The ultimate sensual massage for women. Considered to be the sensual experience that most women yearn for but never expect to find.
Colin and The Absolute Massage was featured in 2018 and 2019 in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business’ and has also been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmo’s All The Way Podcasts The BBC, Metro, The Independent and several other national media outlets. Popular with women of all ages it was also trialled by Rebecca Dakin ‘The Great British Sexpert’ as seen in the video below. A client of Colin’s Cee Cee talked to Cosmopolitan’ Pasley Gilmore in her podcast about how the Absolute Massage changed her life.
Tailored to your requirements
To be sure the content of the massage is right for you before taking the Absolute Massage you are requested to complete the pre-appointment Authorisation & Request Form. This form can be completed without actually booking an appointment as it gives an opportunity to see what elements can be included in the massage. Choices given within the form are not set fixed but act as a guideline for Colin and can be adjusted before or even during the massage.
Once Colin has received the completed A & R form he designs the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries. On arrival, you may chat again briefly, then Colin will show you to the treatment room and unless you request otherwise he will leave you to shower then lay face down naked on the massage bed covered with a towel. Colin then re-enters the room and after a few more words of guidance and some instruction on how the massage will progress, he begins the massage. Scroll lower down the page to read a more extensive description of the Absolute Massage or Click hereto read a fuller description of the Absolute Massage.
The Intimacy massages are lighter in arousing stimulation. It includes therapeutic massage of the whole body but only includes external arousing stimulation ie clitoral, nipple and breast.
This massage is ideal for the more cautious woman who wasn’t to experience arousal and clitoral stimulation to possible orgasm but does not wish to have any internal vaginal massage. This may be a better massage to have if you are menstruating.
Intimacy massage options in brief
No 4. The 90-minute Full Body Intimacy Massage – £175
No 5. The 60 -minute Half Body Intimacy Massage – £105
Psychosensual massage can be up to intimacy score 5
The Psychosensual Treatment is a combination therapy that provides a fusion of massage and psychosexual mentoring. It has been specifically designed for the client who has issues or challenges around Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm when one wants to) sexual performance, intimacy or sexual orientation that may be hindering their ability to have fulfilling relationships with others. The massage usually given within Psychosensual Treatment is the Absolute Massage but this can be replaced with the Intimacy Massage.
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It can be lonely and frustrating when you feel unable to share your intimate thoughts about your sexuality or relationship and for some, it can be a daunting decision to come and see me and explore these feelings and needs. Quite often female clients tell me it took them months even years to finally decide to book a session and often afterwards say they wished they hadn’t waited so long. But whether you are a man, a woman or a couple; whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, if you have any questions or you are not sure how or if I can help you then the 15-minute phone call may help you decide. Maybe you are just too nervous to book a full appointment and want to know more details before you commit to anything. If this is the case just send me a quick text requesting a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. I will reply by text with a suggested time to speak.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I am sure before you decide on which massage you want to book you will have many questions. Please click this link to read the answers to most of the questions I get asked. If I do not cover your particular question then please do not hesitate to email me.
When you book a treatment to make sure you book the treatment you want, use the number codes provided by the side of each entry.
My Treatment Room is located in London Bridge Central Londonclick here
The treatment is very private and self-contained. The shower facilities are smart and clean with a large walk-in rain shower and handheld shower, robes, shampoo, conditioner and shower soaps are provided. A hairdryer is also available. According to your preference during the treatment, the room can remain with light or be dimmed and low atmospheric lighting (see images below). Home or Hotel visits may be possible for women and couples on special request but do incur more cost.
Intimacy Matters Apartment
Intimacy Matters Treatment Room
Quiet, discreet and private
Lights can be dim
Client feedback & testimonials
Click on the links below to view the testimonial and Trust Pilot reviews
Join Cosmopolitan’s Sex & Relationships Editor, Paisley Gilmour, and Deputy Beauty Editor/sex novice Laura Capon, as each week they delve into sexual and romantic experiences of their guests
Episode 26 January 2020 – Listen to Cee Cee as she explains why she decided to take a full year of treatments with Colin to overcome her shyness and each of experience. Listen to podcast
Episode 23 May 2020 – Following Cee Cee’s interview Como received many requests to hear from Colin himself Listen to podcast
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and teaching of sensual massage. Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters DO NOT have this insurance to cover any sensual or arousing bodywork given by him or an associate of his to a client since to date this type of insurance is not available.
Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of sensual treatment that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment.
Extended Descriptions of The Massages
When booking an appointment please ensure you book the correct treatment by using the number codes provided by each massage choice
The Absolute Massage
This selection of Absolute Massages incorporates full body stimulation that can include breast, clitoral, external vaginal massage, g spot, anterior fornix (a spot) and internal vaginal massage.
No 1 – The 105-minute Absolute Premium Massage – £235
The most popular choice of massage I give to women, it is indulgent, intense and as many say, mind-blowing.
The actual appointment length is 2.5 hours, leaving time for you to shower before and after the treatment.
