The Couples & Singles

Dinner & Decadence Party

This is an adult event for discerning couples and a few single male and female guests to enjoy an evening of good food, specialist wine, like-minded company and an afterparty where intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration is encouraged but not expected. This is a very popular party and almost always is fully booked.

Particularly designed to be an exclusive yet friendly and non ostentatious event, the party is personally hosted by Colin and his partner Clare who with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs take great care in making sure everyone has a wonderful time.  Guest numbers are limited to around 30 persons this being ten mixed gender couples and ten singles (five female & five male)  of any orientation.

The Next Party

Saturday September 17th  – 7.30pm to 3am – Tickets now on sale

Apply to join the party here


Future Dates

Saturday 19th November – 7.30pm to 3am – Tickets now on sale

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Purchasing Tickets

Couples & Single Females

Tickets available for the above two dates are now available for couples and single females. But first you must Apply to join the party click here

Single Males

To ensure that the single males attending a party are respectful and follow the party guidelines and etiquette the five places for single males are only available by personal invitation of the organisers. To achieve this single males must have either attended a prior event, class or workshop with Colin or taken a personal live or zoom chat with Colin.

Couples – £250 per couple (limited to 10 couples) 

Single female –  £135 per person ( limited to 5 single females) 

Single male – £135 per person (limited to 5 single males)

The ticket prices includes champagne on arrival, 3 course dinner with paired wines with each course, after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with Prosecco and soft drinks included.

What Takes Place

Most parties are held on a Saturday evening. Starting at 7.30pm, guests are invited to a champagne reception to meet chat with other likeminded guests. Following the reception guests continue to get to know one another by sitting to enjoy a sumptuous 3 course dinner with paired wines included.  During this dinner the guest rotate from table to table after every course thus maximising the conversation and connections.

No Pressure Just Pleasure

After the dinner guests are ushered on to a private house party where in a relaxed non pressurised atmosphere they are invited explore intimacy and erotic touch to the level comfortable to each individual. For those guests who want to remain observational only they can locate themselves in a snug area and chat and watch as the activity goes on around them.

D & D is not designed to be a swingers event as there is no expectation for people to interact with others unless they want to. By incorporating sensual massage as an additional theme  (5 massage beds at the ready) guests can tease and tantalise one another and can be the prelude to more erotic group intimate play. Dinner & Decadence is an occasion where guests can keep the intimacy between themselves or enjoy the company of other couples and singles.

Do I need to know how to give a massage?

To enjoy a D & D party you do not need to have any experience in giving a massage but simply have a love of giving or receiving intimate pleasure.

D & D is an event open to all sexualities and the term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite or same gender that you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits or anything in between.

The ticket prices includes champagne on arrival, 3 course dinner with paired wines with each course, after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with Prosecco and soft drinks included.

Chat to past D & D guests for a genuine review of the party

The D &D review is a telegram chat group where past guests of D & D have agreed to be part of in order to give those thinking of attending a party in the future some insight as to what to expect and how a D & D party unfolds.

So to discover how previous guests enjoyed the D & D evenings. 

Click on link below to enter this private chat group. You can be anonymous by changing you name and details. 

https://t.me/+t2JGQeFRroswMDBk

The just ask a question and someone will reply.

Apply to attend a party

Before anyone can buy a ticket to any party they are required to complete the D & D application form. Once completed you are sent a link to purchase your ticket. In certain circumstances the organisers may reject an applicant

TO COMPLETE THE PARTY APPLICATION FORM CLICK LINK BELOW

APPLY HERE

Your application will be reviewed and if successful you will be sent a link to purchase your tickets

Reviews

June 25th 2022 Party

Excellent, the meal was excellent, the host were amazing, absolutely nothing but quality. Excellent evening.The entire evening was a pleasure to be part of. Thks for all involved

by Alan

Fantastic night of meeting new interesting people, wonderful food and Claire and Colin were very welcoming hosts making us feel at ease. Back at the house the atmosphere was one of sexual excitement, massages and as much or as little interaction as we wanted. Cant wait to go again!!

