Psychosensual Treatments for Women
Help with sexual performance, sexual anxiety and lack of fulfilment
Single appointment from £280
Psychosensual Sensual Treatment: A Holistic Approach to Sexual Fulfilment
Combining Talk and Touch for Comprehensive Healing
For many women, the journey toward deeper sexual intimacy and self-discovery is fraught with obstacles. These challenges may stem from low body confidence, self-doubt, past trauma, or societal conditioning that suppresses exploration and pleasure. For some, issues arise in their relationships—where partners may lack the sensitivity, experience, or communication skills necessary to foster true fulfillment.
Colin Richards, the UK’s leading Somatic Sexologist, has spent over fifteen years helping women and couples overcome these challenges through his unique Psychosensual Treatment. Combining elements of counseling, coaching, and sensual bodywork, Colin has guided countless women toward sexual liberation, confidence, and profound self-awareness. His compassionate and professional approach has earned him a reputation for transforming lives, often in just a single session.
“I had struggled with intimacy for years, feeling disconnected and frustrated. Colin’s approach was unlike anything I had tried before. The combination of psychological insight and sensual massage helped me break through mental barriers I didn’t even know I had. For the first time, I felt truly in tune with my body and my pleasure.”
— Clare, 42, London
A Safe, Supportive, and Judgment-Free Experience
The Psychosensual Treatment offers a completely safe, professional, and non-judgmental space where your desires and comfort are the sole focus. Unlike daily life, where expectations and responsibilities weigh heavily, this experience is designed to be entirely about you—your needs, your boundaries, and your journey toward pleasure and confidence.
Every session begins with an open and confidential discussion to explore the psychological and emotional aspects of your sexual experiences. From there, Colin carefully guides you through a sensual massage that mimics the natural process of sexual arousal, helping to unblock tension, fear, or inhibitions that may be holding you back.
This holistic method allows for a gentle yet powerful reconnection with your body, promoting self-discovery, relaxation, and healing in a way that many traditional therapies cannot achieve.
“After years of struggling with vaginismus, I was skeptical that anything could help. But within just one session, I felt a shift. Colin’s approach was incredibly respectful, patient, and reassuring. For the first time in my life, I felt at ease in my own skin, and that changed everything.”
— Sophie, 35, Manchester
Why the Psychosensual Treatment Works
Many women struggle with anorgasmia (difficulty or inability to orgasm), low libido, or intimacy issues—often due to a lack of experience, creativity, or emotional connection from their partners. Without fulfilling sexual experiences, feelings of frustration, inadequacy, and low self-worth can emerge, affecting both mental and emotional well-being.
The Psychosensual Treatment is designed to help women break free from these limitations through a structured and deeply intuitive process:
1. Psychological Exploration
- A one-on-one discussion to identify the root causes of your intimacy challenges
- Unpacking past experiences, societal conditioning, or personal blocks to pleasure
- Creating a customized approach to reframe your understanding of sensuality and intimacy
2. Sensual Massage & Guided Arousal
- A gentle yet powerful sensual bodywork experience
- Designed to replicate foreplay and build natural arousal in a safe, controlled setting
- Encourages your body to respond without pressure, judgment, or performance anxiety
3. Expanding Pleasure Beyond Penetration
- Many women feel unfulfilled because traditional sexual scripts overemphasize penetration
- The treatment explores alternative pathways to pleasure—teaching you to enjoy new sensations, touch, and self-awareness
- Whether you’re seeking your first orgasm, better control over your arousal, or a deeper connection with yourself, this experience is life-changing
“I never thought pleasure could come in so many forms. I had always struggled to orgasm with my partner, but after working with Colin, I discovered a whole new way of experiencing pleasure that I never knew existed. It has completely changed my relationship with intimacy.”