The ‘Absolute’ massage could be described as a woman’s ultimate massage. It is a full-body 105-minute massage that is designed to fit your specific needs and desires. I have been giving this particular massage for seven years and in that time have given the massage to over 600 women of varied ages from 21 to 65, ethnicities, physiques, and motivations.
The ‘Absolute’ combines traditional muscle work with intimate touch and gentle sensual arousal that develops into erotic exploration and usually results in orgasm, often multiple orgasms. The massage starts with you lying face down to receive a relaxing therapeutic massage of the entire back of your body. Gradually as your body relaxes the more arousing strokes are brought in to arouse you. I am guided by your responses and will follow your arousal as it develops, however, the massage is always kept within your personal boundaries. As you respond and you ‘let go’ the more intense the arousal can become. This massage can be imaginative and creative, gentle or assertive and is given with confidence and with expert knowledge of the female body. This massage includes breast, clitoral and vaginal massage, G Spot and A Spot (Anterior wall) stimulation.
The ‘Absolute’ massage is a ‘design your own’ massage. To make sure I give you the experience you want, once a booking has been made I ask you to complete a confidential form called the Authorisation & Requests Form. This form gives you the opportunity to tell me the style of how you would like the massage and what specific arousal you would like to be included. The form contains a zero to 10 scoring scale that enables you to indicate areas of exploration that you want to include and the level and intensity of arousal as well as any firm boundaries you do not want to be crossed. Scroll to the bottom of this page for a brief description of the ‘Absolute’ massage.
To read the Frequently Asked Question about the Premium Absolute Massageclick here
No 2 – The 90-minute Absolute Tension Release Massage – £195
The Absolute Message for those with time limitations
Whether stopping by after work or dashing out for your lunch break this 90-minute erotic massage gives a woman with time, budget or discretion restrictions the perfect opportunity to release her sexual tension and re-energise her body. The massage is one of two halves and combines 45 minutes of therapeutic muscle work of the back of the body (neck, shoulders, lower and upper back, buttocks, thighs, and calves) with forty-five minutes of intimate arousing touch to potentially take you to orgasm. The actual appointment length is 2 hours, leaving time for you to shower before and after the treatment. This massage gives about 75% of the erotic stimulation given in the 105-minute Absolute massage.
No 3 – The 60-minute Absolute Explore Massage – £135
The Absolute Massage for those who are curious or have budget limitations
This trial massage is offered for those who want to explore sensual massage for the first time or those on budget or time restrictions. The massage is in two parts. The first 30 minutes is designed to gently relax your mind and body the latter 30 minutes includes 25 minutes or erotic stimulation finished with 5 minutes of relaxing touch.
Once you have arrived and we have spoken for a few minutes you may take a shower then lay face down on the massage bed to receive a neck, back, buttock and leg massage. After about 15 minutes I bring in the arousing touch to stimulate your mind and body. As you respond the arousal becomes more erotic and can include clitoral and vaginal stimulation to orgasm. Before taking this massage you are requested to complete the Authorisation & Request Form for this trial massage. This massage gives about 50% of the erotic arousal contained within the 105-minute Absolute massage.
The Intimacy Massages are lighter in erotic stimulation and external body touch ie clitoral or breast stimulation only
No 4 – The 90-minute Intimacy Premium Massage – £175
A 90-minute full body massage less erotic with surface of body arousal only
The actual appointment length is 2 hours, leaving time for you to shower before and after the treatment.
This 90-minute sensual experience is ideal for the women who want to experience a full body massage that covers the whole body but offers surface arousal only (clitoral and breast). I take the time to hear and understand your needs to make sure that I create a massage that fits with your desires but remains with your comfort zones. The difference between the Absolute and Intimacy massages is that the Intimacy massage does not include any vaginal or G spot stimulation and is lighter in the intensity of erotic arousal. Before taking this massage you will be asked to complete the Intimacy Massage Authorisation & Request Form outlining your desires and personal boundaries.
Upgrading to Absolute
Sometimes once clients who have booked the intimacy massage have met me they decide to upgrade to the Absolute. If this is the case you must inform be either upon arrival or within 15 minutes of the start of the massage and clearly indicate and boundaries you still want to maintain as well as any erotic arousal you now want to be included.
No 5 – The 60-minute Intimacy Tension Release Massage – £105
A shorter 75-minute version of the massage above with surface of body arousal only
Whether stopping by after work or dashing out for your lunch break this 75-minute intimacy massage gives a woman with time, budget or discretion restrictions the perfect opportunity to release her sexual tension and re-energise her body. The massage combines about thirty minutes of therapeutic muscle work of the back of the body (neck, shoulders, lower and upper back, buttocks, thighs, and calves) with about forty-five minutes of intimate arousing touch to potentially take you to orgasm. The difference between the Absolute and Intimacy massages is that the Intimacy massage does not include any vaginal or G spot stimulation and is lighter in the intensity of erotic arousal. The actual appointment length is 1.5 hours, leaving time for you to shower before and after the treatment.
You are naked and the whole body is massaged but without any intended arousing stimulation.