by Angela 

May 2022 Party

“It was a fun evening. Everyone was welcoming. The restaurant was beautiful and food was amazing. The hosts organised a great event. It was exceptional. Highly recommended.” 5 star

“A totally enlightening experience a first time event for us so we were a little nervous but the evening was fantastic and the first thing we did the next day ( well almost the first ) was go out and buy some quality massage oil we’re now looking at getting a massage table!! Colin Clare and the staff were great and put us at ease.” 5 star

Check out other reviews given by past attendees of the Dinner & Decadence evenings – Click here

The Detail

The Principal 

In the 17 years that Colin has worked as a Sex & Relationship Engineer and Sexologist/Masseur, and as part of his job he and Clare have attended quite a few adult events. On seeing for themselves and listening to others they came up with the D & D formula to focus on personal hosting with an event that included an introduction period for people to gently get to know one another followed by non expectaion intimate adult party.

Colin & Clare believe that first and foremost an adult party should be a Successful Party so that if a guest chooses not to get intimate they still leave having had very enjoyable time.  At every D & D party the hosts and their team strive to give guests the best time possible in an environment where those newly exploring and the experienced adult party goer can feel equelly welcome and to enjoy themselves without pressure or judgement.

What happens at a Dinner & Decadence Party?

The Dinner

The evening begins with a welcome champagne reception at the curiously named 28°- 50°  restaurant one of the Kings Road’s ( 300 King’s Rd, London SW3 5UH) newest celebrated posh eateries that has recently been featured on the TV show Made In Chelsea.

Guests arrive between 7.30pm to 7.45pm where they greeted by the hosts Colin & Clare, who will introduce you to other guests. With the help of a light hearted ice breaker conversation game everyone soon relaxes and makes acquaintance with other guests. At 8pm guests are ushered into a private dining room to enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner with coffee, each course paired with a house recommend wine. To ensure you get to meet as many others guests as possible after every course you will move to another table. ( couples remain together ).

The Decadence

After dinner guests are invited to walk (or taxi) to the nearby Intimacy Matters residence, a charming bijou Georgian Townhouse about 500m away along the Kings Rd towards Sloane Square. where the evening continues and where we hope layers will loosen as temperatures continue to rise to boiling point!

Once at the Intimacy Matters residency, guests can choose to sit and relax and continue to chat in the comfortable living room area. For the voyeurs there is a short no holds barred sensual massage demonstration taking place to watch.  For guests who are eager to put their erotic massage skills to work there is the first floor Group Massage Room where three massage beds are available. Dim lights, music and plenty of hot oil soon makes this room a must visit place even if just to watch.

For guests who prefer a bit of privacy there is a massage bed in the Conservatory and another within the Peep Hole Annex. For those guests who want to take things further with their partner or with others there is a Play Room with a super king play bed.  For convenience there are also two bathrooms both with showers and three lavatories. All necessary accessories are provided.

Generally once guests have arrived at the house party venue they change into a robe (provided) or bring with them attire that they prefer to wear. Nudity is also quite welcome!

Further Details

Dress for the Dinner – Smart sexy attire

Dress for the Decadence – As little as you wish ( robes provided )

Nearest Tube – Sloane Square

Arrival – at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 7.30pm

Depart to the Intimacy Matters Residence – From 10.30pm

Evening finishes – 3am (if you stay on after 2am remaining guests are encouraged to be fully naturist)

Programme & menu for the evening

Once you have booked your ticket the programme for the event will be sent to you a couple of days before together with a guest list introducing you to one another. At this point you will also be invited to join a PRE PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram so you can introduce yourself to other guests before meeting them at the Restaurant. If you require a more discreet way to pay for your ticket then email Colin back and I can send you details to send payment by bank transfer or pay by cash into the bank.

Special diets

Anyone who has an allergy or a special site should let Colin know and he will give details of who at the restaurant can be spoken to to make sure you have what you like on the evening .

