Foundation Leval Tuesday 14th January 2020, 7 pm to 11 pm

Teaching couples the art of sensual massage, extended foreplay and exciting new sexplay techniques to enliven and enhance thier relationship.

This workshop is ideal for new couples who want to explore their erotic nature with their new partner or longer term couples who are seeking to re ignite the fulfilment and adventure to new sensual horizons.

You must have taken the Foundation workshop or taken a private workshop with colin to qualify for the Intermediate workshops to be held on 28th January which includes an optional stay on for an extra hour playtime to midnight.

By taking the Foundation and Intermediate training couples will:-

  • Extend the duration of their lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage to one another.
  • Give you both an understanding and enjoyment in how your pleasure in giving gives them pleasure also.
  • Teach you to become skilled in sex play techniques that will transform your sexual relationship.
  • Explore how sensual massage can be used to bring others into your sex play without challenging your own relationship.
  • Expand your sexual social circle by meeting other likeminded couples.

On who do we practice?

In both, the Foundation and Intermediate workshops couples practice on one another and not other couples. If couples do want to explore erotic massage with other couples this is reserved for the after session playtime following the Intermediate workshop. Past massage experience is not necessary, but you do need to have a desire to give sensual touch. The maximum number of couples is 7 per workshop.

Prices for both the Foundation workshop include

  • Prosecco, and refreshments on the night.
  • One month free access to Colin’s tutorial web site
  • Invitation to join the Intimacy Matters Sensual Massage Chat Group, to maintain friendships and arrange sensual massage practice
  • Worksheets giving written guidance of the massage


Tuesday 14th January 2020 – 7 pm to 11 pm

Cost – £225 per couple

If booked with the Intermediate Workshop a combined discounted rate of £400 per couple for both workshops and with play time £425

The Foundation workshop is divided into three parts.



A 20-minute introduction discussion on sensual massage and how it can enhance a couple’s sexual relationship. Understanding the natural sexual dynamic of the female in contrast to the male. How coupes can use sensual massage to bring in others to their sexplay without complicating the relationship.

70-minute massage practice – teaching him to give to her 

From head to toe and covering both sides of her naked body this practice session teaches the man both therapeutic and sensual strokes on which to build erotic sensual touch and erotic stimulation. This will include:-

  • How to encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind
  • Subtle arousing touch to bring on her desire
  • How to touch the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body
  • Breast and nipple massage
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage
  • External vaginal stimulation
  • Positioning and edging her towards clitoral orgasm

Note  In the Foundation workshop massage practice sessions participants remain partially clothed. The women remain in underwear and men shorts.

15-minute break



20 minutes on what men really like and how male arousal requires a combination of elements to take the man on a slow journey of arousal to orgasm

70-minute massage practice teaching her to give to him

 How to give a full body sensual massage to your male partner this massage will include:-

  • How to encourage slow arousal by stimulating his mind as well as his body
  • Subtle arousing touch to bring on his arousal with your body
  • Teasing his arousal to keep him on the edge of orgasm
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage
  • External anal massage
  • Cock massage techniques
  • Chest and nipple stimulation
  • Positioning and edging him to orgasm

10 minutes break

PART 3  

A 30 minute free style practice when couple can practice what they have learned

FINISH – 11pm

Make an enquiry

email giving your name state which workshop you want and your motivation for wanting to take part in this workshop

Register for this and other workshops

Complete the application form here

Or call Colin 0n 07966 522 696


If we want further training or experience what is available

Yes, Further training can be taken with Colin’s advanced private workshops for couple (5 or 10 hour) or for those wanting to become a professional sensual masseurs and run a part time or full-time practice Colin offers the 20-hour professional workshop.  For those wanting to just practice Colin can arrange 2-hour Experiential massage sessions when you get to give a 4 hands massage with him to a male volunteer

What is the address of the workshop?

The full address is given once you have booked. Postcode London Bridge  SE1 4QS

Where do I get change?

There is a separate private changing with shower room for women and men

Who can attend this workshop?

This is a couples only event and can be attended by anyone over the age of 18 who are either in relationship or good friends.

Is my body type relevant?

No, the point of this workshop is to give confidence to everyone no matter what age, culture or body type.

What do we wear?

Wear whatever you feel comfortable, but you need to be able to move freely and using your upper body to massage. Also, bear in mind that you will be using oils. A changing room and shower facilities are available.

Will I be naked at any time?

During the Foundation workshop, you can remain dressed, topless or become naked  In The Intermediate it is recommended but not essential that you become naked when giving the body to body massage.

Do I need to be “hands-on” during this workshop?

Yes, for the comfort of the whole group it is important that you take part in giving the massage and not remain just as an observer. However, you can take everything at your own pace.

If I feel uncomfortable can I leave the workshop?

Yes if at any time you feel this workshop is not for you then let the KK representative or myself know and leave quietly. You cannot stay and be an observer.

Do people have sex at this event?

During the actual workshop while being open to erotic sexual exploration this part is designed to be both informative and fun and is not meant to be a sex party.  However after the Intermediate workshop there is an optional 60 minute play time when couples can be as intimate with one another as the want to be.

We may become aroused, is that OK?

Yes, it is only natural to become aroused yourself while giving the massage. In fact, this is encouraged as all men became more relaxed and turned on if they know that the ‘giver’ is enjoying the experience as well.

If I am attracted to other people in the workshop can I touch them when in the sessions?

The workshop is designed to be informative and enjoyable, and clearly, those coming along as givers or receivers are doing so because they enjoy human sexuality and intimacy. If this includes opposite or same-sex attraction and both parties are in agreement then mutual touch is fine.

Can I regard myself as a sensual masseur after this event?

Certainly, you are on the way and will leave with a greater knowledge and confidence in giving a sensual massage to your partner but to get to a commercial standard I recommend you attend you take the Intermediate and then a private 1-1 workshop with me at which you have greater opportunity to practice on more volunteers and have individual tuition from myself.

Is this workshop confidential?

Everyone participating in this workshop must agree to keep total confidentiality. You are not expected to reveal your full name or personal details unless you want to. Everything that takes place in the workshop must remain private and confidential and not repeated to other parties in a way that reveals any identities. Phones must be switched off and put away in the changing room no recording equipment of any type.

Is there any supporting material provided?

Yes, If on the day you provide me with your email address I will send to you the written massage routine with bullet point guidance and further information on other training you will also get a period of free access to my sensual massage training web site

What do I need to bring with me?

Please bring:-

A shower towel

Something light and suitable to wear in the session intervals , ie negligee, bra, and knickers, T-shirts, shorts.