No 6 – The 60-minute Naturist Massage – £95
For those women who may be a bit shy or cautious about taking the bold step of booking any of the above massages but know that they want to, I offer a semi-sensual trial option. This is a 75-minute appointment which includes a 60-minute massage that covers the whole body but does not include any erotic stimulation. The actual appointment length is 1 hour 15 minutes, leaving you time to shower after the treatment.
No 7 – The Three Hour Psychosensual Treatment – £325
For women with sexual pleasure challenges ( inability to orgasm, fear of intimacy, lack of experience, recovery of sexual trauma)
The Psychosensual Treatment is a combination therapy that provides a fusion of massage and psychosexual mentoring. It has been specifically designed for the client who has issues or challenges around sexual performance, intimacy or sexual orientation that may be hindering their ability to have good relationships with others. The treatment is three hours in duration and includes 90 minutes of mentoring and 90 minutes of massage. Depending on the nature of the issues being dealt with the massage may include sensual elements and arousal. This is only given with full client consent and is offered as a way to re-create, as best as possible, real responses in the receiver. This allows him or her to practise the techniques and emotional strategies discussed during the mentoring.
To read more about the Psychosensual Treatment and price options click here
Article By Colin
‘Sensual Massage a woman’s 4th option’
Traditionally, sexual stimulation can be experienced in three ways:
1. With a partner – intimate, trusting, caring.
2. With a stranger (one night stand) – exciting, spontaneous, non-emotional and without commitment.
I am tense and need an unconditional orgasmic release.
Difficulty reaching orgasm when with another person.
Curiosity and satisfying a fantasy.
Lack of sexual stimulation in my relationship.
Recently my libido has increased/decreased considerably.
Frustration or lack of stimulation by my partner.
Guilt, morality and shame around sex.
Letting go of control and trusting others with control.
Recovering from sexual aggression or abuse.
Complacency in a relationship and no longer stimulated by my partner.
I love my partner but I find I now feel sexually inadequate with him.
Lack of skill and knowledge in myself and my partner.
I am on holiday/business so I’m free to explore my erotic needs.
Post-menopausal and still very sexual.
Post-menopausal and still very sexual while my partner is not.
Convenience and self-care (busy professionals who don’t want a relationship).
I have cultural or religious restrictions and I need a safe place to explore my sexuality.
Exploration of sexual practices as yet untried or unwanted by my partner.
Poor body image and lack of sexual self-esteem.
I want my partner to watch me have a sensual massage.
I want my partner to give me four hands with the masseur.
I want to explore my bisexuality with a male & female masseur couple.
I want to explore Female Orgasm Denial
I want to feel desired and dominated
I have always had a fantasy of being erotically massaged by a masseur.
My promise is to take great care to look after you
I aim to create a place and space where it is OK for you to let go and explore your natural primal erotic energies. A place where you can express yourself freely in movement and sound and behave in any way you want without any concern of being judged and criticised. I can give treatments in my own discreet, private, professional treatment rooms in Pimlico or by prior arrangement at other locations or I can come to your private location.
A sensual massage can be taken to just enjoy intimate, relaxing escapism, where you can just lie back and take pleasure in having your body massaged, stimulated, aroused and cared for, where there is no expectation for you to give in return unless you desire to. Or, for others, it can be a journey of erotic exploration between two people to investigate fantasies and desires that may not be appropriate or possible in their day to day lives.
I maintain a high standard of personal health and always respect your limits but also hope to nudge some of your sensual boundaries. I ensure total confidentiality and discretion, so there is no fear of anything or anyone intruding into your day to day life.
Tracy asks the questions that any woman thinking of coming for treatment would want to ask. You can either listen to the whole interview by selecting Episode 14 or you can select a 7-10 minute sound bite (episodes 1 to 13) for a particular topic of interest.
Episode 1 – Colin’s work with female clients – rationale
I am sometimes asked if I would see a client in their own location. This maybe your home or a hotel. This can be considered and the price worked out relevant to the distance. Costs would be added to the cost of the treatment. If you were able to arrange more than one appointment at the location then the cost would be shared. Estimated costs are as below.
London Zone 1 – Travel cost plus £75
London Zone 2 – Travel cost plus £100
London Zone 3 – Travel cost plus £125
London Zone 4 – Travel cost plus £150
Up to 100 miles – Travel cost plus £200
Up to 150 miles – Travel plus £250
Up to 2o0 miles – Travel plus £300
Over 200 miles – quoted at the time
Discounts & Payments Plans
Up to 40% discounts for regular appointments
I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone but I do realise sometimes that even though the desire is strong the cash flow situation may not allow you to make an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.
To help I offer payment plans that enable you to receive up to 40% discount on a series of appointment. [Click here]
Special rates for students and those on low income
Depending on my availability, I am sometimes able to offer reduced rates to students, Appointments must either be taken as last-minute or – if booked in advance – taken as morning appointments between 8 am and 1 pm.
Exchange of skills
I sometimes offer a part or full-time barter options where we agree to exchange services [Click here]
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