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Quick over view of treatments available

2 Hands Sensual Massage

The Premium – A 90-minute full-body erotic sensual massage – £225

The Superior – A 75-minute sensual massage – £195

The Standard – A 60-minute sensual massage  – £150

Scroll down the page for more detailed explanation of each of the above sensual massage treatments or Click here

To view the full description and videos of the Premium Sensual Massage you must register to enter the Intimacy X private area of this web site – Click here

Psychosensual Treatment

Help with sexual performance

The Psychosensual 3 hour appointment to help with sexual performance issues and sexuality exploration – £350 Click here

4 Hands Sensual / Erotic Massage

Given by Colin with either a female or another male masseur

So much of our daily existence requires us to remain ‘in control’. This comes from a learned sense of responsibility and duty to others; mostly these are our partners, friends or colleagues, even our bosses, and many of us become so used to this state that we can get stuck in it. For many, this need to be ‘in control’ can overspill into their personal lives, even their most intimate moments – where they also find it hard to let go and enjoy the moment. For men, this ‘focused on others’ state can at best hinder our ability to enjoy sensual sensations and at worst result in sexual performance problems.

The four hands sensual massage for men goes a long way to enabling a man to experience his primal dynamic without him needing to be in the giving role all the time. To lay back and let others take care of your body and feel the sensation of four hands exploring all your body is an experience every man should try.

With Colin and a Female Masseur

Gold  – 90 minute 4 hands massage sensual and all about you– £450 Click here

Platinum – 90 minute 4 hands massage sensual and exploring erotic arousal – From £550 Click here

Titanium  – 90 minutes 4 hands intensely erotic with mutual interaction – From £650 Click here

(two male masseurs)

A 60 minute 4 hands massage with Colin and another male masseur – From £235 Click here

A 90 minute 4 hands massage with Colin and another male masseur – From £425 – Click here

Men’s Sensual Massage Classes

Teaching sensual massage and techniques in giving enhanced foreplay and erotic arousal

Sensual massage classes for men who like women – Click here

Sensual massage classes for men who like other men – Click here

Make a Booking or Enquiry

To make an enquiry or to book an appointment with Colin:

Or you can call or text Colin on 0044 (0)7966 522696

Or Chat with Colin online

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Then spread your payment Take 6 weeks to pay for the treatment of your choice.

Questions & Answers

All treatments are given by Colin on his pwn or with a male or female masseur if 4 hands

Are you exploring sensual massage for the first time?

Whatever sexuality you define yourself as: whether straight, bisexual, gay, heteroflexible or polysexual, there is so much more to enjoy – when receiving a sensual massage from another man – than just arousal and erotic exploration. Male clients often tell me that a sensual massage given by a male masseur is firmer and more assertive than when given by a female masseuse. They also say that they feel more relaxed and less anxious about becoming aroused or having to ‘behave’ and ‘withhold’ their desire. Many say that being able to let go and be the receiver, to be passive rather than active and to feel aroused and then taken to orgasm by another man is an amazing pleasure. All two hands massages are given by Colin with the 4 hands given with selected associated masseurs.

The pleasure or receiving a sensual massage from a male masseur

Men understand men both physically and emotionally; we know what we like ourselves so can empathise with others to give the same. Naturally, a male masseur will understand another man’s body better than any female masseuse, but what surprises most newcomers to male to male sensual massage is the pleasure of being nurtured and cared for by another man. Men are programmed to give and receive intimate touch. For a man to give another man intimate touch and for it be accepted is a sign of approval and acceptance. Younger men seek approval from older men. Older men seek companionship and trust with one another. The more intimate the touch is the more trusting the connection becomes. With connection comes relaxation, with relaxation comes arousal, with arousal comes pleasure, and with pleasure comes contentment.

So whatever motivation you have for wanting to experience a sensual massage from another man – be it sexual exploration, intimacy, muscle work or simply pure escapism to recharge your batteries – I promise you that the massage you get from me will be one of the best you ever have.

After 15 years as a professional sensual masseur I feel I know as much as there is to know about male arousal and relaxation. Or maybe you want to ask me for help with a sexual performance issue; whatever your motivation, I will tailor-make the perfect sensual massage for you, giving you the best experience possible.

I define as straight, is it ok for me to receive a sensual massage from another man?

