For Men Who Like Women
Empowering men to master the art of full-body sensual massage—elevating foreplay, enhancing intimacy, and unlocking deep erotic connection.
The ultimate sensual massage and sex classes for men
Throughout our education, we’re taught various subjects to prepare for life, but crucial lessons on intimacy and fulfilling relationships are often neglected. Schools cover basic biology and sexual health, but meaningful guidance on being a great lover is missing.
Investing in your intimate education is essential for your partner’s satisfaction and your confidence. At Intimacy Matters, Colin Richards offers practical sexual guidance every man deserves. Our sensual massage and sex classes for men are designed to help you:
Invest
In yourself and transform your intimate life.
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- Overcome Performance Issues – Gain the skills to perform confidently.
- Enhance Your Abilities – Learn techniques that make you feel genuinely gifted as a lover.
- Boost Your Confidence – Become the sexually confident man women desire.
Massage My Woman Course Options
The Experiential, Foundation and Intermediate classes are ideal for enhancing your relationship.
- The 3-hour Experiential Session is an introduction to sensual massage – give a 4-hand massage with Colin.
- The 6-hour Foundation Course is ideal for the first stage in expanding your skills and knowledge.
- The 6 -hour Intermediate Course takes it to the next level with more techniques and knowledge. Can only be taken after completing the Foundation.
- The 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Course. Enables you to learn additional skills and become a confident lover at a discounted rate.
- The 6-hour Advanced Course – For those men who really want to perfect the art of giving erotic arousal to women. Can only be taken if Foundation & Intermediate are completed.
- The 26 Hour Professional Training for those who want to give sensual massage as a part-time or full-time profession.
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Why men of all generations should take a class
The ultimate sensual massage courses and sexual enhancement classes for men
Age 21 – 35:
Many young men who enjoy sex with women believe their natural sex drive alone will satisfy their partners’ sexual desires. However, women in this age group often find that their male partners lack knowledge of foreplay and tend to rush, focusing too much on the goal of orgasm. This approach can lead to disappointment. Incorporating sensual massage into lovemaking slows the process, delaying penetration so that both partners can reach the pinnacle of pleasure together. Learning these techniques can transform your sexual experiences, making them more satisfying for both you and your partner.
Age 35 – 50:
Men in this generation often realise that something is missing in their lovemaking repertoire. Comments from a girlfriend or a lack of interest in sex from wives and long-term partners can signal the need to expand their knowledge and skills in giving pleasure. Beyond the occasional book or online tutorial, there are few places to gain practical, experienced knowledge. Sensual massage classes can change this, energising long-term relationships and making sex fun and adventurous for both partners. By learning these techniques, you can become an expert lover, enhancing intimacy and satisfaction in your relationships.
Teaching the ultimate sex classes for men to become expert lovers to women.
Age 50 – 70:
It’s never too late to learn how to give pleasure. Men in this age group often face challenges with maintaining an erection, and if penetration has always been their focus, this can cause frustration. Learning to give an erotic massage as part of lovemaking allows older men to use other skills and techniques to satisfy their partners. This shift takes the emphasis off penetration, making it a pleasant option rather than an anxious expectation. Embrace these skills to enhance your sexual experiences and deepen your connection with your partner.
Age 70 and up:
There is no age limit to giving erotic pleasure; it is both emotionally and physiologically fulfilling. A regular intimate connection is healthy for both you and your partner. Men of this generation should invest in sensual massage for their health and well-being as much as for their partners. By mastering these techniques, you can continue to give and receive pleasure, enriching your intimate relationships at any age.
Who Will Be My Female Volunteer Receivers?
Depending on your chosen Massage My Woman course and level of training, you may have the opportunity to practise your sensual massage skills on between one and seven female volunteer receivers.
I have an established list of carefully vetted female volunteers, many of whom are professional women who have previously been clients or experienced demonstration massages before deciding to volunteer for the School. They range in age from approximately 21 to 60 and represent a wide variety of backgrounds, nationalities, ethnicities, physiques and life experiences.
All our female volunteers are comfortable with their bodies and sexuality and share a genuine interest in helping students develop their confidence, sensitivity and practical skills in sensual massage, intimate touch and erotic foreplay. They understand the nature of the training and choose which course levels and techniques they are comfortable receiving.
A few days before your class, I will contact suitable volunteers and provide them with some introductory information about you, including your photograph, name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality and reasons for wanting to learn sensual massage.
I always endeavour to match you with female volunteers who reflect your preferences, as indicated on your course application. However, availability varies, and particular ages, physical characteristics or body types cannot be guaranteed.
The content of each massage is determined by the course level, the receiver’s preferences and the boundaries agreed beforehand. Volunteers are familiar with the nature of sensual and, where applicable, erotic massage, but all intimate contact remains subject to their individual consent. Body-to-body massage, intimate stimulation and any reciprocal touch are never assumed and must be mutually agreed.
What If a Female Volunteer Receiver Is Unavailable?
On rare occasions, particularly when a class is booked at short notice, I may be unable to secure a suitable female volunteer receiver. Should this happen, your class will be postponed and rearranged for a mutually convenient date.
This decision will be made no later than twelve hours before your scheduled class, and I will contact you personally to discuss alternative arrangements.
Classes can be arranged on weekdays during the morning, afternoon or evening. However, to maximise the availability and choice of female volunteers, I generally recommend evening sessions beginning at 5 pm or 6 pm and finishing around 8 pm or 9 pm.
Saturday classes between 10 am and 6 pm can also offer a wider selection of available receivers.
Professional Female Receivers
If you have particular preferences regarding the age, physique or other characteristics of your female receiver, or would prefer to make your own arrangements, I can provide contact details for suitable independent professional female receivers or recommended agencies.
Any arrangements and associated fees are agreed directly between you and the professional receiver.
Please let me know in advance whom you intend to bring so that I can explain their role, the content of your chosen course and the consent and boundaries required for the practical training.
Testimonial from Jools
Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester
I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates in a relaxed manner putting everyone at ease making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone thinking of offering sensual massage either to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”
Testimonial from Daniel
I attended a half-day sex classes for men course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session. I particularly liked the way in which he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine. I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.
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TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here
the ultimate sensual massage and sex classes for men
Cancellation & Postponement
At least 72 hours before the first session: 75% of the deposit may be refunded,
or the deposit transferred to a new start date within 12 weeks.
Between 48 and 72 hours: a transfer may be possible if a new date is agreed
within seven days and the course starts within 12 weeks.
Within 24 hours or non-attendance: the full deposit is forfeited.
A missed individual session requires at least 24 hours’ notice to rearrange.
Further Information
Genuine illness or significant circumstances may be considered individually.
Please confirm the full written cancellation terms before paying a deposit.
Enquiries: colin@intimacymatters.co.uk | +44 (0)7966 522 696