Practising on one male and one female volunteer – £625

Application Form

Click here to complete the Massage My Man application form

Add on the Intermediate class at a later date

If you have taken the Foundation class and then want to return in a few weeks for another 5 hours to learn more intense and creative ways to stimulate the female body, then you can add on the 5-hour Intermediate class content with two male receivers in two practice sessions ( see what’s included below ) – £600

When can I take a class?

The Experiential session is 2.5 hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional classes are held in 5-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement

Monday to Friday 5-hour sessions are usually either:-

  • 10 am to 3 pm
  • 1 pm to 6 pm
  • 5 pm to 10 pm

Saturday 5-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 3 pm
  • Noon to 5 pm

Over what period can I spread my classes?

  • Combined Foundation & Intermediate 2 x 5 hours must be completed within six weeks
  • Professional Training 4 x 5 hours must be completed within twelve weeks

How soon do I need to book a class?

These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one five-hour class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Immediate bookings supplement cost

If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, an extra 10% charge will be made if I can accommodate you.

Splitting the classes

Can I take the Foundation class and then return later and take the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations class?

Yes, The Foundation Class can be followed by a further 5 hours of Intermediate training or 15 hours of Professional training; however, the cost is more being split classes.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one person taking a class.  If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.

Deposit & terms

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.

24-hour cancellations or no-show

If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.

Payment Plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I do sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to make an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

Buy Now Pay Later

Take six weeks to pay for the treatment of your choice.

Spread training and payment over six months.

To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]

Male Volunteers

You may practice on one to six male volunteer receivers depending on your chosen class. I currently have about 300 men on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all these men have been to see me as a client or taken a class, or received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to volunteer. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim, toned, and masculine. All are very comfortable with other sexuality and are eager to help women learn more about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of men.

When I have a class booked a couple of days before the class, I send out a request to those on the list giving basic details of the student whom I require a receiver for. I send them your image, your name ( it can be a pseudonym) and basic information about you ( profession, age, sexuality) and your motivation for taking the class.

If a student selects to have a volunteer from this list as their receiver rather than bring their own, I try to match the student’s desired type as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed, as much depends on who is available on the day.  The men on this volunteer list are happy to receive genital arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.

Example Certificate of Completion


Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here