Private & Group

Sensual Massage Workshops

For Straight, Bisexual & Gay Men

Teaching the art of slow sex

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Private Touch & Turn On Workshops – Male Giving to Male

Learn how to give a full body sensual massage to another male, including the psychology of arousal and traditional massage techniques, enhanced intimacy, body to body techniques, stimulating erogenous areas, prostate massage, edging, genital massage with arousal to orgasm.

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Private Licensed to Thrill Workshops – Male Giving to Female

Learn how to give a full body sensual massage to a female. Discover the unexpected dynamics that women seek from men. Learn how to massage her mind as well as her body. Starting with the 5-hour Foundation Group Workshop which, once completed – and depending on whether you want to become a more proficient lover to women on a personal level or whether you want to become a professional sensual masseur – you enrol in either the Intermediate or Professional private training. 

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Take a Group Workshop?

A group workshop is designed to be both educational and fun. Currently, run for a maximum of six persons working in pairs or three couples teaching sensual massage and specific arousal techniques. The group workshops are three hours in duration and are divided into Foundation workshop and Intermediate workshops. To take part in the Intermediate workshop you must have completed either the private or group Foundation workshop. or sensual massage and the psychology of sexuality. For the individual person group workshop, students practice on specially selected volunteers, one volunteer to two students. In the couples group workshops couple practice on their partners. Group workshops can be man to woman, women to man, man to man or woman to woman as well as couples learning together.


Q & A:

Who Do I Massage?

All the workshops are run with specially selected and vetted volunteers for you to practice on.

When can I book a workshop?

For private workshops, provided I am not booked already you can book a workshop to suit your schedule, but I usually need a minimum of a couple of days’ notice to organise it. Group workshops such as the Licensed to Thrill or Touch & Turn On Man To Man events are run about once every two months.

Where do the workshops take place?

All workshops – unless arranged otherwise – take place at my massage treatments rooms in Battersea.

Do I pay a deposit?

Yes, for the private workshops a 50% deposit on booking is to be paid by bank transfer or PayPal with the balance due on the day. For group workshops, full payment is required on booking.

What if I cancel?

If cancelled after the deposit or payments are paid but with a minimum 2 weeks’ notice the full payment is returned if notice is given within two weeks of the booked date then the deposit is held and credited towards a rescheduled date or can be used to pay for treatments or other events. Group events there is no refund.

How can I pay?

Cash, bank transfer, credit or debit card or PayPal.

Do I need to have had any previous massage experience?

No, anyone can book a private Level 1, 2  or 3 workshop or the Licensed to Thrill Foundation workshop but Professional Man to Man or Licensed to Thrill Intermediate or Professional level require at least 5 hours foundation tuition before.

What do I need to bring?

Just yourself, some light clothing to wear in the early stages of the workshop and a light lunch if over lunch time.

Can I take the workshop with a friend?

You can take the private workshop with a friend by paying a supplement of 50% extra.

Can a friend or partner be my volunteer receiver?

Yes, at no charge.

Am I going to be naked?

This is optional depending on your motivation for the workshop and your own comfort.

How erotic can the workshop become?

By its nature the massage is designed to be arousing and erotic for the receiver volunteers, however, if you have personal boundaries that you want to work within then please inform me beforehand so that I can manage the day to suit your personal comfort zones.


Testimonial from James March 2019

I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage workshop with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates in a relaxed manor putting everyone at ease making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone thinking of offering sensual massage either to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”

Testimonial from Daniel June 2015

I attended a half-day workshop with Colin. From the outset he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session.  I particularly liked the way in which he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine. I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.