Sensual Treatments for Women

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Full body therapeutic and sensual yoni massage for women in Chelsea, Central London

Unlock your full sexual potential with a sensual massage from Colin Richards. This experience allows you to embark on a journey of natural sexual arousal, free from judgment or expectation. It focuses entirely on you, your body, and your intimate pleasures, providing a space to relax your mind and body beyond what traditional sexual encounters can achieve.

Why Choose a Sensual Massage?

Ultimate relaxation

Enjoy a self-indulgent erotic experience without the need to give back.

Health benefits

Sexual arousal is nature’s healer, promoting good physical and mental health.

Beyond traditional encounters

Achieve levels of sensation and fulfilment that regular sex and masturbation often can’t reach.

Sex is an essential part of women’s lives, contributing to intimacy, pleasure, and adventure. While intercourse and masturbation have their benefits, they come with conditions and limitations. A sensual massage, including erotic stimulation to orgasm, offers unparalleled benefits and pleasure without these restrictions.

Discover how a sensual massage can elevate your sexual awareness and fulfilment.

Book your session with Colin Richards today for an unforgettable experience.

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Sensual Massage Choices

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Sensual Massage For Women

The perfect way to include sexual arousal in your life without complicating your relationships

Since 2005, I have worked as a Sex & Intimacy Engineer and Somatic Sexologist, helping over 2,000 women with their intimacy, sexual, and relationship needs. Trained as a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist and Imago Educator, I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential space for women to explore and enhance their sexual pleasure.

Achieve satisfying sexual fulfilment.

Good sex involves synchronizing both the physiological and psychological states of a person. It also depends on the attitude, skills, and creativity of partners. Many women feel these aspects are compromised, neglected, or misunderstood. As a sex educator, I help women understand their sexual selves, improving their pleasure and educating others about what works for them.

Sex and your health

Sexual health goes beyond avoiding diseases and unplanned pregnancies. Recognizing sex as an essential part of life contributes to intimacy, pleasure, and good physical and mental health. Benefits of sexual activity include:

- Lowering blood pressure
- Burning calories
- Increasing heart health
- Strengthening muscles
- Reducing the risk of heart disease, stroke, and hypertension
- Increasing libido
- Enhancing overall well-being

Active sex lives correlate with better physical fitness, dietary habits, and improved sexual performance.

Mental health benefits of sexual arousal

Sexual activity, whether with a partner or through masturbation, offers significant psychological and emotional benefits. These include:

- Reduced stress and anxiety
- Increased happiness and mental health satisfaction
- Greater trust, intimacy, and love in relationships
- Improved emotional perception and expression
- Decreased use of immature psychological defence mechanisms
- Enhanced well-being and cognitive function in older adults

Frequent sexual activity can also boost confidence and even make you look younger, thanks to the release of estrogen.

Choosing the right sensual massage for you

When selecting a sensual massage, consider your goals and objectives. If you're new to sexual discovery, take it slow and explore different options. The Absolute Massage, The Exploration Massage, and the Intimacy Massage each offer unique experiences. These massages can also be part of the 3-hour Psychosensual Treatment or within a Couples Experience.

Overcoming Anorgasmia

Anorgasmia, or the persistent inability to achieve orgasm, can be addressed through my Psychosensual Treatment. This combines counselling and sensual massage to explore psychological barriers and recreate the natural sexual arousal process. Often, clients overcome sexual performance blockages in just one session.

Read about the various causes of not being able to orgasm when you want - click here

It takes two

The pleasure a woman experiences is often linked to her partner's experience and creativity. Inexperienced or unimaginative partners can limit sexual pleasure, leading to frustration and anorgasmia. Anxiety, whether during sex or daily life, can also prevent orgasm.

Creating a calm environment

Anxiety's fight-or-flight response is counterproductive to fulfilling sex. A sensual massage replicates essential foreplay, offering a safe and supportive environment where women can experience sensations beyond traditional penetration.

