Massage My Woman Experiential Session

If you are undecided about taking a Massage My Woman class, the Experiential Session is an excellent way to understand what a class may involve. By joining Colin to give a four-hand massage to a female volunteer receiver or your partner/friend, you will get to experience this giving of the massage and the effects and fulfilling results it gives to the female receiving.

 On booking the session, Colin will ask about your motivation for taking the session and then hear what you want to explore within the massage practice. He will find a volunteer to suit your situation and arrange a mutually convenient time for the session. This can be morning, afternoon or evening, depending on Colin’s availability. The session starts with a brief chat between you, Colin and the female volunteer receiver to understand how she may enjoy her massage and what aspects of arousal and erotic stimulation she wants to explore. Once the female receiver is settled on the massage bed, Colin starts with a 15-minute practical teaching of standard massage strokes for her back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and the volunteer is relaxed, we start the four-hand massage.

Throughout the 90-minute massage, Colin and the student work together, with the student following his lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for the receiver. Rather than be taught specific massage techniques in the Experiential you get to understand why sensual massage is seen by women as an essential part of their sexual process. It slows things down, makes them feel they are the centre of attention and usually enables them to experience many types of pleasure as well as multiple orgasms. For the male giver, it enables him to witness the fruits of his skills and enjoy the unfolding of her arousal. It also helps men with performance issues since if used with female partners delays penetration until both are ready or even replaces penetration should ED be an issue for the man.

The male student can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects the student may want to include in the massage, then let me know. With the volunteer’s consent, these may be incorporated into the massage—for example, light spanking, domination or female ejaculation.

Options & Costs

Option 1 – Colin and the male student giving a 4 hands-sensual massage to his female partner or friend (2.5-hour session) – £300

Option 2 – Colin and the male student giving a 4 hands-sensual massage  to a female volunteer receiver (2.5-hour session) – £350

Option 3 – Colin & Carla (3-hour session) – Colin and the male student give to Carla and then receive his own 30-minute sensual massage from Carla on her own or as a 4 hands with Colin. The 30 minute massage for the male student can include erotic stimulation to orgasm  – £500

Payment Plans

I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to take an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.

Click here to learn about Buy Now Pay Later  Take six weeks to pay for the class of your choice.

Application Form

To apply to take an Experiential Session – Click here

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It just details yourself and your motivation to take a particular class. Once your application form is received, I will contact you to discuss your reasons and expectations for taking the class.

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.

24-hour cancellations or no-show

If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.

The Female Volunteer Receivers


Who will be my volunteer receiver ?

You may practice on one to seven female volunteer receivers, depending on your chosen class. I currently have about 240 women on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all are professional women who have been to see me as a client or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to become a volunteer receiver. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim to curvy. All are very comfortable with their own sexuality and volunteer become they want to help men learn more about sensual foreplay and making the erotic experience better for female partners.

A few days before a class is planned, I send out a volunteer request to the female volunteer list. When requesting a volunteer i need to give basic information on the male student taking the class. or group workshop. This will include a photo of the student and a bit of background information ( name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality)  on the student and his motivation for taking the class.

I try to match the student’s desired type of volunteer receiver as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed, as much depends on who is available on the day.  Generally, the women on this volunteer list are happy to receive clitoral and vaginal arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, receiving oral stimulation or giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.

What if you can not find a volunteer receiver for my class?

Sometimes, particularly if I have short notice to arrange a volunteer, I may not be able to find a volunteer receiver for a class. In this case the class will be postponed and moved to another date. A decision is made up to twelve hours before the class start time and we discus a new date and time. I can run your class in the on weekdays in the morning, afternoons or evenings, however to have a better chance of getting a volunteer receiver of your choice I recommend you take an evening class starting at 5pm or 6pm to finish at 8pm or 9pm finish as more female volunteers are likely to be free at that time. Saturday classes between 10am and 6pm also offer a wider selection of female volunteers

Professional Receivers 

If a student wants to guarantee the age or body type of the receiver, I provide below contact details of some private individuals and some recommended agencies that can offer professional female volunteers for you to select from. Arraghments are made by you with them and payment is made between yourself and the professional female.
Suggested agencies are
Private individuals 


Experiential Session Application Form

To apply to take an Experiential Session – Click here