— Rachel, 38, Birmingham
Common Concerns & Issues Addressed
Many women come to the Psychosensual Treatment with personal concerns, including:
- Situational Anorgasmia – Difficulty reaching orgasm with a partner but not alone
- Total Anorgasmia – Never having experienced orgasm, even through self-pleasure
- Vaginismus – Fear of penetration and physical intimacy due to anxiety or past trauma
- Exploring Alternative Orgasms – Curious about different forms of pleasure beyond clitoral stimulation
- Healing from Sexual Trauma – Rebuilding trust, relaxation, and pleasure after a difficult past experience
- Reigniting Intimacy in a Relationship – Long-term relationships where sexual intimacy has faded
- Overcoming Body Image Issues – Learning to feel confident and sexy in your own skin
- Recovering from an Abusive Relationship – Regaining self-worth and trust in physical connection
- Exploring Personal Fantasies & Fetishes – Discovering your desires in a safe, professional space
- Improving Sexual Communication – Learning to express your needs and understand your partner’s
“After years of struggling with shame around my sexuality, this treatment finally gave me permission to feel. I realized that my body wasn’t broken—I just needed the right kind of guidance and support. Now, I feel more empowered and confident than ever before.”
— Jessica, 46, Edinburgh
What You Can Expect After the Treatment
Most women experience immediate and long-lasting results from a single session, including:
- Increased confidence in your sexuality
- A deeper connection to your body and pleasure
- Reduced anxiety and shame around intimacy
- A greater ability to communicate your desires
- The freedom to explore your sensuality without fear or guilt
“I never realized how much of my pleasure was in my own hands—literally and figuratively. This experience was so liberating, and I feel more in tune with my desires than I ever have before.”
— Emma, 50, Bristol
Take the First Step Toward Sexual Confidence & Fulfillment
If you’ve been struggling with sexual dissatisfaction, frustration, or self-doubt, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. The Psychosensual Treatment is a safe, professional, and empowering path toward unlocking your full sexual potential.
Are you ready to rediscover pleasure, confidence, and intimacy?
Book a consultation today and begin your journey toward sexual liberation and self-empowerment.
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Confidentiality
I appreciate that some of my clients’ identities mustn’t be revealed. You can use a false name, but I need a working email address and, ideally, a mobile number. I am the only person who sees your information, and if requested, I will not contact you in any way you don’t want me to; however, I may ask you to send a voicemail message to confirm you are who you are. Sometimes, I am contacted by men who like to pretend they are female!
Details & prices
The Psychosensual Treatment
2 hour appointment
Counselling with 60-minute Intimacy Massage – £280
2.5 hour appointment
Counselling with 75-minute Exploration Massage – £330
3 hour appointment
Counselling with 90-minute Absolute Massage – £380
Bundle rate for three appointments
- 3 x 3 hours Psychosensual, Intimacy or Exploration x 2, then the Absolute massage in 3rd appointment – 20% discount on all prices above if paid for in advance
Make an enquiry or book your appointment
There are several ways to book your appointment.
Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.
Online—Click on the appointment link below. You will not be asked to pay anything or leave any payment details, but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.
Phone – For those wanting confidentiality you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin and he will make the booking for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696
Make an enquiry – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here
My Location
My Treatment Room is located in Sloane Square Chelsea Central London SW1X – Click here
My private treatment venue is in a small gated courtyard moments from Sloane Square and the King’s Road. It has a stylish open-plan design created for the trendy Kings Road artists and musicians of the late 1960s. The treatment room is very private and quiet and has a modern walk-in shower. Towels, robes and a hairdryer are provided.
Live chat with Colin online or leave a message
Payment
Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.
For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail
Pay by Barter
In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange ( barter ) for options see here.
Students discount
I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time. Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.
Those with low income
I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.
Terms of cancelation of your appointment
You can cancel your appointment at any time up to 24 hours before there is no cost and any payment made can be refunded or transferred to another booking.
If you cancel within 24 hours, you have the choice to rebook for another time and date and book a new appointment to be taken within 6 months or lose any deposit or advanced payment paid.
If you cancel on the day off your appointment or you are a NO SHOW, you are expected to pay 100% of the fee. Repeat cancellations will be required to pay the full fee in advance.
