Massage My Woman

A 4 hour sensual massage group workshop for men who like women


Up to seven male students practising on four female volunteer receiver models 

Run by Colin Richards and his partner Clare

Venue – Sedding Street, Sloane Square, Chelsea SW1X 9DE


Tuesday 25th June – 7 pm to 11 pm

 Teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to enhance foreplay and incorporating innovative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience extended pleasure.

This Massage My Woman group workshop is equivalent in its content to taking the individual Foundation class. The total attendees are up to eight men practising with four female volunteers. The hands-on massage practice sessions are given to specially selected female volunteer receivers. Each male student gives to one female receiver and, in the first practice, moves from receiver to receiver to get a complete understanding of the female arousal responses.

Testimonial from Chris, who took the Massage My Woman Group Workshop 2022

A perfect workshop for me. Very, very enjoyable. Hit the spot. Excellent balance between group discussion and the learning of practical skills taught by an experienced practitioner with real enthusiasm and an obvious passion. Tried out new skills with my partner. Great fun. Surprisingly I found the giving of the massage to the volunteers quite an emotional experience, and I felt very privileged to be able to touch another person in such an intimate way.

This Massage My Woman training will:

  • Teach a man to become the best lover he can be.
  • Give a man a whole new strategy for successful dating.
  • Increase his sexual performance time frame and overall confidence.
  • Tap into and release his masculine primal sexual energy
  • Empower him with specialist knowledge and skills to stimulate a woman’s body to levels she will not have experienced before.

The practice sessions

Male students practice on personally vetted female volunteers.  The men work in pairs, giving to one female volunteer. As the practice sessions progress, the students move from volunteer to other volunteer. To take part in the workshop, past massage experience is not necessary, but you do need to have a desire to give sensual touch.

Testimonial from Peter 

I’m quite confident in my abilities as a lover, but I have been with my wife for almost 17 years and was curious to know whether I can please other women. Also to learn fantastic sensual skills that I can surprise my wife with. This is essential learning for every sexually active human. It has made me more confident, more knowledgeable and more skilled.

Testimonial from Pierre 

The group workshop was a fantastic great experience I would recommend it to anyone who has had difficulty being intimate with their present/future partner(s) my partner has very much enjoyed what I learnt and is looking forward to reciprocating after her workshop.

The Workshop

A sensual massage group workshop for men

This 4-hour group workshop is ideal for men who want to develop and improve their sex life. Taking this workshop will increase confidence and skills in giving pleasure to women by teaching them to be able to give a sensual massage, combining enhanced foreplay techniques.

You will learn more about the process of female arousal and how female physiology and psychology are intertwined. Colin overviews the anthropological foundation of sexuality and how, even today, these primal systems still play a large part in women experiencing sexual pleasure.

This foundation group workshop can be taken independently or as step one to move on to take private 1-1  Intermediate or Professional training.

In this group workshop, you will learn:-

  • How to encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind.
  • A subtle arousing touch to bring on her desire.
  • How to touch and tease the sensitive but non-erotic areas of the female body.
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage.
  • Various techniques of external vaginal massage.
  • Clitoral stimulation and edging.
  • Various positioning for clitoral orgasm
  • Body-to-body massage (optional full nudity).
  • Managing reciprocal arousal but maintaining focus on her.
  • Breast and nipple massage
  • External anal stimulation (optional)
  • G spot massage
  • Various methods and positions to give confident vaginal massage
  • Edging her to multiple orgasm

Times – 7 pm to 11 pm

Location – Intimacy Matters Sedding Street, Sloane Square, Chelsea SW1X 9DE

Hosting – Colin and his partner Clare

What is the best way to get to the venue? 

Tube to Sloane Square. Exit the station, turn right, and walk past the Court Theatre and Colbert restaurant. Cross the road, and you are in Seddings Street. Walk 25 meters, and Sedding Studios is on the right.

