Massage My Man Workshops

Teaching the art of slow sex

Private workshop teaching women how to give expert sensual massage with integrated sex play to men

2, 5, 10 or 20 hour one-to-one tuition for personal relationships or professional training


With massage practice on vetted male volunteer receivers

Explore and understand the male body and mind. Learn how to take him to new unexplored heights of pleasure. Perfect the art of body to body, edging, prostate massage and other sexual techniques.

  • All workshops are tailored to your requirements and can be taken split into evenings or half days.
  • These workshops for women can be for practising on men only, women only or a combination of male and female.
  • The workshops include learning a therapeutic massage routine that combines techniques of arousal to orgasm, stimulation of erogenous areas as well as becoming an expert in learning the psychology of arousal of the male and female mind.
  • Workshops usually take place at my studio in Battersea but can also be arranged for home sessions.
  • There is no age limit to taking a workshop and you can specify the type of volunteers you wish to practise on.

Click here for the registration form for all workshops below

Workshop Options

2-hour Introduction Experiential Massage Practice

Learn & enjoy at the same time by giving a four hands massage with Colin

  • £225 – Female giving to male volunteer
  • £195 – Female giving to male partner

This workshop is for those who want to explore what it is like to give a sensual massage to another person but to give it with the guidance of an expert as a four hands massage. On booking, I find out what it is you want to explore in giving the massage practice. Then I find a volunteer to suit and arrange a mutually convenient time for the practice. On the day we start by having a brief chat to understand how the volunteer ‘receiver’ likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and the volunteer is relaxed we start the four hands massage. We work together with you following my lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for both the receiver and yourself rather than learn specific massage techniques. Simply by giving a sensual massage in this way, you will not only enjoy the pleasure of giving but also learn by first-hand practice some essential aspects of a sensual massage. The massage will include full body arousal, genital massage, edging the orgasm, bringing to orgasm and optional prostate massage. You can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects you want to include in the massage, then let me know and we can incorporate this into the session – for example, light spanking or domination.

To find out more, make an enquiry or book this workshop, [click here]

5-hour Introduction Sensual Massage Workshop

Mastering Foreplay with Sensual Massage

This 5-hour workshop is ideal as a taster or for those women wanting to just enjoy giving a massage to a man or woman under instruction. Student gives one massage under instruction with Colin to the volunteer then either receives a massage themselves from Colin (sensual or therapeutic) or for an additional £50 can opt to give another practice massage to a second volunteer.

Practising on one male volunteer

  • £375 – Any period between – 9.00am  – 11.00pm

Practising with two male volunteers 

  • £425 – Any period – 9.00am – 11.00pm

Practising on a male and female volunteer

  • £475 – Any period between – 9.00am – 11.00pm

To find out more, make an enquiry or book this workshop [click here]

10-hour Intermediate Sensual Massage Workshop

Explore, arouse and prolong the pleasure!

The 10-hour workshop is the next stage and is for the girlfriend, wife or single women who would like to learn how to give a sensual massage for personal use. This workshop is really good for women who want to boost their confidence to become skilled sexual lovers. The workshop includes three practice sessions on volunteers, discussion on male and female arousal and what men and women really want. Techniques in giving a sensational genital massage and instruction on how to best give body to body massage. The workshop includes the option of receiving your own 75-minute 2 hands massage at the end of the day.

The workshop can be taken in a single 10-hour session or broken up into 2 x 5-hour sessions on different days and can be taken in the following volunteer combinations:

Practising on three male volunteers 

  • £575  – Any period between – 9.00am – 11.00pm

Practising on two male and one female volunteer

  • £675 – Any period between – 9.00am – 11.00pm

Practising on one male and two female volunteers 

  • £775 – Any period between 9.00am – 11.00pm

To find out more, make an enquiry or book this workshop [click here]


20-hour Advanced Professional Training  Workshop

Become a part-time or full-time professional sensual masseur

This workshop is specifically designed for those who want a career as professional sensual therapists. Whether it is to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this workshop can immediately launch you into a career that could potentially earn you upwards of £4000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner.