The above cancellation terms do not apply to any special offers which will have thier own specific cancelation terms.
Read this article
Published in Cosmopolitan Magazine on Colin’s success with four women with sexuality challenges. Click Here
Other Psychosensual Treatments Available
Psychosensual treatment for men Click here
Psychosensual treatment for couples Click here
The process
Initial Enquiry
Your enquiry can be made via email, phone call, text, or Whats App. Please give me some details about what you want to bring to me that is either troubling you or you want further help. If, at this stage, I feel I can help, I will email you the Psychosensual Pre-Consultation Form. This form asks you a series of questions that will help me understand your current situation and background.
Appointment Types
The Psychosensual Therapy Treatment can be taken as a complete 3-hour appointment or separated into two sessions on separate days. Or as a series of 3 taken over three months. Or you can take the first appointment as the Psychosensual treatment and then return for just sensual bodywork appointments.
Session 1: The Initial Consultation – 90 minutes
Both sessions 1 & 2 can be taken on the same day, one after the other or split within the day, but there is always a minimum 15-minute break between sessions 1 and 2 to allow you time to consider if you want to take the bodywork.
Most sexual performance or sexual dissatisfaction issues are often partially or wholly rooted in the person’s psychology. These emotional drivers then affect the physical responses required to bring on arousal and sexual fulfilment – the most common being the inability to orgasm in women and loss of erection in men. This 60-minute session allows me to hear your story, understand your situation and explain more fully how I feel I may be able to help you. It also gives you a chance to meet me and ask any questions you may have before deciding to proceed with any sensual bodywork. If you feel comfortable with what I propose, we discuss the best way forward and then set a date (I recommend within a fortnight) for the sensual bodywork.
Session 2: The Sensual Bodywork – 90 minutes
This is a 90 minutes appointment includes either the 60-minute Intimacy Massage or 75-minute Exploration or possibly the 90-minute Absolute massage.
Having learned about your situation in the initial consultation, I will assemble a sensual treatment to help you explore your sexuality safely and professionally. Knowing that I am fully aware of your challenge will, in itself, help you relax. For the more anxious The Intimacy massage gently introduces you to the sensual bodywork. The Exploration and Absolute is for the more sexually confident person. All the massages is based on a traditional therapeutic technique, but the intention is to promote slow, gentle arousal; I take a step-by-step approach that allows you to feel in control and, at the same time, free to explore intimacy and become aware of any emotional restrictions you may be feeling. Being in this non-judgemental, caring, and supportive environment means that any reactions – whether harmful or pleasurable – can be expressed and thus better understood. The Intimacy massage remains as the surface of body arousal only and may include clitoral stimulation but does not include any vaginal penetration whereas the Exploration & Absolute care is more intense and will include internal G spot and vaginal massage. Following the treatment, there is a brief discussion to check in and see how you feel and what you may have discovered during the treatment.
On-going treatment for women
You can arrange for further three-hour Psychosensual treatments. If you are comfortable and we have discussed the relevance, you can move on to receive either the Exploration Massage or Absolute Massage. Or some clients find that the conversation in the first appointment has given them a complete understanding. They now prefer to return for another Intimacy Massage or take the Exploration or Absolute Massage without the counselling.
Read this article Colin has written on ANORGASMIA
Introductory 15-minute FREE Call
It can be lonely when you feel unable to share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship, and, for some, it can be a daunting decision to consult a ‘professional’ or ‘stranger’ about these feelings and needs. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple, whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual; if you are not sure how or if I can help you or maybe you are just too nervous about booking a full appointment and want to know more before you commit – then send me a text and ask if you can have a 15-minute chat with me by phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak. During that time, you can ask me any questions or explain the issue you may want help with. Just text me to arrange a short FREE chat to 07966 522 696, and I will reply with a suggested time for you to call.
Private Location & Treatment Room
The treatment room is in Sloane Square Chelsea Central London. click here
The shower facilities are smart and clean, with robes, shampoo, conditioner and shower soap provided. A hairdryer is also available. According to your preferences during the treatment, the room can remain light or be darkened with blackout blinds and low lighting.
