Couples Experiential Massage Sessions

Learn and enjoy at the same time by giving a four-hand massage with Colin.

The couple’s experiential sessions are perfect as a taster for those couples who want to bring more intimacy and creativity into their intimate lives or who want to explore a more open sexual relationship but would like to start slowly and more controlled.

The experiential massage session can be given as a massage for just one of the couples to receive and the other to give or for both to receive one after the other. Another option is to include either a male or female volunteer receiver whom the couple can practice, allowing them to enjoy a three- or four-way dynamic by giving an erotic massage to others. The massages given are based on the Absolute Premium for the female and the X-perience or X-plore massage for the male depending on what erotic elements he is seeking to include.

Making an enquiry

You can ask any questions or tell me what it is you both want to explore and enjoy by either sending me an email or completing an application form. 

Some couples like to talk this through, so you are most welcome to call me or chat on a webcam, but please arrange this in advance.

In the conversation or on the form, you can tell me your motivation and what you want to explore in learning about sensual massage and enhanced foreplay.  We then find a mutually convenient time for the session. This can be morning, afternoon or evening and some weekends.

The session

On the day, we briefly chat to understand how the ‘receiver’ (him or her or both) likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and your partner is relaxed, we start the massage. The massage is given as a four hands massage, so both in the couple must be comfortable to receive my touch on their body. For men who prefer not to accept another male’s intimate touch, I can guide their partner rather than give the erotic arousal to them. If they are comfortable, then in both massages, we work together with you following my lead.

The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for the receiver and the giver rather than learn specific massage techniques. Simply by giving a sensual massage this way, you will enjoy giving and learning by first-hand practising some essential aspects of a sensual massage.

The massages given can include:-

  • full body arousal,
  • genital massage,
  • edging the orgasm,
  • bringing to orgasm
  • optional prostate massage for men (optional)
  • clitoral and vaginal and G-spot (women).
  • ejaculation for women (optional)

Other erotic elements can be included and are discussed when booking

If there are specific aspects you want to have in the massage, then let me know, and we can incorporate this in, for example, light spanking or domination.

Receivers are naked when receiving; the givers can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage.

When can I take a class?

Classes can be run on weekday evenings from 5 pm to 10 pm or on Saturdays from 10 am to 6 pm.

In certain circumstances, at a 10% additional charge, classes can be held on weekday day times at sessions from 10 am to 3 pm or 1 pm to 6 pm or on Sundays from 11 am to 4 pm at an additional 15% charge.

Click here to apply for a couples’ class


Option 1-  2.5 hours with one person of the couple receiving and the other giving with  Colin a 90-minute four hands massage – £325
Option 2 –  3.5 hours with both persons in the couple receiving and giving with Colin a 90-minute four hands massage – £425
Option 3 – 4 hours with both giving to two receivers ( male & female or two males or two females ) £525

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

Whichever class you book a 50% deposit is required on booking, with the balance paid on the first day of the class. Payment can be made by cash, visa, debit, Paypal or bank transfer.

Cancellation of class 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking any of the above sensual massage classes. The balance of payment is due on the first day of the class. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the class and have these options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

If cancelled within three days, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit. No show-up, you will lose your deposit and be expected to pay the total class cost.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy For example.


Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here