The Sensual Massage Social
For Couples or Intimate Partners
You do not need to be a masseur to enjoy a sensual massage social just someone who enjoys giving or receiving intimate touch, sensual foreplay and slow meaningful sexual arousal.
Next Sensual Massage Social
Thursday – October 24th – on sale
Future Socials
Past socials
Thursday – June 27th , July 25th , September 26th
The Sensual Massage Social is a unique and intimate event designed for passionate enthusiasts of sensual touch and erotic foreplay. It offers the perfect setting for couples or intimate partners to connect with like-minded guests to, exchange experiences, and explore your sensual skills in a warm, inviting, and sophisticated atmosphere.
No prior sensual massage experience is required to take part—just a genuine love for sensual pleasure, erotic connection, and the art of slow, deeply meaningful intimacy. Whether you find joy in giving, receiving, or both, if you embrace this approach to sensuality, you are warmly invited to join us for an evening or afternoon of indulgence, discovery, and intimate exploration at this popular and unforgettable event.
“The sensual social was a lovely evening with lots to experience. We had time to chat on arrival and meet other guests. Drinks were flowing and food was provided. Wasn’t long before massage tables were assembled and the sensual part was underway. There was a no-pressure environment but never a shortage of guests to exchange massages with. Support and guidance from Colin and Clare were provided throughout the evening. A truly nurturing, enjoyable and sensual experience with a lovely group of open-minded people. Would recommend” – by Joy (single female) on 1 July 2024
Colin & Clare warmly invite you to this exciting and intimate event that promises an unforgettable experience of fun, connection, and erotic exploration. Join us for a relaxed yet thrilling evening, where you can mingle with like-minded individuals over a glass of bubbly or beer. Whether you’re looking to deepen your bond with a partner or explore exciting new connections, this event provides the perfect atmosphere for discovery and pleasure.
The Sensual Massage Social takes place on the last Thursday of each month, with occasional Saturday or Sunday afternoon gatherings. For those couples eager to practice and share their sensual massage techniques, up to four massage beds are thoughtfully set up in the main reception area. If you prefer a more private and intimate setting, a separate room featuring a luxurious king-size play bed is perfect for secluded, sensual exploration. Additionally, there’s a cozy chill-out space with a sofa bed and floor cushions for a more relaxed experience.
This couple’s sensual massage social is a warm and welcoming gathering for up to 12 couples with a maximum of 24 participants. It offers a supportive and pleasurable environment to explore and enhance your sensual arousal skills, whether you’re experienced or new to the world of sensual massage.
Hosted at Colin’s stunning 60s split-level open-plan private apartment in the heart of Sloane Square, Chelsea, the setting adds an air of sophistication and exclusivity to the event. It’s an evening of delightful discovery, intimate connection, and unforgettable pleasure.
The main room features up to four massage beds, offering plenty of space for participants to explore their sensual massage techniques. For more relaxed moments, there’s a cozy chill-out area with a sofa bed and floor cushions, perfect for break-out chats or playful intimacy. A separate bedroom with a luxurious king-size bed provides an ideal setting for more private experiences, and a shower and bathroom are available for refreshing breaks throughout the event.
Galleried balconies overlook the main room, giving a bird’s-eye view of the activities below. Participants are encouraged to experiment with both two-hand and four-hand massages, with options for mixed or same-gender pairings. To ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience, we encourage open communication regarding your gender preferences and personal boundaries.
Your hosts, Colin and Clare, will be present throughout the evening to guide you, offering expert advice and assistance with massage techniques. Just ask! This event perfectly blends social interaction with intimate exploration, creating an inviting space to enhance your sensual massage skills. With limited places available for up to 24 participants (balanced equally between men and women), it’s an exclusive opportunity for sensual discovery in a welcoming, supportive atmosphere.
Example programme for an evening event
7 pm to 7.45 pm welcome drink, light bites and meet the other guests
7.45 pm—10.45 pm Massage beds became available.
To ensure that all those who want to give or receive a massage get an opportunity, please check after 45 minutes of use to see if anyone else is waiting to use a massage bed. If not, you can continue using it for another 45 minutes.
11 pm – finish and farewells
“Absolutely loved it. My first experience of this kind and I really don’t think I could’ve chosen better hosts! For anyone thinking of trying this kind of event then this is the one you need to start with. Lovely, relaxed and welcoming hosts and fellow guests!” By Sara (single female) on 1 July 2024.
