Couples Experiential Massage Sessions

Learn and enjoy simultaneously by giving your partner a four-hand massage with Colin.

The couple’s experiential sessions are perfect as a taster for those couples who want to bring more intimacy and creativity into their intimate lives or who want to explore a more open sexual relationship.

‘experiential massage makes better sex and orgasm for couples’

Often, couples feel excited about the prospect of opening up their sexual relationship but are nervous as to how to take the first step.  Going to a party or group can feel intimidating. Meeting strangers via the internet can feel risky. Taking an Experiential session with Colin at Intimacy Matters allows a couple to explore in a safe and discreet environment and, simultaneously, better understand what they enjoy and hear how they can navigate their journey in the future.

The experiential massage session can be a massage for just one of the couples to receive and the other to give or for both to receive one after the other. Another option is to include either a male or female volunteer receiver whom the couple can practice, allowing them to enjoy a three- or four-way dynamic by giving an erotic massage to others. The massages given are based on the Absolute Premium Massage for the female and the X-perience or X-plore massage for the male, depending on what erotic elements he is seeking to include. The couple can tailor the content of the message to fit their desire to explore and remain within preferred boundaries.

Making an enquiry

You can ask any questions or tell me what it is you both want to explore and enjoy by either sending me an email or completing an application form. 

Some couples like to discuss this, so you can call me or chat on a webcam, but please arrange this in advance.

In the conversation or on the form, you can tell me your motivation and what you want to explore in learning about sensual massage and enhanced foreplay.  We then find a mutually convenient time for the session. This can be in the morning, afternoon, evening, or on some weekends.

The session

On the day, we briefly chat to understand how the ‘receiver’ (him or her or both) likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then, once you are confident and at ease and your partner is relaxed, we start the massage. The massage is a four-hand massage, so both of  the couple must be comfortable to receive my touch on their body. For men who prefer not to accept another male’s intimate touch, I can guide their partner rather than give erotic arousal to them. If they are comfortable, we will work with the giver in both massages, following my lead.

The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for the receiver and the giver rather than learn specific massage techniques. Simply by giving a sensual massage this way, you will enjoy giving and learning by first-hand practising some essential aspects of a sensual massage.

The massage given can include:-

  • full body arousal,
  • genital massage,
  • edging the orgasm,
  • bringing to orgasm
  • optional prostate massage for men (optional)
  • clitoral and vaginal and G-spot (women).
  • ejaculation for women (optional)

You can add other elements you may want to explore; just let me know in advance on the application form or in an email or phone conversation.

experiential massage makes better sex and orgasm for couples

Other erotic elements can be included and are discussed when booking

If there are specific aspects you want to have in the massage, then let me know, and we can incorporate this in, for example, light spanking or domination.

Receivers are naked when receiving; the givers can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage.

‘experiential massage makes better sex and orgasm for couples’

Booking your class

Classes can be run on weekday evenings from 5 pm to 10 pm or on Saturdays from 10 am to 6 pm.

In certain circumstances, at a 10% additional charge, classes can be held on weekday days at sessions from 10 am to 3 pm or 1 pm to 6 pm or on Sundays from 11 am to 4 pm at an additional 15% charge.

Click here to apply for this couples’ Experiential class


Option 1-  2.5 hours with one person of the couple receiving and the other giving with  Colin a 90-minute four hands massage – £325

Option 2 –  3.5 hours with both persons in the couple receiving and giving with Colin a 90-minute four hands massage – £425

Option 3 – 4 hours with both couples giving a 90-minute 4-hand massage to two volunteer receivers. Colin guides you through the massages. This can be a male and then a female receiver or two males or two females one after the other.   £525


The class is at the Intimacy Matter Treatment venue in Sloane Square Chelsea SW1X 9DE.

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

For whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required on booking, with the balance paid on the first day of the class. Payment can be made by cash, visa, debit, Paypal or bank transfer.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.

24-hour cancellations or no-show

If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Take out cancellation insurance.

To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy For example.


Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosensual massage or any form of hot treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here