Couples Sensual Massage and Enhanced Foreplay

Four Hour Evening Boutique Group Workshop

Next Date to be Confirmed

7pm to 11pm

£375 per couple

An intimate occasion for a maximum of four couples, each practising on their own massage bed

Teaching couples the art of sensual massage, extended foreplay and exciting new sexplay techniques to enliven and enhance a relationship.

This is a four – hour evening group workshop held at the Intimacy Matters Treatment rooms in Sloane Square Chelsea, SW1X 9DE

This group workshop is hosted by Colin and his partner, Clare. Providing a relaxed non pressurised environment for couples to meet other likeminded couples who enjoy creating an intimate sensual connection for one another.

In this workshop, Colin teaches couples the art of giving one another a full-body sensual massage. As well as teaching traditional massage techniques, Colin also explains the psychology of arousal of both men and women. Then he guides couples through a sensual massage including creative foreplay techniques that can enliven and enhance any relationship.

Select your date – Tuesday 18th June

Couples 5-hour group workshop – 7pm to 11pm

Location – Sedding Studios Sedding Street, Sloane Square, SW1X 9DE

Prices of the workshop include:-

  • One months of free membership to Colin’s video teaching website Intimate Tutorials,value £50
  • Bucks Fizz, tea, coffee on arrival
  • Workshop booklet
  • Certificate of completion
  • Invitation to join the Intimacy Matters Sensual Massage Telegram Chat Group to maintain friendships and arrange sensual massage practice with others.
  • Invitations to other Intimacy Matters social events

Prices – £375 per couple, including Prosecco and light bites

By completing the workshop, couples will:-

  • Learn traditional therapeutic massage techniques.
  • Extend the duration of their lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage to one another.
  • Give them both an understanding and enjoyment of how your pleasure in receiving gives them pleasure in the giving.
  • Explore how sensual massage can bring others into your sex play without challenging your relationship.
  • Expand your sexual social circle by meeting other like-minded couples.
  • Teach you to become skilled in sex play techniques that will transform your sexual relationship. For her – G spot & vaginal massage, edging, female ejaculation, giving body to body. For him – Creative penis massage, sensual testicle stroking, optional prostate massage.

On whom do we practice?

In the workshop, couples practice on one another and not other couples. Previous massage experience is not necessary, but you do need to have the desire to give sensual touch. If you decide to stay on after the workshop for the optional sensual social playtime, couples can, with consent, practice and enjoy giving to other couples.

To apply for a ticket for this workshop

Complete the application form CLICK HERE

Once the application form is received, you will be sent a link to make a payment to book your place. This can be paid by card or bank transfer.

Or call Colin on 07966 522 696 to discuss other methods of payment.

Workshop details

The workshop is divided into four parts.

Note: In the workshop massage practice sessions, participants can remain partially clothed or become naked when giving the massage. When receiving, you must be naked and comfortable to be aroused to potential orgasm. 

Introductions – 10 minutes 

Meet the other couples, hear their motivations for participating in this unique workshop, and share your thoughts and desires for the day.

Part 1

The psychology, biology and anthropology of female arousal- 30 minutes

  • Understanding the natural sexual dynamic of the female physiology and psyche in contrast to the male.
  • An explanation of the benefits of sensual massage for women and how it can enhance a woman’s sexual fulfilment by enabling her mind and body to experience what nature designed it to do.
  • How couples can use sensual massage to bring in others to their sexplay without complicating the relationship.

Part 2

90-minute massage practice

Teaching him to give to her 

From head to toe and covering both sides of her naked body, this practice session teaches the man both therapeutic and sensual strokes on which to build erotic sensual touch and erotic stimulation.

This massage practice includes:-

  • How to encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind.
  • A subtle arousing touch to bring on her desire.
  • How to touch and tease the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body.
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage.
  • Various techniques of external vaginal massage.
  • Clitoral stimulation and edging.
  • Various positioning for clitoral orgasm
  • Body-to-body massage optional full nudity.
  • Managing reciprocal arousal but maintaining focus on her.
  • Breast and nipple massage
  • External anal stimulation optional
  • G spot massage
  • A spot massage anterior fornix
  • Various methods and positions to give confident vaginal massage
  • Oral stimulation optional
  • Incorporating internal anal stimulation optional
  • Light spanking and dominance are optional
  • Encouraging female ejaculation is optional

Part 3

30-minute break and discussion

Feedback from the female partners will be given to their male partners during the break. Colin will also highlight the differences in male arousal and explain what men REALLY like and how the best erotic journey for a man is a combination of elements to take him on a slow journey of arousal to orgasm.

