Dinner & Decadence 

Couples & Singles Night

Saturday October 16th 2021

The adult themed event that London has been waiting for. Social, sensual, high end, professionally hosted, intimate, sexy and for you to enjoy to the sexual level you are most comfortable with.

Sensual touch is a wonderful platform within which to explore sensual and erotic intimacy. To attend this party you do not need to have any formal experience in giving a massage but simply a love of giving or receiving intimate pleasure.

This night is aimed for (10) mixed gender couples or intimate friends and single people (5) men and (5) women, to meet and engage with other like-minded  people in a safe environment. The term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite sex you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits or anything in between.

The D & D evening begins at the unusually named 28°- 50° restaurant in Chelsea, a recently opened exclusive venue in the Kings Road, London.


“It was a fun evening. Everyone was welcoming. The restaurant was beautiful and food was amazing. The hosts organised a great event. It was exceptional. Highly recommended.” 5 star

“A totally enlightening experience a first time event for us so we were a little nervous but the evening was fantastic and the first thing we did the next day ( well almost the first ) was go out and buy some quality massage oil we’re now looking at getting a massage table!! Colin Clare and the staff were great and put us at ease.” 5 star

Check out other reviews given by past attendees of the Dinner & Decadence evenings – Click here

Arriving between 7.30pm to 8pm you will be greeted by your hosts Colin & Clare with a welcome glass of champagne. With ice breaker conversation games you will soon meet and make friend with the other guests. At 8pm you will be ushered in to our private dining area to enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner with each course paired with a house recommended wine.

After dinner you will be invited to venture off to the Intimacy Matters residence, a charming bijou Georgian Townhouse a short stroll away (or cab) where the evening will continue and we hope temperatures will continue to rise to boiling point!

On returning to the Intimacy Matters residency, you can choose to rest and relax and continue to chat in the living room or for the voyeurs among you site yourself in the kitchen at parties’ to watch a sensual massage demonstration unfold. For those who are eager to put their erotic massage skills to work. The first floor room will have three massage beds available, with a fourth and fifth in the conservatory and living room annexe. For those taking things further there is a Super King Play Bed in the ground floor bedroom. There are also two bathrooms with showers and three lavatories. The choice is yours as to how you enjoy the late night hours. Clare and I want you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening.

This is a mixed gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.

This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of likeminded people. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as its fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. The choice is yours as to how you enjoy the late-night hours.

We hope that everyone has a great time but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that maybe different so before making any approach to anyone check they are open to play and how they like to play.

Tryon House

We recommend you make clear your sexual orientation ie straight, bisexual, heteroflexible or open to explore same gender touch and whether you are comfortable to be touched intimately by someone. No means no!  and anyone not adhering to this will be asked to leave.

Age and body type demographic

We believe that attraction goes far further than just looks and body type and that by having a relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation prior to any intimate activity takes place enables all ages to mix and feel potential chemistry. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross section of ages and physiques.

Evening agenda

  • Maximum 1o couples and 10 singles ( 5 male 5 female ) at the event
  • Location – The Kings Road Chelsea SW3
  • Nearest Tube – Sloane Square
  • Arrival at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 7.30pm
  • Depart to Tryon House – From 10.30pm
  • Evening finishes – 2am ( approximately)
  • Dress for dinner – Cocktail dress and smart sexy attire
  • Dress for later – a little as you want

Living Room

Ticket Price

Ticket price Couples  £250 + the DNM admin charge

Singles £135 + the DNM admin charge.

Price includes – Champagne on arrival, 3 course dinner with paired wines with each course, after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with Prosecco and soft drinks included.

How to attend a Dinner & Decadence event


  1. To attend any D & D event you must first complete an APPLICATION FORM

This is applicable for all events whether you have attended one before out not.

Buying Tickets

  1. Once your application form is received and providing we still have the relevant places available you will be sent the link to purchase your ticket on line or with special arrangement by banks transfer. Places are limited to 30 persons with equal gender balance 
  2. Places are NOT confirmed until payment is received
  3. Once payment is made you will a receipt and a few days before the event the evenings programme and gives list will be made available to you.

Be kept informed

Or if you just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events you can Register Here

No vetting of age or physique

There is no vetting of attendees but we will always balance male and female numbers, if appropriate.

However since these events are proving to be very popular we may limit the places given to regulars so that new comers can also enjoy the events and we do reserve the right to refuse applications without giving reason.

Sexual orientations

Our events are open to guests of all sexual orientations and this will be displayed on the guest list prior to the event date.

House guidelines and party etiquette will be sent nearer the time with the evening programme details. Feel free to contact Colin should you have any questions or require clarification of any aspect of the event.

Cancellation terms

Up to 24 hours before – If you wish to cancel the booking and written notice is given up to 24 hours before the event date then your payment will be fully refunded

Within 24 hours – Because the restaurant has been paid if you cancel within 24 hours and of the event date then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

No show at event – If you are a no show then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

Massage play room with three massage beds

Meet and chat with your fellow guests before the party

Once you have purchased your tickets the evening programme for this event will be sent to you a couple of days before together with a guest list introducing you to one another.
At this point you will also be invited to join a PRE PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram so you can introduce yourself to other guest before meeting them at the Restaurant.

The conservatory massage room

Your hosts

Your hosts Colin & Clare

Example menu

menu –this is subject to change

 Non alcoholic options and specific dietary requirements are also available to be catered for on request.

To ask a questions email Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk

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Chelsea Cloister

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Sloane Square Hotel

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