Qualification to attend the social
Couples & Intimate Partners- You do not need to be an official couple but you must come as a male/ female pair and be responsible for each other’s welfare.. massage experience is not necessary but you do need a love of giving and receiving erotic intimacy.
Ticket Price
- £160 – a couple
- The ticket price includes unlimited Prosecco and white wine, beer, throughout and soft and hot beverages for those who prefer a clear head, light bites and nibbles, oil for the massage, shower towels, and gowns. You are welcome to bring your own spirits, fizz, please, no red wine.
How to book your place
- Complete the application form.
- Once your application form is received, you will receive a link to purchase your ticket on the Design My Night ticketing website.
- Your place is not booked until the ticket has been purchased.
- Design My Night charges a small admin fee that will be added to your ticket.
- Once purchased, you will receive a receipt from Design My Night
- You will be sent the programme and etiquette for the occasion a few days before your event.
- You will also be sent the link to join the pre-social chat group to get to know other attendees beforehand.
If you have any problems, email Clare at ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk Or call Colin or Whats App him on 07966 522 696.
All Welcome
To the couples sensual massage social. This is a mixed-gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous, fun, flirtatious, frisky, sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.
Consent
You can take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded people. You might also choose to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner. If you feel a wider connection, you may want to explore erotic touch with others. As long as it’s fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope everyone has a great time, but please remember that everyone has different desires and boundaries. Before approaching anyone, make sure they are open to playing and clarify how they like it. Please clearly communicate your sexual orientation—whether straight, bisexual, heteroflexible, or open to exploring same-gender touch; there are purple wristbands you can wear to indicate you are comfortable with same-gender intimacy—and indicate if you are comfortable being touched intimately. No means no. Anyone not respecting this will be asked to leave.
Age & body demographic
At the Couples Sensual Massage Social, we believe attraction goes beyond looks and body type. We start with a relaxing social time and encourage stimulating conversation to foster genuine connections. This allows participants of all ages to mingle and feel the potential chemistry before any intimate activity begins. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts, and a tight bum. We aim to create an event with a diverse cross-section of ages and physiques. To achieve this, we will allocate places according to approximate age brackets, ensuring a well-rounded and inclusive experience for everyone. 21 to 30 – 15% 31 to 40 – 30% 41 to 50 – 30% 50 to 60 – 10% 60 to 65 – 15%
Be kept informed
Be kept informedOr if you want to be kept informed about future events, you can Register Here
There is no vetting on looks or age
There is no vetting of attendees, but we will always balance male and female numbers and a good spread of ages if appropriate.
Regular attendees may be limited.
However, since this social event is proving to be very popular, we may limit the places given to regulars so that newcomers can also enjoy the events, and we reserve the right to refuse applications without providing a reason.
What to wear
Some guests may be coming from work, so you are welcome to pop in the shower on arrival and change into something more relaxing. Otherwise, just come smart casual, but make sure what you have is not too precious, as massage oil can get on clothes. A suggestion for those who prefer not to get naked immediately is for women to bring underwear or something light and easily removable, and guys’ shorts and a t-shirt (a regular shirt and naked below is not a good look!). We also provide robes.
Cancellation Terms
Cancellation up to 4 weeks: After purchasing your ticket, you can cancel or transfer your ticket to another party date up to four weeks before the event at no charge.
Cancellation within 3 to 1 week: If you want to cancel or transfer your ticket to another date between 3 to 1 week before the event, you will be charged a £25 administration fee.
Serial transfers or cancellations—We will refund or transfer your ticket only once in line with the above terms. If you make a second booking, transfer your original ticket to another date, and cancel again, there is NO TRANSFER OR REFUND.
Cancellation within one week: If you cancel your ticket within one week of the event, there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS. No show at the event – If you are a no-show, then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS To ask a question, email ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk
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It was a great evening!! Really enjoyed it. We are keen to make the next one! It was also a great forum to meet like minded people. We hope that you may do again. Amazing venue and it was great to see everyone so relaxed and at ease with their sensuality. We decided to remain as voyeurs as it was our first event like this as couple, but we have not stopped talking about it since. Also seeing some of the techniques and pleasure being given was enlightening and great to practice later on one another at home. We will defiantly come to your next social.