I see men of all ages, all nationalities and all sexualities. Many are single, some are married, some partnered, and many of these men regard themselves as traditionally heterosexual in that they live a predominantly heterosexual life. But in the past ten years of giving the sensual massage to men, I have come to learn that male sexuality is more complex than just being defined as straight, bisexual or gay and that it is quite possible to identify oneself as heterosexual but also enjoy sensual touch from another man. To prove this, since 2012 I have been running a survey to explore the real state of male sexuality. Of 4000 male clients or potential clients, who have shown interest in taking a sensual massage from a male masseur, 52% DO NOT identify themselves as being gay. The survey shows that 19% identify themselves as bi-curious, 20% bisexual, and 13% as straight, with only 48% identifying as gay.

Read Colin’s article ‘Why some men like men’ and learn about his ‘Theory of 5 Influences’ a fascinating insight into male sexuality and the various factors that appear to go to make up an individual mans sexual and emotional attraction to other men. [Click Here]

More Frequently Asked Questions

I am sure before you decide on which massage you want to book you will have many questions. Please click this link to read the answers to most of the questions I get asked. If I do not cover your particular question then please do not hesitate to email me. For Full FAQ’s [Click here]

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

If you are a new client then before taking the treatment you will be required to complete and return an Authorisation & Request Form.  At each appointment there after on arrival I will also ask you to read and sign the Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form . After the treatment is completed and before you leave and provided you are satisfied with the treatment I will ask you to  re sign this form confirming your satisfaction of services given.

Insurance Disclaimer 

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance  with BGI insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment.

The Massages in More Detail

The Premium Sensual Erotic Massage: 90 minutes – £225

The Premium massage is probably the most popular. It is a 2-hour appointment that includes a 90-minute full-body combined therapeutic and muscle work massage with sensual intimate arousing touch. The additional 30 minutes gives time for you to ask any questions and take a pre-massage shower and then again after. Being longer, the Premium massage also allows the masseur to be more creative and, dependent on the client’s comfort, will often work with the instinct to give the client an extraordinary massage experience. This 90-minute full-body massage covers the whole of the back, neck and head, buttocks, backs of thighs, calves, and front of the body to include arms, legs, hands, feet, toes, chest, stomach, inner thighs, fingers, neck, head and ears. This massage includes full arousal to orgasm and optional prostate massage. Reciprocal touch can also be included in this massage.

Explicit Video & Description of The Premium Massage

To read the full description and view videos of the ‘Premium’ massage and find out the erotic elements that can be included in this massage you should register to get access to the private area of this website – Intimacy X

The Superior Sensual Massage: 75 minutes – £195

The Superior massage is a 90-minute appointment that includes a 75-minute massage. This massage is also full body and still allows time for therapeutic muscle work and sensual arousal but being slightly shorter is less intense.

The Standard Massage: 60 minutes – £150

The Standard massage is ideal for those who have only a short time for the appointment – possibly before work, on a lunch break, on the way home or maybe between flights. This 60-minute treatment includes a 40-minute massage of the shoulders, back, buttocks, thighs, and calves, with some exciting elements of arousal. Due to time restraints, clients are requested to shower before arriving for the massage, otherwise, the actual massage time may be less. Please confirm your preferences with the masseur before the treatment begins but generally included is a 3/4 body massage with coverage of mostly the back of the body, buttocks, thighs, legs, arms, chest and stomach.

Psychosensual Treatment For Men

Helping men with sexual performance challenges

A Psychosensual Treatment can help men with the following issues:

Combining conversation, mentoring and sensual massage to help you overcome your intimacy challenge.

  • Erectile issues
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm)
  • Sexual performance enhancement
  • Sexual orientation exploration
  • Fear of intimacy
  • Sexual performance education
  • Becoming a more confident and assertive lover
  • A better understanding of sexual arousal in others

For more details and prices on the Psychosensual Treatment for Men Click here

About Colin (your masseur)

I am a sex and relationship engineer and master sensual masseur. Fundamentally, I take a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy and see myself as a sex educator and general problem solver of sex and relationship needs and challenges. I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives to become what they want and deserve. Working full time in this field since 2005 I have discovered and used various different approaches that are not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur I am able to work with both the emotional and sexual.

I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido. I created Intimacy Matters in 2012 and since then I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach to sex and intimacy is best described as humanistic in that I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and erotic influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men women and couples of all sexual orientations. Read More

Free Videos

Below is an edited video of the Premium Sensual Massage to view more FREE and detailed versions of this massage and others you must register to enter Intimacy X

More Videos

For those that don’t want to register their details, you can PAY PER VIEW individually 10 demonstration videos [Click Here]

Terms & Conditions

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here