Testimonials
Here is a selection of testimonials given by women who have taken a Psychosensual appointment with Colin.
Veronica, aged 28 – August 2020
I previously had normal psychotherapy treatments to help with the consequences of psychological and physical abuse. I then chose to go for a psychosexual one with Colin Richards. l realized that opening the body could be the best way to deal with the issues that arise in the body and in fact it was more revealing than a chat. I had the opportunity to notice the patterns that arise in my body when aroused, undisturbed and guided by a professional who can hold a safe space free from pressure to perform, judgment, shame or need to reciprocate. I was just witnessing my reactions and that awareness already brought some useful insights to resolve my issues.
Tania, aged 44– July 2020
I went to see Colin for a 3-hour psycho-sensual treatment, with a pretty clear idea of what I wanted to work on. What drew me to his particular approach was the quite unique combination of psychological mentoring and physical/sensual touch. I wanted to spend some time exploring my difficulty and vulnerability around receiving pleasure from a man. I had an idea of where it came from but had never really had an opportunity to look at it with a qualified experienced professional.
I appreciated Colin’s warmth, kindness, care, openness and genuine curiosity – all of which helped me to relax and feel safe. The pre-session authorization form also felt to me like an indispensable part of the process; it felt both reassuring and liberating to be able to communicate my boundaries and preferences in this way. Last but not least – I thoroughly enjoyed the sensual massage. Colin is very skilled in what he does and I felt I was being introduced to an expanded repertoire of types of touch, stimulation and pleasure! I will definitely be going back for another session.
Emma, aged 50 – April 2019
I’d been through a period of major change in my personal life and felt there was an emotional block which was manifesting in my sex life, I was finding it hard to let go, be vulnerable and had difficulty achieving orgasm with my partner.Talking frankly and openly with Colin helped me to understand the larger picture and the influencing factors that we’re playing a part in my feelings of sexual and emotional ‘ dissonance’. Coupled with the sensual massage that followed our discussion the session did indeed begin to unblock a lot of emotional and sexual energy. I have continued to feel more reconnected with myself and much more able to express myself in a sexually authentic way. I feel much more confident to express myself with real integrity and the sexual energy and intimacy in my relationship that has resulted from that have been incredible.
Rachel, aged 47 – Sept 2018
Colin helped me look very deeply into my childhood and what kind of person I am…rather shocking as I had not realised so many things about my behavior in my various relationships. I began to understand how to ‘listen’ to my body although the session did leave me positively shaken both mentally and physically. Subsequent to the session my husband has continued the sensual massage and I feel that it has brought us much closer together. We are both learning as we go and have realised that we were ‘babes in the woods’ when it came to our relationship, 25 years married. We both have our problems mine being an inability to orgasm without ‘toys’as well as a developed sense of being a failure for not being ‘good’ at sex. I would gladly go back, in fact when we can find the time I would like to have another session involving both Colin and my husband. I feel this would add a much deeper feeling of intimacy
I’d tried counselling, I’d tried self-help, I’d tried different professional therapists, none of which did much to help. I’m a very relational and feeling kind of person. I have to be able to trust, connect, relate and talk to a therapist as a person not just a professional. So for me with Colin, I feel like I can and this happens. For me, it’s not just about the physical pleasure or enjoyment the massages involve but it’s equally about connecting with another and trusting them with you. It’s also for me learning why I think and act the way I do and in some of the more destructive or unhelpful parts, ways to improve. With Colin, I feel like I am genuinely connecting with a ‘safe’ person in a ‘safe’ environment.
I can honestly say this is the only therapy and Colin is so far the only ‘therapist’ that have been able to make a difference. I struggle with having bad feelings about myself, I have high anxiety and problems making sense of past events and how this affects me now. For a long time, I’ve been so wanting someone to listen, understand and care. I really feel like I get this with the treatments I’ve received and am currently receiving.
