Overcoming challenges with orgasm with Rapid Transformational Therapy

by Julia Castelli


“The benefits of orgasms are so numerous that every woman should be able to access them on a regular basis, whether or not they are in a relationship and whatever their age. Buying sex aids can feel uncomfortable for some groups of women but if they were provided under medical care, this would normalise them and empower women to feel confident about self-pleasuring too. Rather than being perceived as just a sex toy, they should sit alongside taking vitamins or brushing our teeth as part of our daily routine.”

Achieving a fulfilling sexual experience is a vital aspect of our overall well-being, yet for many, it remains an elusive goal. The therapy I practice, Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), a pioneering approach to therapy, offers ground-breaking solutions in this arena. This post delves into how the therapy I offer can be a game-changer in helping individuals achieve consistent sexual satisfaction, specifically in reaching an orgasm every time.

Understanding the Link Between Mind and Body

At the heart of my therapy’s effectiveness is its focus on the intricate connection between the mind and body. Orgasm is not just a physical response; it’s deeply intertwined with psychological factors. Anxiety, stress, past traumas, and deep-seated beliefs about sex can all inhibit sexual response. In therapy, I start by addressing these mental barriers, using techniques to reprogram negative thoughts and beliefs about sexuality.

The Role of Hypnotherapy in Sexual Wellness

The therapy I offer, online and in person, uses hypnotherapy as a core technique, guiding my clients into a state of deep relaxation and heightened suggestibility. In this state, I can effectively communicate with the subconscious mind, helping to uncover and heal underlying issues that may be blocking sexual fulfilment.

This process is not just about treating symptoms; it’s about identifying and resolving root causes, whether they stem from past experiences, societal conditioning, or personal anxieties.

Rewiring Negative Beliefs

Many of us carry negative beliefs about sex and our ability to experience pleasure, often subconsciously. RTT works by rewiring these beliefs, replacing them with positive, empowering affirmations. This mental shift is crucial in overcoming psychological barriers to orgasm.

Personalized Approaches for Individual Needs

I recognize that every individual’s journey to sexual fulfilment is unique and I tailor my approach to suit each person’s specific needs and experiences. This personalized therapy is key to effectively addressing the diverse challenges people face in their sexual lives.

Beyond Technique: Building Emotional Intimacy

In our therapy sessions we also explore aspects of emotional intimacy and communication, which are fundamental to a fulfilling sexual experience. By improving self-understanding and communication skills, my clients form deeper emotional connections with their partners, which is often a critical factor in achieving orgasm.

Empowering Self-Exploration and Body Awareness

Part of the transformation journey involves fostering a greater awareness of one’s body and its responses. This heightened awareness leads to better understanding and exploration of what brings pleasure, paving the way for more consistent and satisfying sexual experiences.

The Long-Term Benefits

The benefits of this rapid transformational treatment extend beyond the therapy sessions. I teach my clients techniques and mindsets that they can apply throughout their lives, leading to lasting improvements in sexual wellness and overall quality of life.

A Path to Empowered Sexuality

Our work together leads to achieving lasting sexual fulfilment. By addressing the mental and emotional aspects of sexual response, it opens the door to more consistent and fulfilling orgasms. My therapy style and core is about empowerment, healing, and the celebration of sexuality as a natural and vital part of human life.

For those struggling to find sexual satisfaction, RTT presents a promising pathway to not just better sex, but a more confident and fulfilled self.

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Read this article on Colin’s work with Anorgasmia featured in the Independent 

I have fifteen years of experience helping women achieve better and more fulfilling sex. Many of these women come to me because they experience either situational anorgasmia or total anorgasmia. This is a condition that is far more common than many realise. It is estimated that over 40% of women experience, at some time, challenges with reaching orgasm. Although I can not guarantee I can help a woman overcome the problem, I have helped many finally achieve a level of sexual satisfaction that they are pleased with. The causes for not reaching orgasm are complex, but also, when the root of the problem is explored, it can be straightforward. Once any physiological or medical cause is ruled out, it usually comes down to anxiety. However, finding the cause of this anxiety can be complex. 

As a professionally trained psychosexual therapist and sexological somatic body practitioner, I use both counselling and sensual massage as a treatment to help women and men with sexual performance challenges and difficulty with reaching orgasm. I call this  Psychosensual Treatment. By combining talk and touch; I first explore the psychological drivers causing the interference with sexual fulfilment. This is followed by a sensual massage in which I create a physical experience as near to the usual sexual arousal process as possible. This experience often has remarkable results, with clients sometimes overcoming a sexual performance blockage in one session. 

Generally, the level of pleasure a woman experiences sexually with another person will be linked to the experience, capabilities and creativity of the partner she is with. Suppose he/she/they are inexperienced or unimaginative in giving pleasure. In that case, the length of foreplay and knowledge of providing pleasure will be limited and probably rushed, often resulting in either secondary or complete anorgasmia (inability to orgasm ).