For Women Who Like Men
Empowering women with the art of giving sensual massage to enhance and extend foreplay for both his and her pleasure
Women are rarely taught how to give intimate foreplay to men that builds desire, confidence and connection. Yet learning to touch with skill and intention within a sensual massage can transform the pleasure you share. At the School of Sensual Massage, Colin Richards offers practical teaching to help you understand your partner’s body, explore what he enjoys, and feel confident taking the lead. These classes give you the tools to enrich his experience and bring energy to your sex life.
Invest in yourself and transform your intimate life.
Learn to give a sensual massage that helps you feel confident, connected and comfortable taking the lead.
View what courses are available to you
- Feel confident taking the lead – Know how to begin, build anticipation and set a pace you both enjoy.
- Understand his body – Discover how different kinds of touch can help him relax and become aroused.
- Learn practical techniques – Develop skills you can use and adapt to what he enjoys. Keep him on the edge, give pleasure with your whole body, make his final moment monumental.
- Talk more openly – Feel at ease asking what feels good and sharing what you want.
- Enjoy giving pleasure – Find your own satisfaction in his responses without feeling pressure to perform.
- Bring variety to your sex life – Create more time for exploration, closeness and shared pleasure.
Massage My Man Course Options
The Experiential, Foundation and Intermediate classes are ideal for enhancing your relationship.
- The 3-hour Experiential Session is an introduction to sensual massage – give a 4-hand massage with Colin.
- The 6-hour Foundation Course is ideal for the first stage in expanding your skills and knowledge.
- The 6 -hour Intermediate Course takes it to the next level with more techniques and knowledge. Can only be taken after completing the Foundation.
- The 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Course. Learn additional skills and become a confident lover at a discounted rate.
- The 6-hour Advanced Course – For those women who really want to perfect the art of giving erotic arousal to men. Can only be taken if Foundation & Intermediate are completed.
- The 26 Hour Professional Training for those who want to give sensual massage as a part-time or full-time profession.
View & Download the Course Brochures & Questions & Answers and Complete the Application Form
Giving Sensual Massage is Great for Women of All Ages
For Women in Relationships (Age 21 – 35)
Many young women find that their male partners rush to the finish line, overlooking the power of sensual touch and deep connection. With sensual massage, you gain the ability to slow things down and guide your partner toward a more pleasurable and intimate experience. By taking control, you’ll not only heighten your own pleasure but also train your partner to appreciate foreplay as a deeply fulfilling part of sex.
Reignite Passion in Long-Term Relationships (Age 35 – 50)
As relationships evolve, sex can sometimes become predictable or lose its intensity. Learning sensual massage is a game-changer—it allows you to bring excitement, variety, and intimacy back into your connection. Whether you’re looking to surprise your partner or rediscover your own desires, these skills will breathe new life into your love life, turning ordinary encounters into deeply passionate experiences.
Enhance Connection & Pleasure Without Pressure (Age 50 – 70)
Sexuality changes over time, but pleasure should never fade. Sensual massage helps shift the focus from performance or penetration to deep touch, intimacy, and relaxation. If your partner experiences challenges such as erectile difficulties, these techniques allow you to still share deep sexual pleasure in a way that is fulfilling for both of you.
Keep Passion Alive at Any Age (Age 70 & Up)
Sexual connection doesn’t have an expiration date. Sensual massage allows you to maintain a deep, intimate bond with your partner while keeping pleasure at the heart of your relationship. By learning these skills, you ensure that desire, passion, and connection continue to thrive, no matter your age.
For Women in the Sex Industry: Elevate Your Skills & Control the Experience
If you’re a sex worker or escort, learning sensual massage can redefine your client experiences while allowing you to set the tone for each encounter. Many clients seek intimacy and relaxation just as much as physical pleasure, and sensual massage offers an exceptional service that doesn’t have to rely on penetration.
By mastering these techniques, you can:
✔ Offer a high-value experience that sets you apart in the industry
✔ Reduce the pressure on penetration while still providing deep pleasure
✔ Increase your confidence and control over your interactions
✔ Create stronger client connections that encourage repeat business
Colin’s expert training will teach you how to use sensual touch, anticipation, and erotic energy to create an experience that clients will crave, while allowing you to maintain control and set your own boundaries.
Cancellation & Postponement
At least 72 hours before the first session: 75% of the deposit may be refunded,
or the deposit transferred to a new start date within 12 weeks.
Between 48 and 72 hours: a transfer may be possible if a new date is agreed
within seven days and the course starts within 12 weeks.
Within 24 hours or non-attendance: the full deposit is forfeited.
A missed individual session requires at least 24 hours’ notice to rearrange.
Further Information
Genuine illness or significant circumstances may be considered individually.
Please confirm the full written cancellation terms before paying a deposit.
Enquiries: colin@intimacymatters.co.uk | +44 (0)7966 522 696
Below is an example of the teaching that you will receive if you take the Massage My Man Foundation or Intermediate classes or Professional training.
Who Will Be My Male Receivers?
Depending on your chosen class, you may practice your massage skills on one to seven male volunteers. I have a long list of vetted men, most of whom are professionals who have previously been clients or received demonstration massages and then decided to volunteer. They range in age from 21 to 60 and come from diverse backgrounds, representing a variety of body types. and ethnicities. All are comfortable with their sexuality and volunteer to help women enhance their skills in sensual foreplay and improve the erotic experience for male partners.
A few days before your class, I will reach out to the volunteers, providing them with basic information about you, including a photo, name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality, and your motivation for taking the class.
I strive to match your preferred type of volunteer based on your application, though availability may vary, and specific age or body type cannot be guaranteed. Generally, the volunteers are open to receiving body-to-body contact during the massage, with other forms of stimulation or reciprocal touch being at the volunteer’s discretion on the day of the class.
What If You Cannot Find a Volunteer Receiver for My Class?
In rare cases, especially with short notice, I may not be able to secure a volunteer receiver for your class. If this happens, the class will be postponed and rescheduled. This decision will be made up to twelve hours before the class start time, and we will discuss a new date and time.
Classes can be scheduled on weekdays in the morning, afternoon, or evening. However, to increase the likelihood of finding a volunteer that meets your preferences, I recommend opting for an evening class starting at 5 pm or 6 pm and ending around 8 pm or 9 pm, as more male volunteers are typically available at that time. Saturday classes between 10 am and 6 pm also offer a wider selection of volunteers.
Professional Receivers
If you wish to guarantee the age or body type of the receiver, I can provide contact details for private individuals or recommended agencies that offer professional male volunteers. You will need to make arrangements directly with them, and payment will be handled between you and the selected professional. Please inform me in advance who you will be bringing so I can brief them on their role in the training.