If you are driving, there is a Sloane Square Car park

If taking the Bus, it’s the 22, 19 tops opposite on Sloane Sq

If taking the Bus, it’s the 22, 19 or 11 stops opposite on Sloane Square

Cost – £325 per person, including Bucks Fizz on arrival, tea and coffee, & finger buffet lunch with beer, cider or prosecco

Maximum numbers – Four male students and four female volunteer receivers

Prices of the workshop include:-

  • Bucks Fizz, tea, coffee
  • Snacks and refreshments at interval
  • One month of free access to the Intimate Tutorials website
  • Worksheets
  • Certificate of completion
  • An invitation to join the Intimacy Matters Sensual Massage Chat Group, where you can maintain friendships and arrange sensual massage practice with others.

Apply to take this group workshop.

Complete the application form HERE

Once the application form is received, you will be sent a link to make a payment to book your place. Tickets are administered via the Design My Night website. The ticket purchase is subject to a small fee by DNM however this guarantees you a full refund should you ned to cancel up to three days before the event. See full cancellation details below.

Or call Colin 0n 07966 522 696 to discuss other payment methods ie cash or bank transfer.

A sensual massage group workshop for men

The Workshop Itinerary

The workshop is divided into four parts.

On arrival  – you will be welcomed by Clare, who will show you where to leave your belongings and where the changing shower facilities are. You will then be directed to the sitting room and offered drinks and refreshments while we wait for everyone to arrive.

Introductions – 10 minutes 

Meet the other male students and the female volunteers, hear their motivations for participating in this unique workshop, and share your thoughts and desires for the day.

Part 1 –  The psychology, biology and anthropology of female arousal – 30 minutes

This part of the workshops is led by both Colin and Clare, who give their philosophies on what sensual massage is beneficial for both the receivers and givers and also why, for women, it is such a powerful experience. Topics covered are:-

  • Explanation of the natural sexual dynamic of the female physiology and psyche in contrast to the male.
  • Learning of the benefits of sensual massage for women and how it can enhance a woman’s sexual fulfilment by enabling her mind and body to experience what nature designed it to do.
  • How by giving a sensual massage as part of the dating experience can make your encounters more fulfilling and thrilling.

Part 2 – 90-minute massage practice – guided tuition given by Colin

Learning a back-of-body sensual massage routine

Working in pairs and rotating from receiver to receiver, you are taught, step by step, a sensual massage routine. From head to toe, covering both sides of the naked body, this practice session teaches you therapeutic and sensual strokes to build erotic touch and erotic stimulation and includes:

  • Setting the scene
  • Reassuring and preparing the massage through words and light touch.
  • Build trust through touch and connection.
  • Erotic towel tecnique.
  • Finding her dynamic of desire and how she wants to be treated.
  • Encourage slow arousal by stimulating her mind and her body.
  • Therapeutic massage techniques.
  • Subtle arousing touch to intimate areas to bring on desire.
  • Using touch & tease techniques to build anticipation.
  • Incorporating pressure and confidence in your touch
  • Neck ear and head massage
  • Buttock and upper thigh massage
  • Face-down clitoral stimulation
  • External vaginal stimulation

Part 3 – 30-minute break  and discussion hosted by Clare and Colin

The male students will receive feedback from the female volunteer receivers during the break. Continuing the conversation of female sexuality and how women feel about G spot & vaginal massage, adventurous sex, sex toys and ejaculation.

Part 4 – 75 minutes. The routine is repeated in this part, but this time, you will include the following erotic techniques.

  • Breast and nipple massage
  • Bringing variety and unexpectedness within the experience.
  • Leg and upper thigh massage
  • Caressing and stroking the labia and other lips of the vagina
  • Clitoral stroking and varied masturbation techniques
  • Positioning and edging her towards clitoral orgasm
  • Internal vaginal massage
  • G Spot stimulation.
  • A Spot stimulation
  • Demonstration of techniques to enable female ejaculation.

During this second practice, the male students are invited to become naked if they want to

Part 4 – 10 minutes

Feedback, showers and farewells

Cancellation by Intimacy Matters

The minimum attendance is two persons. If fewer than two tickets are purchased, the event will be postponed to another date, and the purchased tickets can be refunded, transferred or put against another Intimacy Matters treatment or class.

