Entries by Colin

Is your vagina neglected?

Just when women thought they had enough to worry about doctors and the media are now harping on about ‘depressed vaginas’. After realising having a “depressed” vagina is a thing; they say women are also at risk of vaginal atrophy. Vaginal atrophy is a common but treatable condition that causes the vaginal wall to thin. […]

What Lane Driver Is Your Man?

Often when I am working with single women or couples who come to me to saying that their sex life is unfulfilling it becomes clear that the main reason for their dissatisfaction and lack of fulfillment is that the sex has become or has always been routine and unimaginative. Tempo, longevity, and creativity are paramount to […]

Get your man in the mood

Article written by Colin featured in Female First – May 2018 read the original article here How to get your Man in the Mood Men may appear to be straightforward when it comes to sex in a ‘there’s only one thing on their mind’ adage but surprisingly women who attend my Massage My Man workshops […]

10 reasons to invest in a flavoured lube

Working as a sex engineer you never know what you are going to be asked to write about next. Female First wanted an expert opinion on flavoured lube and below is my take of why playing with your taste buds can be fun and fullfilling Read the original article Here Flavoured lubes are great for […]

Intimacy Matters Podcast launch

When will you write the book? A question I am asked many times since after 15 years working as a sex engineer and relationship therapist I have many stories to tell and experiences to explain. From the humorous to the fascinating my journey working in the field of sexual intimacy has given me a unique […]