The workshop includes:

  • Up to twelve hours guided massage sessions practising on male or female volunteer receivers to include specific teaching on sensual and erotic arousal, prolonging / maximising orgasm, heightening intimacy by using body to body techniques and creating confident sensual touch.
  • Learning to give a 4 hands massage.
  • Greater awareness of erotic zones of the body.
  • For those working with male clients – prostate massage, genital massage, scrotum massage, edging orgasm, managing premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
  • For those working with female clients – techniques in breast stimulation, clitoral stimulation, vaginal and G spot massage.
  • Three hours of theory on the psychological and emotional aspects of giving a sensual massage.
  • Three hours on researching target markets, client management, business set-up, branding and marketing.
  • Six months telephone support following your workshop providing further advice and guidance.
  • A year’s access to ten hours of sensual massage video tutorials.
  • Six month’s free promotion on the Intimate Tutorials website.
  • Your own 90-minute massage given by Colin at the end of the first eight hours of training.

The workshop can be split into two sessions of ten hours or four sessions of five hours and can be taken during the day or evenings from 9.00am up to 11.00pm over a maximum period of 4 weeks.

Qualifications to take this professional workshop with Colin:

  • At least 1 year’s experience giving sensual massage regularly as either an enthusiastic amateur or part-time professional, or you have taken the above level 1, 5-hour workshop.

£995 – Practising on male volunteers only.

£1125 – Practising on a combination of 2 male and 2 female volunteers.

To make an enquiry or book this workshop [click here]

Q & A

How do I book a workshop?

Complete this registration form

Who do I massage?

All the workshops are run on a private tuition basis with specially selected and vetted volunteers for you to practise on. Volunteers are required to be fit, healthy and able to be comfortable being aroused to orgasm. They are also required to provide feedback on your technique and style.

When can I book a workshop?

Provided I am not booked already you can book a workshop to suit your schedule. Ideally, I need a minimum of a couple of days notice to organise it.

Where do the workshops take place?

All workshops unless arranged otherwise take place at my massage treatments rooms in Battersea.

Do I pay a deposit?

Yes, 50% on booking, balance on the day.

What if I cancel?

If cancelled after the deposit is paid the deposit is held and credited towards a rescheduled date or can be used to pay for treatments or other events.

How can I pay?

Cash, card or PayPal.

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Do I need to have any massage experience?

No, anyone can book a private workshop apart from the Professional Day when some prior experience is necessary.

What do I need to bring?

Just yourself, some light clothing to wear in the early stages of the workshop and a light lunch.

Can I take the workshop with a friend?

You can take the workshop with a friend by paying a supplement of 25% extra.

Can a friend or partner be my volunteer receiver?

Yes, at no charge and relevant deductions are made from the price if your friend replaces a female volunteer.

Am I going to be naked?

This is optional depending on your motivation for the workshop and your own comfort.

Why are workshops with female volunteers more expensive?

This is because the nature of the practice requires the female to be comfortable with erotic arousal and internal vaginal stimulation and often these are volunteers who model or escort for a living so need to charge for their time.


  • Given by Faith – Level 2 Workshop learning how to give sensual massage to both male and female – January 2015

I had an amazing experience and able to learn a lot of techniques that is required to perform an erotic massage that will hopefully enable to enhance my sexuality with my partner. Aside from the technique, Colin also was very comprehensive in consulting the psychologic side of it. Thx

  • Given by two female friends who attended 5 hour evening workshop, learning to give a sensual massage to a man to improve their sensual foreplay skills and knowledge and confidence in erotic arousal – September 2015

“I am glad so ****** and I did a session with you. All aspects of the learning, the massage techniques, the intimacy it brings between 2 people and talking to you, understanding the male/female mind and human psychology was so very interesting and eye opening. Women really do wonder how men think. Therefore to be able to sit with someone in an environment where we feel safe and can be honest and open to learn a new perspective and have even simple questions answered was great.  I have struggled in my relationships in the past so it was good to receive some guidance, lots of fruit for thought. It also helped me learn more about myself as well. As for the demonstration/practice massage we both did like that because we want to be able to give something special or a little extra in our relationships or anytime we meet someone we want to do something intimate for.”