If the event has to be cancelled or postponed for any other reason, tickets can be fully refunded or transferred to another event, treatment or class.

Cancellation by ticket holder

If notice is given up to three days before the workshop – you will get a full refund, or your place can be transferred to another workshop date or towards a treatment of your choice.

If cancelled within 24 hours, then there is no refund given

If you don’t show up – no refund given

Questions & Answers

If I want further training or experience, what is available

Further training can be taken with Colin’s advanced private classes (5 or 10 hours). For those wanting to become a professional sensual masseur and run a part-time or full-time practice, he offers a 20-hour professional workshop.  For those wanting to practice, Colin can arrange 2.5-hour Experiential massage sessions when you get to give a 4-hand massage with him to a male volunteer. Read about private classes here

What is the address of the workshop?

The full address is given once you have booked. Chelsea Sw1x 9DE

Where do I get change?

There are changing  areas and shower facilities

Who can attend this workshop?

This is a man-only event and can be attended by anyone over the age of 18

Is my body type relevant?

No, the point of this workshop is to give everyone confidence, regardless of age, culture or body type. But you must be fully healthy and show no symptoms of Covid or flu.

Who are the female volunteers?

These are personally vetted women comfortable discussing sex and receiving sensual massage. Many are Colin’s ex-clients or women who have volunteered for Colin’s private classes.

What do I wear?

Wear whatever you feel comfortable with, but you need to be able to move freely and use your upper body to massage. Also, bear in mind that you will be using oils. A changing room and shower facilities are available.

Men – T-shirt & shorts

Will I be naked at any time?

During the first part of the workshop, you remain dressed or topless. In the second practice session, you can become naked.

Do I need to be “hands-on” during this workshop?

Yes, for the comfort of the whole group, it is important that you take part in giving the massage and not remain just as an observer. However, you can take everything at your own pace.

If I feel uncomfortable, can I leave the workshop?

If you feel this workshop is not for you at any time, let Colin know and leave quietly. You cannot stay and be an observer.

Do people have sex at this event?

No. While being open to erotic sexual exploration, this event is designed to be both informative and fun and is not meant to be a sex party. The male volunteers are there to be “receivers” and will not instigate anything that you have not encouraged. This is your chance to be in control and decide what happens and to whom.

I may become aroused myself, is that OK?

Yes, it is only natural to become aroused while giving the massage. This is encouraged as all women become more relaxed and turned on if they know the ‘giver’ is also enjoying the experience. But don’t let your arousal take over.

Can I regard myself as a sensual masseur after this event?

Indeed, if you take this Foundation workshop, you are well on the way. You will leave with more knowledge and confidence in giving a sensual massage to a female. However, I recommend you take the 6-hour 1-1 Intermediate Class for a higher level in personal relationships or take the 20-hour Professional training to reach a commercial standard seeing women as paid clients.

Is this workshop confidential?

Everyone participating in this workshop must agree to keep total confidentiality. You are not expected to reveal your full name or personal details unless you want to. Everything in the workshop must remain private and confidential and not repeated to other parties in a way that reveals any identities. Phones must be switched off and put away in the changing room, with no recording equipment.

Is there any supporting material provided?

I will send you the written massage routine with bullet point guidance and further information on other training. You will also get a month of free access to my sensual massage training website

What do I need to bring with me?

Please bring:-

A shower towel

Something light and suitable to wear in the sessions: T-shirts, shorts or underwear.

Complete the application form HERE

Once you have completed the application form, you will be sent a link to make a payment to book your place.

Or call Colin 0n 07966 522 696 to discuss other methods of payment

Testimonial from Mark 

I thoroughly enjoyed the Massage My Woman group workshop and would recommend it to anyone interested in learning how to offer a sensual massage experience, with expert guidance, tips and live demonstrations to help reinforce what’s taught. Really was a great experience and something I’d like to take further, so will either be doing the couples workshop or the advanced class when available.

Testimonial from Jaden – June 2019

The workshop was excellent. Colin created a really relaxed and open atmosphere where we could discuss and learn. I hope I remember even a fraction of what we covered in the workshop!

A sensual massage group workshop for men

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