Contact Me

I'm available for a FREE 15-minute phone call or text to discuss which massage is best for you. I see female clients of all ages (21 to 75, with age verification for those under 21) and all ethnicities and body types, though some elements may be omitted for plus-size women.

Book your session today and transform your intimate life.

Location

Private consulting rooms in Sloane Square Chelsea Central London SW1X 9DE

My private treatment venue is in a private gated courtyard one minute from Sloane Square tube station and King's Road. It has a stylish open-plan design created for the trendy Kings Road artists and musicians of the late 1960s. The treatment room is very private and quiet and has a modern walk-in shower with plenty of hot water. Towels, robes, a hair cover, and a hairdryer are provided.


Colin has been given 288 FIVE STAR REVIEWS.

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The massage room


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The massage room in subtle lighting

Read about the Cosmo woman who explored sensual massage to help achieve better orgasm - Click here

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Ask past clients questions at the Intimacy Matters Review - Women Only Telegram Chat Group.

I often hear from women who are considering taking a sensual massage that, although they are very interested in exploring this, they are concerned about safety, discretion, entitlement, and appropriateness and often hold back from taking the massage for weeks, sometimes months, even years.  With this in mind, I have set up a chat group on Telegram called IM Review Group For Women Only.  In this chat group are past female clients who have volunteered to answer any questions and are happy to pass on their thoughts and feelings about sensual massage and what it has done for them.

How to join

  1. If you don't have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer - https://telegram.org
  2. Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women 
  3. Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
  4. If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
  5. You can use a false name, and you don't need to give any personal details you don't want to
  6. Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
  7. If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.

Payment

Deposits for first-time clients’ bookings

If you are a first-time client and decide to book directly on my booking calendar, you will be asked to leave a deposit or credit card number to secure the booking. No money is taken, and I do not see the card number.

If you prefer not to do this, request a deposit link, and I will send one so you can pay a £50 advance deposit. This is deducted from your final payment after the appointment.

If you are concerned about confidentiality, I can provide bank details to deposit a cash deposit.

Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.

For those on a budget, I can offer a ‘pay over six weeks option’ up to £700. Request by e-mail

Pay by Barter

In certain circumstances, I also offer an exchange (swap) for options see here.

Students discount

I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time.   Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.

Those with low income 

I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.

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About Colin - Somatic Sex Educator, Relationship Therapist & Sensual Masseur

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I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives into what they want and deserve. Working full-time in this field since 2005, I have discovered and used various approaches not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur, I can work with both the emotional and sexual.

All welcome

I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with, they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012, and since then, I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic. I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men, women, and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More

Interview with Rebecca Dakin - The Great British Sexpert

Rebecca visits Colin for her Absolute Massage treatment, and in this video, she discuses her experience.

The 4th Option

Sensual massage with erotic stimulation is a woman's 4th option.

Traditionally, sexual arousal is experienced by women in three primary ways:-

1. With a partner - intimacy is intimate, trusting, and caring.

2. With a stranger (one night stand) - this can be exciting, spontaneous, non-emotional and without commitment.

3. With self-masturbation - this is usually private; you know what you like, no judgement.

A sensual massage combines all three dynamics to create the 4th Option.

A sensual massage given by Colin is explicitly designed to allow a woman to explore her intimate life without judgement or expectation from others.  By submitting the treatment Authorisation & Request Form for whichever sensual massage she chooses to take, the massage can be tailored to her desires and boundaries. The experience is always professional, private, and of course, confidential. An expert experience is given by a practitioner who understands that when it comes to sexual fulfilment, a woman's mind and body are irrevocably interconnected.