I know this is a process so I have committed to regular ongoing psychosensual sessions with Colin since I feel like there can be a more happy and successful future for me. I’m so thankful there is someone(colin) who does sessions like these. They are like no other in the best possible way.
I don’t feel so alone anymore with my anxious feelings or carrying the weights of bad experiences.
It’s scary at first but is worth doing.”
Testimonials
Sophie – December 2022
I booked in to see Colin for a psychosensual treatment, which was roughly 1.5 hours of counselling and 1.5 hours of sensual massage. I was v nervous in the run up, and reviewed every inch of the (very informative) Intimacy Matters website. I found the pre-consultation form very helpful at opening up a dialogue on some things that were concerning me. On the day, Colin immediately put me at ease. He was v professional, but also v kind and welcoming. The massage was technically great, and also emotionally and sexually affirming. I was a bit shaken after the massage and Colin was lovely about me being a bit discombobulated. Having had this experience, I hope I’ll be able to approach my sexuality in a freer and more confident manner in future; I’m already noticing some positive differences
Heidi – November 2022
This was a life changing experience. It helped me get in touch with myself in ways not just intimately but in so many different ways. The services are very Professional and safe. There is nothing that was done that I did not like or feel uncomfortable about it. I felt like he was able to unleash my true potential and help me. Overcome my fears after a thirty year abusive relation. I have tried many things this is by far the best therapy
Amira – September 2022
Colin, your approach to sensual massage and sexuality as a whole is amazing with a kind open mind every time I have chatted or go for a class I have taken with me new knowledge of myself as well as a sense of openness and freedom. From the safe space you make where I can feel like I can ask anything without being judged to the amazing technics for intimate touch and relaxing experience, I can not get enough.Thanks for bringing together sex and intimacy into one safe and open place, and still being some what profesional and legit!
Gemma – February 2022
I felt really relaxed and tried to disconnect from the day to day activities while you were doing an amazing job! I must say you are very experienced, not that I had lots of guys in my life and would be able to compare but the fact is you made me feel relaxed, you showed care and tenderness. Every little thing you have done was in its place and I actually enjoyed it! It’s been a pleasure meeting you and I want to see you again very soon!
Faith – December 2021
I am an American visiting London aged 27 years old trainee Doctor
I told Colin it has been over two years since I have been sexually charged and active. He was beyond professional and extremely caring and built trust and rapport very quickly. He understood my experiences and took a moment to look and speak with me. I never imagined having such an experience, as a Nigerian woman in my early twenties I needed to learn a lot about my body and my carnal instincts and Colin helped me accomplish that. He was extremely thorough and focused on my body and my pleasure. He spent some time educating me on the various historical contexts that shape how women behave sexually and most importantly how women respond to sexual exploration and enjoyment. He delved further into my career and social circles and helped me notice patterns and trends that have an impact on my sexual health. He not only made this a very pleasurable experience but also focused on the therapeutic aspect of our session. Words cannot describe how satisfied I was with this appointment, I strongly encourage any woman that is embarking on a path of self-discovery or simple in need of pleasure with an educational foundation to support the experience. I am travelling back but will come and visit Colin again as soon as I am in London.
Emma – August 2021
I fully appreciated the time you took to find out the history and reasons why l might have had problems achieving orgasms. It was an eye-opener and I was impressed with your subject knowledge. Although l was nervous , o begin with the glass of wine helped! I knew l could totally trust you and knew that l was in your expert hands. I was blown away by the whole experience and for me the icing on the cake achieving that elusive orgasm! It has changed my perception and l am very happy about the experience. I can absolutely recommend you to others and once again a big thank you!
Sharon- August 2021
Sharon has taken 4 appointments over 2-3 months. One Absolute then a series of three Psychosensual
I spent so many years feeling that I would always remain a caterpillar, never progressing onto the next stage. Then I made it tobecomeg a chrysalis, sadly for many years, this is where I thought I would remain. Encased, frozen in a cocoon for eternity, never knowing what else was out there. Then out of nowhere, I have turned into the most amazing bright, colourful big butterfly. I can now choose where I fly off too, where I land and how long for. I now decide, no longer feeling/allowing myself to be controlled. Pure magic that’s what it is. With your help and guidance, I am now in a place that I thought I would never get too. I am so glad that you do the service that you do.