Part 4

75-minute massage practice

Teaching her to give to him

This massage practice includes:-

  • How to encourage slow arousal by stimulating his mind as well as his body
  • Subtle arousing touch to bring on his arousal with your body
  • Teasing his arousal to keep him on the edge of orgasm
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage
  • Testical touch and stroking
  • Cock massage techniques
  • Chest and nipple stimulation
  • Body-to-body massage optional full nudity
  • Managing reciprocal arousal
  • External anal stimulation
  • Oral techniques optional
  • Prostate massage optional
  • Penis and scrotum massage
  • Mastering genital massage
  • Assorted positioning to take him to orgasm

Part 5

10 minutes Feedback, showers and farewells

Workshop Finishes

Contact Colin to ask questions.

If you would like to ask any questions regarding the group workshops  or the practice session, then please email or call Colin at 07966 522 696

Questions & Answers

What is the definition of a couple in the terms of this group workshop?

In the context of this group workshop a couple is a male & female ( or trans woman post op )  who are comfortable to be intimate together. they can be married, partnered, close friends or share a love of physical intimacy.

If we want further training or experience, what is available?

Further training can be taken with Colin’s advanced private workshops for couples (5 or 10 hours) or those wanting to become professional sensual masseurs and run a part-time or full-time practice. Colin offers a 20-hour professional workshop.  Colin can arrange 2.5-hour Experiential massage sessions for those wishing to have further practice. An Experiential session is when you give a male or female volunteer receiver a four-hand massage with Colin.

Where do I get changed?

There is a changing area and a shower

Who can attend this workshop?

This is a couples-only event and can be attended by anyone over 18 years old who is in a relationship or good ( intimate ) friends.

Is my body type relevant?

No, the point of this workshop is to give everyone confidence, regardless of age, culture or body type.

What do we wear?

Wear whatever you feel comfortable, but you need to be able to move freely and use your upper body to massage. Also, bear in mind that you will be using oils. A changing room and shower facilities are available.

Will I be naked at any time?

During the workshop, you can remain dressed, topless or become naked.

Do I need to be “hands-on” during this workshop?

Yes, for the comfort of the whole group, you must take part in giving the massage and not remain just as an observer. However, you can take everything at your own pace.

If I feel uncomfortable, can I leave the workshop?

If you feel this workshop is not for you at any time, let Colin or Clare know and leave quietly. You cannot stay and be an observer.

Do people have sex at this event?

While designed to teach sensual massage and enhanced erotic exploration, the actual five-hour workshop is designed to be informative and fun and is not meant to be a sex party. However, in the optional two sensual socials after the workshop, couples who decide to stay on can choose to engage with other couples either by giving one another a sensual massage or, if invited, the activity can become more sexual.

We may become aroused, is that OK?

Yes, the massage intends to arouse the receiver, and it is only natural to become aroused while giving a massage.

If I am attracted to other people in the workshop, can I touch them during the sessions?

The workshop is designed to be informative and enjoyable, and clearly, those coming along as givers or receivers are doing so because they enjoy human sexuality and intimacy. If this includes opposite or same-gender attraction and both parties agree, and consent is given, mutual touch is fine.

Can I regard myself as a sensual masseur after this event?

Indeed, you are on the way and will leave with more excellent knowledge and confidence in giving a sensual massage to your partner. Still, to reach a commercial standard, I recommend you attend the Intermediate and then a private 1-1 workshop with me, where you can practice with more volunteers and have individual tuition from myself.

Is this workshop confidential?

Everyone participating in this workshop must agree to keep total confidentiality. You are not expected to reveal your full name or personal details unless you want to. Everything in the workshop must remain private and confidential and not repeated to other parties in a way that reveals any identities. Phones must be switched off and put away in the changing room, with no recording equipment.

Is there any supporting material provided?

You will receive the written massage routine with bullet point guidance and further information on other training. You will also get three months of free access to my sensual massage training website,

What do I need to bring with me?

Towelling robes are provided

Please bring:-

A shower towel

Women- T-shirt, shorts, bra, and knickers – something light and suitable to wear during session intervals.

Men – T-shirts, shorts. underwear

Cancellation by Intimacy Matters

  • Minimum attendance is two couples. If only one couple ticket is purchased, the event will be postponed to another date, and the purchased ticket can be refunded, transferred, or put against another Intimacy Matters treatment or class.
  • If the event has to be cancelled or postponed for any other reason, tickets can be fully refunded or transferred to another event, treatment or class.

Cancellation by ticket holder

  • If notice is given up to three days before the workshop – you will get a full refund, or your place can be transferred to another workshop date or towards a treatment of your choice.
  • If cancelled within 24 hours, then there is no refund given
  • If you don’t show up – no refund given

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