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What women say

As their motivation for enjoying a sensual & erotic massage

I have been giving sensual massage to women for ten years, and I have given this massage to women of ages 21 to 75 of many nationalities, ethnicities, body types and body sizes. Some of the women I see are happily single, some are reluctantly single, and many are partnered in loving yet sexually unfulfilling relationships. Others are in relationships where sex has become routine and predictable, and some are in good relationships but want more sexually. Many are from cultures that restrict their sensual and sexual expression, and a few are nervous and naive regarding both their and others' sensual arousal. When booking the appointment, they express a desire to enjoy a level of satisfaction they feel is currently missing from their lives.

 Reasons female clients have given Colin for wanting to have a sensual massage:

  • I enjoy a regular massage, to have my muscles worked professionally, but I also want to experience intimate touch to connect with the deeper primal, sensual part of myself.
  • I want to experience a sensual massage in '50 Shades of Grey' where the masseur is in complete control, and I can just lay back and enjoy his authority with the knowledge that I am ultimately in control of all that takes place. (Note: This type of sensual massage does not include any BDSM or role play but incorporates assertive massage and some physical body lifting - only in the case of clients with slim to average physiques - as well as strong arousal techniques.)
  • I enjoy the firm yet a tender touch of a man without the need to perform or give back sexually.
  • I enjoy receiving arousal and, ultimately, orgasm through gentle prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse.
  • I have a loss of libido.
  • I fear intimacy and am embarrassed about my body but I still want to enjoy sensual arousal.
  • I experience painful intercourse and orgasmic dysfunction.
  • I am insecure and sexually inexperienced and want to learn more about my sexuality as well as how to give excellent sensual arousal to my partners.
  • I am a single woman who is happy not to be in a relationship, and although my sex life is good, I miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings.
  • I believe it is right to experience arousal and orgasm without commitment and the responsibilities of a relationship.
  • I want to explore orgasm as I have heard that a female can achieve this in multiple ways.
  • I am in a marriage/partnership where most else is good. Still, the sex and intimacy have declined and I need to receive intimate attention within a safe, professional therapeutic environment that is discreet and private that will not challenge my current situation.

Tantric massage versus sensual & erotic massage

The growth and popularity of sensual and erotic massage , were initially driven by men. Still, increasingly it is women that are discovering the physical and mental health benefits of this amazing treatment.   It is widely assumed that men seek sex as a means to satisfy their sexual drive but often, it is the physical intimacy that comes with sex that men are seeking just as much. If in a non-sexual relationship or a busy life that does not allow them to have a relationship, a man will seek out contact with another human being; in the past, this would have been found by visiting a brothel or seeing a prostitute or escort. Then in the late 1980s, tantric massage slipped oilily onto the westerner's menu; initially lauded by Sting of the pop group, The Police, it brought to notice the possibility that there could be a legitimate way to experience erotic arousal that was not smutty or indulgent but could be seen as a spiritual experience. As the word, 'tantric' crept further into the public psyche, men who previously had avoided the impersonal environment of sexual services began to explore the caring, sensual touch of a tantric masseur.

Then, around 2005 and emerging from the tantric world, masseurs like myself,  who, although supportive of the tantric philosophy, found it did not sit well as a description of how they wanted to present their version of an intimate arousing massage. Taking a more humanistic approach, sensual massage gave the option of receiving an intimate massage based on traditional massage techniques but also encouraged arousal and orgasm. The treatment focused on the body's natural desire for intimate touch and arousal; it gave the receiver an all-around experience that was relaxing and therapeutic, stimulating, and erotic.

To listen and watch Colin as he discusses and answers questions about his treatments, Click here

Cosmopolitan podcasts

Listen to Cee Cee & Colin talk to journalist Paisley Gilmore of Cosmo about the Absolute sensual massage for women.

Cee Cee took a series of sensual massage treatments with Colin; listen to this podcast with Paisley Gilmore, Cosmopolitan's Sex & Relationship journalist, as she explains how it has transformed her sexual confidence and sense of well-being.

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Make a Booking or Enquiry

To enquire or to book an appointment with Colin:

Or you can call or text Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696

To check Colin’s availability – Click here

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