Suzanne – June 2021
The experience of having a Kama Sutra massage was everything I had hoped for and more. I was naturally a bit cautious to even explore sensual massage and took some time to pick up the phone to Colin and book…. but I am so glad that I did. In fact, I now think why did I wait so long? The testimonials of other clients were so positive and helpful that they were a big part of reassuring me in advance. Which is why I am now writing this! Colin made me feel completely at ease right from the start when we initially chatted about what I hoped for and needed. I felt able to be very open with him. The massage itself was wonderful because it was designed to relax initially and gradually build in intensity. It was a treat and a delight. I am so grateful to Colin for helping me explore and discover myself and I will definitely be repeating the experience and soon.
Kat – May 2021
Kathy – March 2021
Like many women, I spend most of my time caring for others so it was a real treat to put my needs first and allow myself to receive pleasure without feeling I had to reciprocate. I really enjoyed the conversation with Colin before the treatment; it was great to engage with someone who was so knowledgeable about relationships and sex. It also helped to put me at ease. I have never done anything like this before and was understandably nervous. I thought it would be difficult to orgasm in this situation so I decided to take that pressure off myself and just enjoy the sensual journey. Therefore I was pleasantly surprised to find an orgasm creeping up on me just part way into the massage. I quickly relaxed into the massage and was able to express myself freely and connect to the deepest primal part of myself. It felt good to be so real and authentic. I realise there are many areas of my life where I haven’t found it easy to express myself and I very much needed this release. Afterwards, I felt especially enlivened and quite euphoric. Both physically and mentally my senses have been heightened and I still feel this way a week on. This is definitely something I intend to explore further and would encourage anyone who is interested but feeling a little unsure to take the step, put themselves first and give themselves over to receiving ‘Absolute’ pleasure!
Melissa – March 2021
First of all, I must say that booking such an appointment was not part of my daily routine and would have to include international travel. But I went ahead and booked it, because my willingness to immerse myself in this sensual experience I kept reading about exceeded any initial hesitation. The result was that I am simply ecstatic that I did. Colin is such a warm and positive person, and he made me feel safe and totally at ease, from the very beginning culminating to a total orgasmic meltdown. In my opinion, he is a true expert in what he does, as well as an insightful and caring person. It was a wonderful experience and can’t wait to repeat it!
Martha – March 2021
I have issues reaching orgasm with a partner due to past difficult experience and I always wanted to try a sensual massage to help with this issue, without having the courage to actually contact someone. I then read about Colin on Killing Kittens and was reassured by the fact that he was endorsed by them. The first time i went for a massage I was quite nervous but Colin looked very professional and made me feel at ease. The massage was eye opening and it felt amazing to be the center of attention and have someone dedicated to my pleasure. Since then I volunteered for a workshop and had a second (but not last!) massage with Colin. Each time I felt more confident in my body and sexuality and really relaxed! Katy – September 2016
Katy – September 2019
I loved the experience and found it surprisingly easy to relax and let go. It was good to explore different things (such as anal stimulation which I was a bit unsure about but actually was one of the highlights of the session) in a safe, non-pressured environment. I think the fact I felt safe and relaxed combined with such a complete focus on me and my pleasure resulted in me having multiple orgasms in a way that I haven’t managed before with a partner – it was exhausting but I didn’t want the session to end and will be booking another very shortly.
Lucy – May 2018
Thank you for the Kama Sutra Massage it was something I have never experienced before. Words can’t describe how I feel, but it was amazing. I feel that there is so much more to learn, of which I may have been missing out on.
Rachel – May 2018
I wanted to drop you a line about my session last week. To you, the work you do probably sits somewhere between a job and a vocation. To me and I’m sure many others, it feels like a gift. You were so positive and insightful about what was going on. What you said and what you did was meaningful and delicious in equal measure.
Tanya – March 2017
I wanted to thank you and of course Ali, for an amazing experience last night, and for all of our sessions together of the past couple of months.
Finding myself again has been a long journey, but I am so very grateful that you have become part of it. From my first visit filled with pure trepidation to last night’s incredible experience of just letting go and having you both take me on an extraordinary ride of pleasure, has been the most wonderful gift.
What you do, and what you give of yourself, is so rare. I shall have to thank my hairdresser for giving me that complimentary copy of Cosmopolitan! As I said last night there have been only three occasions in my life where I’ve read something and felt that I ‘needed’ to do that. I’m glad I trusted that gut feeling and entered into your world of complete freedom.
The space you have created is one of complete warmth, understanding, compassion, and a true place to allow us to be who we are meant to be. I have always found it difficult to trust people but you have shown me that I am able to let go, relax, hand over the control to someone else, to just ‘be’ and enjoy. And with that, not only have we broken through the block of me never having been able to orgasm with anyone, but we have conquered my severe fear of penetration to being able to thoroughly enjoy sex without pain, delighted in the primal rawness on natural sexual arousal Long may this journey of free exploration and sexual pleasure continue! You really have allowed me to find a part of me I thought I’d never have. Truly a huge thank you.
Eloise – January 2016
It was an amazing erotic experience and I orgasmed for the first time without using a vibrator
Sheila – December 2015
I am celebrating the feeling that despite the changes my body has gone through because of my age at 55 I am still a sensual woman. My afternoon with Colin was amazing and far exceeded expectation. My husband and I are over the moon.
Caroline – December 2015
It was a very pleasurable experience. Colin made me feel at ease during the entire visit. My husband actually booked the Kama Sutra massage for me as a gift and preferred to not be a part of the treatment. By sharing with my husband the details of my visit with Colin our sexual relationship has improved but more importantly my confidence in myself and my sexuality has increased. I encourage you to take some time with Colin and focus on you and your needs as he will. I will definitely book another visit with him the next time we are in London!
Janet – November 2015
I am grateful that I saw the article in Cosmopolitan magazine, as otherwise I would never have come across the services provided by Colin. However I felt it important to do my own research and speak to Colin prior to booking an appointment, and Colin was most helpful on the telephone and put my mind at rest in terms of my initial apprehension. I cannot put into words how good I found the experience of the Kama Sutra massages that I received (I have had two so far). The venue was easy to find / access, and Colin was very welcoming and quickly put me at my ease. Having previously provided my preferences, this also helped me to feel more at ease and relaxed. The massage was relaxing and soothed my tense shoulders. It was also intimate, sensual and erotic and it felt liberating to be the centre of attention and allow myself to receive this treatment. Juggling an often stressful and demanding job, alongside busy home and family commitments, this was my special time.
Following the massage I could really sense the rejuvenating and therapeutic effects. Physically, my body felt less tense and I could feel the benefits of the massage oil. Emotionally and mentally I felt happier and less stressed. Being prone to slight depression at times, this positive impact is very important. For example, the experience seemed to give me a clearer and improved sense of perspective relating to my work, and helped to reinforce a positive attitude. My relationship with my partner has also benefited, as previously I was often not in a position physically or mentally to become intimate. Recently our sex life has started to improve. However, equally as important, as I am generally in a better state mentally, our communication has improved and we are both happier in each others company.For me personally, I feel that this sort of massage will be a very beneficial part of an overall plan to improve my health and well-being.
Louise – June 2015
I am not sure I have the words to do justice to just how empowered I have been since my visit.
Emotionally I have now for the first time in about 7 years put myself back as my priority. I have been motivated to put changes in place after being made to feel that I am important. My self esteem and confidence have been boosted and it’s been noticed by friends. As someone who is still on a weightloss journey this has been an amazing boost. The non-sensual part of the massage has had lasting effect both my neck & shoulders feel new still nearly a month on. The most empowering part of the experience was the release of frustration both physically, sexually and emotionally – I let down barriers and put closure to an important chapter of my life- something I could not have done if I was ill at ease. In short, visiting Colin has been the best thing I have done this year. I shall be back soon.
Alice & Simon – April 2015 (Alice & Simon are a couple in their early 30’s)
I definitely had a fantastic experience last week and this has carried through to our life at home. It’s early days yet but we are having much more fun in the bedroom, more frequently than before. I feel like my focus has been lifted away from pregnancy and is back onto having a good time with my husband. I also feel like I’ve been given permission to be more sexual and more demanding, which is something I didn’t really realise I needed. All in all, it was a hugely worthwhile session and I’d love to come back for another massage at some point in the future.
Mary – November 2014
I have had two simply wonderful experiences with Colin and am longing for more. I don’t know if my story is typical or not. I bring rather complex baggage with me: very happily married, low libido, orgasmic difficulties, a lifetime of over-controlling emotions and an utter inability to talk about sex. A major health scare a few years ago made me abruptly feel that I didn’t want to die without having had an orgasm – but what do I do about it? I had read about sensual massage and had tried it once before, about a year ago, but although I like the practitioner it did nothing for me. Worrying. Thinking again, recently, that I should perhaps give it another go, I found Colin quite by accident.
Why did I pursue it? – the answer is because everything from him that I read, and subsequently experienced, was entirely reassuring on just about every level. It’s a daunting prospect to turn upon the doorstep of a total stranger essentially offering him your body. Somehow the moment he answered the bell I knew it would be alright. Firstly his personality – quietly calm, warm, professional, entirely reassuring, entirely understanding, entirely non-judgmental, not asking any questions. Then – oh! – the sublime touch: he comforted me, relaxed me, took me places I needed to explore, and showed me how normal it all was. I almost cried in his arms afterwards. Afterwards there is companionship, concern, interest, no feeling of being rushed out of the place. And the flat is lovely – warm, spacious, tempting. It’s expensive, I suppose, but life is short and why deny oneself…
Sana – September 2014
The massage environment is clean, aromatic and tranquil. He held the space beautifully, guiding me towards feeling trust. I felt like the time was special and tailored just for me. Colin has a relaxed and respectful approach which was completely in harmony with my needs. He awakened my body. He gave me exciting sensual surprises, and security, which gently nurtured all my potential for love, life, joy and healing.
Alessandro & Maria – September 2013
Thank you very much for your professionalism and experienced expertise.Your exquisite professional demeanor made it possible for my wife to allow herself to receive an incredible intimate sensual massage. Me being there standing by and later participating in the session made it even more enjoyable and exciting for both of us as a couple and individually. Thank you again and look forward to repeat it when possible.
Articles and discussion
On women’s sexual performance challenges
Read Charlottes Story – Overcoming fear of intimacy
Mail Online Interview with Amy who suffered long-term challenges with orgasm
Listen
Colin’s Psychosensual treatments are featured in this Cosmopolitan Podcast
Apple
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/cosmopolitans-all-the-way-with/id1495335705 ,
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Podcast 2 – The orgasmic masseur!
Following Cee Cee’s extremely popular interview with Cosmopolitan’s sex & relationship editor Paisley Gilmore talking about her experience as a client of Colin Cosmo readers/listeners bombarded Cosmo to hear Colin himself.
Released May 24th 2020, and talking to Paisley Gilmore and deputy beauty editor/sex novice Laura Capon, Colin talks openly about what takes place within his treatments and explains why women come to see him for help with sexual fulfilment.
Broadcaster Jackie Walker talks to Colin about massage & sensuality.
Part 1 – Interview with Colin
Part 2 – What women need to know
Part 3 – Emotional Release
Read
The Making of a Maverick: The Birth of a Sex Engineer -Interview with Journalist, Chrissie Rowell
Interview with Colin with renowned American Sex Blogger, CJ Asher
Colins Podcasts & Youtube Channel
Training & Qualifications
Read Colin’s Testimonials [Click Here]
TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) with BGI insurance that covers both counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here