Example Menu

Dinner & Decadence

3-Courses with a glass of wine paired with each course Champagne on arrival

To Share

-Olives & Smoked Almonds to nibble-

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Charcuterie Selection

Padron Peppers Boneless Chicken Wings

Yakitori

Garden Sharing Platter (V) Hummus, Truffle Arancini & Artichoke Tempura

Wine Pairing : Albarino, Tambora, Nina Costera, Spain To Follow

Corn-fed Chicken Breast

Heritage carrots, golden beetroot & truffle jus

Hake

Leek fondue, shellfish & saffron creme

Wild Mushroom Risotto (Ve) Chesnuts, leek & shallots

Wine Pairing : Montepulciano D’Abruzzo, Monte Tessa, Italy To Finish

French Vanilla Rice Pudding

Pistachio & caramel

Lemon Posset

Blood orange & sable biscuit Wine Pairing : Moscato

(V) Vegetarian. (Ve) Vegan. If you have an allergy to any food product, or dietary requirement, please advise us prior to ordering. Allergen information is available upon request.

All welcome

This is a mixed gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.

Consent

This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of likeminded people. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as its fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope that everyone has a great time but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that maybe different so before making any approach to anyone check they are open to play and how they like to play.

We recommend you make clear your sexual orientation ie straight, bisexual, heteroflexible or open to explore same gender touch and whether you are comfortable to be touched intimately by someone. No means no!  and anyone not adhering to this will be asked to leave.

Age and body type demographic

We believe that attraction goes far further than just looks and body type and that by having a relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation prior to any intimate activity takes place enables a wide range of ages to mix and feel potential chemistry.

Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross section of ages and physiques. However we expect all attendees to be healthy meaning free of any viruses or STI’s . Couples are welcome from the age of 21 to 65 can apply but those over the age of 65 can only attend if they are accompanying a partner who is under the age of 65. The guideline maximum age for single men and women is 60 but if you are over 60 please contact us as each application is considered.

The ideal event will have a cross section of ages so we allocate places according to these approximate age brackets.

21 to 30 – 15%

31 to 40 – 25%

41 to 50 – 30%

50 to 60 – 20%

60 to 65 – 10%

We hope that everyone has a great time but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that maybe different so before making any approach to anyone check they are open to play and how they like to play.

Tryon House


Living Room

How to attend a Dinner & Decadence event


Application

  1. To attend any D & D event you must first complete an APPLICATION FORM

This is applicable for all events whether you have attended one before out not.

Buying Tickets

  1. Once your application form is received and providing we still have the relevant places available you will be sent the link to purchase your ticket on line or with special arrangement by bank transfer. Places are limited to 30 persons with equal gender balance 
  2. Places are NOT confirmed until payment is received
  3. Once payment is made you will be sent a receipt and a few days before the event the evening programme and guest list will be made available to you.
  4. At this point you will also be invited to join a PRE PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram so you can introduce yourself to other guest before meeting them at the Restaurant.

Be kept informed

Or if you just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events you can Register Here

Cancellation terms

Up to 24 hours before – If you wish to cancel the booking and written notice is given up to 24 hours before the event date then your payment will be fully refunded

Within 24 hours – Because the restaurant has been paid if you cancel within 24 hours and of the event date then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

No show at event – If you are a no show then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

The conservatory massage room


Your hosts – Colin & Clare

Also attending is The Naked Butler & Butleress ( example images )

To ask a questions email Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk

Recommended nearby hotels

Sloane Place

Sloane Square Hotel

11 Cadogan Gardens

Premier Inn Battersea

CANCELLATION TERMS

Up to 24 hours before – If you wish to cancel the booking and written notice is given up to 24 hours before the event date then your payment will be fully refunded or transferred to a future event.

Within 24 hours – Because the restaurant has been paid if you cancel within 24 hours and of the event date then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS

No show at event – If you are a no show then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS